1964 - 2003
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2003
Memorial service: 10 a.m. Saturday at Unity Church of Northeast Tarrant County, 1650 Hughes Rd., Grapevine, the Rev. Carol Record officiating.
Memorials: In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Great Dane Rescue of North Texas, P.O. Box 40425, Fort Worth, Texas 76140 (http://www.danerescue.net) or Unity Church of Northeast Tarrant County, Tree of Life Foundation, P.O. Box 667, Grapevine, Texas 76099.
Born May 13, 1964, in Chicago, Ill., Laura enjoyed reading, writing, watching hockey and big, slobbery dogs. She was a "good egg" whose life was an adventure she always cherished. Whether up or down, Laurie tackled life with a genuine passion and a multi-faceted sense of humor, which she always held dear. Her father, Ralph Gronlund, preceded her in death in 1992.
Survivors: Daughter, Rachel Lohenry; mother, Mary Salerno; sister, Karen Gronlund; brother, Christopher Gronlund and sister-in-law, Cynthia Griffith; stepbrother, Jeff Ashley and her boyfriend, Sean Andrews; and countless family and friends scattered around the globe.
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rodotmoe
August 9, 2025
I know you and Mother Mary are having a blast catching up. Please save a spot for me at the Fun Table. I love you both.





ro~
May 13, 2025
Thinking of you today. Hoping you are living it up with our families and friends. Love you.
ro~
February 24, 2025
I was glimpsing through the interwebs one day and saw a site on Where Eels Come From. Obviously I thought of you and Mother Mary. Recollecting your evil laugh still makes me smile.
No garden picture today because the weather has been crazy warm, cold, windy, rainy, dry and dusty. Once I make it presentable again, I'll let you know.
Miss you bunches.

ro~
May 17, 2024
Dear One... I am delayed in sharing my birthday wish for you. Visiting with my mom and tending to her garden. Thought of you consistently as all of her daisies were blooming. You are never far from my thoughts.
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ro~
February 25, 2024
It seems like forever. A lot of things have happened, both good and bad. By now, you should be having meetups with a lot of our mutual friends. Although, it's just how life works, it doesn't make things easier.
On a more upbeat thought, I've been upcycling coffee cans. I think of you every time I do! Love & stuff....

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May 13, 2023
Thinking of you on your birthday anniversary as I ponder the beauty in our gardens which were all inspired by you.

Rozane
February 23, 2023
Twenty years? I can't believe it.
Wanted you to know that all our gardens I consider our Memorial Gardens -- all started because of you. Granted, due to weather insanity over the last few years, I've got my work cut out for me to get them looking beautiful.
I'm posting a little early because of travel, BUT I wanted to let you know I was able to share Grandma Pee Can story, just yesterday! To this day, that recollection still makes me laugh.
Love to you, Laurie

ro~
May 13, 2021
Every time I look out onto the garden, I'm graced with knowing the reason of its beauty.... Yours was one of first memorial plantings. I've since added flowers & plants here and there until I am overwhelmed by the sheer amount of people who've crossed my path. I'd like to think I've become a better person after having briefly crossing paths with you.
rodotmoe
February 25, 2021
The yellow daisies are gone, but the purple, white,pink and mauve daisies are growing and spreading everywhere! You are missed...
M.
February 9, 2021
Laurie, I had a random thought of you today because I thought of simpler times when we were all hanging out at 3WA, posting. It was so long ago -- almost 20 years now -- and I don't think you would recognize the person I have become. You taught me a lot about life and how to be strong, and I'm trying so very hard to be strong but it's really difficult now. I keep thinking about how you would tell me that I could find peace and strength in myself, I just had to believe that it was true, because you knew it was true. Even though we weren't as close as you were with others, you still had an impact on me. Thank you for being a light so bright that you're still glowing all these years later.
February 28, 2020
It's been difficult these days. Sure miss typing with you. You are loved.
February 27, 2020
Never forgotten. Ever in my heart.

rodotmoe
February 25, 2019
February 22, 2019
I have never forgotten you, Laura. I think about you and remember how you brightened my life in countless ways. So many years have come and gone. I am reflecting today on the lessons I have learned especially those you taught me with your humor and genuine interest in how I became who I was.Your Mother will forever be the rock on whose shoulders I stood when my path was dark. My four daughters, all adults and three are grandmothers now, still remember her as my Grapevine friend who helped keep me company during those long, long, painful nights when their father struggled. They remember her daughter, Laura, too. I will say goodbye now thanking you and miss seeing you here.
February 21, 2019
Your namesake is almost 16, wild and headstrong and beautiful and brilliant. I hope you're seeing her, and laughing your head off at my parental fumblings.

