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Erica
January 31, 2022
Oh! Correction, I saw Brian's name and family name on the plaque at the Sacramento Zoo Carousel ride! :) Thank you
Erica
January 30, 2022
I saw his name on the plaque at William Jessup University I believe it was. Thank you for carrying on his legacy through giving to higher education
Geraldine & Franciis Bueb
October 18, 2008
To my dear friend, Charlie. Our hearts goes out to you and your family. I feel blessed to have met Brian many years ago. I always remember looking forward to shopping at Raley's on San Juan, because Brian was there with his beautiful smile and upbeat personality. I know he will be greatly missed by family and many friends. Love,
Pamela Campoy
October 14, 2008
Dearest Joyce.....it's been so many long years since I've seen you or spoken with you....but my memories of Brian are strong and loving.....Moss just sent me notice of Brian's passing and I feel such sadness to know that Brian's life was cut so short...... I can only imagine the pain and loss you feel..... please know that I send my very strongest loving and healing thoughts your way.
Tom Nielsen
October 13, 2008
Charlie, Joyce & Stephen - On the transition of your son from this life, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Janelle Seinkner
October 11, 2008
I almost couldn't believe the news about Brian. I know it has been a long time since I've seen him but I have such good memories of him. I can not imagine losing a son or a brother so my heart and prayers go out to your family. Take care.
Dotti Raley
October 1, 2008
Dear Joyce, Steve, and Family.
I knew Brian only a short time, but learned to like him very much. You will remember, one night, at your house, the music was on and I got Brian to dance with me. We were rocking and rolling all over the floor and just had a great time. Brian was a handsome, thoughtful and just a very all-around nice person.
I know everyone who knew Brian will miss him very much. I know I will.
With Love and Sympathy to everyone.
Dotti Raley
Janell
September 30, 2008
Dear Joyce Steve and Charles,
I'm sorry to hear about Brian The news is Very upsetting I thought about him lots I wish you all the best of luck. I know you did all you could for him. You guys were the best.
Always
Ginny Anderson
September 24, 2008
Dear Joyce and Steve,
We are so sad about your loss of Brian. He put up such a valiant fight to overcome his medical problems that plagued him for so long. You are both to be commended for always being there for him. We're sure your love, help, support and devotion brought him much joy and comfort, and really did change his life. Our thoughts are with you. Love, Jon and Ginny
Bill Jenkins
September 24, 2008
Charlie . . . It's been a lot of years, and I never knew your son. But regardless of the years and miles, please know my thoughts are with you and your family. In time, spendid memories will dull the sting of your son's passing . . . thank God for memories. Your Phi Tau Brother, Bill Jenkins, Beta Tau '57.
Joyce Sutton
September 24, 2008
Charlie, Gail and family, I still remember cycling with Brain one day in Amador county and enjoying our conversation. May it help you to know that I will often think of you, not only at this time but in the days that follow too. God Bless you. Joyce Sutton
julie patterson
September 23, 2008
Dear Joyce and Charlie,
A friend in Sacramento sent me the sad notice of Brian's death. It breaks my heart to think about what you are going through. Brian was to me the most beautiful baby; his face a smiling collection of perfectly rounded features and bright expressions. As I look at the face in the picture in The Bee, I can still see the little boy. It is obvious from the entries I have read in this guestbook, that Brian and his family are very dearly loved. Please count me among those who remember Brian with love. Bless you.
Kathy Chilimidos
September 23, 2008
To the Cassani Family - I am so sorry to hear that Brian passed away. He and I were friends many many years ago as teenagers. We had such fun together, sliding down the park hills on ice blocks, going to the lake, just have a good time. This may be silly, but still to this day, everytime I see a huge, Viking style refrigerator in a home, I am remembered of the 1st time I saw one in Brian's parents' home some - twenty-something years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michael ward
September 22, 2008
Steve and Joyse and family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Janice and Mike Ward
Tamsen Huver
September 22, 2008
Dear Joyce and family,
I am truly shocked by the news I received today and so saddened for you and the family. I have such fun and funny memories of our antics as children. I think some of my earliest memories include Brian. The memory of Brian's brilliant smile and great laugh is something I will carry always in my thoughts. Greg and I send our prayers to you and the whole family. With deep sadness, Tamsen and Greg Huver
Daniel Minaesian
September 22, 2008
The picture of Brian that the family provided is perfect. It is a snap shot of his soul. If you didn't know Brian, just look at his smile. That smile will tell you all you need to know. His heart was bigger then he was. I am proud to be his brother-in-law.
