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KALIVEAS, THEODORE NICHOLAS, JR.

Industrial Security Specialist

Theodore Nicholas Kaliveas, Jr., 59, of Mineral, VA, died at this home August 7, 2003 after a brief illness.

Mr. Kaliveas was born December 30, 1943 at Lynn, MA, son of Theodore and Constantina Vousboukis Kalivas. He entered the U.S. Marine Corps in 1961, serving until 1964. He joined the U.S. Army in 1965 and received his commission as a 2nd Lt. in 1967. Mr. Kaliveas served two tours of duty in Vietnam in 1965-66 and 1969-70, and retired while Unit Commander of the 1542nd Infantry. Military honors included the Soldier's Medal, Bronze Star, Purple Heart, Air Medal (2), Army Commendation Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Staff Service Medal 1st Class, Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal, Vietnam Gallantry Cross with Silver Star and Combat Infantryman's Badge. He also served in the U.S. Army Reserve from 1971 to 1991, rising to the rank of Lieutenant Colonel.

He received degrees in Business Management from Fisher Junior College, Boston, MA and Security Administration from Northern Virginia Community College, Annandale, VA. He was a long-standing member of the American Society for Industrial Security.

After his military retirement, he worked as a security specialist for several government agencies, including the 94th U.S. Army Reserve Command, Defense Logistics Agency, Defense Investigative Service, Chief of Security U.S. Coast Guard, Department of Energy, Departments of Army and Navy.

Mr. Kaliveas until recently served as President of the Wyndemere Property Owners Association. He enjoyed antiques, gardening, cooking and bicycling.

Survivors include his wife, Carole M. Braund Kaliveas; three sons, Demonthones T. Kaliveas of Noosa, Queensland, Australia, Jason E. Kaliveas of Reston, VA and Christopher J. Kaliveas of Vienna, VA; a sister, Diane Savage of Panama City, FL; brothers, William Kalivas of Broken Arrow, OK and Billy Diamond of Danvers, MA; granddaughter, Kaleigh Jean Myler of Australia; and two step-daughters and four step-grandchildren.

Friends may call at the MULLINS & THOMPSON FUNERAL HOME, 1621 Jefferson Davis Hwy., Fredericksburg, VA on Thursday, August 14 from 6 to 9 p.m. A church service will be held at 12 Noon on Friday, August 15 at the Nativity of the Theotokos Greek Orthodox Church, 12326 Spotswood Furnace Rd., Fredericksburg, VA. Interment with Full Military Honors in Arlington National Cemetery will take place at a date to be announced later.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to a veteran's or charitable organization.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Washington Post on Aug. 11, 2003.

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Major Jack Rail

July 22, 2023

Unless I am mistaken, Ted Kaliveas commanded my basic training company E-8-2 while I trained at Fort Jackson, SC, from January through June 1971. I remember he was cocky and fun with us trainees and did not disdain talking with us 1 to 1. About all I really remember of him is how he looked and his Greek name, but those have stayed with me for 50 years and counting. RIP, LTC Kaliveas.

Barry Mallin

August 26, 2003

My deepest sympathy at your loss. Ted will always be remembered as a good friend and mentor to all who knew him.

Maurya & David Green

August 14, 2003

Carole & Family,



This is a true loss to everyone who knew Ted. We had great respect and admiration for his ability to put life into perspective. One of his most endearing qualities was how he took all of us under his wing and guided us with humor and respect. We will miss him more than you will ever know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Gary & Marianne Bowles

August 12, 2003

Carole; we were so sorry to hear of your loss. Ted was a great guy and a true Greek. We will all miss him and his unique personality. I will remember him best from work and for introducing me to "Yanni". Your family will be in our prayers.

Pam Owen

August 11, 2003

To Demon, Jason and Chris -



Don't imagine you still remember me or the boys (Eric and Brig) but we were all together in Thousand Oaks YEARS ago. I saw your dad's obituary in today's POST and just wanted to send my condolences to you and to your family. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.



With deepest sympathy,

Pam Owen

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