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Dorothy Veness Obituary

Dorothy May Veness Dorothy May Veness died peacefully at home in Danbury, with her son, Ronald at her bedside, Monday, July 21, 2008, after a long illness. Dorothy was born February 23, 1923, a lifelong resident of Danbury. She lived in New Britain for a brief period where she graduated high school. She worked at Barden Corp. inspecting bomb-sights during World War II. She was a member of St. James Episcopal Church. Per her request, Dorothy's remains were donated to UCONN School of Medicine to further their research for Alzheimers and Parkinson. Final resting place will be Brookfield Central Cemetery. There will be no calling hours.

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Published by The News-Times on Jul. 24, 2008.

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Marilyn Posavetz

August 14, 2008

Ken, Pat and family:
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mother. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you peace, love and happy memories of your Mom.
With deepest sympathy, Marilyn

heather veness

August 3, 2008

hey grams... im a lil late in writtin on here because everytime i go to write i get upset... and want to say so many things.. especially about the fact that you were taken from us a couple years back... im just soprry i wasnt able to see you towards the end.. just know that i thought about u every day and wanted so bad to see you... along with every1 else in the family... so i guess with that said.. i love you.. and miss you and now ill try to just remember our good times together... in your own words... its not goodbye... but so long grandma.. i love you

Sharon Johnston

August 3, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Pat Veness

July 30, 2008

HI MA,
We have all missed you very much these past few years. You're finally with family and no one can ever take you away from them now. Give my love to my mom for me. Someday, we'll all be together again Love Patti

freddy veness

July 25, 2008

mom....i can not be here in person to write this memorial so my daughters are doing it for me....i just want you to know that i am sorry i have been away for so long. not a day goes by that i don't think of you. i will always love you. we shall meet again one day...until then...take care of dad and my brothers.....and most of all...yourself ! i love you always...your little blue eyed blonde haired angel....

Lori Veness

July 25, 2008

Gramma, I wish I had the chance to tell you myself, but I'm sure you know, I love you, I miss you. I wish my kids had the chance to get to know you. You are the best gramma in the world. You always took care of your paper doll. The best part of my childhood was going to gramma's house and eating tomato soup when I was sick. You may have been taken from us but we never forgot you. Rest now, you're finally at peace with your husband and sons. My daddy!!! love you gramma, your paper doll forever!!!!

JEANNE M VENESS

July 25, 2008

HELLO GRANDMA YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US ALONG TIME AGO THAT HURT BUT NOW YOU ARE THERE IN THE SKY LOOKING OVER US AND SAYING SMILE AND BE STONG WELL I JUST WANTED TO SAY I LOVE YOU MY KIDS LOVED YOU AND WE WILL MISS YOU BUT NOW YOU ARE SAFE IN GRANDPAS ARMS AND WITH MY DAD AND MY UNCLE GRAM PLEASE TAKE TIME TO ENJOY EVERYTHING YOU ARE SEEING NOW LOTS OF LOVE AND YOU WILL BE MISSES XOXOXOXXO

cassidy veness

July 25, 2008

grandma... i really miss you...i wish i could have seen you before now but i know it wasn't your fault...good luck in heaven...<3

Danny Veness

July 24, 2008

hey grammy!this is your grandson danny there is so much i wish i had a chance to say but none of us were giving a chance for reasons some just dont understand but you wereand still are very much loved> although traggic and unfair the sercumstances couldn't be changed it didnt mean you aren't loved and missed say hi to gramps for me tell my dad i miss him.and you, you will never be forgotten now rest gram you finally have a chance so relax and embrase it enjoy your husband and sons for ever "NOW NOONE CAN KEEP YOU FROM YOUR FAMILY NOW" rip gram i love you gram always your grandson Danny Boy so long for now...

Bridget Veness

July 24, 2008

Grandma Veness you will be missed greatly by very many. you were a great lady to me and i will miss you.i know your in a better place now i wish you peace just know that everyone who knows you will never forget you. you were loved by many including me. i love you RIP

Ken Veness

July 24, 2008

Hi Lady,
I'm writing you this to tell you that I have missed you and so have all of your family. We missed telling you how important you were to us and how much we all love you. I know you felt the same way every time I looked in your face. Now your with my father and brothers. May we all be together again with the warmth and love we all shared once before. I love you Lady. Your son Kenny(the man).

Herby Veness

July 24, 2008

Grandma, what a great grandmother you were and still are. You have been missed for years and will be missed forever. You are at peace now and soon will rest next to grandpa. I love you both and think about you every single day. Your passing is a tremendous loss. You are the family matriarch.

kathy boyle-veness

July 24, 2008

dorothy you are finally at peace and reunited with your beloved husband and your sons herbie and alan. i know you are in a much happier place. now you can look down on your family that you have missed so much for so many years and know they are safe. we all love you very much and you will be missed dearly...rest in peace...love you...xxoo

Jessica

July 24, 2008

I LOVE YOU GRANDMA I ALWAYS HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS!! just know that you are in a better place now. RiP.

jeanne veness

July 24, 2008

grandma you were taking away from us awile ago but you were always in my heart and now you are really gone you will still be in my heart ...i love you and miss you for now and always ...

Jean Veness

July 24, 2008

Mom, you are going to be missed by everyone. We loved you in life and will continue forever. You are truly loved.

deborah ferreira

July 24, 2008

grandma veness,
i love you and will miss you very much.you are in a better place now.rest in peace.

don sturges

July 24, 2008

i'm sorry for your loss God be with the family through this hard time sincerely don sturges and family

felicia veness

July 24, 2008

grandma i love you!!!! im sorry we havent seen each other in a long time and i wish my son christopher had a chance to meet you! i will miss you so0o0 much ......i love you grandma!!!! RIP

Cindy Gutierrez

July 24, 2008

Ronnie and Family:
You have my sincere sympathy on the loss of your dear mother. She was a special lady,she was loved by many,now she is in GOD's loving arms...You are in my prayers.
Cindy

Shirley Ferreira

July 24, 2008

Grandma Veness,
We will miss you very much. Now you are in a better place! We will see you again someday.

We love you!

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