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Edward Warner Obituary

By Mark Schwed, Palm Beach Post

Edward "Roy" Warner, a recovering alcoholic whose story of redemption touched readers of The Palm Beach Post's Season to Share series, has died.

The 56-year-old Warner had logged his first year of sobriety, only to be diagnosed with back-to-back cancers. He finally succumbed to liver cancer Thursday after battling it for months. Through it all, he stayed sober.

Those who knew him said his last year was the happiest of his adult life.

"He died very peacefully. He didn't suffer," said Barbara Barry, director of Wellness at The Courtyards of Crystal Palms, the assisted-living facility in Lake Worth where Warner spent his last months. "Everybody here loved him."

Warner's story was told in The Post's annual Season to Share series, which features people in need and encourages readers to grant big and small wishes to those individuals and the charities that help them. The idea is that by fulfilling such wishes, readers provide the greatest gift of all — hope.

"We've had a lot of calls," said Carolyn Gonzalez of The Lord's Place, the charity that operates Joshua House, which helped rescue Warner from years of drinking. "There are people who wanted to talk to him, meet him, make donations."

For 30 years, the former Army captain led a troubled life, fueled with alcohol, until one day 14 months ago when something remarkable happened: he just quit. He was in the process of getting his life back on track when doctors told him he had rectal cancer. After rounds of chemotherapy and radiation, he was pronounced cured. A few months later, doctors detected cancer in his liver. They told him there was nothing they could do.

"He knew what was going to happen," said Barry. "He still had a good attitude."

Warner reveled in his sobriety. "All those stupid reasons I found for drinking really seem dumb considering what I'm going through now and not drinking," he said last month.

His only wish was for warm clothes, a small TV set for his room, and a cellphone so he could keep in touch with his friends in recovery.

He got the clothes, and officials at the charity had the TV set and cellphone, but Warner never recovered enough to receive the gifts from Season to Share readers. But any donations to the charity will go to help others like Warner.

"The toughest year of his life was the most sober," said Barry. "He enjoyed it the most. He got his one-year medallion (for sobriety) in October. He was so proud."

Warner had said that if there was a message in his life, it was this: "Pay attention when people tell you you have a drinking problem. They mean the best for you."

Warner is survived by two brothers. All County Funeral Home and Crematory is in charge of arrangements.
Published by The Palm Beach Post on Dec. 10, 2004.

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Brenda Watkins

December 29, 2004

I was touched by your story. My brother is recovering alcoholic it is struggle everyday. May god bless you.

Anonymous

December 27, 2004

Thank you for your inspiring story. May G*d bless you in your new life with Him.

Evy Serpa

December 24, 2004

God's richest blessings to the friends and family of this wonderful man. His witness will live on beyond this temporal life and continue to be an inspiration to others. A life lived for Christ has impact far beyond the grave and Roy's will surely keep on making a difference. May the Lord comfort you through this holiday season and remember that next time, there won't be any more goodbye.

Janice Smedley

December 21, 2004

To the family of Roy Edward Warner, may I offer my heartfelt condolence for your loss. I am friends with a person who is a recovering alcoholic and somehow, since I know my ffiend's struggle, I could feel a kindred spirit when I read Mr. Warner's story. I am proud of my friend because she tries so hard to succeed in her steruggle. I know enxcouragement is needed now so to offer some encouragement, just know you are not alone and people care. I am praying to the most high GOD and asking him to bless, comfort and support you and the family now and in the days to come.



Sincerely yours,



A Friend

FRANCES Sizemore

December 11, 2004

I JUST FINISHED READING ABOUT ROY.ALL I CAN SAID FOR HIM IS WHAT A MAN TO BEABLE TO STAY SOBER.I CRIED AS I READ THE REPORT.MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

Nick F.

December 10, 2004

Roy, I told you I'd always "save you a seat". I'm glad you got to seat in it for awhile. Now it's your turn to "save a seat" for me. As your journey takes a new direction, I'll be seeing ya soon. Your friend, Nick

Cheri Hutchinson

December 10, 2004

What a miracle to go through cancer and to die sober. The angels have carried Roy to a better place.

Tara Minuto

December 10, 2004

My condolences go out to Edward's family. I am working on the project Season to Share for the Palm Beach Post. It's nice to see people give hope to others. That's what life is all about.

Cara W.

December 10, 2004

As a recovering alcoholic, I was touched by this story and marvel how in the end, Roy was sober, when it mattered most. I'm sure that he is with his Higher Power, who no doubt was the reason he was able to "just quit drinking" 16 months ago.



God Bless Roy and I pray that his story is an inspiration to every one in recovery - Nothing is worth throwing away the precious gift of sobriety for.

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