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Thomas J. Bilbo Jr.

1958 - 2016

BORN

1958

DIED

2016

Thomas Bilbo Obituary

Thomas Joel Bilbo, Jr., 58, of Eastham, died at home March 6, surrounded by his family after a courageous battle with leukemia. Born in Brookline, in 1958, he was the second son of Thomas J. Bilbo, Sr. and Joanne (Domigan) Bilbo. He graduated from Scituate High School in 1976 and joined the U.S. Marine Corps. He worked for American Cable Systems and for a family construction business. He loved spending time outdoors whether in a boat on the bay or camping in the woods. He had a lifelong passion for photography, and more recently, flying his drones. He will forever be remembered for his zest for life, spontaneity, and his legendary campfires. He was the former husband of Sallie Kane and loving brother of Karen Baker, Brian Bilbo, Albert Bilbo, Edward Bilbo, Michele Flavia, and Eileen Chiasson. He leaves behind three beloved children: Thomas J. Bilbo III, Savannah Bilbo, and Emmett Bilbo and one granddaughter, Ava Bilbo. He leaves to mourn countless relatives and friends. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Joan of Arc in Orleans, Mass. at 10 a.m. March 15, followed by interment at Orleans Cemetery. A reception will follow at Sandpipers Sports Pub in Eastham, Mass. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that donations be made, in his memory, to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston, Mass.

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Published by The Patriot Ledger on Mar. 11, 2016.

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Ava

September 22, 2020

I’m his grand daughter Ava Bilbo I’m now 11...I miss you grampy❤

April 25, 2016

RIP Scituate High Classmate

March 27, 2016

Condolences to the family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you, it is never easy to lose a loved one who is so dear to your heart, May you draw comfort from God, who will sustain you and give you peace. 2 Corn 1: 3, 4.

March 24, 2016

May the God of comfort bring the family peace in time of grief.

Gretchen Panet-Raymond

March 15, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with the Bilbo and extended families. I will always remember Tommy and his family I new with great fondness. May you be soring high and in eternal peace.

Jenny Sprague

March 15, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of your brother, father and friend. May your memories console you and give you peace.
Jenny Sprague

Mary Papadopolous

March 14, 2016

my deepest sympathies for the family and friends of Tom Bilbo, may he live in forever peace.

Dolly Mullaney

March 14, 2016

May you Rest In Peace Tommy! My sincere condolences to all the family!

March 13, 2016

To the entire Bilbo Family

Our hearts are filled with sadness! Tommy was an amazing man. He always had a beautiful smile on his face and a camera close by.
We were lucky to have had him as are friend .You will be missed !

with love and sympathy

Phil and Paula Lynch

March 12, 2016

Rest in peace Tommy

McGinnity

March 12, 2016

Tommy and the entire Bilbo Family, Our deepest & heartfelt prayers are with All of you during this very sad, solemn & delicate time. Hold those precious memories of your Tommy ever so close, these will help you all heal.
Very Fondly ~ The McGinnity Family from the Scituate Neighborhood ...

jamie young

March 12, 2016

I was very sad to read on facebook about your passing! I'm thankful for all the found memories I've got from high school then when we used to hang out! Jesus take care of him, he lead a good life!

Jaime Oliver

March 12, 2016

My deepest sympathy to the entire Bilbo family and Tommy's many friends. I will never forget all the good memories hanging out with Tommy, Alby, Edd , Brian and Ellien.

Kim Morgan

March 11, 2016

Tommy, you will be forever remembered and missed. Prayers to all who suffer the loss of this amazing and courageous man.

Laura Raftery

March 11, 2016

Tom, Savannah and Emmett,
Please take comfort in all the beautiful memories, it takes time.

Love,

Laura and Kevin

Jeanne

March 11, 2016

Rest in Peace

March 11, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of spending time with Tommy at our family reunion he was more than gracious and kind to my family and I. Tommy you will be missed so very much!You were liking meeting my brother I never had! Love you and rest in peace cuz!!

Rick Gaudreau

March 11, 2016

Tommy always had that mischievous and contagious smile on his face, and a good heart growing up. May God bless and my sincere condolences to his entire family. Proud to call him my friend.

Savannah Bilbo

March 11, 2016

Rest peacefully, Dad. You will be forever loved and deeply missed.

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