AllenJantz Raley'sPharmacy
September 21, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Gregory Demetreon
September 21, 2008
I am sorry to hear about Brian. I am the eldest son of Susan Morgan and I remember playing with Brian when we first moved to Sacramento. My prayers go out to the family and all that new him.
Matt Hashimoto
September 20, 2008
Dear Joyce,
I met Brian and yourself at Raleys 420 where both of us worked. We used to hang out together playing pool, going to various car shows, and working out. We kind of lost touch after he left the big R. I remember one of his biggest passions was cars. He loved that BMW 2002 and that Cutless he spent so much $ on. Beautiful car. You could see his eyes light up when he talked about it. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Don Button
September 20, 2008
Cassani Family-
Brian was a student in a several of my Graphic Communication classes at Sacramento City College. He was always a great addition to the class, bringing energy, passion and creativity. I know that other instructors also enjoyed having him in their classes as well. We are very sorry for your loss. Peace.
David Santin
September 20, 2008
My sincerest sympathy, especially to Joyce, Anna and Catherine.
Brian was my best friend for many years and I had often hoped of contacting Brian and growing that friendship again. Thank you Brian for how very greatly you helped me spiritually in many ways and for all the years I was able to remain sober by the grace of God but also with the help of your unconditional love and friendship to me. I love you Brian. Rest in peace with God my friend.
Royce Tuter
September 20, 2008
Dear Charles and Joyce,
It is with great sadness that I read of Brian's passing. It seems like only yesterday that you purchased our house on Bannister Rd. We hope it was a happy home for you and the family.
My former wife, Wilma (Rice) who lives in Lake Tahoe called and wanted you to know for sure, that she sends her condolences for your loss. Both of us are very sad at this news. None of us expect to outlive our children but those who do, we pray that God will comfort all of you during this most difficult time.
Stacy and Ray Anderson
September 20, 2008
Dear Cassani Family,
We met Brian while working with him at Raley's back in 1995. He was a very kind hearted man, and we will keep him in our thoughts. We send our prayers to your family. ~
Rafe Simpson III
September 20, 2008
I met the Cassani family many years past. I remember Brian as a baby boy and how his parents loved their children. Brian resembles his parents so much and his picture immediately took my attention.
I saw all of them often, those years ago. Brian’s, is a loving family and blessed to have one another for 41 years. We extend our heartfelt sympathy and prayers to Brian’s parents and family during this difficult time.
Maureen and Rafe L. Simpson III
Steve Sprague
September 19, 2008
Charles and Joyce,
I'm very sorry to hear of Brian's passing. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
I met Brian when he was working in the College Greens Raley's over ten years ago. I brought my mother to the store on a weekly basis. We struck up a friendship and did a few mountain bike rides. We had the same admiration for biking. Taking care of my mother took more of my time (untill her passing) and Brian wasn't at the store as often. I never knew of what health issues affected him as he kept that private and I respected the decision. He was witty, fun to talk to and a very good, fast mountain biker.
He will be missed.
Paul Iribarne
September 19, 2008
I am deeply saddened to hear about Brian. My thoughts are with you.
Ruth & Lloyd Messersmith
September 19, 2008
Nothing prepares us for the departure of a loved one. But, while words cannot still the sadness nor ease the pain, nothing can take from you the wealth of wonderful memories, nor the happy moments you and your son Brian and your family shared together.
May those special memories comfort you, and bring each of you peace.
Sincerely Yours,
Yolanda Chavez
September 19, 2008
Charly,
Deseamos que los momentos felices que tuviste con Brian puedan ayudar a que el dolor que sufres hoy por su pérdida sea menor, nuestros corazones están contigo y tú familia, hoy y siempre.
Yolanda y Fernando, La Paz, BCS Mexico
Steve Brothers
September 19, 2008
Charlie:
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Parents are not intended to out live their young. You and your family are in our prayers.
Yours in Phi:
Gordon Rogers
September 19, 2008
Joyce and Charlie, I'd like to express my sincere condolences on the recent passing of your son and my nephew Brian. He'll be missed by all his family. Penny, Kristi and I send our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace Brian.
Rick Keltner
September 19, 2008
Dear Charlie,
Wally has just informed me of Brian’s passing. . .
I feel how feeble and futile must be any words of mine that would attempt to beguile you from your grief at this time. Surely the world is a lesser place without Brian. . . I know that you are certain of this, and yet even this knowledge cannot diminish your grief at his loss.
I pray that the passage of time may assuage the anguish of your bereavement and leave you only the cherished memory of the happy times you shared together.
Cindy and I will hold you and your family in our prayers.
