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Arleshia Moore
October 7, 2013
I really miss you guys, not a day goes by i don't think about the good times we had growing up.... ily <3
Asia muldrew
May 16, 2013
Dang man every time I go to revisit this page I cry cause I anit gone see my bestfriend no more me and lil c been bestfriends since the 7th grade until his last school light house I love coming to school just to see him smile in 1st hour n mrs.lee class bestfriend I love you n I miss u soooooooo much n I wish your mother tha best ....
Wanda Cooper-Robinson
April 3, 2013
So sorry for your losses. Keep the faity. God bless.
Marsha Smith
March 30, 2013
Shalonda I am so very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family's strength. Forever trust in the Lord.
JENEEN STUBBLEFIELD
March 30, 2013
Shalonda...may God continue to guide you and your family during this time...I continue to be at a loss for words...but know that you continue to be in my prayers...
Velt c/o '87....
Lewis family
March 27, 2013
The Lewis family send there prayers & condolences to Shalonda and family may God be with u in your time of need
Victoria Charleston
March 27, 2013
Shalonda I bid you Gods Speed while you are going through this journey. Remember to hold to Gods unchanging hand as you will need his Grace and Mercy. Luv u Cuz!!
Patt Briscoe
March 27, 2013
My heart is with you always, may God give you peace! Love You
Joyce Taylor
March 26, 2013
To the family, Shalonda, Debra, and Ms. Jackson, I was truly sorry to hear of your loss. I remember meeting the boys When they were small. They were great kids. Continue to trust in GOD, and he will continue to grant you his grace to bring you through this. I will keep holding you in my prayers. Bless you all.
Robert Carr
March 26, 2013
Our prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time.
March 26, 2013
Families and Friends find peace, knowing that the Angels are with the Boys.
James a.k.a Lump
March 26, 2013
My condolences goes out to ?the whole family. May God bless you all to be strong and think about ?the good times amen.
katrina winborn
March 26, 2013
may prayers go out to you shalonda i know how it feels i too lost my one and only child son the same way stay strong and they will cross your mind and heart often it will hurt for a minute but pray god sheild your heart i pray for you i been knowing you since i was younger i love you girl bless you ms. lady.
Wilma Issarti
March 25, 2013
Shalonda I pray that God will hold you close, dry your tears and mend your heart. Words cannot express what's in my heart for you during this time. Just trust that God's grace and mercy will get you through this. Love you
bev exom
March 25, 2013
peace be with you and your family.
Mother to Mother~
March 25, 2013
May God bless your family during this time of sorrow and may He strengthen you day by day.
jazzmine tyner
March 25, 2013
rip shaq and lil c we miss yall so much
Dawn Evans
March 25, 2013
To Shaq and Charles family,
I pray that you may find peace in the love of God, family and friends.People around the nation are praying for your strength.
Former Gary resident
Patricia Wilson
March 25, 2013
Shalonda and family... U have my deepest sympathies and may God comfort you all
Kisha Kelly Barnes matron @ westside school
March 25, 2013
Prayers go out to u and your family stay strong hold on deeply sadden for u n your young boys r.i.h. Lil C n Shaq god will watch over I all
Ethel Williams-Spears
March 25, 2013
My condolences to the family.
LaChandra Hogan
March 25, 2013
With great sorrow and sympathy.
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Love Cousins Niesy, James O, & Terrance (FL)
Love Auntie Doll, Cousins James Jr, James III, Joshua, & Lexus (IN)
Donna L. Terry Geminus Head Start
March 25, 2013
My prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Gary Citizen
March 25, 2013
My heartfelt prayers to the Mother and family of these two young men. May God's strength and comfort be with you.
Epps Family
March 25, 2013
Dear Shalonda,
Please accept our sincere condolences. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are always here if you should ever need us.
Jennifer Knight
March 25, 2013
Shalonda and Debra and family my condolences go out to you. I pray God gives you comfort and strength in your time of sorrow. Love always Jennifer and Amari
Cheri
March 25, 2013
May the Angels wrap their wings around you & comfort you.
Chelise Jones
March 25, 2013
Ask God to give you strength, understanding and courage to continue on and God will as only He can
Lincoln, Sonja & Robert Watters
March 24, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kenny Johnson Sr
March 24, 2013
Shalonda, My prayers go out to you and your family at this most difficult time.
Kathy Payne-Hanyard
March 24, 2013
To Shonda and family. My heartfelt condolences for your great loss. May God be with you and your family at this very difficult time. Love you.
~drea,deedee,shay
March 24, 2013
May you find strength
In the love of family
And in the warm embrace
Of friends.
~Drea,Dee-Dee,& Shay~
Cathey (Valu Mart)
March 24, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kimberly "coach Kim" Jimerson
March 24, 2013
To the Ham family, u have my prayers. I have been knowing these kids since elementary school. My children has been friends with this famiy since. It hurt to hear of the passing of my lil guys.... my basketball players... God wil hold them and ur family also. May God also bring u comfort in this difficult time. God bless u all.
