JACKSONVILLE — The keepers of the Pearly Gates had better get ready for some serious grandchildren-bragging, complete with enough proud Grandma pictures to choke a Cherubim.
Kathy Lynn Blanchette, 60, of Jacksonville, Illinois, died Tuesday, July 7, 2020, following a valiant and excruciating struggle with the automobile accident injuries that nearly killed her 18 years ago.
Kathy is survived by her husband of 31 years, David P. Blanchette; daughter Belinda Meis, son-in-law Ryan, and grandchildren Jackson and Ella, all of Ames, Iowa; daughter Rhiannon Kustak, son-in-law Kevin, and grandchildren Jacob, Andrew and Abigayle, all of Tinley Park, Illinois; sister Karyn Hicks and brother-in-law Rusty of Decatur; brother Kris Templin and sister-in-law Venus of Jacksonville; and numerous aunts, cousins, nieces and nephews.
Kathy was born on November 5, 1959, in Jacksonville to Kenneth and Katherine Lippert Templin. She graduated from Routt High School and worked for many years for Capitol/EMI Records, where she proudly helped to produce the final products for many musical artists, including a new, up-and-coming singer named Garth Brooks. Kathy later found her true calling as a daycare teacher, a dream career for her that was cut short by her 2002 automobile accident. She fondly remembered how her daycare students decorated her house when she was finally released from the hospital.
Kathy's children and grandchildren were the love of her life and no conversation with her would be complete without a mention of some or all of them and a sharing of the latest photographs. The trips made to visit the grandkids in Tinley Park or Ames were what kept her going over the years. Kathy was an accomplished knitter, gardener, and above all, advice-giver, whether the intended recipient was amenable or not.
Kathy's high-pitched laugh delivered with eyes nearly scrunched shut was a rare treat for those who struck her funny bone.
Kathy met David in 1985 when they were both service club representatives on the Jacksonville community Fourth of July committee, and their first date was on July 4 that year. They were married in 1989 and took a honeymoon trip to Nova Scotia so Kathy could experience her favorite scenery, lighthouses on rocky coasts. David served as Kathy's sole caregiver following her accident and through more than 20 surgeries over the years, and was with her at the end.
Due to the pandemic and understanding that 50 people can be in the funeral home at one time, the family will meet friends at a walk through visitation from 4-6 p.m., Thursday, July 16, 2020, at the Buchanan & Cody Funeral Home in Jacksonville. Memorials are suggested to the Presbyterian Church Day Care Center of Jacksonville. Condolences may be left at buchanancody.com.
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Timothy Chipman
August 16, 2020
David, your words printed in this weekend's Jacksonville Journal-Courier are poignant and profound. Thank you for sharing your and Kathy's journey. Grace and peace to you, Rhiannon, and Belinda.
Renee Meado
August 9, 2020
With everything that is going on in this world somehow I missed her passing. I worked with Kathy at Presbyterian Church Day Care Center. It was horrible what happened to her and saddened to hear of her passing. She loved the children so much! Prayers and condolences to the family.
Becky Sills Camerer
July 19, 2020
So sorry to David and the family for your loss. Always giving of Herself to others and touching the hearts of many. So glad to have met such a wonderful lady!
Matt and Sheri Vanover
July 15, 2020
So sorry for your loss.
July 15, 2020
My condolences to David.
Dan Currier
RICK CERNECH
July 15, 2020
Dave, My heart fills with respect for your loss. Kathy was always such a bright spot in any event whether being with the old ACA committee or just visiting or I am certain in your home. You two were meant for each other and my prayers are with you for understanding and hope for the future. I still remember our 4th meetings and you and Kathy leaving with her holding tight on the back of your motorcycle. Oh the good days.
Now will require real strength my friend, and your past years will get you through this. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts...God Bless you for always being there for Kathy and the girls. May she rest eternally and peacefully in the pal of His hand. Amen.
Julie Kellner
July 12, 2020
Our hearts break for you, Dave....Bill and Julie
Ruth Phillis
July 12, 2020
My condolences on the loss of Kathy.
Jon Carls
July 12, 2020
David - deep sympathies to you at Kathy's passing. Reading the obit I was mentally swept back to 1985 and the joy you two brought each other when you started dating that summer. Rick Cernich will probably claim his great fireworks show sealed the deal for you on your first July 4 date.
I know you've continued to be a blessing to each other, even during the years when physical struggling took over. Hope the memories will comfort you in the coming days. Peace to you. JC
Gordon Jumper
July 11, 2020
Condolences to the family
Jacksonville has lost a loving and caring matriarch
Pam Waggener
July 11, 2020
David, Belinda, and Rhiannon-
My heart is breaking for all of you. Kathy was a wonderful, loving person who I hold a very special place for in my heart. She could always find the bright side to almost anything! She restored my faith in God when things would test it. I pray at this very difficult time that you find comfort in our fathers love and know that she is finally out of all the pain that was caused years ago and that she is rejoicing with loved ones who have gone on before her.
I will be keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love always,
Pam Waggener
Kate Sorrells
July 10, 2020
David and family, My very deepest sympathy for you and your family. Kathy was so very lovely and she loved life and her family. You will miss her but you will have lots of good memories that you have shared. My prayers for you and your family. May her soul and the soul of the faithful departed rest in peace. Kate Sorrells
Larry Kuster
July 10, 2020
David,
Please accept my sincere condolences on Kathy's passing. You and your family are in my prayers.
Cheryl Washko
July 10, 2020
Dave I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife. Please know I am sending prayers of comfort to you and all who loved her.
Mary Arboit
July 9, 2020
I am so sorry to hear the news about Kathy. I worked with her at Capitol Records. There was not a day I did't laugh with her. She was a lovely lady and great fun. Heaven has certainly gained a gem with her.
Mendy (Jennings) Heaps
July 9, 2020
Kathy, you were always a lovely person! Im so sorry the last years of your life were filled with suffering but so glad your grandchildren will have memories of their sweet grandma. Rest In Peace ❤
Rita Shekelton
July 9, 2020
Dave. Sorry to hear of Kathy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult and sad time. You have wonderful memories, and I'm sure lots of photos, to keep her memory alive. With sympathy, Rita Shekelton
Sharon K. Phillips Burnett, Templin
July 9, 2020
So sorry for your loss of a very good person who is loved by so many. Words cannot Express or say enough about Kathy. I will be praying for You All Always and God's grace and peace hope Love ect be with you Sincerely Sharon K. Phillips,Kristopher E. Templin & Family
Hope Courier
July 9, 2020
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Leslie Cully
July 9, 2020
Dave and family, Im so sorry to hear of Kathys passing. My deepest condolences to you. Wishing you peace and strength to deal with the difficult days ahead.
With love from Leslie Riegel Cully.
Bryan and Jessica Richardson
July 9, 2020
Thoughts and prayers, Dave, to you and your family.
July 8, 2020
Deepest sympathy to you Kris Templin and all of your family members. I remember Kathy very well. Sending our prayers. Vicki (Surratt-Gioscio) Soles Massanutten, VA
Dee Cole
July 8, 2020
So sorry for your loss
Took master gardener class together
Theresa Haas
July 8, 2020
Karyn, the Templin and Blanchette Families, Im so sorry to hear the news of Kathy passing. Sending my deepest condolences. Thinking of you all and Keeping you in my prayers.
Theresa Kindred Haas
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