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Memories and Condolences
for HARLAN CARR
Ringing in 2009 together
December 30, 2010
It is almost the New Year little brother. We would be planning a party right about now....getting ready to celebrate...I miss us all going out dancing... I miss you. Nothing is the same. It never will be.
Loving You,
Livi
Livia Carr
December 28, 2010
I am loving you today.....thinking of you....missing you as I do every day.
I am rememembering you...that michevious grin...that joyous laugh...and the magical way that you always made me feel hopeful regardless of the sorrow I may have wrestled with.
Carrying you in my heart and soul all the rest of my days.
-Sissy
Livia
December 9, 2010
Gorgeous brother,
Saturday will be a whole year since you left. The pain is as fresh as the day it happened. . . .and yet it feels like an eternity since I've held you....seen you. . .heard your voice. I miss you so terribly. I wake up every morning wishing that this last year will have been a cruel nightmare. My heart hurts without you Har. I don't know how I will ever feel happiness again. There are so many things I desperately need your advice about. The love and words you offered me always made me feel safe.I hope that you know what a light in my life you were and still are. I feel you with me all the time Harlan. I pray that you continue watching over all of us. We need you so much. Mom and Dad suffer immensely without you Har. We all do. I think of you in times of sunshine. . .in times of storm....you always were my shelter. I love you Harlan ---more than I could ever begin to say.
Counting the days until I am with you again,
Sissy
Sissy
November 29, 2010
My Har...I am missing you so badly. It's as if time has stood still...I cant fathom the days without you....Can't stand it. I need you so much just as I always did. I listen to our music...still automatically go to the men's section of the store and find things that I want to buy you. Nothing is the same. Wish I could just hear your voice...hug you again. I LOVE YOU so very much my beautiful brother. NOTHING will ever separate us. Each day that I live, it is your strength and constant, unconditional love that moves me through the moments. You are and always were my heart. Counting the days until I see you again my angel.
Jaime
August 5, 2010
Thinking of you today as always. I love you Cuz. (that's what you would call me). I'm sitting on the patio listening to music knowing you'd be doing the same right Now. The disbelief is still lingering but it's only because you are such a wonderful person that your presence was always known and felt. When you were around you made it a point to make us all feel loved, valued, and appreciated. You are too baby cousin. Miss you. See you one day. :)
May 24, 2010
Loving you and missing you today as I do every single day.
All of my love forever,
Sissy
May 20, 2010
"I think about the years I spent just passing through
I'd like to have the time I lost and give it back to you
But you just smile and take my hand
You've been there you understand
It's all part of a grander plan that is coming true.
Every long lost dream led me to where you are
Others who broke my heart they were like Northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you."
Just thinking of you my precious brother. . .remembering how you would belt this song out along with the radio as we all sat at the patio table playing poker. . .you, me, G, Jaime and Brad. You always loved music so much. Wish I could have you back. Wish we could BBQ, eat, drink, sing and laugh together again. All of my memories with you sustain me until we are together again.
Where you are- so is my heart.
Sissy
May 10, 2010
Little Brother,
The sun is shining...In it's warmth, I think of you. I am so blessed that you are my brother. So blessed that I've always had you on my side. Thank you for your love, your loyalty, your presence.
Missing you,
Livi
Livia Carr-Carran
May 5, 2010
My Harlan,
I am missing you today so much. . . .just looking at the picture of us on my desk.
This hurt is unspeakable.
I love you every second, every minute, every hour. . . every day.
Forever,
Sissy
Livia Carr-Carran
April 21, 2010
My precious baby brother. . . these months have been torturous. . .an ominous cloud. . .a paralyzing nightmare. I feel hollow. . .lost without you.
You took my heart and soul when you left. Do you know that? Do you know the sorrow I feel without the beauty of your face, the sound of your voice, the strength of your hugs? I can't accept this. I won't. . .Because if I do. . .then it will mean whatever life I have left will be without you. And I am not capable of it.I am suffering little brother.This time that is passing is only making it worse. I need you. I can't do it without you.
