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Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 2, 2014.

Theodore "Ted" Delmus Draper Jr.

SPRINGFIELD, IL - Theodore "Ted" Delmus Draper Jr., 61, departed this life on Wednesday, Feb. 26, 2014.

He was born May 20, 1952, in Springfield, Ill., the son of Theodore Delmus Draper Sr. and Othel M. Draper West.

Theodore was a faithful member of Abundant Faith Christian Center. He attended Lincoln Elementary School and Southeast High School. By trade, he was a Crafter Cement Finisher and a member of the Operative Plaster & Cement Mason Union, Phoenix, Ariz. He also worked for the City of Springfield.

He was preceded in death by his father and half-brother, Bishop Gregory Smith.

Left to cherish his memory are three daughters: Prudence M. Draper of Springfield, Ill., Raenette L. Draper Odoh of Aurora, Ill., and Ariann G. Draper of Phoenix, Ariz.; a son, Camron D. Graves of Phoenix, Ariz.; five grandchildren; mother, Othel M. Draper West; a sister, Rita Draper (James) DeBerry of Shaker Heights, Ohio; a stepsister, Darneitta Hurst-Jones of Detroit, Mich.; a stepbrother, Dereck Hurst of Southgate, Mich.; one niece, Danielle DeBerry of Shaker Heights, Ohio; and a host of uncles, aunts and cousins.

Visitation will be from 10-11 a.m., Tuesday, March 4, 2014, with funeral services to follow at 11 a.m., all at Abundant Faith Christian Center, 2525 Taylor Ave., Springfield, IL 62703, Pastor Jerry W. Doss officiating. Interment will be private.

Walker Funeral Services are in charge of arrangements.

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Evelyn Carswell

February 24, 2022

Some people are never forgotten no matter how long they've been gone. Theodore Draper is one of those people. When I think back of growing up with Rita and Ted, my memories are all fond ones. Ms. Othel treated me like I was another daughter, always with a smile and cheery words. Forgetting the Drapers?..Impossible! Love, Evelyn Carswell

James Wright

February 24, 2022

Miss you cuz. I often think of you. Was actually thinking about you earlier this week.

james wright

February 25, 2020

I think of you often cuz. You will never be forgotten.

james wright

February 24, 2019

I still miss you very much cousin. You are always close in heart. The memories of our time together are now more treasured then ever. Love you so much.

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March 7, 2014

Mrs. West and Rita,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son/brother. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Brad & Barb DeLuka

constance/clifford brown

March 6, 2014

loved you and we shall miss you terribly.

Gail O'Neil

March 6, 2014

"GONE; BUT, NOT FORGOTTEN!"....

Believing GOD keeps all HIS "Promises For Everlasting Life"; with heavy hearts, we joyfully give Our LORD & SAVIOR all the Glory, Gratitude, Thanks & Praise in Faith that our Beloved "Brown Family" member, "Ted" Rests In Eternal Peace & Comfort 'Seated At The Right-Hand Side Of The Father, Almighty In Heaven'.
Cuz, I deeply regret we did not take that ATL road trip we were planning to see fam. I've learned a hard lesson....NEVER procrastinate or put off life's dreams cause tomorrow is NOT promised!!! But; I'll always remember the fun luving times over the years, the youthful summer sleepover vacations in Springfield, our bonding times @ reunions & in the hotel rooms w/u Rita & Davy & just hanging out cutting a rug on the dance floor. "Ted", ....my heart is soooo heavy. I'll ALWAYS Luv u cause you were not just my cuz; but, my luving male friend who ALWAYS took time out to call & chat w/me. I recall our last conversation lasted over an hour & it was deep! Thank you for being my friend. I will truly miss u, dearly, my precious.
Amen & Amen.

Bob Moses

March 5, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

James Hollis Wright

March 4, 2014

I sincerely share in the grief that my beloved family is feeling over the departure of Ted from this physical life as we know it.

However, I do know for sure that he has only moved from one existence to another.

Ted, and I both agreed that we were more like brothers than cousins, so his leaving is very difficult to comprehend.

I will never let go of our cherished times together. Yes, like brothers, we laughed together, argued together, played together, fought together, shared secrets, and always expressed our brotherly love toward one another in actions, words, and deeds.

With you goes a part of me, and with me remains a part of you.

Although grieved by you leaving, I will rejoice in your transition into a place of peace and tranquility.

Thanks for being my cousin, and my brother. But most of all thanks for being my friend.

Ruby Perkins

March 4, 2014

I was so sorry to hear about Ted, he was a wonderful person, he will be missed. My prayers are with the family.

Clifford L. Brown

March 4, 2014

Times like these don't shake my faith, they reinforce it. R.I.P. cuz, I will truly miss u, Love Cliff.

