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Victoria Crenshaw Obituary

May 24, 1960 - Feb. 12, 2015 Victoria (Vickie) Darby Crenshaw born May 24, 1960 passed gently on Thursday, February 12, 2015. She is predeceased by her father Elton H. Darby. She is survived by her husband Dr. James (Jay) H. Crenshaw; daughters, Victoria Jane Crenshaw and Mary Maude Crenshaw, and her son, James Hill Crenshaw, Jr. She is also survived by her mother, Mrs. Mary Jane Darby; sisters Jane (John) Dill, Maudie (Roger) Bedford, and Lulu (Richard) Todd; brothers E.H. (Bud) Darby and Elton (Linda) H. Darby, and by family angel, Erlinda Paclian. In addition to her beloved family Vickie is survived by her 3 dogs-Star, Lulu and Grace. Vickie, a native of Florence, Alabama graduated from Bradshaw High School in Florence. Vickie attended the University of Alabama where she was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority. Vickie and Jay were married March 19, 1993 and devoted their lives to their family, friends and love of travel. A memorial service will be held at Mountain Brook Baptist Church on Sunday, February 15, at 2:00 o'clock. A private burial will follow the memorial service. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Vincent's Bruno Cancer Center, to UAB Comprehensive Cancer Center, or to the charity of your choice.

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Published by The News & Observer from Feb. 12 to Feb. 13, 2015.

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Trent Boozer

June 29, 2015

Jay, I am truly saddened by Vickie's passing. She was a wonderful, compassionate person and will be missed by so many. Vickie was "life-giving" to all that were fortunate enough to meet her because of her kindness. I will keep your family and the Darby family in my prayers until all of you are reunited with Vickie again one day.

Peggy Wehrman

May 27, 2015

We shared some splendid time with you both at a mutual friend's house over a year ago; we didn't know you well before but after a long weekend together enjoying Vickie's Breville coffee machine, we learned quickly what a wonderful woman Vickie was. Someone used the word "sparkling" which fits perfectly to the person I came to know. Vickie will be missed. My prayers are with the families as you all continue through this difficult time. Peace be with you all.

warren and Dale Marshall

May 4, 2015

God's Peace Dr. Jay.
You and your family are in our prayers.

mark smith

March 13, 2015

Jay, I am so sorry about Vickie. I knew she was not doing well because of your absence during the holidays. I saw Drake Thursday and he confirmed my fears. You and your Dad have been caring for my family for 60 years and 4 generations. I have been so lucky to have you my physician and friend. You have been there for us during the worst of times. I feel extra sorrow because Vickie's fight with cancer coincided with mine and now she is in heaven while God has granted me an extension. Please know that my prayers are with you and the kids. I remain not just your patient but your friend. Mark Smith

March 4, 2015

Jay, my heart and prayers are with you and your family. Your family was very blessed to have this beautiful lady. God definitely has another angel at his side right now. God Bless - Paula Foster

Brenda Scott

March 3, 2015

Dr. Crenshaw, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, Vickie. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.

Ronald (Terry) Warren

March 2, 2015

I have so many happy, fun-filled times of growing up and sharing with Vicki at Powell and Bradshaw schools here in Florence. I was so happy to see what a lovely, special and caring lady she became and hence; always was. My prayers are with her Family at this time.

Marie Gwarjanski

March 2, 2015

Dr. Crenshaw, you have been my doctor and friend for over 20 years. I did not know your wife except through you, but I'm sure she was a wonderful person. I am so very sorry for your loss and will keep you and your three children in my prayers.

February 24, 2015

Dr. Jay,

There are never any words adequate to express our heart felt sympathy to all the extended family during this time of the going 'Home' of your beloved wife, and friend, Victoria. But, God - in His Grace & Mercy & with Time does a Mighty Work to help us Maintain, walk on, stay the course, and will even prepare a miraculous recall of precious memories, special occasions, and things that are intended to bring added support and Comfort! God Bless You & The Children during this time ... And, Thank You for being such a wonderful family Physician and friend and have been with us through a lot of difficult occasions...Respectfully yours: Roy Lee & Norma Gable

February 23, 2015

Dr. Jay, Our hearts go out to you and all the extended family, prayers will continue for each family member daily, as you continue Your life's journey! You are a deeply loved, respected, and considered honorably to know You as our family physician through our many years of trials, sickness, and emergencies. . . I cannot possibly understand but just a note of compassion and encouragement:

" Trying to come to terms with the loss of a loved one is surely the most painful of life's experiences. Regardless, what sorrow and heartache you feel God knows and understands our grief, He wants to embrace us with His love and comfort our broken hearts. As we read through these passages - God's hand is stretched out to reassure us as he says; "Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid" John 14:27 - Roy Lee Gable & Norma Gable, Argo, AL

Wendy Florman Dotson

February 20, 2015

The memories of all of you and your family go back so many years. I am so sorry.

