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Matthew Pazder Obituary

Matthew E. Pazder BORDENTOWN CITY - Matthew E. Pazder, 60, passed away peacefully at his home in Bordentown City on Saturday April 12th 2014. Born in Trenton, Matt grew up in Ewing Township and Absecon NJ before moving to Bordentown City in 1979. Matt was employed as a Facilities Manager with The State of New Jersey for the past 14 years, most recently with the Department of Children and Families. An avid Eagles fan and "Life of the Party", Matt will be remembered for his kindness and humor as well as his selflessness and willingness to help others. But the greatest joy in Matt's life was his family. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and a caring friend and will be missed by many. Matt is survived by his wife of 33 years, Eileen Shea Pazder, his daughters and son-in-law, Rachel and Jordan Bennett, Mallory Pazder, his grandson Calvin Bennett, his Mother and Father, Matthew Pazder and Josephine Pazder, Mother-in-Law Veronica Shea, Brothers-in-Law Michael and James Shea, and many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. A Celebration of Matt's life will be commemorated on Thursday evening April 17th 2014 at 7:30 p.m. at The Bordentown Home for Funerals 40 Crosswicks St. Bordentown, NJ. (609) 298-0128. Guest's may visit with the family Thursday from 5:00 p.m. ~ 8:00 p.m. and on Friday morning from 10:00 ~ 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home. Interment will be at Greenwood Cemetery Hamilton. Arrangements are under the direct care and supervision of Robert L. Pecht, Bordentown Home for Funerals 40 Crosswicks St. Bordentown, NJ 08505. Please go to Matthew E. Pazder's Book of Memories page at www.Bordentownhomeforfunerals.com to upload a picture, light a candle, order flowers, purchase a "Remembrance Gift", or offer condolences to the Pazder family.
Published by The Trentonian from Apr. 15 to Apr. 16, 2014.

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Bill Schaffer

April 19, 2014

Eileen, Rachel, Mallory and family, he loved you so much, Matt's face lit up and he always had the biggest smile like no other when he talked of you.

Matty, my friend, you will be missed so much. You've provided us with memories of good times, and laughter - your humor was like no other, your laughter and smile will remain embedded deeply within me, our conversations are cherished.

April 17, 2014

Middlesex Central Local Office sends their deepest condolences to the family of Matt Pazder. Matt will be missed by all.

Billie Smith

April 16, 2014

Eileen and Family
I am so sorry for your loss. May you keep memories of Matt close to your heart. I will keep you and your family lifted in prayer. God Bless.
Billie Smith and family

April 16, 2014

God Bless

staff from OOE

Regina Troutman

April 16, 2014

To the family of Matt, I am deeply saddened for your loss. Matt was sweet, kind, and he had a gentle spirit. When he came to work, though busy, he had a listening ear. He always found the time to check in to see how others were doing and to share stories about his family. He cared about people. I walk away feeling blessed to have known him. You and your family will be in my continued prayers in the days and weeks to come.

April 16, 2014

The DCP&P Middlesex Coastal Local Office sends their deepest condolences to the family of Matt Pazder. Matt was very instrumental in helping the staff get a new office. Matt was a dedicated worker that will be missed by many.
-Edna Rosa

April 16, 2014

The DCP&P Middlesex Coastal Local Office would like to send our deepest condolences to the family of Matt Pazder. Matt was very instrumental in helping us get a new office. He was a dedicated worker who will be missed by many.
-Edna Rosa

Walter P. Kramarz

April 16, 2014

My deepest sympathy in your loss of Matt. May he rest in peace; may the Good Lord give you strength and courage to carry on without Matt. God Bless You All.

Steve N

April 16, 2014

My prayers are with you Matt and your family...I'll always remembe how happy your were planning the wedding and how you planned it like you were at work for Dyfs, planning very methodically and yes how we debated the Eagles/Giants. i guess God needed someone to help with Heaven's facilities. May you rest in peace my friend, till we meet again. Steve

Aida Velasco

April 15, 2014

My deepest condolences to the family . I used to chat with Matt and he was so proud of all of you . We will miss a lot. May he rest in peace .

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