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Betty Brzozowski Lanz
August 28, 2025
Mr Carter was my music teacher I took 9 yrs of lessons from him. He had a love of music that conveyed to his students.
 You never know how much someone touches your life until there gone
Condolences 
I made a career of music too.
Betty. Brzozowski Lanz
Harriett (Traynum) Brown
August 13, 2008
To Mrs. Carter and family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr. Carter was a beautiful soul. His presence and voice will certainly be missed. He was a loved and respected friend of my parents, Rev. Twyman and Norma Traynum. May God bless you always.
Robert Johnson
August 7, 2008
My condolences to wife Isabelle, daughters Deborah and Shari,  other family members and friends. I first came in contact with Mr. Carter when he began teaching at Robinson Jr. High. As a student who hadn't seen many role models from my community serving as teachers, it gave me great pride to see Mr. Carter in that position. Mrs. Danner, Mr. Day, and Ms. Gray also inspired me while  at Robinson. I found some quotes that I hope will serve as a tribute to the teachers of their day:
 "A good teacher is like a candle- it consumes itself to light the way for others."~Author Unknown
"The teacher who is indeed wise does not bid you to enter the house of his wisdom but rather leads you to the threshold of your mind." ~Kahlil Gibran 
"When you teach your son, you teach your son's son." ~The Talmud
"He who opens a school door, closes a prison." ~ Victor Hugo 
 A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops. Mr. Carter and his colleagues at Robinson affected a lot of students for years to come. May his soul and the souls of all the dearly departed, Rest In Peace!
Diane Dunmeade
July 29, 2008
Mr. Carter was my daughters teacher at Blessed Sacrament. She thought he was the "best". The world has lost a wonderful man and teacher.
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Monica Wiggins Deas
July 23, 2008
To Carter family:
Mr. Carter was such a wonderful and kind person. When God made Mr. Carter, he threw the mold away, there will never be another David Carter.  To God be the glory. My prayers are with you at this time.
Dennis Metzger
July 23, 2008
Dear Isabelle,
I am so sorry to learn of David's passing.  I was out of town on vacation when he died.  He was truly a wonderful, kind, and gracious man.  I shall always remember his "Were You There"?" at the 8th graders' Living Stations of the Cross in Holy Week at Blessed Sacrament!  Always brought me to tears...  You and your family are in my prayers.  Sincerely, Fr. Dennis Metzger
Terry Linares
July 22, 2008
Debbie, Mrs. Isabelle and Family,
My prayers are with you!  I was out of town, but I was with you in spirit.
Mr. David was such a joyful, caring man.  He has left  a legacy and fond memories.  I attended the last Symphonic concert and heard Mr. David sing with such emotion.       
He was a Friend of the Arts of Sigma Alpha Iota, which I am a member of.  God bless You!
Musically,
Terry Linares
Darlene (Evans) Miller (1974)
July 21, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. I will always cherish the life lessons that Mr. Carter taught during the time I was a student in the Scott High School Mixed Chorus and in the Scott High School Alumni Choir. Toledo has lost a real treasure. I will miss seeing his smiling face at the various performances in the city.
Brenda Hodges
July 19, 2008
Dearest Debbie,Mrs Carter and Family
  I was so saddened when I heard about Mr Carter. I also regret that I couldn't make the services because I was out of town. My prayers and thoughts go out to all of you in your time of grief!  
  May God Bless You All.
Sterling Graham
July 19, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Donald Glover
July 18, 2008
Debbie and the family of Mr. David D. Carter, we have loss a Great Man. Mr. Carter and I were close friends from Robinson Jr. High and Debbie you are a good friend for life. My prays are with you and your Family. Love Donald K. Glover
Donna Cousins-Rollen
July 18, 2008
Dear Carter Family, sending deepest regret to hear of the passing of our Friend, teacher, mentor. What a wonderful life and we have the memories to sustain us now that he is with God. Sending Blessings
Jeffery Fallon
July 18, 2008
Mrs. Carlisle (Mr. Carlisle & Family),
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.  Deepest sympathy for such an extraordinary loss.
Shibbolethia Lewis
July 18, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Carter family.
Veda Kimber Jackson
July 18, 2008
Aunt Belle, Debbie and Shari, my prayers are with you during your time of sorrow. I am so sorry that I was unable to make the services because I only found out late Wednesday night. But please know that I am with you in spirit and I will keep your family lifted up in prayer that you may find strength and comfort to make it through the difficult days ahead.
Lee McWhite
July 18, 2008
He was an inspiration to many – even to me. Even though I was not a alum of any of the schools and did not go to the churches he attended, I feel that he is the type of person that once you meet him, you respect and admire him. There are few people like him and he will be sorely, sorely missed.
