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Paula O'Leary Obituary

O'Leary, Paula Gleason (nee Cullen), Baptized into the hope of Christ's Resurrection, Friday, August 18, 2017. Daughter of the late Paul and Marion Cullen. Beloved wife for 55 years of the late Arthur J. O'Leary. Loving mother of Arthur O'Leary, Coleen (Paul) Sumner, Paula (Craig) Siebert, Daniel J. O'Leary, and Patrick D. O'Leary. Dear Nanny O of Danielle, Maggie, Sean, Patrick, Kelsey, Ryan, Kyle, Paulie, Patty Ann, Cullen, Mairin, and Joe. Greatgrandmother of Cash. Sister of David (Judy) Cullen. Sister-in-law of John (Judy) O'Leary and Lynn (Dennis) Kahrar. Beloved aunt and friend to many. Services: Funeral Mass at Incarnate Word Parish, Chesterfield, Friday, August 25, 2017, 11:00 a.m. Reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to American Cancer Society. A service of the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, Ballwin. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Aug. 23, 2017.

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December 4, 2020

I had a random thought of my Nanny O today and I just wanted to read some nice things people said about her. Thank you for sharing here, this made my day :) love you, Nanny O

Beverly Bressler

August 14, 2020

Time is passing, and still the loss and pain of losing a dear friend as you Paula, is still sad and it hurts so much. I loved grandparenting with you and Art. We shared Maggie and Patrick together, and you made it a loving memory . I think of you so often and I can't believe you are and Art are gone. My Tom is gone to, and being a widow is pretty hard. I just wanted to say I miss you both and always will.

Lisa Hult

September 26, 2017

Mom O' was the kindest soul and most amazing person the world has been blessed with. She will be greatly missed by many, as she touched so many people's lives throughout the years. So happy that I was able to speak with her on the phone during this past year. I will always remember the sound of her voice & her warm embrace. She gave the best & most genuine hugs. She always gave unconditional love and did not judge anyone - as she saw the good in everyone. Every time I think of her, it brings a smile to my face. I'm so fortunate to have her as my Bonus Mom. She's happy now to be reunited with Dad O' - the love of her life. They were both the best & opened their home to many. We are all better people for having known Mom & Dad O'. There are so many treasured memories, meaningful conversations and good times that I can recall. I count the O'Leary family as one of my life's blessings & will be forever grateful for that. Mom O' - I love you & miss you so much. Thank you for everything you did for me over the years. God's Blessings Always.

Jane Konsewicz

August 25, 2017

Nanny O was a wonderful part of our TricorBraun family. She always made you feel special with her warm smile and sweet words. I always looked forward to seeing her in the lunchroom making her can of soup. My sympathy to the family. I am sure she is happy with Art once again.

Kathryn Meharry

August 24, 2017

Paula or Nanny O, I struggle with finding words to say how much you meant to me over the years. Even though life's journey took us apart our friendship never wavered. I thought of you very often and thought the world of you. I treasured and valued our friendship and all of our conversations over the years. I will truly miss you my friend.

Shannon Wyatt

August 24, 2017

I didn't get to say good-bye to Nanny O' but I remember the last time we were together. I remember the sound of her voice and the warmth in her hugs. I will remember the sound life lessons and advice she gave me and her wonderful sense of humor. I will never forget how she held my hand and gave me words of encouragement and comfort as dad was having major surgeries and the many months of his recovery. All these things are embedded in my heart forever. She always made me feel like I was part of the family. I love her and will miss her as I have always thought of her as my 'bonus' parent. Thank you for sharing her with me. She occupies a space in my heart forever. I have been enriched and so blessed by her friendship and affection. When I think of her I will remember the angel that came to earth and touched a lot of lives and who are better by the blessing of her presence..❤

August 23, 2017

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15)

Suzanne and Bill Calhoun /Smith

August 22, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers to Kelsey and her family. We love you so much and so sad to hear the news of Nanny O passing

Crystal Williams

August 22, 2017

I met Paula a year or two before she retired and for the short time I knew her she was a pleasure to be around. She always had a smile and a twinkle in her eye! She will be missed!

Barbara Wyatt

August 22, 2017

Hearts are so heavy now that an angel has gone home. A true lady in every sense and full-filled so many roles in life to all. We are all better people to have had her presence in our lives. To know her was really to love her. Her example in her faith is one to live by. When we keep our loved ones in our hearts 'they still live'. I think of Nanny O completely well and reunited with the love of her life. Our loss is Heaven's gain.

Doug Shank & Family

August 22, 2017

Sorry to hear such sad news. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Shaun Brown

August 22, 2017

Nanny O always could bring a smile to your face. It's sad to know that light in the world is no longer shining. My condolences to her family.

August 22, 2017

It was an pleasure to know her. Sympathies to all. Martha Harris (from TricorBraun)

Kathleen Neumann

August 22, 2017

I enjoyed working with Paula at TricorBraun-she always had a smile and kind word for everyone. I will always have fond memories of the times we met for dinner-----rest in peace my friend.

Anna Rodell

August 22, 2017

Nanny O was the most giving and caring person I have had the pleasure of working with and knowing. She always had a smile and a hug to everyone she met. My thoughts and prayers are with all of your during this time.

Angela Smith

August 22, 2017

Paula was always a sweet and funny person to work with. I will always remember her humor and friendly smile. I also treasure her stories about great adventures with her husband. I know her Kranson family misses her. Good bye for now Paula.

Paula Redman

August 22, 2017

It was a pleasure sitting elbow to elbow with you at TricorBraun those many years ago. I loved your gentle soul. Until we meet again.

Jill Pellerito

August 22, 2017

•There's magic in a Mother's touch, and sunshine in her smile. There's love in everything she does to make our lives worthwhile. We can find both hope and courage just by looking in her eyes. Her laughter is a source of joy, her words are warm and wise. There is a kindness and compassion to be found in her embrace and we see the light of heaven shining from a Mother's face. I will truly miss a wonderful lady and co-worker for many years. Now her and Art are together again as she recently spoke about wanting to be back with him. Prayers and sympathy for her family and friends.

Art O'Leary

August 21, 2017

Joe and I will always love you and miss you. The kindest, gentlest person we've ever known. We are eternally greatful.

Beverly Bressler

August 21, 2017

My Dearest Friend, she was an amazing person to everyone who knew her. I will miss her calls on the Holidays, and hearing her voice. My prayers are with the family, she will be greatly missed.

Dana Sandvos and Family

August 21, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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