I travel everyday in this suffocating fog that is our reality. We all miss you so terribly. You promised me Harlan that you would never leave me. You promised. What am I supposed to do now? I miss you. I love you more than words could ever define. You are still my soldier. . . my strength. . .my friend. . .my world. . . And I will always be your loving, loyal big sissy.
Death has no victory over that.
I will be loving you and thinking of you until we are together again.
Always,
Livi
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Allison Byar
March 15, 2010
Harlan, it took me so long to write on here as I do not want to accept that you are gone. I miss seeing you and hearing you talk so much. Its been three months since you left this worldy place, but feels like yesterday. I know you are in the comfort of your Savior and family. We love you so much and think of you every second of the day. It is so painful to not see you, but I feel your presence so strong. Our Father needed you for a special purpose, you were just too good to be here on Earth. Harlan, my cousin, show us all the way and until I see you again, you are in my heart every second of the day. With all my love, Your cousin, Allison
1984? maybe...
March 11, 2010
August 2009
March 11, 2010
January 7, 2010
I love you.
I miss you.
Just want to talk to you again. . . hug you. . .tell you how much you mean to me.
I'm always- always thinking of you.
-Livi
Livia
January 5, 2010
"I will lift up mine eyes onto the hills from whence shall my help come
My help cometh from the Lord,
Which made heaven and earth
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved
He that keepeth thee will not slumber
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep
The Lord is thy keeper, the Lord is thy shade upon my right hand
The sun shall not spite thee by day, nor the moon by night
The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil
He shall preserve thy soul
The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming
From this time forth and forever more
The Lord is thy shepherd
I shall not want
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures
He leadeth me beside distilled waters
He restoreth my soul
He leadeth on paths of righteousness for his name sake
Yea though I walk to the valley of the shadow death
I will fear no evil for Thou art with me
Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me
Thou prepareth a table before me in the presence of mine enemies
Thou anointeth my head with oil, my cup runneth over
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow all the days of my life
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord, forever
Oh God who art full of compassion
Thou who dwellest up high
Grant perfect rest beneath the shelter of thy divine presence
In the exalted places among the holy and pure
Who shine as the brightness of the firment
To all those who have gone to their eternal home
The piety of who's life forms the subject of our meditation today
We beseech thee oh Lord of compassion
Shelter them evermore under the cover of Thy wings
And let their souls be bound up with bond of life
May they repose in peace may they rest in peace and let us say Amen."
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My Harlan,
I love you forever.
I love you from the purest, deepest part of who I am.
NOTHING can separate us.
Not even death.
You are with me and I am with you every minute- every day.
Until I see you again,
Livi
Livia Carran
January 4, 2010
Thinking of you today my sunshine.
Thinking of your beautiful face. . .your mischevious laugh. . .your comforting voice.
I wish we could sit together and listen to music again like we always did. . .dancing. You always knew every word to every song. I miss hearing you freestyle to all the music. . ..creating your own lyrics as you went along. I have ALWAYS been so proud of you Harlan. SO PROUD that you are my brother. I love you so much Har. There aren't enough words. Without you, there is only darkness.
Sissy
Sky Carr
January 1, 2010
Harlan, I am missing you so much. It hurts so bad knowing you are gone. I am going to miss riding to the farm together listeing to all of our old songs from when we were in school...hanging out by the fire and telling stories...waking up before day light to go out to the deer stand...watching you walk down that hill to the lake with your fishing pole and a smirk on your face. None of this will ever be the same without you here. I love you so much Harlan you mean the world to me.
Your brother, Sky
Livia Carran
December 28, 2009
Nothing is right without you.
Christmas was lacking the sound of your laugh. . .sitting outside listening to you tell stories. It was lacking the warmth of your hugs. . .and the way that your arms always felt like the safest place to be. There are no words that could define how desperately I miss the sound of your voice. . .the way you would say "Love you Livi." This is torture. . .the world without you.Nothing makes sense in your absence little brother. Nothing matters.
Thinking of you every second,
Sissy
Kim Seither
December 28, 2009
Cameron asked me (MIMI) right before we went to sleep where was Harlan. (He has overheard many conversations I presumed.) I told him that he is in heaven watching and acting as an angel and messenger to God. He turned over on his pillow and cried a little and then went to sleep. We recently had a dog die in front of Cameron. He really loved that dog and we planted a tree on his grave on our farm in Crosby. Cameron wanted to do the same for Harlan. So, now there is another tree planted for Cameron's other friend, Harlan. Cameron and PAPA Stephen rode out yesterday on the four wheeler in their mud boots and planted the tree by the pond.