Randy Lake
July 18, 2008
Elizabeth and Isabella, 
I was blessed to be in the Start Choir in 72-73. Dave was loved by all, and he instilled nothing but good memories by his students. Always a bright smile and a warm word, he exemplified how the bible teaches us to be.  May God bless you and yours through this celebration of "Bro Dave"
wanda butts
July 18, 2008
To the Carter/Cargile Families:
My heartfelt sympanthy and prayers are for all of you.  Mr. Carter was a wonderful human being and will be sorely missed.  But he is better of, in a better place.  Look forward to seeing him again "up there" with the rest of our loved ones.  We loved him - but GOD loves him  best.  May he live on in Paradise and tell my Josh hello.  Remember to "Lean and depend on Jesus - He will never leave you or forsake you.  You can depend on HIM.
PATTERSON FAMILY
July 17, 2008
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Todd Porthouse
July 17, 2008
Elizabeth and Family,
My most heart felt sympathies go out to you and yours.  David was my teacher and mentor in the Royal Choir at Start HS in '72 and '73.  What a gift he was to all who knew, respected and loved him.  He made a difference in so many lives and he will be missed but never ever forgotten.
Barbara Johnson-Taylor
July 17, 2008
For God giveth to a man that is good in his sight wisdom, and knowledge, and joy.  Ecclesiastes 2:26
"May God surround your family in his loving arms in their time of need.    You were the best Mr. Carter, I was honored to have you for a teacher and choir director." 
The heavenly choir is waiting for your direction.  (class of '73 Scott High School)
Dr. Baomi (Theresa Butts) Watson
July 17, 2008
He was truly one of “God’s Trombones” 
Sounding loudly (in a quiet way) notes of integrity, 
Dignity, modesty, confidence, and diligence, as I remember his ways.
What a goodwill ambassador!
His students knew he cared for us all,
His honesty showed!
I owe God a debt of gratitude for allowing me to know and love him.
Thank you, Mr. Carter, for letting your light so shine
That we could see God’s baton—you.
“And they sung as it were a new song before the throne.” Revelation 13:3
May you Live in Paradise (LIP)
Robert Dickinson
July 17, 2008
Debbie and family,
We are thinking of you during this time of personal sadness and loss.  We regret being out of state at this time, as we would have preferred to express our sympathies in person.
Bob and Lisa Dickinson
Beatrice Daniels
July 17, 2008
A prayer of Sympathy and Faith:
To The Carter Family:
In the love of God may you find strength and peace. In the prayers of friends, may you find comfort and love.
As a passed member of the Scott Symphonic Choir, their will be a void in our hearts.  Mr. Carter truly touched many lives to help mold and shape us to a better future.
Peggy Sibby-Brightwell
July 17, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rita (Felzer) Arvay
July 17, 2008
Mrs. Carter, Debbie & Shari,  I was deeply saddened to hear of Mr. Carter's passing.  He helped mold me into the person I am today.  God blessed me the day our paths crossed.  I think of Mr. Carter often with great love and respect.  He treated all his students as important, special and unique young people.  I will never forget Mr. Carter singing Ave Maria in the Cathedral in Poland.   Nor, will I forget how flawlessly he sany at my wedding, when in fact, the day before, he had no voice at all.  Instead of stressing me the day before, he made arrangements with Debbie to sing if he was unable.  I, too am a Christian and am so pleased I will meet with him again for eternity.  God bless you all and know you are in my prayers.
Start High - Class of 1977
David Cohen
July 17, 2008
It was with sadness that I read of Mr. Carter's passing.He was my Jr. high school music teacher at Robinson in 1957 and 1958. He was a great teacher and a kind man and we ''kids'' liked and respected him. Of the many teachers I had over the years,a very few were special, and Mr. Carter was one of them.He was a role model for me and to the extent that I am successful in my life, he deserves some of the credit. I will always be grateful to him. May he rest in peace.
Janice Ward Class of 1968
July 17, 2008
To the Carter Family:
I was a student of Mr. Carter's at Scott High School.
I'm so sadden by your loss. He touched my life in so many ways.
I offer my condolences, with much love and respect.
Denise Edwards
July 17, 2008
Dear Mrs. Isabelle Carter and Family,
Mr. Carter was God's precious gift of hope, strength and grace. He made our world a brighter and better place. Our grateful hearts will treasure his loving memory.