Lisa Cantavespre

February 19, 2015

Dr. Crenshaw,
You and your family are in my prayers.
Lisa Cantavespre

Carolyn & Gary Mitchell

February 19, 2015

Dr. Crenshaw I am sorry for the loss of your Wife, Victoria. May God be with you, your Sons, and the Darby family. Bless you all.

February 19, 2015

To the Crenshaw Family: I only met Vickie 3 times and her warm smile and caring spirit is something that I will not forget. My sister spoke of her and your family often and loved each one of you guys. I know Vickie and Mary Mills are rejoicing together in heaven. I pray that God will comfort you and your family during this sad time. God bless you and your children.
Sandy Allen, Damascus, MD

Carol Pate Richter

February 19, 2015

Lulu, Jane & Maudie - my thoughts and prayers for you and your family. With much love - Carol

February 18, 2015

Lulu, Maude and Families, I wish you the love for each other and wonderful memories day to day! God Bless you all and much love,

Beth Wilson Cameron

February 18, 2015

Dr. Crenshaw;
You have been my physician for many years and have cared for my medical needs. My prayer is that our Father in heaven will wrap His loving arms around you and care for your family. May you celebrate your wife's life and the joy she brought to you and the children.
May the presence of Jesus be with you that He may illuminate the dark times with the warmth of HIs love.
May the Lord bless you and your family, may He make His face to shine upon and be gracious unto you, may He grace you with His love.

Your brother in Christ;
Ed Rosser
Pastor
Solid Rock Lutheran Church

February 17, 2015

Lulu and family,
I am thinking of you all. Craig Harris (meat cutter).

February 17, 2015

Jane', so very, very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lisa Graham

Rhoda Jackson

February 16, 2015

Maudie, Roger and all the famly. My sincere sympathy is with you all. May God give you peace and comfort and many good memories.Praying for you all.

February 16, 2015

Maudie-Please accept my sincere sympathy in the loss of your beautiful sister. Know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this rough time and always. Martha Bonds (Red Bay, Alabama)

Trent Boozer

February 16, 2015

Vickie was a true friend and a sweet, wonderful person. She will be missed by so many. May you all feel God's peace at this difficult time.

Deby Wright

February 16, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and in the days to come. God promises us "to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord." Hold on to that promise. I am one of the Wednesday STAIR tutors at IPC. God's blessings on your family.

Pam (Killen) Parker

February 16, 2015

Though it has been such a long time since I saw Vickie last, I will always remember her, her sweetness, and kindness. The world is a lesser place without her in it. My prayers go out for peace for her soul and for her family.

Lisa Darby/Pruett

February 16, 2015

I have so many special memories growing up on the farm and Vickie riding her horses by the house. She would always stop and play with us anytime she would see us outside.Praying for all the family, she was one special lady.

February 16, 2015

Jane, so sorry to hear about your loss. A sister is a special gift. I hope the memories of your years with her remain vivid and bring you much comfort.

James Hampton

February 16, 2015

Mrs. Darby, Jane, Johnny, Roger, Maudie...all. I can not believe this... such a tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family

February 16, 2015

Jane and Johnny, Maudie and Roger....Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sadness.
Ninon and Richard Parker

Beth Norwood-Davis

February 15, 2015

Jane & Johnny...Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you because of your loss. I'm so very sorry!

Lenore Thomas Maglione

February 15, 2015

My prayers are with the Crenshaw and Darby families. Vickie was always a kind, energectic breath of fresh air. Her legacy will live on in the lives of her family and friends.

Kay Vess Coley

February 15, 2015

Jane & Johnny, Sorry to learn of Jane's sister's passing. Seems like she was too young. I hope you have wonderful memories and love of God, family, and friends to comfort you now. I will be praying for you and your family.

Lee Hurley

February 15, 2015

A beautiful person inside and out.

Karen Gruber

February 15, 2015

To all the Darby family, our deepest condolences on your loss of such a sweet, beautiful woman. Much love,
Karen and Marvin Gruber

February 15, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are all of you.
Joe, Tracy, and Jason Champion

Lou Ann Craig

February 15, 2015

Beautiful friend. I will miss her dearly. My sincere condolences.

Ricia Sides

February 14, 2015

She is one of the kindest,beautiful,women i have ever met,i will pray for her and het familly.