December 26, 2009
Merry Christmas, I love you!!!!! Please help us to heal, remind us that you are not gone but just in front of us in line and we will see you soon.You are our leader for the family now,watch over us and and put in a good word for me(i will need it) love you.
Farah
Ashley Patton
December 21, 2009
You have a special place in my heart, such wonderful memories, and thats something you will always be apart of. I love you.
Livia Carran
December 21, 2009
I am thinking of you every day little brother. . .. missing you. Who will ever take care of me as you always have? I am lost without you. My heart just hurts.
Nathan Gauthier
December 18, 2009
I have lost a great friend and I will never forget the great times we had over the years. You were the best.
Carol Metcalf Whatley
December 18, 2009
Cheryl and Lance,
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your son Harlan. No parent wants their child to go before they do. You and your families will be in my prayers in the days and months ahead. I pray that you are able to find comfort and peace knowing he has gone home to be with the Lord, and you can treasure your memories.
Jacindra Smith
December 17, 2009
Harlan i Couldn't call you anything else but a brother to me. I've grown up knowing you since i was in diapers.. Jamail should be honored to have a friend like you.. All you boys You, Daryl, Gerrod, Nathan, Chris.. y'all mean so much to me! Keep us strong Harlan. Watch over the rest of us untill we all meet again at heavens gates! Love you Bro..
Your friends and family love you and miss you!
-Smith Family-
BBQ Summer 2008
December 17, 2009
Cassandra Culbertson
December 17, 2009
My memories will forever keep you alive in my heart Harlan! You will always be in my mind. Im lucky to have had you as a freind. Your loyalty was unbreakable. I miss you so much and i wish we had spent more time together these past few years. But i am so thankfull for the good times we had! My last great memorie was from last summer in Austin jumping off cliffs into Lake Travis, fearless as we were! I miss you so much, but i know your safer and happier now. rest in peace Harlan Cain Carr.
Daryl Arbing
December 17, 2009
Harlan, it is so hard to put into words how I feel. You are the greatest guy that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. You are the most honest and loyal person I know. My heart goes out to your family. Rest in peace Harlan, we all love you. I already miss you so much!
December 17, 2009
Our family is saddened to hear of the loss of your precious son Harlan. From the entries I have read he must have been an absolutely beautiful person. Know that all of you are in our prayers, he is with Jesus walking hand in hand in Heaven. May God Bless you all!
Gayla Ward Neel, Julie Ward Sims, Wick Ward, Lalla Ward Jones, Tommy Ward and families.
Kim O'Brien/Seither
December 17, 2009
I want to add one more note. As a school teacher, I remember all to well the intellectual conversations that I had or heard you have with other people. I was always amazed, curious and in awe about the knowledge and discussions that you, Nathan and I and others like Otto and Daryl had. I know Nathan and the other guys read and watch a variety of news, non-fiction, (non-fluff) and history shows. I asked how come you knew so much and was told the History Channel was your favorite television station to watch. Not too many people your age keep up with those informational cable news channels. But you knew and were tremendously knowledgeable about a variety of issues.
You were a guardian to so many people while on earth and were always available to help - young and old - it didn't matter. Now you can have your eyes and be a guardian to your loved ones and friends all at once in heaven. Along with your faith and love in God, he has given you all the special job qualifications for what I know is your current job position. I'm comforted and feel that your current guardian job started, and you were put into action, as soon as you reached the pearly gates.
Gerard Richard
December 17, 2009
I'm going to miss him like crazy. He was like a brother to me, I'm so sorry he had to go so soon. RIP HCC
emily withrow
December 16, 2009
harlan im going to miss you so much. you are always going to be my big brother and i want you to know that everyone who knew you loved you so much and there is noone who could ever replace you. you are the best friend and family member that anyone could ask for and i will always remember your voice, your smile, and your laugh. there is not a day that goes, or is going to, go by that i dont think of you. i love you harlan cain carr. you were the most generous person i have ever known, and even called me ma'm. haha, im going to miss your car out by the street light inbetween our house and gerards, and i know that gerard is going to be bored without his best friend to hang out with every day. nick too. im going to miss you coming over to swim in the summer, or you teaching me to drive your crappy stick shift car :)....like i said there is noone who could ever replace you and i will keep your memories in my mind forever. love you and i know you are at peace now.
