Verna Grover Thayer

1918 - 2013

Verna Grover Thayer

1918 - 2013

BORN

1918

DIED

2013

Verna Thayer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 25, 2013.
West Paris-Verna Grover Thayer, 94, of Mason Township passed away on Wednesday, January 23 at Ledgeview Living Center. She was born in Mason Township on August 25, 1918 the third of 11 children to Eli Arthur Grover and Ella Garey Grover. Verna graduated from Gould Academy in 1936. She married George D. Thayer, lived in South Paris and operated the Norway Home Bakery from mid 1940's until the late 1960's. The Bakery was on Main Street in Norway. Verna and Dewey used to give leftover bakery goods to family members still on the farm both for people and the pigs. She lived in Port Clyde, Maine from 1968 until 1983, while she worked as a legal secretary for Strout, Payson and Pelicani in Rockland, while Dewey was town manager for Tenants Harbor, Maine. Verna retired back to Mason Township in 1984 and lived there until she moved to Ledgeview in West Paris in 2009. She and Dewey spent several winters in Florida where they stayed with sister-in-law, Dorothy Grover.
Verna was a very good bridge player and played in several bridge clubs in the Bethel area. She loved card games of all kinds. She was a member of the West Bethel Union Church, the Pleasant Valley Grange (West Bethel), and a lifetime member of the Order of the Eastern Star and served as Worthy Matron in Tenants Harbor. She always helped other members of the family, giving of her time and money when she had some. She grew up on a hardscrabble farm in Mason; and as a teenager worked summers as housekeeper for the Hastings Farm in Gilead. She used part of her earnings to buy school clothing for her 8 younger brothers and sisters. She was predeceased by her brothers, Paul, Walter, Rupert, Ernest, Howard, Robert and Ralph Grover; her husband George "Dewey" Thayer; her son Ernest Powers Thayer; and grandson Gregory Ernest Thayer. She is survived by brothers, Stanley and Richard Grover; her sister, Margaret "Peggy" Perham; her son, Charles Thayer; her grandchildren, Scott Thayer, Steve Thayer, Tracyn Thayer, Darren Thayer, Matt Thayer and Michael Thayer; her great grandchildren, Bonnie Thayer, Jessica Gowen, Justin Thayer, Shannon Thayer, Maya Thayer, Alexandria Thayer, Dylan Greenberg, Jackson Thayer, Izaac Greenberg, Brooklyn Thayer and Madison Thayer; and great great grandchildren, Gabriel Gowen, Grace and Gretta Beckard and Audrey Shafer.

Services will be held in the spring, time and date to be announced. Arrangements are under the direction of Chandler Funeral Homes & Cremation Service, Greenleaf Chapel, 37 Vernon St., Bethel.

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February 2, 2013

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February 4, 2013

It was so sad to read of Verna's passing. We have so many very fond memories of her going back to childhood. Always had that incredible smile! She will be missed by so many. Our thoughts are with everyone in the family. Bob and Jill Harriman Bean

February 2, 2013

Richard and Families Sorry to read about your Sister, she had a long wonderful life..My prayers to all!
Ruth(Donahue)Kichton Woburn, Ma

Helene Domi

February 2, 2013

I am so very sorry for your loss. My parents were Sidney and Ella Bryant and we came to Maine every summer fornl our Bryant family reunion. Of course, part of that trip included visits to visit the Thayers at the bakery for the world's best donut holes!!!
I pray for God's comfort and peace for your whole family.
Helene Bryant Domi

Norm and Betty Rust

January 31, 2013

Stanley, Richard and families: Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Dewey and Verna were very special people to us as we served the W.Bethel Church and worked with them in Star and Masons. Hope to see you in the spring.

January 30, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with her family! See you in the springtime.
Adaline and Emerson Clough

Elsie Aylward

January 26, 2013

I will always cherish all the wonderful memories of all the many Good times we sheared. She was a very special lady. My sympathy to her family.

Amy Chapman

January 26, 2013

My mom (Ruth Wight) played bridge with Verna for many years and spoke so highly of her. It always gives me a little catch in my heart when I see that another of those dear bridge-playing ladies has left us.

Bonnie Ripley

January 26, 2013

Verna was such a lovely lady and I will always cherish the connection we used to share.

January 26, 2013

My sympathy to all of you on your loss. I always loved going into the bakery and getting some treats when I was a young child!! Loved playing cards with Verna too. Every time Mom and I went to Norway we would say hi Verna even though we couldn't stop.
Valerie (Cindy) Clough Schroeder

Linda Westleigh

January 26, 2013

So very sorry for your loss of Verna. She was such a special lady and I am so glad to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

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