Yours very sincerely and respectfully,
Dale Hilliard
September 18, 2008
Brian, you were a good friend through the years and I'll miss our conversations. Take your place.
Jodi Ashworth
September 18, 2008
Dear Joyce & family,
I was so sad to read about Brian's passing. We hadn't seen each other for several years, since he left Raley's 417, but I thought of him and always wished the best for him. We had many good times at work and I admired him so much for the way he maintained his composure during his struggle. He even joked about his "tattoos"(for the radiation). What a brave kid he was, and it sounds like he grew up into a fine man. I'm proud to have known him and I am so very sorry for your loss.
Jodi Ashworth
THANK YOU BRIAN
norman nelson
September 18, 2008
Brian you will be missed.your family
is in my prayers.Thank you so much for being a friend.God is with you
now.See you soon.
Cathy demetreon-mazo
September 18, 2008
My cousin, Joyce
You know that I know what you are going through. You are starting the journey I started 10 years ago when my son, Demetri, died. Remember, we spoke at that time. My heart hurts with your heart. There are no words. I wish you peace. With all my love and caring, Cathy, your cousin.
Jim and Linda Parker
September 18, 2008
Charlie:
Please accept our condolences for the loss of your son, Brian. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers and we hope that all of the good memories will sustain you during this time.
Michael Rogers
September 18, 2008
Joyce and family,
I haven't seen Brian in over 20 years but your loss is very painful to us. Brian was the first grandchild to mom and dad and the first nephew for me, Gordon and George. We adored him. Thank you Steve for all you've done. God bless.
Mike and Janet Rogers
The Abouzeide Family
September 18, 2008
To the Cassani Family -
We are deeply sadened to learn about your loss and want you to know that you're in our thoughts and prayers. Peace be with Brian & the Cassani family.
Steve & Joyce Cassani
September 18, 2008
Our regards to Joyce & Steve and Charles & Gail. The loss of a child is not an easy thing to deal with. As Brian's uncle I am having a hard time thinking that I can not see or talk to him again. The reality of it all is still working on me. Our thoughts and prays are with all the family members.
Suzann Koogle
September 18, 2008
Dear Joyce and Family,
Brian was a dear high school friend of our daughters, Jill and Jennifer.
As time went on he became our favorite bag boy at Raley's and then our favorite checker. I must say he was one of the most respectful young men we have ever known. He always had a smile, even during his most diffiult times of healing and recovery.
Joyce, he spoke often of how you cared for him, providing the best nutritional information but mostly your unconditional love for him.
Our hearts go out to you and your family at this sad time.
Suzann and John Koogle
Shelley Freese
September 18, 2008
Dear Charlie, My parents told me about your son. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Colin McGreal
September 18, 2008
What a shock for me. It seems like yesterday that Brian would be working on his car next door. My sympathies to all who touched and were touched by Brian.
Michelle Rogers
September 18, 2008
I am sorry to hear that Brian passed and I know there is nothing to say to make this time any better. You all are in my thoughts.
Mark Hyjek
September 18, 2008
Joyce and Stephen - Bonnie and I are both deeply saddened to learn of your loss. We still feel a relationship to your family, as we continue to live in and enjoy the house in Fair Oaks which was your former home. We know this was meant to be our home. Please accept our sympathies and know that Brian is now at greater peace.
Jennifer Curtsinger (Koogle)
September 18, 2008
Brian was a childhood friend of mine and I will always have fond memories of him as a fun loving, outgoing teen who lived life to the fullest. I will never forget when his band played at one of my teenage birthdays! My deepest sympathies go out to the family during this difficult time.
Dan and Sarita Turner
September 17, 2008
Dear Charlie,
We extend our sincere condolences to you and all your family on the loss of your dear son, Brian. You will be in our thoughts and we pray that your good memories of Brian will help sustain you during this difficult time. God bless you all.
Valerie Rogers
September 17, 2008
Grandma Valerie remembers taking Brian for his first haircut and how he climbed right up into the chair. Grandma later took him on board Grandpa Roger's ship. However, Grandpa surely would't let Brian go aboard until said haircut was made. He was only 3 or 4 years old, and is remembered to always be sweet.
Grandma Valerie thinks of him often, loved him and treasures the time she had with him. Her memories of her grandson are filled with happy thoughts.
Kristi Carichoff (Rogers)
September 17, 2008
I am terribly sorry to hear about Brian's passing but know that he is finally at peace. My thoughts are with you all.