Harlan and I at Pappasito's in Austin
Jessa Withrow
December 16, 2009
Yesterday was such a sad day for me, my heart feels so heavy right now I can barely breathe. I will forever miss you and never forget all our great memories together. You are the only thing on my mind since Friday. This is going to be very difficult for me to go day by day without seeing you anymore. Casey was crying at your funeral... that's how special you were to my little boy. Rest in peace my best friend.. love you Harlan Cain
Deedra Russell-Dulcie
December 16, 2009
I'm so sorry you are having to walk this road. The road of seperation from your baby, son, brother, friend. I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers for many days to come.
Pat Healy
December 16, 2009
Cheryl,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Livia Carran
December 16, 2009
My Harlan. . .my light. . .my heart. . .my unquestionable support. . my guide. . .my steadfast hero. . .my baby brother. You are everything to me.I love you to depths that can't be spoken or even fathomed. You made me who I am. I became the woman, the mother, the friend, the Christian I am because of you. I have gone through this life feeling safe because I understood that you were in my life. My heart could never hold the love and pride I feel for you. Each time you have ever entered a room, I've felt so proud. . .because you are mine. MY BROTHER. You are so beautiful, but your soul is even more so. You were never of this world my angel. You were never of this place. And I understand now more than ever how much our God must love me that He would have given you to me. . . that He would have found me worthy enough to share the treasure of you with me.Thank you my sweet, precious angel for entering my life and loving me as fiercely and unconditionally as you did. You have my heart with you. I ache to hear your voice. I ache to see your smile. . .I ache for just one more chance to wrap my arms around you and tell you how much I love you. I will live each and every day I have left anticipating the moment I see your face again.
My love-my heart for eternity,
Livi
December 15, 2009
Lance and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine your pain. Please keep your faith and stay strong. Harlan is in good hands with your Mother and Matt.
Love you guys,
Alison, Colette, and the Biondi Family
Terry Gateley
December 15, 2009
Dear Cheryl, Lance and family
Our thought and prayers are with your entire family. I know it has been a long time since we seen each other but our hearts go out to you.
Love,
Terry Fincher Gateley and the whole Fincher family
Ginger Stopper
December 15, 2009
Thoughts and prayers go to all the family and friends grieving for Harlans sudden absence to our world. We will be thinking of you all.
Love The Stoppers,
Ginger, Raymond and Mariah
rhonda casalino
December 14, 2009
Dear Cheryl,Lance and family- God brought your mother into my life when I lost my daughter, so I know the pain. I will try to get intouch later with you. Know I'll be praying for you. Rhonda casalino
December 14, 2009
Dear Cheryl,Lance and family- God brought your mother into my life when I lost my daughter, so I know the pain. I will try to get intouch later with you. Know I'll be praying for you. Rhonda casalino
Sheralish Lindsey
December 14, 2009
Salli and Lance - I am so sorry to hear about you guys loss. I know how difficult and painfull it is to lose a child. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Our Lord will give you the strength to deal with this, it is his promised! If you guys need anything please let us know.
Sheralish & David Lindsey
Anthony Leath
December 14, 2009
Man i cant believe you are already gone its just seem like yesterday we were playing football back in elementary school im just real shock right know my prayers go out to your hole family in all the friends u had. I will miss the harlan carr that everybody knew.Your friend Anthony Leath
Sarah Dearbonne
December 14, 2009
Lance,Cheryl,Livia,Sky: I cannot even begin to imagine how saddened your hearts are. Please know that I am praying for you all. I know that every time I saw Harlan, he was always smiling, ready to laugh and cut up. Harlan: you left us too soon, but I do know that you are in a peaceful place with the Lord. We will miss you ALWAYS Harlan...Love, Sarah Dearbonne
Karen McCarthy McCullough
December 14, 2009
Cheryl and family--I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sorrowful time.