Clifford Lynn Brown

March 4, 2014

Cousin Ted, memories of you will remain in my heart always. How I will miss you and all the family I have lost. Keep smiling as I know u will and R.I.P. See u soon. Love your cousin Cliff.

Freddie and Cathy West

March 4, 2014

We are so sorry for the loss of your loved one. His memories will be cherished forever.

Charles

March 3, 2014

Ted was a wonderful person. Always full of love we spent many years together and he was loved by everyone that knew him. May God be with you and with all the family. Love all of you very much Charles Wilkerson Sr.

Evelyn and the Carswell Family

March 3, 2014

To Ms. West, Rita, and all the Family. I was deeply grieved to hear of Theodore's passing. I've known you all for a lifetime, and feel you're my family. My mind takes me to a place of precious memories of growing up on Capital Ave., attending Lincoln School, Washington Jr. High, and Southeast H.S. When grief struck the Draper & Little Family, it struck us all. Please know that you are being remembered by all of us who know and love you. Take heart, and look to God for comfort. "Farewell, Dear, 'Mr. Cool' Theodore. Be at peace and rest."

Michele Wilson (AFCC Greeters)

March 3, 2014

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Racina Sanders

March 3, 2014

R.I.P cousin and you will truly be missed. Your family loves you and we know you are in a better place. Love you cuz

Shawn Bryson

March 3, 2014

Rita, thinking n Praying for you n the family. Ted you was the life of party!!! You will be truly missed. Love you Cousin. ?

Theresa Stowe /Banks

March 3, 2014

Rita ,and the family of Theodore may God comfort you,and give you peace during these difficult days ahead.We will miss Theodore, he was an awesome person,we will keep you's in our prayers.

Brenda Brown

March 3, 2014

My sincere condolences go out to our family and friends in this time of sorrow.

Theodore's pain is gone and he's now with our Lord. His light shines down on us brightening our thoughts with loving memories.

I will miss him my dear cousin. My conversations with him were always insightful, reflective; filled with humor and love of Family.

Butch is there, along with the rest of our loved ones who have left us. His coming home to our Lord, made better by family and dear friends who are there to welcome him.

I take comfort and solace in that.

Bonita Jackson

March 3, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Martha Curry

March 3, 2014

May your sweet memories of Ted sustain you during this difficult time. Keep loving thoughts in your hearts. All of you are in my prayers.

Melody Holman

March 3, 2014

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Mark Green

March 3, 2014

Rita, Dani and family we are praying for you at this time of loss.
Mark, Erin, Evan, Erik and Charmaine

March 2, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. May the Most High God comfort you during these difficult days. Psalm 83:18

Connie ( Little ) Sanders

March 2, 2014

To my own family, since I am so far away, I give you all my sincere Condolences. Theodore was my first cousin all my life. We grew up together, lived side by side on Capital street. My cousin was always a sweet person and always had a smile. It's hard to be so far away when family passes away and you can't be there to say your goodbye. But it's even harder when you are far away and you have no family with you to comfort you. You feel bad that you can't be there to comfort the rest of your family. But God ! See you through the sad times and your heart and spirit are with your family in Spfld. I will miss you my sweet cousin. Say hello to mother and dad for me, now you are with your aunt Mattie as you wanted to be. My sincere prayer goes out to my family, stay strong in the Lord all of you. God Bless you all. Goodbye my sweet cousin, I will see you again some day.

Lynn Robinson

March 2, 2014

Rita - I am praying for you and your family. May you find comfort in your treasured memories, and the love of your family and friends.

Larry Pettis

March 2, 2014

I don't really know what to say because its lifetime friends that really becomes part of your definition to define you. I am really going to be lost and he will really be missed. It will take a while to grasp the reality of this.

Darneitta Jones

March 2, 2014

Theodore my brother you were always on my mind so I called you on the phone one day to talk and share some time. You said that you were weary and wanted to go home. I didn't understand until I got the phone call, that angels were at your bedside with Jesus standing near. Your mansion was made ready and you smiled and disappeared. Love Always Nita

Marvin "Sarge" Jackson

March 2, 2014

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ann Jones

March 2, 2014

To my best friend Prudence and the Family of Ted Draper: I am so sorry for your loss. I've known Ted for many years. What I will always remember is the big smile he greeted me with every time he saw me and his sense of humor. I wish I could be there, but know I'm with you in spirit. May GOD bless you and give you strength to endure. Love you....

Carrolyn Rountree

March 1, 2014

Relations forged during very special times in our lives are never broken. They remain strong and loving, reflecting good and faithful times shared by those whom God has made instant friends for His own purposes. The memory of Ted and the happy times we spent together is a gift that I will treasure forever.

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