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Helmut Langer Obituary

Waterford - Helmut Langer, 86, of Waterford, died peacefully on Dec. 31, 2011, after a short illness.

He was born in Berlin, Germany, and came to the United States in 1953, to work as an electrical engineer at Machlett Laboratories in Stamford, a subsidiary of the Raytheon Corp. He was a senior development engineer and section head responsible for electron tube manufacturing relating to x-ray and high-power transmitting tubes. He was the holder or co-holder of seven patents. Before coming to the U.S., he was an engineer at Telefunken in Berlin, where he helped develop transmitting tubes used in television and broadcasting applications. He had a degree in electrical engineering from the Technical University in Berlin.

After his retirement from Raytheon, he became a stained glass artist, designing and creating original stained glass pieces while also doing stained glass repairs. He was an avid golfer and tennis player.

Helmut and his wife, Sue Langer, were together for more than 35 years and shared a wonderful marriage and a full and interesting life in Stamford and Waterford, where they moved full-time in 2007. He particularly loved being near the water, where he could enjoy the shifting tides, the bird life, the sunrises and sunsets, and swims in the Long Island Sound.

In addition to his wife, he leaves two daughters, Petra Langer of Marblehead, Mass., and Elyse Curcio of Stamford; sons-in-law, Phillips Axten and Anthony Curcio; and four beloved grandchildren, Simon, Karen, Alison, and Emily.

A celebration of his life will be held this summer in Waterford.

Contributions in his memory may be made to Doctors Without Borders, 333 7th Ave., 2nd Floor, New York, NY 10001-5004.

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home, 48 Grand St., Niantic, is assisting the family with arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 3, 2012.

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January 14, 2012

Dear Sue, Petra and family,
Our deepest sympathies to all of you during this difficult time. Helmut was such a good friend to our family. I will never forget him dressed as Santa Claus for Christmas when we were little kids. He loved to visit and enjoy kaffeezeit with my parents. Then He and my dad would smoke their pipes and have good conversation which sometimes had long periods of silence between words. There must have been a lot of deep thinking. Helmut was my moms adopted little brother since her own, Heinz, died in Russia during the war. She would say that often and remind us that they were both from Berlin. Our prayers, thoughts and memories are with you always.
Oluf & Joyce Matzen and family

January 9, 2012

Dear Sue,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Helmut was a most wonderful man.

Love,
Joan and David

Elizabeth DeLuca

January 7, 2012

Dear Sue,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. I remember how Scotty always talked about his stained glass pieces.

Penny Nardone

January 7, 2012

Dear Sue,
My deepest condolences and prayers to you and your family. What I remember most about Helmut was his kindness and thoughtfulness. The love you two shared together was to be admired. I am so sorry for your loss.
Penny, former assistant to C. R. Sanford, DDS

January 6, 2012

Sue,
My deepest condolences to you & your family. I remember well how lovingly you spoke of Helmut. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Gail Yeagley R.N. "St. Joseph's Hospital Alumna"
Port Orange, Florida

Karen Edgar

January 6, 2012

Sad to see a dear neighbor passing on. Our condolences to Sue and your family. I can only imagine that Helmut is still enjoying the beautiful sunrises and sunsets here in one of the most beautiful locations ever!

Melita Ferraiolo

January 4, 2012

Dear Sue and family,
25 years ago I was a tenant of yours and Helmut's at the "Langer's Landing" apartments. It was a beautiful place to live and Helmut was a good landlord and was always kind to me. My deepest sympathies and prayers to you and your family.
Melita Ferraiolo

Jack Bunce

January 3, 2012

My dear Mrs. Langer,

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of Helmut. He always had a pleasant word when I would pass by with my dog. He seemed very happy and very much in the moment by the sea. The world is a sadder place for his leaving.

January 3, 2012

Dear Sue, Elyse, Alison and Emily,

With our deepest sympathy to you all during this difficult time.

Sue, Amanda and Lexy Kelly

Laurie Fisher Watrous

January 3, 2012

Elyse and family, I am so sorry to hear about Helmut's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult of times. May you all take comfort in knowing he lived a full life surrounded by the people and things he loved.

Suzanne Malloy Zaleski Allstate Insurance The Wright Insurance Agency

January 3, 2012

Mrs. Langer,
We are very sorry for the loss of your husband. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

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