Erica Macys
December 14, 2009
Harlan you were so young to go so fast. Everyone who knows you is so very devastated to hear about the loss of you! You will be missed and we will all be here to help your mom and family through their hard times of losing you! I will be praying for you and your family!
Jessica Fernandez-Reed
December 14, 2009
Just wanted you to know that you and your loved ones are in my prayers. May God be with you in this time of sadness.
NCMC Outpatient Lab
Vanessa Grigsby
December 14, 2009
Every time I think back to high school days, Harlan is always there. I'm sad to say we had not seen nor spoken in many years, but I know that his life was filled with many great friends and family. Thank you Harlan for all the great times and great friendships you gave me, I would be a different person today had you not been a part of my life. You will be forever missed. Rest in peace.
Jeanette Carr
December 14, 2009
Although I haven't seen Harlan in many years.... he has not been forgotten. Harlan was always such a sweet natured, loving young man, and my heart has always been there for him. I thought the world of him. Lance, Cheryl, Livia & Sky.... my deepest thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God hold you close during such a difficult and trying time. I miss each and every one of you and I am so sorry to hear of Harlan's passing... and so shocked. God Bless each of you..... and you will continue to be in my heart and prayers as you have always been.
Jeanette Carr
Jessica Grubbs
December 14, 2009
Harlan.... we will miss you dealry. I wish I could have seen you one last time.. Its been years, but I will always remember you and love you dealry. And to your family and dearest friends....May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived
Luann Sims Dolan
December 14, 2009
To Cheryl, Lance, the entire Carr and Osburn families,
Words can't express the sympathy and pain we feel for all of you. May the Lord comfort you and grant you the peace that surpasses all understanding. You will remain in our prayers always, and we will continue to cherish the friendship that our families formed years ago.
Leslie Negron
December 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the Carr family in this time of need. I haven't seen Harlan in years...I can't imagine the pain and suffering of his family...but Harlan is now with the Lord and I hope they are able to find peace in that. May God be with all of you hurting.
Kimmy Aubin
December 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Harlan's friends and family. Harlan was such a great guy and he will truly be missed.
sallie burch
December 14, 2009
Lance,
My daughter Amanda will wait at the "gates of heaven" for Harlan and welcome him into heaven.Please know that our children are with thr Lord. My thoughts will be of you and Cheryl.
Nache' Snyder-Mace
December 14, 2009
Lance and Cheryl,
Harlan is holding God's hand now. Please find strength and comfort through your faith, family, and friends. My heart is breaking for the both of you. You are in my prayers.
Nick Binagia
December 14, 2009
Brother where to start with all we have done together. You were always there for me, never one to let any one mess with a friend. I cant believe your gone , honestly i still dont know that i really ever will. You will always be alive in me and my heart. We knew each other from 3rd grade and 20 some years on, i wont have a huge chunk of my life without you Mr.Carr,i will see you again one day my best friend. Love you man
Lizbeth Vizuet-Calvo
December 14, 2009
We wanted to let you know that you have our greatest sympathy and my heart is truly saddened. We know that his passing will not only leave an emptiness in our lives but in our hearts of all those who knee him. Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you.
December 14, 2009
Lance and Cheryl,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences,we are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Billy and Pam Gelormini
Koti Lindsey
December 14, 2009
I will miss u always, its hurts to no that I haven't seen u in a few years and now never will again..I love you and pray for your family
Kevin Dearbonne
December 14, 2009
I'm so sorry about the loss of Harlan. He was a great person who will be missed dearly. My last memory of Harlan was at the farm when he, Sky and myself were fishing while listening to Harlan tell stories. He always had a great story to tell. The memories you have left with us all will never be forgotten.
Jamie Gilley
December 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all in your time of grief. I knew Harlan as Skys younger brother and also as a friend of my brother Ryan. He was always very nice and polite to me. May God give you strength to make it through. Just know that Harlan is in a better place now.