Lisa Johnson Bentley

February 14, 2015

Sending love and hugs to the Darbys and Crenshaws. I pray that you find comfort in your wonderful memories of such a wonderful lady.

Dinah Rhodes

February 14, 2015

I can find no words to adequately express my condolences. She was a childhood friend, a beautiful person inside and out. I was certainly blessed to have known her. I have been praying for Vickie, and I will continue to pray for her family. My deepest condolences.

Neilan Tyree

February 14, 2015

Beautiful girl. Lovely woman. Sparkling laugh, always.

The world was better with you in it. And will remain good because we HAD you in it.

You will be missed.

Karen Gough-Goins

February 14, 2015

My Prayers to all of the family. My sister and Kim loved Vicki. She was such a precious sweet friend. Our fondest memories were when she would take alot of Nenon friends waterskiing during rush. She will be missed.

Sue Keeton

February 14, 2015

To all, I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so helpless to express my condolences.

February 14, 2015

She lit up every room and now she is a joyful light in Heaven.
What a gift she is, was and will always be.
Charles and Kelly Bottcher

Janet Clark McCarley

February 14, 2015

As I remember Vicki from high school I recall that she always had a sweet smile on her face and a genuine love for others. I am so sorry for your loss. May God's peace be with each of you during this time!

Janette Beaumont

February 14, 2015

My heart breaks for you all. Praying for your peace and comfort as you know Vickie is in no more pain. So glad we got to share sweet messages a few months ago.

Carol,Bill,Kelley,and MeMe Collier

February 14, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers go with you and your family. May God give each of you peace in the coming days

February 14, 2015

we are so very sorry about Vicki. Our prayers are with each of you.
JoAnn Darby Frazier and Suzy Darby

Webb Wright

February 14, 2015

So sorry about Vickie.She was such a nice lady.My sympathy to all the family.

February 13, 2015

Jay, I am so sorry for your loss. There is no more suffering for your beautiful wife as she had endured so very much. My heart goes out to you and your children. NHL

Barbara Caslin

February 13, 2015

Prayers for Peace and Comfort.

Frankie Blanton

February 13, 2015

Prayers and condolences are with each of you.

Pamela Ahrens

February 13, 2015

Vickie was a beautiful woman inside and out and your children are an excellent example of what Vickie lived and believed! I knew her for more than 40 years and she was the sweetest person I ever met in my life! May God Bless all of you in the Crenshaw and Darby families during this most difficult time.

Renee Graham

February 13, 2015

Praying for that peace that passes all understanding for all who loved her. She was a precious friend to me and countless others.

Donna Lauderdale

February 13, 2015

My prayers are with you

Trent McGuire Bullis

February 13, 2015

Jay, I'm so so sorry for your loss. May you find peace and strength in the days ahead! God bless you and your family.

February 13, 2015

Vickie was one of the most lovely, kind people I have ever known. She will be missed terribly.
Love to you, Jay, and the children,
Brooke and Tom Coleman

J. D.

February 13, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Matt, Julie, Grace, Greta, Matthew Taylor

February 13, 2015

You are all in our thoughts and prayers and have been for awhile. I am so glad that I got to know her. Beautiful person. Peace to you all.

Sherri Amberson Hansen

February 13, 2015

Jay,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of sorrow.
May God bless you and strengthen you!

V.C.

February 13, 2015

May the God of all comfort strengthen the entire family during this time of sorrow. Those who die God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. (Psalms 116:15) My sincerest sympathy.

Shirley and George Elliott

February 13, 2015

What a beautiful person she was - and is - now with Jesus. We are so sorry for your loss and will be praying for all of you.

Susan Layton

February 13, 2015

God greatly comfort your family. Vickie was truly a light in this world. Prayers for you all.

john and jeanne wilbourn

February 13, 2015

So sorry Jay, we will pray for you and your family!

Howard and Lisa Thompson Smith

February 13, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Crenshaw and Darby families. We will all miss Vicky

Lynn McIntosh

February 13, 2015

Praying for you. I loved her so much, what a beautiful, courageous, and loving friend.

Tammie Ownby

February 12, 2015

Vickie was such a sweet person in high school. Always cheerful and nice to everyone. Fond memories of her

Leslie Darden Gosnell

February 12, 2015

My deepest sympathy and love to all of the Crenshaw and Darby families for your loss of your beautiful and vivacious Vickie. She will reside in our hearts forever...

tommy brennan

February 12, 2015

Jay,
my prayers are with you and your family.
i am so sorry for the loss of Vickie and wish all of you strength in this time of need.
most sincerely,
phi alpha
Tommy Brennan

Pat Richeson

February 12, 2015

I'm so sorry for your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you

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