I love making new friends.... never replaces the old.
rodotmoe
May 13, 2016

Poppy & friend (just one of a gazillion)
rodotmoe
May 13, 2016

On your day your, Doug's daisies & the wildflowers
rodotmoe
May 13, 2016

rodotmoe
February 24, 2016
I still don't like daiquiris, could have sworn it was a margarita... Miss you.
December 26, 2015
It's been freezing here lately & yet the daisies are still in bloom, in December. Miss you.

February 25, 2015
Loving thoughts for you today.
February 25, 2014
The first flowers open in February are the daisies.... Miss you. ro~
January 31, 2014
We're approaching 11 years and I see it as if it just was. The love is there, always, and it's reciprocal.
Gene Goodson
July 24, 2013
Oh, my Laura, I heard your Mom's voice this morning - well, not literally but cyberliterally (if that's a word). I had to come and tell you how much remembering you brightened my morning. So much water has gone under the bridge since we last talked, Laura. Time heals and time robs. You always laughed at my antics and I innocently thought I was soooo funny. Thank you for helping me then and for helping me today. Know this, my child, you live on in the hearts of all who knew you.
July 22, 2013
Tonight at yoga, as I was lying there in sponge position listening to the one who gets so relaxed she falls asleep and snores. Every week. Lying there I thought of Laurie and I smiled. I smiled because she would have started giggling. Then I would have and soon, we'd have had to get up and go outside because we'd have been laughing so hard.
Then, because I'm going with a friend to pick up the ashes of her loved one and I remember what a profound day it was when I picked up Laurie's, I went to 3WA to see if there were words I could utter to help her, because I knew the words in the "Laurie" thread were gold. Pearls. Rubies. And when I read them I saw they were beautiful words but they were no good for Gigi, my friend who will pick up the ashes of her Eddie tomorrow. No good. They were words only for Laurie and I'll have to choose my own Eddie-words.
I still miss my baby every day.
ro
May 13, 2013
Happy Birthday Cheers in your memory.... Daisy tree is in full bloom! <3 ~ro
ro~
February 25, 2012
The daisies are everywhere. I see them outside the window of my art studio and hope wherever you are, you see them, too. I miss you.
Heidi
May 14, 2011
The rain finally broke last night, just briefly, after a long hard storm. I went outside and saw the big bright moon appear (it's almost full, now) and bajillions of twinkles from the stars in the sky. Like your own secret hello in the vast dark beyond. Happy birthday weekend, darling. Thank you for that special show. A break in the darkness was quite welcome - and needed. <3
May 13, 2011
The daisies came up beautifully this year, and I think you would have approved. Love and miss you. ro~
ro~
February 25, 2011
I can't believe it has been so many years. I miss you today as much as I ever did. Love you, ro~
RD
February 23, 2011
My dear Laurie, your candle burns brightly and I am reminded of your kindness, fine good humor and love for your family and friends. Rest well, child of Mary, mother of Rachael and grandmother of Max.
RD
May 15, 2010
I light this candle as reminder of the light Laura brought to our lives. May we be inspired to deeds of kindness and charity to honor her on her birthday and every day. Rest well, my child.
ro
May 13, 2010
I am thinking of you on your birthday! Sharks vs. Hawks. It's not the Stars but will still be a pretty good match-up. I miss you. Love, ro~
RiverDancer G3
February 26, 2010
..Laurie, I think of you more than you could possible imagine. Thank you for reminding me you are here. Hold your light high. Rest well, my dear.
February 25, 2010
Love you, ro~
November 26, 2009
It's another Thanksgiving Day and things are so different in a same sort of way. You're in my thoughts with love & admiration.
Love, ro~
May 10, 2009
Your birthday anniversary is just around the corner and again my thoughts are filled with you. The Community is not as it was when we met, but as you know things change and life goes on with or without you.
If I am lucky, maybe I will have been unique & generous enough to have left a little piece behind there for people to remember & appreciate - such as you have done for me in this plane; my constant inspiration.
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you, but now it is usually with a smile; except when remembering the rerun of Iron Chef (eels).
Happy Birthday Week, LZOR.
Love & ((hugs)), ro~
Gene Goodson
May 9, 2009