Jaime Hinson
December 14, 2009
The life I lived is now over without you in it. You are my support through hard times, my light on cloudy days, my laughter and smile during good times, my best friend, Shane's only consistant father figure since Brian died, my protector during storms, you are my everything. We can look at eachother and speak with no words, and you were the only proof that there was such a thing as unconditional love. You were born my cousin but given to me by God as my spiritual partner. In this néw life I am about to attempt to live please be my spiritual guide....because even though you don't need me anymore... I still need you. I love you Cuz. Forever, Jaime
December 14, 2009
"You all are in my prayers. May God fill you with His peace and love. "
-Amanda Garcia (Kingwood, Tx.)
Jessica Hannah
December 13, 2009
I had the pleasure of knowing and being great friends with Harlan Carr throughout many years. We practically grew up together. He was one of a kind. He was such a beautiful person inside and out, and he was always there for you when you needed a friend. His loving, caring, free spirited and generous nature was loved tremendously by all. Harlan was the definition of a true friend.. Harlan is spreading his wings and watching over all of us now. He will be in my thoughts everyday. I could never forget such a wonderful friend and person. I will always cherish the wonderful memories I had with him.. My deepest sympathies go out to Harlans family. Please know Harlan would want you all to be strong and know he is always going to be with you in your hearts everyday. You will always have the memories.. nobody can ever take that away. Goodbye to the one and only Harlan Cain Carr. May you rest in peace.
Penny Clissold
December 13, 2009
Oh Lance and Cheryl,
My heart just breaks for you both. Have not seen you since high school but we went to church together forever. Harlan sounds so amazing. I cant even imagine your heart break. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Penny Gorbet Clissold
December 13, 2009
Prayers for all family and friends..Livi, we love you!!!
The Sanchez Fly.
Jessa Withrow
December 13, 2009
Harlan Cain Carr, It is still hard for me to come to the realization that I will not see you again. For the past nine years I saw you on a daily basis. I can still picture your car outside my house, you walking up my driveway, your laugh... everything. I have great memories of you and will never forget any of them. Thank you for being such a great influence on Casey boy's life. I'm sure he will always remember you taking him fishing!
Harlan was a wonderful friend... very generous and loyal. I love you, Harlan and my prayers go out to everyone who was lucky enough to know Mr. Harlan Cain Carr.
Dean Logue
December 13, 2009
Cheryl,
My prayers are with you and your family. I am so saddened by Harlan's passing. I have such fond memories of Harlan, Sky and Livia when they were little. I pray that the Lord sustains you all during this time of sorrow.
December 13, 2009
So sorry Lance and Cheryl to hear about your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Debbie and Steve Brewer
December 13, 2009
Lance and Cheryl, we are so very saddened to hear about your son. We pray and know that God will wrap His arms around you. Just rest and hang onto Him.
Love, Pat and Debbie Kasper
Cindy Haarmeyer Gore
December 13, 2009
Cheryl, my heart goes out to you and your family. Please accept my deepest sympathy. There is nothing harder than losing a child. May God be with you all.
Diane Tinkle (corbett)
December 13, 2009
Sending prayers to you. I can not even imagine the pain of losing a child. I think that having him in your life the short time God lets us have our children is so very precious and it is so very important because it makes us who we are as their parents and we are so thankful for each child who blessed us with the imprint they leave us
Andrew Southern
December 13, 2009
It's still hard to believe you're gone. I remember the first day of 3rd grade at Adam Elementary when we sat at the same table and we started our friendship then later that same year going to Celebration Station for your birthday. You were just here at my apartment on Wednesday, a few feet from where I'm sitting now.
I'll never forget you. Definitely one of a kind, a true friend in every way. It's times like this that can make life so difficult but the only reason it is so challenging sometimes and hurts so bad is because of all of the good we have at other times. Your death is all I can think about now, but it won't be what I remember you by. It will be the memories of us as kids, growing up together, becoming men together.
I love you Harlan and I know someday I'll see you and Justin again.
Goodbye for now.
Pamela (Eiland) Aldrich
December 13, 2009
Cheryl and Lance, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Your family is in our prayers as you go through this loss. May the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you during this season.
Farah Spurgers
December 13, 2009
I just wanted to say how much we love you,you are my baby cousin and now you are my angel. You are at eternal peace with god and I know I will see you again someday.