Heather Atherton
September 17, 2008
Dear Charles - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 17, 2008
joyce and charlie, our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you both ; may you find peace and healing in all the memories you will keep in your hearts.
nancy emerson and allan davis
Virginia Rich
September 17, 2008
While I never had the pleasure of knowing Brian, his lovely sisters were in radio with me over the years so I immediately recognized your family name. In reading his story it is clear that Brian was blessed to have such a loving family and to touch many lives with grace. Sending sincere condolences on your loss.
Susan Morgan
September 17, 2008
During tough times as a single parent in 1978, Bryan was a friend to my sons, his cousins, whom he had never met up to that time. He shared his toys, his room, and his family. You are forever in our hearts and memories as is all our family. Love, Aunt Susan (one of your many Aunts)
Jennifer Glitzner & Roger Kolb
September 17, 2008
Charlie, we are all so sad to hear the news about your son. You are in our thoughts.
Easan Katir
September 17, 2008
Dear Charles,
Please accept my deep condolences for your family's loss. Whatever one believes about the soul's eternal journey, still such parting is sorrowful. May your son rest in peace and light.
Shannon Hawthorne
September 17, 2008
Charles, Joyce, Anna & Catherine,
Our heart felt condolences on the passing of your son/brother. Know that our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Deirdre (Mullins) French
September 17, 2008
Brian was a classmate of mine at Sacred Heart School. I never knew him after Sacred Heart, but it seems like he was loved. I am sorry for your loss.
Tom and Carolyn (Cassani) Ring
September 17, 2008
Charles, Joyce, Anna and Catherine, we were deeply saddened to learn of the loss of your son/brother. While we may not have known Brian, the Cassani ties are there, which you can see in his handsome face. We were fortunate to have been kept up-to-date in one way or another on our cousins and extended family members either from Charles or Barb and Betty. We will keep Brian and all the family in our thoughts and prayers.
Kaci & Jodi Ashworth
September 17, 2008
To Brian's family,
I met Brian when I was younger, he worked with my mom at Raley's. I remember him fondly. Both my mom(Jodi) and I are saddened by the news of his passing, but relieved that he's cancer free and in heaven.
Your family is in our prayers...
Christine Rodvold
September 17, 2008
Charles and family,
We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Brian. Our sympathy, prayers, and thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Chris and Roger Rodvold
Jim Aubrey
September 17, 2008
Joyce,
My heart is heavy for your extreme loss. Brian was such a character. He provided a unique sense of entertainment the scattered times over his life when we engaged for dental advice. We will miss him.
You should be proud of the supremely unselfish way that you chose to take on the responsibilities as Brian's mother. I don't know many examples of a mother stepping up to the plate for so long with so much support for a child in need. You should be admired.
Brian will be missed.
Jim Aubrey
Bob Richardson
September 17, 2008
Our sincerest condolences go out to all of your family. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Richardson Family
Bill & Barb Sabatino
September 17, 2008
Charlie, Joyce, Anna and Catherine, though your hearts are aching and you miss Brian terribly, your memories of his big smile and daredevil ways will always be there to comfort you. You can take solace in the fact that you all did your best to make his life comfortable and meaningful. Especially you, Joyce. You did everything a mother could possibly do for Brian in his times of need. We know he loved all of you and appreciated your efforts.
Sadly, we were not able to spend much time with Brian due to the miles that separated us but we will remember fondly the times we did share as a family. It was wonderful that we were able to spend time with him last year and thanks to Gail, we now have great pictures from our last visit.
Family, our hearts ache with you and we send our love and prayers to help you through this sad time. Dearest Brian, we are sad that you are no longer with us. Our prayer is that you rest peacefully, and can now enjoy the good life!
Love,
Uncle Bill and Aunt Barb
Matt I.
September 16, 2008
My dad told me the news, really sorry to hear. Brian was a fun kid is how I remember him, smart and kind and please know your family is in my thoughts, sending these condolences. Matt (Taylor Way childhood friend).
Cherie Claypool
September 16, 2008
Mrs. Cassani, her husband, & Anna, so sorry to hear of Brian's passing, our mother passed in 97 due to cancer(15+yrs 3 different types) Though at times the sadness seems to overpower you, find the strength to endure, and remember the good times and be thankful for all that you got to share with Brian. Take Care, Jack, Michael, and Cherie Claypool
cheryl monroe
September 16, 2008
Charles and family;I am so sorry to read about brian in the paper today. I have not seen brian since we worked at steamatic.I didn't know about the cancer earlier in life.My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I will always remember him wanting to stop for a fast food hamburger because he didnt get that at home. He was always fun on the job. Cheryl Monroe
Margie Santos
September 16, 2008
Joyce & Family: My deepest sympathy is with you at this very sad time. You were a very loving and supportive family to Brian and I know he loved you with all his heart. Joyce you were the best Mom any Mom could be. I know the days are very sad for you but Brian will no longer suffer. He is now watching over all of us.
