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Robert (Bob) Arquilla

Robert (Bob) Arquilla, 91, late of Palm Desert, CA and formerly of Flossmoor, IL, departed this world on December 1 after a short battle with cancer. He was the youngest son of George Arquilla, Sr. and Emelia (Pechacek) Arquilla. He was predeceased by his older brother, George, Jr. and his grandson, Jeffrey Farnell (formerly of Oak Brook). He is survived by his wife of 68 years, Tuti, his four children, Scott (Maggie), Roberta (Alan Farnell), Keith (Julie) and Bruce (Elizabeth) and ten grandchildren. He graduated from Morgan Park High School in 1943 and attended Lawrence College. He served in the U.S. Navy during World War II as a radioman/gunner on Martin Mariner PBM's in the Caribbean. After the war, he graduated from Northwestern University's School of Business and joined the family business, Burnside Construction Co., which built tens of thousands of homes in Chicago and the suburbs. In addition, he was a principal in Accurate Ready Mix, Bell Lumber & Supply Co., Best Homes, Inc., Alpha Construction Co. and Arquilla Industries, Inc. He was an active member of Olympia Fields Country Club since 1955 and Marrakesh Country Club in Palm Desert, where he served as Board President from 2003-2005. Bob was a past Director of the Glenwood School for Boys. He was a founder and Director of Heritage Glenwood Bank for many years. He served as Presidents of the Home Builders Association of Chicago, the Home Builders Association of Greater Chicagoland and the Residential Construction Employers Council, a Chicago area labor negotiation association. In 1974, Bob became VP and Secretary of the National Association of Home Builders, followed by annual terms as VP and Treasurer, First Vice President and ultimately President in 1977. He served on many NAHB Committees and task forces for forty years including President of the NAHB Research Center, and was one of the founders and first Chairman of the National Housing Endowment, NAHB's philanthropic arm. Bob was elected to the NAHB Hall of Fame in 1983, three years after his father was inducted. They were the first father and son team to be so honored. A memorial service will be held in May, 2018. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the National Housing Endowment, 1201 15th St., NW, Washington, D.C. 20005 or Glenwood Academy, 500 W. 187th St., Glenwood, IL 60425.

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Published by The Desert Sun on Dec. 10, 2017.

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Gail Randall

December 4, 2020

RIP you are missed by all the
Families ❤

December 20, 2017

I never had the pleasure of playing golf with Mr and Mrs Arquilla. My father Robert Aulbach was acquainted with Mr Arquilla for many years.

May the Lord give you a galaxy to build in heaven, Sir.

John R. Aulbach
Carson CA

Rita Unzner

December 15, 2017

A true pillar of the Homebuilding industry you will be missed

Mrs. Lynch

December 11, 2017

My sincere condolences to family and friends. May the God who binds up the brokenhearted and comforts all who mourn, sustain your family during this difficult time - Isaiah 61:1, 2.

Roberta Arquilla

December 11, 2017

How appropriate that he was a homebuilder. He was the cornerstone of our family; the bedrock of our family foundation. I will miss you, dad, but thank God that I had you in my life for almost 65 years. You were the best!

December 11, 2017

My family and I would like to extend our deepest condolences for your families loss. May your fond memories and the peace God gives comfort you and your family during this time of loss.

Barbara Jerit

December 11, 2017

Dear Tuti my condolences to u and your family on your passing of Bob. Hope to see u in May..

December 11, 2017

I am deeply sorry for your loss. There's nothing easy about coping with a death in the family. It can bring tears and frustration. I, too, have lost loved ones in death and the pain is unmatched. I find relief in God promises. Although it will take time to heal, God will comfort you in all your trials as you rely on Him. (Acts chapter 24 verse 15)

C R

December 11, 2017

Arquilla family, I'm deeply sorry for your loss of your dearly loved one Robert. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this most difficult time in your family's life. May the God of all comfort, comfort your family.

Lee

December 11, 2017

My sincere condolences to the Arquilla family and friends. Draw close to God in prayer during this difficult time.

Fred G Rich

December 10, 2017

Dear Tuti please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. May the God of all comfort be with you and the family during this difficult time. Matthew 5:4

Mary Warrick

December 10, 2017

It was fortunate indeed for me to have met Bob and his wife Tuti. Although I did not know him well I admired his accomplishments. May he be in the arms of the lord. Mary Warrick

AZ1 USN

December 10, 2017

Shipmate: Rest in Peace.....

Fair Winds and Following Winds

Gail Randall

December 8, 2017

A great honor to have known my
Uncle Bob as he was a memorable,
Honorable humble man. A beloved
Family man to all!❤
Neice. Gail Bergquist Randall

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