I love you,
Farah,Kyle,Deven,Brandon,Bella Mae and James
tiffany peters
December 13, 2009
You will always be in my heart. I love u n miss u dearly.
December 13, 2009
Lance & Cheryl- Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time.
Tim & Kathleen Ware
Karen Crosby DeMoss
December 13, 2009
Cheryl I just heard about your son death. I am so sorry to hear the news. My deepest sympathy to all of you during these hard times. if there is anything I can do please. contact me.
[email protected]
love,
Karen Crosby DeMoss
Linda Anderson
December 13, 2009
Lance, I cannot imagine how hard it must be to loose a child. You are in our prayers. May God wrap His arms around you and heal you.
In Christ's Love,
Ken and Linda Anderson
Tami Jasinski
December 13, 2009
Although lately I had lost touch with Harlan everytime I was around him he always had a smile on his face. Harlan was the type of person who would give you the shirt off his back.. He is in a better place and will never be forgotten. My prayers are with your family, you will always be missed!
Love Always
Paul Smith
December 13, 2009
Lance and Cheryl,
I am saddened to hear about the loss of your son Harlan. My prayers are with you both. May God give you strength, knowing he is the loving arms of our Lord and Savior , Jesus Christ.
Debbie Macys
December 13, 2009
Harlan you are going to be missed by so many, you have touched so many hearts in the short time that you were here on earth, you are so Loved by so many. Your smile your loyalty to your Mom is just so touching , be her Angel now ! I know my Jennifer will welcome you with open arms and show you the ropes in heaven, I love you always Debbie Macys (Aunt Debbie to you!)
Linda Currie
December 13, 2009
My deepest sympathies to the Carr family. I knew Harlan for many years through my children Jessica, Janelle & Nathan Gauthier and he will truly be missed. His spirit was always strong and positive and I enjoyed his visits. He always had something nice to say to me and he loved going fishing with Nate. Farewell to a kindhearted friend.
kyle Green
December 13, 2009
R.I.P. Carr...You are in a better place now..you will be missed
Kim Seither
December 13, 2009
The statement "Harlan was everyone's soft place to fall and their warrior when he needed to be" is absolutely true. I was thinking just that thought when it came to mind that in life you bump into people who make a dent on your life because of the impression they leave on you. That quote is one impression. Another impression is how polite he always was to me and my husband. It was always sir or ma'am. Unfortunately and sadly, we are meant to lose friends and the people we love and care about, like Harlan, because it helps us to know how important that dent people like Harlan make in our lives. Me, like all of Harlan's acquaintances, friends, and family all have our special dent to remember about him. My last special dent to remember was the Chucky Cheese outing he took with a few friends and the two children with whom he came to enjoy an afternoon of play.
Kim Seither
December 13, 2009
The statement "Harlan was everyone's soft place to fall and their warrior when he needed to be" is absolutely true. I was thinking just that thought when it came to mind that in life you bump into people who make a dent on your life because of the impression they leave on you. That quote is one impression. Another impression is how polite he always was to me and my husband. It was always sir or ma'am. Unfortunately and sadly, we are meant to lose friends and the people we love and care about, like Harlan, because it helps us to know how important that dent people like Harlan make in our lives. Me, like all of Harlan's acquaintances, friends, and family all have our special dent to remember about him. My last special dent to remember was the Chucky Cheese outing he took with a few friends and the two children he came to enjoy an afternoon of play with, Cameron and Casey.
Heather Terry
December 13, 2009
I cant believe your gone. I just want to say thank you for all of the hilarious memories i have of you and Brandon. You were like a second brother to me and you definitely made a huge impact on my life. rip<3333
Tess Buenzow
December 13, 2009
Harlan I know for the past few years we have only saw eachother few times but for many I was with you every day. I will cherish those days forever I atill cant believe you left us I miss you so much already. I know you are wishing we all wouldnt feel so sad now because you are in the most wonderful place right now but we all cant help but be selfish and wish you were with us. I love you!
Kelly Boyd
December 13, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Harlan. He was such a great guy, and always made me feel welcome whenever I saw him around. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his friends and family.
In His name,
Kelly Boyd
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