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Denice Destefano Obituary

Denice DeStefano, a native of Clarksville, TN, was born in 1954 and grew up in Hudson, NH. She called Boscawen and Bristol, NH her home for most of her adult life. Sadly, she passed away on 4/17/2024 following a courageous yearlong fight against pancreatic cancer. Alan DeStefano from Bristol, NH is grieving the passing of his cherished wife of nearly four decades. Denice's loved ones, which include her parents Richard and Celina Merrill, her sister Laurie Merrill from Lady Lake, FL, her daughter Tami and son-in-law Milton Acosta, her grandsons Anthony and Matthew from Wildwood, FL, and her son Ryan Roberts from Wildwood, FL. Denice is predeceased by her sister Linda Nault. Denice cherished the Lakes and Mountains for NH and tranquility of "The Lake Life" during her summers at Newfound Lake in NH, whether it was cruising on a boat, taking a dip in the water, or simply lounging on the sandy shore. In addition to her love for the lake, Denice found joy in reading, exploring new destinations, and creating memories with her friends and family. Denice devoted her professional life to serving the NH Pharmacist Association during the mid-80s, and subsequently dedicated 27 years to the NH Bar Association until her well-deserved retirement in 2018. Following her retirement, she redirected her boundless energy towards the town of Bristol, NH, where she played a pivotal role enhancing the planning and land use department. Denice served as the Bristol NH Planning Board Chair for numerous years, leaving an indelible mark on the community she loved. Denice, a resilient and self-reliant woman, was adored and cherished by many people. Her absence will be keenly felt by her friends and loved ones. Denice truly embraced the beauty of life and all its wonders. Although there are no plans for services at this time, she would want us all to relish every single day and hold dear the ones we love. Let her spirit inspire us to make the most of each precious moment. Online condolences may be made at www.beyersfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Union Leader on Apr. 22, 2024.

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Michelle Acosta-Sanchez & Roderick Sanchez

May 6, 2024

Device always shared her love with everyone. She had a big heart. Denise, you welcomed my husband and I with loving hands, always had a smile on your face. Thank you for the loving woman that you were. There is no more suffering. R.I.P. with our Lord.

Janine Wilson

April 28, 2024

Alan, I'm so very sorry to hear about Denise. Please know we are thinking of you.
Prayers and hugs to you and your family.
Janine Wilson

Milton Acosta

April 27, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Rest in peace ..

Kristen and Eugene Ianniciello

April 26, 2024

Dear Alan,

Eugene and I are so very sorry to hear of the passing of your sweet Denise. May she rest in the sweetest of peace. Thinking of you all and sending warm hugs to you. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time

Paul Chant

April 25, 2024

As the current President of the NH Bar, and as someone who worked with Denise in her different roles at the Bar Association, I wish to express how wonderful Denise was to work with over the years. She was tremendous at her job and a master of taking on multiple projects. She was always positive and a pleasure to work with. I wish Alan and the family the best. Paul Chant

Lanea Witkus

April 25, 2024

I am so sad to hear of her passing. Denise was always competent and caring. She represented the best qualities of the bar.

John Garvey

April 25, 2024

I worked with Denice for many years in various Bar committee roles. She was always upbeat and dealt with the many personalities that populate a room full of lawyers with a light touch. She was always prepared and made our work easier. Denice was kind, friendly, and competent. We were all lucky to have her in our lives.

Ignatius

April 24, 2024

Sending all the peace that is possible at your loss. Denice was a kind and caring person for us NH lawyers. She was warm and welcoming and a strong professional. Take care.

Tony McManus

April 23, 2024

You did so much for the NHBA. You made us all better as individuals. A remarkable contribution for so many years. Thank you......

Valerie Elliott

April 22, 2024

Sending peace and love to Alan and family. Denise took over my position at the NH Pharmacy Association when I left! Great gal, hard worker and a lovely person - so very sorry to hear this sad news.

Jeanne

April 21, 2024

Alan family and friends I wish you strength and peace at this time. Denice will be greatly missed. What a lovely strong woman. Jeanne peterson

lorraine harrison

April 20, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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