Ellen Hemmer

Ellen Hemmer

Ellen Hemmer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jun. 1 to Jun. 3, 2008.
Ellen Jane W. Hayden Hemmer passed away Saturday May 31, 2008 in the Odd Fellow and Rebekah Health Care Facility, after a long illness. Born July 17, 1925, she was the daughter of the late M. Fenton and Helen Kenney Whalen. Ellen Jane was a 1942 graduate of Lockport High School and worked for Niagara County Social Services as a clerk. She is predeceased by her husbands Howard A. “Hex” Hayden, who passed away December 6, 1976 after 30 years of marriage and William Hemmer, who passed away March 28, 2004 after 25 years of marriage. Ellen was the mother of Molly (Robert) Ingraham of Fl., Joseph (Shonah) Hayden of Hamburg, Helen (Randy) Unterborn of Kendel, Jane (David) Barrancotta of Lockport and Mary Pat (Russ) Davis of Colorado; and the-step mother of Kathleen Hemmer Carr of CA. She is also survived by her twelve grandchildren and six great grandchildren. Ellen was the sister of Joseph (Kathleen) Whalen of Lockport, John Whalen of Atlanta and Mary Kay Curtin of Long Island. Friends may call Wednesday 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 PM in Prudden and Kandt Funeral Home, Inc., 242 Genesee Street, Lockport, where prayers will be offered Thursday morning at 9:30 AM, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 10 AM in St. John the Baptist R.C. Church, 168 Chestnut St., Lockport. Interment will be in Glenwood Cemetery. Memorials to the St. John’s Outreach Center, 168 Chestnut St. Lockport, NY 14094 or to Alzheimers Association of WNY, 2805 Wehrle Srive Suite 6, Williamsville, NY 14221 would be appreciated by the family.

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June 5, 2008

Colleen and Jack Hammell posted to the memorial.

June 5, 2008

Fran Olscamp posted to the memorial.

June 5, 2008

Betsy O'Brien posted to the memorial.

Colleen and Jack Hammell

June 5, 2008

Mrs. Unterborn,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Love,

The Hammell Family

Fran Olscamp

June 5, 2008

Helen and Randy,
So sorry to hear about your mom's passing. Eating lunch with you daily I know that it has been a long road and she is finally at peace but that doesn't necessarily make it any easier. i hope you have many wonderful memories to help you through this time and the future. please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Fran Olscamp and family

Betsy O'Brien

June 5, 2008

Dear Helen and Randy,
I want to express my sympathy for the loss of your Mom. It is always such a sad time to think of that piece of our lives as missing. but it is truly comforting to know that Mom will be looking out for you always now...I know mine is watching out for me! You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Betsy O'Brien

Jim & Linda Lee

June 4, 2008

Jane E. - I am so sorry I did not get to visit Wednesday evening - but we did discuss on Monday I may not be able to. Please know Jim and My prayers are with you and your entire family. Be strong - your mom would have wanted it that way. Love,

Michalene LaBue

June 4, 2008

Helen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you during this difficult time.

Annette Pierce

June 3, 2008

JaneE, Sorry to hear about mom. I know it's hard on you but its the tough times that make us stronger. If I can help call anytime. Love You!!

Derek Owen

June 3, 2008

Joe (Shonah) I am sorry to hear about your Mothers passing. Cara, Brenna and Howard I am also sorry to hear about your Grandmothers passing. I never had a chance to get to know her but i do know how special she was and how much she meant to Cara. I send your entire family my best wishes.

Mike and Cindy Hinton

June 3, 2008

Molly, Joe, Helen Sue, Jane E and Mary Pat,
So sorry to hear about your mon's passing. She was a wonderful lady. I have a lot of memories of Rochester St and Joe losing his mice in the house. Our prayers are with all of you.

Shawn & Karen Vick

June 2, 2008

Helen and Randy,

Our thoughts are with you and your family. From her picture, she was a beautiful woman. Helen, you look so much like her. Take care.

Jerry&Nancy Dowd

June 2, 2008

Sorry to hear about your mom Jane,use to
see her when she was staying at Presb.
Home when your Uncle Joe and I worked
on Meals on Wheels . God Bless .

Jerry & Elaine Rosenberg

June 2, 2008

Molly,Jane,Helen,Joe so sorry to hear about your mothers passing our thoughts are with you

mike mcveigh

June 2, 2008

Sorry to hear about your moms passing. I havent seen or hear from any of you kids a quit a long time.

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