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shirlee bergman
August 24, 2007
Ralph Waldo Emerson said it best, "To laugh often and love much, to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children; to earn the approbation of honest citizens and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others, to give of oneself, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation; to know even one life has breahed easier because you have lived -- this is to have succeeded."
That was Andrew. 
Love, Mom and Dad
Melanie Harrow
August 23, 2007
Martha: I am saddened to hear about Andrew's death. His "fight" was valiant, done with dignity and courage. He was a lovely, gentle man; it was an honor to know him. He was very lucky to have you in his life. He will be missed.
Rita Buckley
August 22, 2007
I have thoughts of Andrew as a young man in East Aurora. I met Andy at a gathering for Transcendental Meditation. He was a young man trying to make this world a better place.
	He was looking for a wife, not a temporary relationship. He made that clear. He had specific criteria that reflected his values. He wanted someone that would love him, all of him, imperfections and all. He wanted someone that shared his values of loyalty, dignity and honesty. Then he found Martha. He said he had found a treasure, a gem. She happened to be the best treasure of his life, a life that has found many the treasure. 
	I am today feeling for the loves he left behind: Martha, Juliana and Caleb. I know there is a huge hole in your heart and that the pain will feel unbearable at times. I want you to know how sorry I am that Andy left us so early. He fought very hard to stay here with you. Most would not have had the strength and passed early on in this illness. Please remember your friends and family in those profoundly sad times to come and let us soothe you. 
	I see Andrew, his playful self, enjoying the angels. I am so glad he had a peaceful death.
I am so sorry not to be there,
All my Love, Rita Buckley
Rita Buckley
August 22, 2007
Dear Julianna, Caleb and Martha
What an incredible loss. I am so sorry, it was too soon.
Love, Rita Buckley
John Hepner
August 22, 2007
Although I did not have much contact in our later years, I do have fond memories of Andrew and the entire Bergman Family. Especially going to the house in Bethpage and spending time with Aunt Shirley and Andrew which I really enjoyed. When I think of Andrew these words always come to mind. Kind, Loving, Passionate and Articulate in every way. I know that he touched alot of people along the way and his legacy will not be forgotten.
Richard Hepner
August 22, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about my cousin Andrew's passing. I do wish I had been closer in the our latter years. I do have fond memories in the early days of our lives when he visited our family in Baltimore and many others. Best wishes to the entire Bergman family from the Hepners.

Jim, Holly, Hannah, Valerie, & Hope
Valerie & Jim Burke
August 22, 2007
Martha & Juliana,
We are so sorry for your loss, we will be thinking of you.  I still have fond memories of playing with your family at your old house in East Aurora.
Sincerely,
Valerie (Gonnello) Burke
valerie Gonnello
August 22, 2007
Martha, 
We are so sorry to hear of Andrew's passing. Please accept our condolences.
Valerie and Tony
Betty Slowe
August 22, 2007
Dear Martha and Juliana,
Jim and I send our deepest sympathy. You and Andrew will always be part of our East Aurora memories - like the night when we couldn't get up our snowy hill and knocked on your door to spend the night. You both welcomed us right in. We will keep you in our thoughts.
Love, Betty and Jim
Suzanne Perrault
August 22, 2007
Dear Martha and Juliana:
David and I are so very sorry about Andrew's passing. What an interesting, funny, and gentle soul he was.  We appreciate the chance to have seen him one more time this summer.  
We wish you and his family our very best.
With much love,
Suzanne and David
Juliana bergman
August 22, 2007
We love you very much dad and will miss you very much!
Juliana Bergman
August 22, 2007
We will miss you dad!
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