 
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Denise (Jones) Edwards
Scott Class of 1971
Ethelene Kimber
July 17, 2008
Aunt Isabel, Debbie, Shari, Connie, and Phillip, it saddens me of your lost and the lost of my dear uncle. My prayers are with you during this time. I feel as if a great icon has gone. Certainly, such a wonderful person as my uncle will be greatly missed. Words cannot tell the impact he made on my life and our family. God Bless all of you. Ethelene Kimber
Marshia Dodds-Hamilton
July 17, 2008
Debbie, Mrs. Carter and family, I am deeply saddened at your lose. I was a student of Mr. Carter at Scott High School. I was in the Girl's Chorus in 1967 and The Symphonic Choir in 1968. Mr. Carter was such a kind and inspiring man. He simply brought out the best in everyone. That is why Scott High School's Music Dept. was the  best. He will be missed by everyone. Mr. Carter  touched the lives of so many people. I feel blessed and honored to have been one of his many students.
You are in my prayers. Hold on to your beautiful memories and you hold on to the love of Mr. David Carter. God will take care of you. Be Blessed.
Marshia Dodds (1969)
Lil Erhardt
July 17, 2008
Mr. Carter has truly made this world a better place . My husband loves and adores this man - when we first married, John could not wait to go to Toledo for me to meet Mr. Carter. I was so honored to meet the man that did so much for my husband - taught him not just about music but about being the man he is today. We have a wall in our home office that has special plaques, awards, and framed letters. At the top of that collection is a picture of Mr. Carter shaking my husband's hand. Mr. Carter was a true gift from God.
Susan George Murphy
July 17, 2008
To the Carter Family,
I was a student at DeVilbiss High School in the late '70s.  I always thought Mr. Carter was a great man.  His enthusiasm and kindnesses are well remembered after all these years, as was his big voice and that smile that could light up a room.  I enjoyed reading about his life and everything that he accomplished.  What a remarkable man.  
May the great memories and love that you shared comfort you in the days ahead.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Cynthia/Bernis Hickman
July 17, 2008
To the Carter Family,
We hold our heads high as we celebrate the life of our teacher, mentor and friend. I love music today because of Mr. Carter's leadership and inspiration.  He pulled out the best in me and for that, I will always be greatful.  God bless and keep you during this time.
July 16, 2008
To The Carter Family:
I am so sadden to hear about Mr. Carter.  
I was a student of his while at Robinson Jr. High. He was an inspiration to me.  He helped me realize my potential and skills.
May God continue to Bless Your Family.  Mr. Carter will be truly missed.
Pamela R. Wilson
Mark Pym
July 16, 2008
Dear Mrs. Carter and Family,
Be comforted in knowing that Mr. Carter is in the loving arms of our Lord God, and Savior Jesus Christ. I didn't know Mr. Carter as much as my brother Richard and my father Byron did, but when I did talk to him, he always welcomed me with the brightest smile this side of heaven, as I'm sure he did with everyone! God Bless.
Fern Hutcherson
July 16, 2008
I too was his student at Robinson with so many others.  After some 30 years after this, I saw Mr. Carter and he remembered my name, and my sisters.
I am so sadden by his loss.  He touched so many lives and was such a blessing to everyone.
I offer my condolences, with much love and respect.
kelleigh flanner
July 16, 2008
I remember David and his wonderful and friendly family every Sunday at St. Michael's church when I was growing up. Could anything or anyone match his smile or enthusiastic friendliness?
Heaven, for sure, has a bright new star shining down on all of us.
Our deepest sympathies to the family.
The Flanner Family
Karen Biscay
July 16, 2008
Mrs. Carter and family, What a wonderful man and what a wonderful life! Mr. Carter was the consummate professional--singer, educator, conductor, performer, Christian, family man, friend. Mike and I feel truly honored to have known him all these years and to have sung and collaborated with him and his fine choir, which, I'm sure, will continue under his daughter's nurturing care. You are a wonderful family, too! Think how many young lives you enriched--and maybe even saved--through music and your generosity at home. The Lord needs more folks like you! David will be sorely missed here but so welcome in heaven. God bless all of you, Karen and Mike Biscay
Franklyn V. Duffy Jr.
July 16, 2008
To the Carter Family,
As a former member and president of the Scott Symphonic Choir I feel a great sense of loss with Mr. Carter's passing.   Mr. Carter touched the lives of so many people and will always be remembered as  an outstanding teacher and mentor to Scott students.    A true legend has fallen  but the Heavens' will surely welcome him as the  new Director of the Celestial Choir.  
God Bless !
Sincerely,
Franklyn V. Duffy Jr.
Columbus, Ohio
Richard McCown
July 16, 2008
To the Carter family, I was saddened to hear about your loss. David was a wonderful person to have known.
Linda Boyd-Reese
July 16, 2008
To the Carter Family,
Sorry to hear about the loss of your love one, his musical talents will always be in your hearts I am sure. God will give you all what you need when you call upon his Name.  Enjoy the memories of his life.
Dean Moffett
July 16, 2008
To the Carter family, I taught at Scott with David during the sixties. I never met a more sincere, gentle,and peaceful man than Mr Carter. I am so sorry for your loss. I know he is singing in heaven's choir.
