1945 - 2022
1945 - 2022
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G. Jefferson Price III
September 27, 2022
Comments of Jeff Price at the ceremony memorializing his cousin Frank Sullivan  at the Penn Club in New York City September 23, 2022:
I have known Frank not better but certainly longer than anyone in the room. We were first cousins, and the older we got the more we enjoyed being not just cousins, but friends. Close as brothers.
My earliest recollection of Frank is from around 1949 when my family had moved back to America from Europe, and we were living in what was then the pretty isolated Long Island village of Haupaug, I was about six and he would have been about four. Occasionally and to our great delight, Frank´s mother, my Aunt Patti, would take us to Manhattan to one or the other of two splendid eateries. These were the Automat in mid-town where the simple purchase of any food item involved inserting coins to open the box containing what you wanted. The other was a much posher place - at least compared to the automat. This was Schraffts, where full meals were served but what Frank and I wanted most were the hot fudge sundaes that we devoured with great gusto.
My other memory is of Patti´s moments of affection as we walked along to these restaurants. She would squeeze our hands three times. "You know what that means?" she explained. "It stands for three words: "I love you". 
Schrafft´s and the Automat closed their doors decades ago. In the following decades, Frank found many other restaurants in New York and in other cities around the world. He was the quintessential gourmand. In the later years we had many exchanges about restaurants that he either recommended or inquired about, especially if they happened to be in Baltimore, the only place where I knew a tiny bit more than he did about the providers of good food.
Then there was the wine. Oh, the wine. Frank was to wine as Galileo was to astronomy. He was, in my very humble $6-a-bottle experience, a connoisseur and consumer non plus ultra.
The pleasure he seemed to derive from hosting friends and relatives at his favorite restaurants was extraordinary. Smith & Wolensky´s comes to mind from the past and Bobby Vann´s stands tall in the legend of Frank´s generous bonhomie.
But Frank´s generosity was not limited to hosting his friends and relatives in restaurants, treating them to marvelous visits to his home in the Hamptons, and, yes, to family gatherings at posh hotels in great cities like Paris and London.
Others in this room can better attest to the business acumen that enabled Frank to amass the fortune he acquired and gave away.
In the order of Frank´s full generosity, restaurants and family grand tours were the least of it. His generosity to his immediate family was enormous. Did he expect anything in return? Love and affection perhaps, not that he would have ever acknowledged such schmaltz.
      And then there were the charities to which he gave prodigiously. We would discuss these occasionally, as I had some experience with such outfits as Catholic Relief Services. His criterion was simple: he wanted to give where it would do the most good, to places that had a record of spending the largest proportion of their revenue on the people they served, not the people they employed.
       He always wanted to stay in touch, which in our case was a pleasure, not a burden. We talked frequently, usually once a week, sometimes about important things, usually not. We used to exchange jokes online. He was decidedly NOT generous in his emailed responses to jokes: sometimes he´d respond with a single Ha, or worse, half a Ha. I never got a full Ha Ha Ha. As for his reaction to the more important events in the news, his reaction invariably was, "It is what it is."
     Frank was an enthusiastic Anglophile, despite his descent from the Irish who suffered so harshly for centuries under English rule and his descent from the very Spaniards who tried to invade and occupy England centuries ago. It must have pleased him that within a fortnight of his ascent to the pearly gates Queen Elizabeth rushed up to join him. Word is that there´s quite a queue waiting to get into heaven what with the problems of our world today. Frank was wise to take with him one of his favorite pillows, the one inscribed "It´s good to be King," which he was holding in the queue when the Queen, cutting the line, came whizzing by and with a wink in her eye, proclaimed to him "It´s even better to be Queen!"
I cannot say goodbye to Frank without thanking Elie, the real queen in all our lives who helped keep Frank with us for longer than he might have endured without her. We met Elie 35 years ago when Frank brought her to visit us in Maryland shortly after our family had returned from the Middle East. We all instantly fell in love with Elie. Who wouldn´t love her? The past few years were challenging for both Frank and Elie as Frank´s health and mobility deteriorated. Elie was Frank's loving caregiver 24/7. Thank you, Elie, for your steadfast devotion to Frank over many years.  You are a true unsung heroine.
     So, Frank, I miss you terribly but am grateful that you are no longer struggling with illness. Setting aside your  Anglophilia, I must offer you this Irish blessing:
      
        May the roads rise up to meet you, 
      May the wind be always at your back,
      May the sun shine warm upon your face,
       May the rains fall soft upon the fields
       And until we meet again 
       May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
So Long Frank.
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Jeff Price
September 4, 2022
Jeff and Anne Price and Family extend our deepest sympathies to Elie and the children. We love you, Frank, and will never forget your many kindnesses to us.
Donna de Varona
September 2, 2022
The de Varona extended family will forever be grateful for Frank's generosity in compiling and publishing an in depth history of our family ancestry. Our condolences to all the Sullivan's, their friends and associates. We are immensely appreciative of his priceless gift of documented history and his friendship. Donna de Varona
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