Don and Randi Huson
September 16, 2008
We knew Brian for a long time. He will be missed. Our hearts are with his family.
Rebecca Green
September 16, 2008
Joyce and Steve- Just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts.
Former neighbor,
Rebecca Green
Jennifer Marshall-Stephens
September 16, 2008
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy and heartfelt sorrow goes out to Brian's family during this difficult time.
Wishing you peace and healing.
~Jennifer Marshall (Highschool classmate of Catherine)
Robin Larson and family
September 16, 2008
Dear family,
We are so glad that we had the chance to visit with and get to know Brian last March. We really enjoyed talking with him and learning about his life and interests. Your lives will now be different because Brian is physically gone from you. But, there was always a difference in your lives because of Brian. Enjoy the memories and celebrate his life.
1983, Brain getting in some water skiing
September 16, 2008
1972, Brian on trainer bike by my Z/28
September 16, 2008
Nikki Chapman
September 16, 2008
You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time. I know Brian is watching down on you all thinking about how lucky he was to be a part of your amazing family and lookng forward to the days he'll see you again in a much better place.
Jack Nissen
September 16, 2008
Charlie,
I am so terribly sorry to learn of your son passing on. We had lunch once at your favorite Chinese place in South Sacramento. I liked him very much. (I did not know, (and couldn't tell) that he had had a bout with cancer.) I hope most of his twenty plus years from diagnosis had him living as when we had lunch.
He and you and his family were lucky to have had the time with him that you did, and especially all of the years that he survived that horrible disease.
I do not know Joyce, and Stephen only very casually from a professional phone call or two. Could you please pass on my sympathies to them.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jack
jonathon Hood
September 16, 2008
we send our condolences to brian's family at their time of sorrow, even though he was only in our lives for a short time they were good times. we will miss you friend sincerly, jon hood,kim kraemer,jessica laughtin,clayton carson 9/16/08
Catherine Garcia
September 16, 2008
Brother, every time I see a super charged muscle car, a science fiction movie, or the newest hottest electronic gadget, I will think of you. Missy the kitty cat is coming home to NC and I promise to take care of her as you would have liked. Thank you for being my big brother. I love you very much, and although you may not be here physically, you will always be alive within my heart.
lindsay jaramillo
September 16, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
1971, Brian next to the 61.
George Rogers
September 16, 2008
I'm proud to say Brian was my nephew. He was a little tiger as a youngster. He was always interested in my hot rods even at 4-5 years old which I raced on the street for $$ and at Sacto. Raceway. That's where Brian got the car bug, as early as the 1970's I have pictures of him from 1971 next to my 61 corvette flipping me the PEACE sign with his cowboy belt cinched up ever so tight and that big grin. Then again next my 69 Z/28 Camaro in 1972 on his first bike with trainer wheels and sitting in the front yard with Anna. Brian seemed to always have a smile on his face and a fun kid to be around. As we got older we'd spend many days water skiing or camping. I'll always remember the first time I saw Brian in a crib. I'd just gotten back from Viet Nam and was home for while and saw this ball of energy named Brain Cassani standing up in the crib in that apt. off San Juan. Seems like yesterday. RIP Brian, you will forever be remembered by your Uncle Manny for the good times and memories.
jill Forste
September 16, 2008
Brian was my Junior Prom date and a good friend in high school. My sister, parents and I remember him as a really sweet and fun loving guy. We are all so sorry for your loss.
Jill Forste(Koogle)
Fernando Garcia
September 16, 2008
Brian will always be my auto parts Buddy. I will miss you Brother. You may be gone..but NEVER Forgotten.
September 16, 2008
Charles, we are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts are heavy for you and Brian's extended family. He is now at peace and will be remembered as the joyous young man shown in this photo. Thank you for sharing this photo with all of us. Our deepest sympathy. Bruce & Perley
Nancy Flores
September 16, 2008
I remember Brian as a sweet and kind boy. I have special memories of him from days at Sacred Heart School. I am so sorry for your loss.
Claudia
September 16, 2008
I knew Brian from the dental ofc and was always happy to see him. So sorry for your loss, he was a wonderful man.
Jim Glickman
September 16, 2008
So sorry to hear of your loss. I remember how thrilled Brain was with his BMW years ago. He and you are an inspiration to us all. All my best, your former neighbor - Jim
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