Ms. Poochie
March 24, 2013
To Shalonda my sister I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. May God be with you.
AJ
March 24, 2013
my prayers and condolences go out to all of you.....Shaq and Lil C will truly b missed and remembered
Jeannie & Family
March 24, 2013
To Shalonda and Family, May "God" keep and bless you please know that my sincere prayers are with you in the loss of your sons, I can't imagine the pain you feel. My heart is heavy. May "God" keep and comfort you in the time of your sorrow, and know that you and the family have been in my prayer's daily. Love You
Odessa Harbin
March 24, 2013
Shalonda I So Sorry to hear about your loss. Words cannot ease the sorrow that is in your heart today, but may you find an inner peace as time goes on its way, and may your cherished memories bring comfort to you, too, and help to make your loved ones seem still very close to you. I'am praying for you and the family. Love you, Aunt Odessa.
March 24, 2013
Im deeply sorry for your loss of two wonderful young men. They are my nephew friends and Im hurting cause he"s hurting . May God give you strenght during this time.
HORACE MATTHEWS
March 24, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Dynisha Johnson
March 24, 2013
Mrs.Shalonda I'm So Sorry For Your Lost & Boy How I Use To Love Your Sons These Were The Coolest Kids Ever Going To Middle & High School Wid Them Was So Amazing My Family Been Knowing Your Family Since You All Was Kids You Were Good Friends With My Auntie Sherrie You Was There For Us When My Grandmother & Auntie Sherrie Passed So Imma Be There For You Stay Strong I Know Its Hard But They Wouldn't Want You Upset. Love You Keep Your Head Up.
DONNA WATSON
March 24, 2013
Shalonda, "Prayers Going Up & Out For You & Your Family. Love Ya! The Hicks Family
Lafaye Exom
March 24, 2013
Sorry for your loss....your family is in our prayers.....
SANDRONA UPSHAW
March 24, 2013
TO SHALONDA YOU RAISED TWO HANDSOME AND RESPECTFUL YOUNG MEN WHOM I REALLY LOVED AS MY OWN. THEY WERE ONCE ORIOLES ON THE FIELDS THEY ARE NOW ANGELS IN THE HEAVENS . GONNA MISS THESE GUYS SHAQ AND LIL C. LOVE YOU ALL SAN, KT, KEELON MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU
Mariyah Ajahnae Dymine
March 24, 2013
You both will be truly missed .Forever in our hearts and memories.We're going to miss the times we all had together.Your family are in our prayers.Love yall.
chelsey taylor
March 24, 2013
R.I.H. (REST IN HEAVEN) to my two cousins & to Shalonda & the rest of my family you are all in my prayers but just know that they are always looking down on you keeping their protection around you. Louise Harrison&Family
March 23, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
March 23, 2013
To the Ham and Wood families, may the peace of GOD prevail in your hearts now and forevermore! I will pray for you always! God Bless!
Bonitha Harris
March 23, 2013
Sending my condolences to Shalonda and family you all are in my prayers.
AARON WASHINGTON
March 23, 2013
MAY THE LORD GRANT YOU THE COMFORT THAT ONLY HIS PRESENCE CAN BRING A THIS HOUR..
LaShirl Posey
March 23, 2013
To the family May God Keep You In His Grace. Much Love To You All.
Posey and Comers
Cassandra Brown
March 23, 2013
To the Ham Family:
I truly understand everything you may be feeling right now over the loss of your sons...for I, too, have lost one. Though I never had the opportunity to meet these fine young men, I am convinced that they dwell in heavenly peace. I pray for strength for your family at this most devestating time.
Cassandra Brown
Rosa Jackson Jr. Church Choir
Trinity Missionary Baptist Church
Cheryl Lear
March 23, 2013
Mom
Sorry for the loss of your sons, I to lost 2 sons. Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal.
Willie b. green
March 23, 2013
our hearts are heavy and our lives will be sad,we will miss you.God's garden must be beautiful for he always picks the best. .
Brandi Thomas
March 23, 2013
Rest In Paradise Lil C &' Shaq We Are Going To Miss You Guys!!! Not Only Were You Close Friends, You Were Like Family. We Love You.

SHAVA TAYLOR
March 23, 2013
TO THE FAMILY MY PRAYER ARE WITH YOU ALL I LOVE YOU ALL KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND LOVE SHAVA AND JEKHARI TAYLOR
APRIL SMITH
March 23, 2013
TO SHALONDA AND FAMILY
I CAN'T IMAGINE THE PAIN YOU'RE GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW BUT MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY MAY GOD COMFORT YOU AND HEAL YOUR HEARTS I PRAY THAT YOU FIND PEACE IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW AND MAY GOD CONTINUE TO SHINE HIS LIGHT ON YOU GOD BLESS YOU. LOVE ALWAYS.
