GRAHAM "ROD" PICKARD

GRAHAM "ROD" PICKARD obituary, Peabody, MA

GRAHAM "ROD" PICKARD

GRAHAM PICKARD Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 16 to Aug. 17, 2018.
PICKARD, Graham "Rod" Graham "Rod" Pickard, 74, of Peabody, MA, died suddenly following a prolonged illness, on Wednesday, August 15th, 2018. He is survived by his wife, Susan Marie Pickard (nee Gingras); his children, Heather Pickard, of Groveland, MA, and Kirk Pickard, of Coleman, FL; his sister, Wendy Moore (Pickard), of Mill Valley, CA; his grandchildren, Kyle Sangster, of Peabody, MA, Kevin Pickard, of Groveland, MA, Graham R. Mauer, of Chicago, IL, and Samantha Valente, of Peabody, MA; his brother-in-law, Robert Gingras, and Robert's wife, Patricia Gingras, both of Coconut Creek, FL; his nieces Samantha Marmol, of Newburgh, NY, Katherine Pethel, of San Jose, CA, and Matia Gingras, of Coconut Creek, FL; and his best friend, Jeff Geer, and Jeff's wife, Ann Mauer, both of Chicago, IL. Rod was for 37 years a physical education teacher and administrator for Marblehead Public Schools. He was a prominent fixture in high school athletics – particularly soccer – in Massachusetts, having been named Coach of the Year four times by The Boston Globe and three times by The Salem Evening News. Upon his retirement in 2005 the Town of Marblehead recognized him by proclaiming a day in his honor, as did the Massachusetts House of Representatives. Throughout his career, teaching and coaching children from kindergarten through 12th grade, he loved the challenge of helping them first to be happy and self-confident – and then teaching them how to climb a rope, kick a ball, train one's body to be healthy, and ultimately to win championships in soccer and other sports. Born in Leeds, England, Rod moved with his family [father William Pickard; mother Millicent Pickard (nee Webster)] to Montreal when he was 13 years old – and then later to Montpelier, VT, where he attended high school. Like so many other brave young men of the Vietnam era, he served his country by enlisting in the US Navy and serving as a meteorologist for almost four years, before pursuing and receiving an undergraduate degree in physical education from the University of Vermont in Burlington, VT, in 1971. An aspiring school administrator, Rod graduated with a Master's degree in School Leadership from Harvard Graduate School of Education in 1993, concluding his career as an assistant principal at Marblehead High School and then Athletic Director for Marblehead Public Schools. Though "retired," Rod worked tirelessly as Co-Director of the Swampscott Senior Center and continued to paint homes for several years. Though always in the public eye during his life, Rod remained, at heart, a private man who loved his "Susie," his wife of 49 years, and his family, far more than any public recognition or honor he ever received. Please remember his devotion to his loved ones with your donation to either Alzheimer's Association (alz.org) or Spectrum Adult Day Health, in Beverly, MA. Visitation will be Sunday, August 19th, 3-6pm, at Conway Cahill-Brodeur Funeral Home, 82 Lynn Street, Peabody, MA 01960. A public service will be held on Monday, August 20th, 9:30am, at the same location. Internment will be private afterwards.

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August 31, 2018

Katja Lavallee posted to the memorial.

August 19, 2018

Joe Patuleia posted to the memorial.

August 19, 2018

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Katja Lavallee

August 31, 2018

We met Rod 9 years ago on Sebago Lake where he was a friendly and helpful neighbor. He gave some of our guests rides on his jet ski which he loved to ride. We miss him very much and offer our sincerest condolences and best wishes to his family. Rest in peace Rod.

Paul and Katja Lavallee

Joe Patuleia

August 19, 2018

Rod was a professional in every sense of the word, and a personable kind man, as well. He had great common sense and was a wonderful role model and coach for my son, Joey.
He truly represented what being a teacher and coach means.

Meryle Osborne

August 19, 2018

I have only fond memories of this great man! I attended MHS class of 1998, Mr. Pickard was VP at this time and I will never forget that he always caught me leaving campus for lunch as a freshman and sophomore. I can still see him like it was yesterday walking down the hill past the "butt line" with his little notepad writing our names for detention! He had such a big heart, and was always making his students strive for greatness, by building their confidence and letting them know he was on your side and would pick you up if you fell He had a big impact on my life for sure. My condolences to his family, I can only imagine what a great loss this is for everyone he loved.

Robin Decker

August 18, 2018

One of my first memories of Rod is also my favorite. About a year before our wedding, Dave moved into my fully furnished condo in Tewksbury. Rod, who I had only met a few times before, helped Dave move in. Dave had a favorite chair, which was very worn and faded, but he wanted to include it with our living room furniture. After a long moving day, the three of us were standing in my living room when Rod suddenly said Dave, that chair looks like crap next to all her nice stuff. Then he looked at me and said let me get that out of here and donate it to someone who can use it. From that moment on, Rod became my close friend too!! He will always hold a special place in our hearts. So sorry to Susi and family for your tremendous loss.

David Decker

August 17, 2018

Susi, Heather, Kyle, Kevin, and the rest of the family- I'm so sorry for your loss. To me personally, Rod was, in no particular order, a teacher, a coach, a colleague, a father figure, a pal, a sounding board, an employer, an employee, a role model, a job reference, a good example, a reacher of things up high without a ladder, and mostly a true and loyal friend. Not a day goes by that I don't say something, do something, or think something that I learned from him. He will be greatly missed, but we are all lucky to have known him- a once in a lifetime person.

August 17, 2018

our thoughts and prayers are with you susan and family; john and pam tatro.....

Justin Rendo

August 17, 2018

I have a funny story about him as a vice principal in Marblehead & reading that he lived in Montreal as a teen, it makes sense.
When he was the VP at MHS, he would get stuck watching us on Thurs detentions for up to 3 hours after school. He would sometimes ask one person a trivia question & if gotten right, everyone could leave & get credit just for showing up.
He asked me: Who was the first NHLer to score 50 goals in a season? I replied that it was Maurice Richard, he of the loathed Canadiens (Go Bruins!). He then asked for his nickname. I said it was "The Rocket". He ordered us all to leave, probably secretly thanking me for giving him the afternoon off.
That's just 1 story. I bet a great majority of his students have similar ones that they still recall today.

Eric van Gestel

August 17, 2018

Coach Pickard was like a dad to me... My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Rest In peace, Coach. - Eric van Gestel

Michael Horgan

August 17, 2018

Susi and Family, Darlene and I were saddened to hear the news today. Rod was a good friend and a great coaching partner.

Susan Zirin Richard

August 16, 2018

My sincere condolence to the entire Pickard family. I have such fond memories of Mr. Pickard and he certainly made a lasting impact on me during my time at MHS.

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