You laughed, you cried, you applauded my every effort to write my way through life's challenges. Though decades apart in age we were children romping through Community message boards, teasing our elders, poking about in the internet and comforting the conspicuously miserable.
Ah, 'mah deah' (as Tattoo, your favorite imaginary dog addressed you) 'ah nevah had a bettah prezent then yo laffter at mah liars camp nonsense an yo momma, MizArymay's friendship'.
You continue to light up somebody's life every day. Don't ever run out of matches, dear Laurie.
Until we talk again,
RD, Riverdancer, Tattoo
February 25, 2009
They say it gets easier over the years but it doesn't. It just takes on different hues with the passing of the years. Still loving. Still remembering.
ro~
February 23, 2009
I'm a little early this year, but I wanted you to know I was thinking of you and would rather be early than late. Lot of things have changed - mostly for the better. I still miss you though - that won't change.
rodotmoe
December 25, 2008
I had a feeling you were looking out for me over this holiday. My results came back negative yesterday - best present ever! Thank you, Sweetness! I miss you!
Heidi Sisk
December 16, 2008
Was thinking about you today, Laurie. Miss you bunches.
MK
May 14, 2008
Miss you, dearest. Look in on your namesake today - she'll be good for a birthday laugh.
rodotmoe
May 13, 2008
It's been an awesome year in some ways and not so good in others. The only missing is hearing your laugh in both the good times & bad. Happy birthday, sweetie.
rodotmoe
February 25, 2008
Things are going so well these days. The only thing missing is you. Thank you for watching over my shoulder. Love & stuff...
rodotmoe
December 9, 2007
The holidays are rolling around and you and your family are never far from my thoughts. I just wanted you to know that I thank you for continuing to be a shining star in my life. Luff & stuff...
Rachel Lohenry
August 27, 2007
Still thinking about ya... as allways. I miss you terribly. I went to the lake last week by the shedaquarium and brought you some daisies and watched the sunset over the city. It was beautiful but I guess you already know that.
*kisses*
*max*
Rachel Lohenry
June 11, 2007
"mom! mom! mom! mummy! mummy! mummy! mother! mother! mother! Lois! Lois! Lois!" I know this would piss you off and make you chuckle at once.
Love you so much I could bite my toes!
*Max*
rodotmoe
May 13, 2007
Happy birthday, sweetheart.
February 27, 2007
Four years or four minutes? Miss you like crazy love, and know you're around.
Mom
rodotmoe
February 25, 2007
Geebus, honey... I can't believe how long it has been. Somedays it is just like yesterday - other days it is like forever. I miss you. Please watch over JD for us. Luff & stuff.
rodotmoe
December 30, 2006
Another year is drawing to an end and you are in my thoughts, sweet one.
Erika
November 26, 2006
Thinking of you, and how you used to call me your second daughter when we were in chat. I miss you and your unconditional acceptance so much, sweetheart.
kju
September 6, 2006
Hiya love, how you doing? We miss you.
May 13, 2006
Thinking of her today and always
rodotmoe
May 13, 2006
I'll have a piece of cake and will smile for you today, Sweetie. Love & stuff.
Mary
April 17, 2006
This guestbook has been fully sponsored. What a gift. With deepest appreciation.
rodotmoe
May 14, 2005
A great thing happened on May 13th many years ago, Laurie. Great things continue to happen because of you, too. ((virtual))
Belle
March 31, 2005
Missing you, Laurie. I hope you're taking good care of doogie over in Iraq, he needs a guardian angel like you.
Chickie
March 1, 2005
Laurie, sweetie. I've been thinking about you so much lately. I wish you could see baby Laura on the go - though I have an inkling that you can. She's amazing, and your spark is in her. She has a**-kicking boots now, too, you know. We love you and miss you, Laurie.
Mom
February 26, 2005
And I forgot. I don't know who is maintaining this guest book, but I have a hunch. Whomever it is, thank you.
Mom
February 26, 2005
I haven't looked here for a long time and wow. It is so good, to know so many people were touched by Laurie enough for them to remember all these things. I'm grateful and humbled and I can't express how profoundly I long for my daughter. There are no words.
rodotmoe
February 25, 2005
I miss you and still think of you every day.
rodotmoe
February 25, 2005
I miss you.
Coleen d
January 20, 2005
I miss you, Laurie. I was thinking about you the other day, wondering how you were doing with the NHL lockout. I hope that they're treating you to a great game in Heaven!
rodotmoe
December 5, 2004
