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Peter T. Kirwan Resident of Pebble Beach March 21, 1928 - March 28, 2010 Peter T. Kirwan, age 82, died peacefully Sunday night at Community of Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula. He was a longtime resident of the Monterey Peninsula whose lifelong interest was international trade. Mr. Kirwan's interest in traveling and international trade was shaped by his childhood experiences, traveling between Calcutta, where his father was stationed as a surgeon in the British Army, and England, Ireland and the United States where he had his schooling. During the Battle of Britain, he was brought to the United States through Ellis Island and lived in Portland, Oregon until the last year of the war when the family returned to England. After the war, Mr. Kirwan joined the Royal Artillery, serving in Palestine. He graduated from Cambridge with a degree in jurisprudence, then returned to the U.S. where he earned an MBA from Harvard Business School. Following his graduation, Mr. Kirwan moved to San Francisco where he sought a career that would allow him to travel abroad. He worked for C & H Sugar, Eimac, and Varian before starting his own business, Western International Trade Co., specializing in marketing electronics abroad. In San Francisco, he met Marilee Hunt, his wife of 53 years. They raised four children in the Bay Area before moving to the Monterey Peninsula in the late 1970's. Upon his arrival on the Monterey Peninsula, Mr. Kirwan remained active in the business world. He became an international marketing consultant, taught at the Monterey Institute of International Studies and served on the board of the Monterey Bay International Trade Association. In his later years, he was known locally for his frequent contributions of satirical letters published in the San Francisco Chronicle and the Monterey Herald. For most of his life, Mr. Kirwan remained a citizen of Great Britain, but he became a US citizen in 1999, a moment of great pride for him. Reflecting upon the letters that occupied his later years, Mr. Kirwan averred "the sign of a mature society is its ability to laugh at itself." While at home in neither political party, Mr. Kirwan held firm to the principles of free trade between nations and the pursuit of policy that included a broad international perspective. Mr. Kirwan was an active member of St. Angela Merici Church, the St. Vincent de Paul Society (regularly volunteering at its Pacific Grove thrift shop), the Old Capital Club and the Monterey Peninsula Country Club. He is survived by his wife, Marilee Kirwan; his children, Mary Hernandez of Cupertino, Peter Kirwan of Los Gatos, John Kirwan of Carlsbad and Susie Hill of Santa Cruz. He leaves behind eight grandchildren: Kyle Kiddy; Emily, Matthew & Brittany Kirwan; Ryan, Stacey and Allison Hill and Maria Kirwan and his brother, Ernest Kirwan of England. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated this Saturday, April 3 at 10:00 AM at St. Angela Merici Church in Pacific Grove. Private burial will take place at Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery in Colma. In lieu of flowers, contributions are suggested to St. Vincent de Paul Society, 214 Forest Ave., Pacific Grove, 93950. To sign Mr. Kirwan's guest book and leave messages for his family, please visit www.thepaulmortuary.com.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Mar. 31, 2010.

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Don Stevens

February 28, 2021

I worked with Peter a Varian Associates 1967-69. I was an accountant in the International Operations that he headed up. I always stood in awe of his charm in dealing with people and used him as a model of how I wanted to treat people in my business career.

klhoe Kirwan Hill

November 17, 2010

April 12, 2010

To the Kirwan family, we send our thoughts and prayers to all of you during these difficult times. We know and have worked with Peter (the son) and were saddened to hear about your loss. May God keep you strong.

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Vivian Hurst, Katherine Chok and staff

April 12, 2010

April 12, 2010


Dear Kirwan Family,
I am sorry to hear of the sad news of Mr. Kirwan's death. As a child in elementary school, Mary Lou, his oldest daughter, was one of my best friends. I have not been in touch with any of the Kirwans in many years but remember the family very well and spent much of my childhood at their home both in Ladera, and after they moved, in Atherton. I remember loving My. Kirwan's British accent.
May he rest in peace.

My condolences to his family. My mother, Mrs Jane Woolf, also sends her condolences.

Christie Franklin Finucane,
Washougal, Washington

P.J. Robbins-McCreary

April 3, 2010

Mr. Kirwan was a charming and gracious man, with a great wit. He will be missed by many. My condolences to his family, until they meet again.

April 2, 2010

Dear Kirwan Family,

This is a note from Dori Ives from the Erica Way, Ladera times. I will remember "Mr. Kirwan" for his booming voice trying to track down Mary Lou. You see as kids, we perfected the ability to hide in the pine trees and pretend to not hear our parents' voices. I always loved his English accent and was intrigued by his many stories. The Kirwan family was always so welcoming with a revolving door for any neighborhood kid.

I was sitting at my kitchen table when I saw the sad notice. I want you to know that Christie Franklin and Sally Dittmer and I send our condolences. My father, Ethan Ives, also carries your family in his heart.

As my English in-laws often say, "Good bye and God bless."

April 1, 2010

I never met Peter but knew his daughter, Susie as she was my daughter, Tey's best friend when they were in High School. I was very sorry to hear of Susie's father's death but want Susie to know that I will write a message to the Sisters' at the Carmel Monastery, where I spend time regualarly, asking for their prayers for her father and for all family members. God Bless! Sincerely, Charlotte Tolhurst

Tina Hannas

April 1, 2010

We will miss our lifelong neighbor and friend, Mr. Kirwan, for his positive and loving interest in our family over the years. He was always dapper, always, charming and always smiling.

Kathleen Floyd Moorehead

March 31, 2010

I've known Mr. Kirwan as the father of my best friend since I was a little girl, second grade I think. When my best friend, Susie, his daughter, left the Bay Area and moved to Monterrey when I was 12, her father continued to work in the Bay Area and commute home on the weekends. Mr. Kirwan used to pick me up on Friday, and we would spend hours talking on the ride home. I honestly enjoyed the ride and the conversations with him just as much as the reunion with Susie. We talked about all sorts of subjects, but his Catholic faith was always a big part of every viewpoint that he shared. I remember one Sunday at church asking Susie why he was not going to communion. She said he would never take communion if he had anything on his mind. It was very important to him to be ready to receive Christ.

Mr. Kirwan was so impressive to me; he was successful in every way, but his treasure had nothing to do with his success as a Harvard graduate or a businessman, or a writer. His success was in seeing that his treasures were his wife MaryLee, children, and grandchildren. He loved his family dearly. He was proud of each one of them, as different as they all were. Yes, he was impressive, but mostly I will remember him as a servant. He loved his family and his Lord, and I am happy he is home.

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