James Adams
July 16, 2008
He meant so much to so many people. He will be missed. God Bless.
Tereasa Stewart-Williams
July 16, 2008
To the family of Mr.Carter, the bugles are sounding in heaven for the arrival of this great man.I was a student at Robinson Jr High and Scott High back in the 60's.I thank you for sharing this Husband and Father to all his students who loved and honored him.Thank you, my Sincere Condolences.
Diane Brooks Mueller
July 16, 2008
Mrs. Carter,
I am so sad to hear of Mr. Carter's death, but knowing he was with you, his strength, I know his passing was as he wished.  So many people have been touched by his love for music.  I am just one of many.  he was always pushing me to take a chance and gave me the courage to do so and I so thank you for all his help.
He sang at my wedding and I heard so many wonderful comments, most were "how did you get David Carter to sing?"  I proudly said "he is my mentor and my friend."
In God's Love and mine,
Diane (Raymond) Brooks Mueller
Rabbi Alan Sokobin
July 16, 2008
David was a very special voice and presence during his years of sanctified service to the Temple. I always thought of him as a particularly intelligent and consecrated individual. I also thought of him as a friend of the Temple and the Jewish community.
.He was a precious soul!
Lisha Washington
July 16, 2008
Mrs. Carter and Family:
I was so saddened to hear of this magnificent loss but happy because Mr. Carter has left us a true legacy to cherish.  You and Mr. Carter have been a true inspiration to me since elementary school and I will always hold him dear in my heart.  I never admired any Educational Administrator (other than my mother, Barbara Washington-McIlveen) as I have you and Mr. Carter.  You both have exemplified excellence and required no less from us as students.  Mrs. Carter, my prayers are with you and your family during this time of berevement but I know that Mr. Carter is at peace with God and has to suffer no more.  I love and thank you for sharing Mr. Carter with us for all these years.  May God continue to RICHLY bless you is my prayer!
Theresa (May) Johnson
July 16, 2008
Words can not express the sorrow I feel at the lost of such a great and wonderful person. As a child growing up I lived the next street over. I went to Robinson Jr. High, J.W. Scott and All Staints.Uncle David ( as my siblings and I called him) were all infulence by his soft spoken and loving nature. Although I've been gone from Toledo for several years, my heart is still there. My God bless and watch over his family.
Lenward Brown
July 16, 2008
Isabelle, first of all Bernice and I send our sorrow from our family to yours. I went to Savannah State with both you. I still have several memories of both of you. The one thing that comes to my mind first is both of you were always nice and favored people. I wish I could come to Toledo to give you and your family a hug, however I have requested that God maintian his favor on you and your family. God Bless- Lenward /Bernice Brown and family.- 664 East 108th Ceveland, Ohio 44108.
Terri & Carl Byrd
July 16, 2008
To Mrs. Carter,Debbie,Shari & Family
We have loss a wonderful man, I enjoy being a member of the different choirs and traveling with him. The teaching of music was so professionally and with love.At a time when words are so hard to find. He is in a better place. We can only feel some of the pain you feel as we both have been through the loss of a loved one. God knows exactly what you need, he will walk with you through the coming days. We will be praying with you & your family.
JEWELL ROLLEN
July 16, 2008
TO DEBORAH AND MRS. CARTER I OFFER MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY AND CONDOLENCES IN THE LOSS OF YOUR DAD/HUSBAND. MR. CARTER WAS OUR TEACHER, OUR MENTOR, OUR FRIEND, AND VOCAL COACH. TO SAY HE WILL BE MISSED IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT....GOD BLESS YOU BOTH, AND GET READY ANGELS...THEIR IS A NEW CHOIR DIRECTOR IN THE HOUSE!
Dorothy May (Garrett)
July 16, 2008
My prayers go out to you, his family who knew him best and loved him most. He has left quite a legacy.
I have been gone from Toledo a long time, but the Memory of Mr. Carter (We called him Uncle David) stays in my heart and mind. He did more than teach music and sing in various choirs, he gave me and others a healing of the soul through music.  I was a member of All Saints and a graduate of Scott and am truly glad to have known him while growing up.
Carolyn Stinchcomb Barnes
July 16, 2008
Dear Mrs. Carter, Debbie and Shari,
You were able to share your life with an incredible man.  He gave so much to his family, community and the spiritual life of his students.  He taught us so much as a man ahead of his time--opening our minds to experiences  much more than just the "corner" where we were.  We rejoice in having been apart of Mr. Carter's and your extraordinary lives.  You gave us an example of what marriage is.  Be comforted with your good memories and God's mercy and grace.  Love you and will congtinue to pray for you.
cynthia addie/reynolds
July 16, 2008
To Carter family Mr Carter will be very well missed. He was a good principal back inthe day.
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