There have been so many gatherings and parties happening since you've gone, Laurie. I even flew to NYC for one! I've tried to forward the love you've given me to those that touched you. It has sometimes been a difficult challenge, but you've made it worth it! I'll keep spreading the luff & stuff whenever I can. I miss you.
Heather
November 6, 2004
I knew Laurie from 3WA, and to this day she is an inspiration to me. The way she battled everything with so much grace and humor is incredible. She touched so many lives, and I think of her often.
Chickie
May 13, 2004
Sweetie, I think of you so often. Your little namesake is growing so big and strong! I see some of your spark in her eyes or hear you in her laugh, and you are here. We love you and miss you!
Mary Ellen Carter
May 13, 2004
Miss you, Laurie. Love you a lot.
Belle
May 13, 2004
Thinking of you, L-ZOR. I'd say we missed you in NYC, but you were there, weren't you? There are always sweet thoughts for you, Mary, Rachel, Chris, Cynthia, and Zubie too.
Jane
May 13, 2004
You are not forgotten. You touched a lot of lives.
rodotmoe
May 13, 2004
I'm remembering you sweetly on your birthday. I still can't believe it's been over a year since you left us.
rodotmoe
February 25, 2004
I miss you.
Sharron
May 13, 2003
Happy Birthday, Laurie, from a fellow Taurus. You were an amazing woman, and I wish I could've had the chance to meet you in person.
Belle
May 13, 2003
Dearest Laurie...
Happy Birthday, dear heart. You're never far from my mind and heart. I miss you terribly, and it isn't often a day goes by without a memory or thought of you. Love you, L-ZOR
rodotmoe
May 13, 2003
Happy Birthday, Laurie. Today I will celebrate your life by trying to live my life better. We miss you.
Lisa
May 12, 2003
May the pain of loss be forever healed by the joys of memory.
Michelle (
May 11, 2003
I didn't know Laurie personally, but I followed her posts on 3WA and was saddened along with the rest of the community when she left us. Her fight remains an inspiration. Thank you, Laurie.
Jenne Turner
February 28, 2003
My heart goes out to all of Lzor's family and friends, both on-line and in real life. I wish her peace after her great battle with cancer.
Karin Cannon
February 27, 2003
I was fortunate enough to meet Laurie through a Dallas Stars message board. I was then lucky enough to meet her in person. I've never known anyone as upbeat and happy. I'll certainly miss her. My thoughts and prayers to her family and to Sean. Godspeed Laurie!
Susan Ostermann
February 27, 2003
Hey GrinchSister!!!
I'm so glad that you are free of all the earthly hurts and pain! I rejoice in your newfound freedom, and yet am saddened because I'll never hear your laugh again.
While you're up there, could you please tell God to not let people make anymore movies about things from our childhood, and also so that the Stars can win the Cup.
Much love to you, GrinchSister!
Paula Woodward
February 27, 2003
Laurie will be missed. Although I didn't know her well, just from hockey boards on the internet, I know that she was a great person. My condolences to all of her family and friends.
Denise Sorrells
February 27, 2003
I'm happy to say Laurie was my friend. My condolences go out to all of her family and friends. I'll miss her...
Judy Frink
February 27, 2003
You were a pleasure to know & an inspiration to many of us with your optimism & high spirits -- even through this ordeal. Thank you for your friendship.
I know you'll be watching the Playoffs this spring!
Mar
February 27, 2003
Laurie touched so many people's lives in such a wonderful way. The world has lost someone special, and Heaven has gained an amazing warrior.
All my love to her family.
Nickdotmoe
February 27, 2003
Dear Fam Laurie,
I hope that soon your pain will go away and only happy memories remain.
Much love to Mary, Rachel and Chris
Michelle Lewis
February 27, 2003
It is so sad to lose such a good person and at such a young age. She will be missed and always remembered.
rodotmoe
February 27, 2003
You lived your life learning all about it. Now you know all there is to know. ((Hugs)) & my love to you, always. Of course, you already knew that, too.
Stef
February 27, 2003
Much peace and love to Laurie's family. Thank you for being so wonderful and sharing Laurie with us for a little while.
February 27, 2003
Mary, Rachel, Chris and Cynthia,
My thoughts are with you continually and my strength will be flowing your direction on Saturday. Love to you all.
Poodle
M. D.
February 26, 2003
Thank you so much for all the light, love and fun you shared with us at 3WA. I hope your incredible family feels the love we had for you. Wrapping them in warmth and strength.
Love, Sugarbiscuit
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