Betty Hiemstra
March 23, 2013
My condolences on the untimely death of your sons. May they rest in peace.
March 23, 2013
Our deepest sympathy. Sorry for your loss. God is near to those that are broken at heart and those crushed in spirit he saves. God will sustain you and help you to endure.
WARREENA SUGGS
March 23, 2013
THEY WILL TRUELY BE MISS R.I.H. TO YOUNG SOLDIERS!!!
nakia (keke) gates
March 23, 2013
Im sorry for the loss of your boys, may god bless you and your family, keep your faith and know that you are in my prayers.(keke),kevin gates lil sister)
Jeanette Tate
March 23, 2013
To the family of Lil C and Shaq, May God bless each and everyone of you. May God give you all comfort and peace at this time and always!!
March 23, 2013
YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS.
WARREENA SUGGS
March 23, 2013
REST IN HEAVEN, YOUNG SOLDIERS U WILL BE TRUELY MISS!!!!
Sue
March 23, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Although I do not know you or your sons, my heart aches for you. May God keep you in His loving arms.
March 23, 2013
R.I.P. young men your soul is at peace now and my condolences to your mom,dad,family and friends may GOD continue to bless you and keep you wrapped in his arms.Angie and family
Rosalind Boyd-Bundy
March 23, 2013
May your heart not be troubled but have peace knowing that God will carry you through.Shalonda keep trusting in him.I'm praying for you. Much love
Kandi Clay
March 23, 2013
Condolences and Prayers to the family!!
Erin Dupree
March 23, 2013
To the family of Shaq and Lil C... To god be with you. I will continue to pray for you..I was Lil C friend. God will bless him and believe me he will bless you also.
raychelle johnson
March 23, 2013
I miss yall so much my prayers goes out ta da family
TaVanna Fryar
March 23, 2013
This candle will always shine for you guyz with our deepest sympathy from. Spooky and Mz.Tea
Linda Williams-Strong
March 23, 2013
To the Family: Thoughts & Prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please accept my sincere condolences.
TaVanna Fryar
March 23, 2013
I am sending u my deepest sympathy and my condolences my prayers are with u and yo family love.Spooky and Mz.Tea
March 23, 2013
Shalonda, all I can see is those two little boys in the back seat of the car on our way to church (New Faith). I am so sorry for your loss but always remember that God Cares For You!!!! Martha Lawson-Mack
JOSEPH jojett WHITE JR.
March 23, 2013
iam so sorry for your loss,may GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS U AND YOUR FAMILY. I DO UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN, BUT GOD WILL SEE U THREW,STAY PRAYED UP SHALONDA& DEB. LOVE U FAMILY
March 23, 2013
To The Ham & Wood Family my prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of grief!!! May GOD Bless And Keep You All In This Time Of Sorrow.......Erica Banks Nwokedi. Indianapolis IN

Annette & Darrell Beaty
March 23, 2013
To The Ham Family
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time.
Brenda Washington-Berry
March 23, 2013
My condolences to u and ur family!!!!
Emma & Shanetta
March 23, 2013
Our hearts are saddened by the loss of your sons. Although it is impossible to see beyond your pain, look back to good memories to comfort and help you today. May you heart and soul find peace and happiness. May always God be with you and your family.
Theresa Mallett
March 23, 2013
My prayers go out to you and your family. Didnt know these two young men (Gods children) but I feel your pain. Ilost a child in the streets and by the grace of God I can finally speak about it. Remember the good times and your heart will heal. God Bless..
Mary Brown
March 23, 2013
To: Ms. Shalonda Ham May Our God Comfort You in this time of sorrow. I knew your children when they were small and they were some respectful young men. With God all things are possible. I am praying for your entire family. I know that your children are In Heaven rejoicing with the angels. God Bless.
Earnest Tyler
March 23, 2013
May "GOD" comfort your family during this time, my love and prayers are with you all.
Vickie Williams-Edmond & Family
March 23, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Doreen Wright and Family
March 23, 2013
To The Family: Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all. May God bless you and provide this family with strength and peace. You have my deepest sympathy sincerely.
Lanita Tidwell
March 23, 2013
May God bless, carry, strengthen and comfort this family!!
Carnecia Whiteside
March 23, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time. May the Lord comfort your hearts.
Carnecia and Val Jean
Vanessa Harris
March 23, 2013
May God bless and keep you in these trying times.Weeping may endure for a day but joy cometh in the morning.Be strong.
country
March 23, 2013
It was a bless to meet two very loving soul R.I.H
Minister Martha Adams
March 23, 2013
To The Families: Earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal. May you find comfort in knowing that Jesus is with us always.
March 23, 2013
TO THE FAMILY OF SHAQWONE & CHARLES, YOU HAVE MY SINCERE SYMPATHY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR SONS. THEY ARE NOW WITH GOD WHO WILL LOVE THE ALWAYS.
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