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Brian Lee Coker
He graduated from Lakewood High School in 1992, and owned his own contractors business - he loved being his own boss!
He will be remembered for his big heart, loving spirit, and love for his family. He could light up a room when he walked in with a smile. He loved the Seahawks, Nascar, and Huskies. He had played on numerous softball teams and was a member of the Lynnwood Elks.
"Coker" set up many charity and memorial golf tournaments for friends that had passed away. This was a passion of his to set up events for others.
Brian leaves behind his fiancé, Sarah Jones; his father and mother, Allen and Peggy Coker; his brothers, Matt (Kami) and Scott; his children, Kalee, Taylor, and Erin; his special nieces and nephew, Karleigh, Lexi, and Macen; his grandparents, Archie (Violet) Coker; many wonderful cousins, aunts, and uncles, and his very special friends, who meant the world to him, and shared his interests and zest for life.
Brian is now an angel in Heaven looking down upon his loved ones, and I'm sure he's up there partying it up - until we meet again.
In Brian's words, "Live for today."
Memorial services will be held at Weller Funeral Home in Arlington, WA on December 29, 2012 at 1:00 p.m. A celebration of Life to follow at The Viking Hall in Silvana, WA.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Coker
December 31, 2012
dear family, i'm so sad to hear about brian. i met brian at a golf tournament in sequim years ago, and immediately liked him :) i happen to buy his team that year and we won, so for the rest of the evening we celebrated. brian is probably one of the funnest young men that i've been privileged to meet.i will never forget his colorful gold outfits, that always put a smile on my face. thank goodness for love and memories, so we will remember him forever. brian will be truly missed. much love, denise fjortoft
Jens Fjortoft
December 30, 2012
Extremely saddened by the news, Brian you will be missed! But most importantly you will be remembered.
The Howton Family
December 29, 2012
The Coker family - we are at a loss for words to express our sympathy for you... Brian was a shining light in the world, helping so many along the way. He will be missed... The Howton Family
Anne Sproul Nelson
December 28, 2012
Allen, Peggy, Matt, Scott & the many family... My heart breaks with each of you. Brian was the life of every party. He started out loving life...and never stopped. Your raised a wonderful person... a son, grandson, father, uncle, cousin, friend. He is with the Lord now & yes, one of His Angels. This is such a difficult journey please take comfort in the Lord. He will sustain you and help you to heal & find joy again one day. Just take one moment at a time. A "Carlson Story": My first meeting with Brian..He was about 3 we were up at the Bremerton Cabin..Bob, Roxanne, Brian & I were canoeing & trying to catch some fish. Brian was looking over the side into the water and was so excited to spot fish in the water...next thing we knew we were picking him up by his ankles. He wasn't scared... Head dripping with water: His famous words with such excitement "Little fishies swimming 'round my head! Little fishies!! Thank you Brian! A zest for life will bring a smile to our face when we think of Brian. He lite up the room, and now he lights up Heaven.
All my love, hugs & prayers to each of you. Anne
Renie Rodden
December 28, 2012
Peggy, Allen and Famiiy,
We are so very sorry about the loss of Brian. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult period.
Best Regards,
Renie Rodden and Carla White
Lake Forest Park, WA
Tami Brymer (Walker)
December 27, 2012
What a shock! I remember Brian from the softball days! He will be missed by us all.
Terri Knowles
December 26, 2012
Peggy & Allen & family, I am so sorry for your loss, I will never forget over the years watching the kids play while their parents played ball and enjoying so many fun times together, may you hokld your memories dear to your heart and know Brain is soaring above watching each & everyone of you.
Ron Gann
December 26, 2012
Brian was always a fun guy at Lakewood. My sympathy goes out to his family.
Tim Johnson
December 25, 2012
YOU ARE LOVED AND ALREADY MISSED DEARLY BRO!!!! See you again someday!!!! RIP my friend!
Karen Calderwood
December 24, 2012
May our lord be with the Coker family at this sad time. Brian will be missed.
All our love the Calderwood family
Gavyn Baird
December 24, 2012
Gonna get a tattoo in ur remembrance. I'll never forget you. Can't believe your gone.
December 24, 2012
Brian will be missed dearly. His smile always would light up the room, Our sympathy goes out to Allen, Peggy, Archie and the rest of the Cocker family. Terry and Lori Carman
Doris Coker
December 24, 2012
Brian will be greatly missed by us. Brian always had a smile & hello when we met. We have fond memories of Brian.
Joan Beals
December 23, 2012
There are no words to express my sadness at hearing of your loss. The love & prayers of your family & friends will carry you through this very hard time.
Zeda Williams
December 23, 2012
Dear Coker Family, words cannot express the sympathy felt for the loss of Brian. My prayers are with you.
kelli montgomery
December 23, 2012
You will be missed Brian. You were a great contractor for Mid-Ohio.
Jessica
December 23, 2012
Miss you cousin, cant believe your gone.
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