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Kurt Ford Obituary
Memories and Condolences
for Kurt Ford
334 Entries
Paul DAmbra
January 4, 2018
Thinking about Kirk in light of our lost Deputy here in Parker. Kirk was my SWAT team member. Great man.
Michelle Martin
April 22, 2016
Just thinking about Kurt for some reason today. Just remembering what a great person he was.
Chris Zook
October 25, 2013
I admired the man.
October 3, 2012
It is so great to see that people are still posting on here. Well Kurt, it has not been the same without you. As you know, things have changed in my life for the best. Thanks for those talks that I really needed to help me see what was right. I still know that you are watching from above and know what is going on today. I know you would be proud. Keep watching over all of us. I truely miss you so. Keep sending me those little reminders of you. Love ya, miss ya, see ya.
July 24, 2012
KURT WAS A GOOD MAN. BUT NOW HE IS WITH THE LORD. HE IS HAPPY,JOYFULL.NOW WE WILL I WILL SEE YOU LATER IN HEAVEN MM
July 19, 2012
That smile and laugh, it still has a haunting effect, miss you.
WCS
Old Street Cop
February 13, 2010
Kurt and I worked together at Harvey County, trained together at DTI. He is the epitome of a good cop. I know he dines in the Halls of Valhalla...Your are missed mi amigo...Vaya Con Dios
Newtoncop
August 30, 2009
I worked at the Emporia PD when Kurt was working in Harvey Co. We brought everyone who was not working to the funeral...still didn't seem like enough. Now I work for Newton and Kurt's name still is brought up regularly and always with good things to say.
Michael Wagner
April 24, 2009
Kurt was thinking of you and keep thinking of the Batman pen you always carried. Thanks again for being an inspiration in my career. Still missing you. Rest in peace my fallen brother.
John Rose
January 7, 2009
Hey Kurt just wanted to say hi!! I think of you often and pray for Jill and the kids. I will always remember the times we were working the same team, we have some of the funniest stories!! God Bless you brother you always brightened my day!!
Jamie Moore
December 5, 2008
another year..man time flies by..thanks for the example
Nikki
February 27, 2008
Missing you every day...my butterfly...
Mich Wagner
January 18, 2008
I think of you and miss you every day. Rest in peace, brother.
Jamie Moore
December 19, 2007
still think of you bro
Bill Cox
November 30, 2007
Kurt was in my class at the Kansas Law Enforcement Training Center back in 1990. He was one of those guys you just knew would make a great cop. I think about him often and am proud to say I knew him. We in law enforcement now have another angel watching over us.
Randy
November 28, 2007
I miss you.....
November 16, 2007
You're still my hero.
Kim Weldon
September 14, 2007
I have such admiration for individuals who work for the force. They always put their lives on the line to protect the public. My thoughts and prayers go to the Ford family.
Anthony (Tony) Jasso
June 11, 2007
After 2 years and people are still signing the book. I did back in the beginning and still find myself clicking here from time to time. What a wonderful feeling to know my friend is still touching all our lives. He was special as we all know. I also find myself going over to visit him from time to time these past two year whenever I find myself in Newton with time to spend. That is also a comfort. I will always cherish my memories of Kurt. From the halls of Newton High to the Old Mill and Hesston PD. He always made you feel like a brother. I do owe him so much more than I am saying too. Jill, kids and Karla I know you have heard this from many people over the years but let me ad my voice too. If there is anything that I can do for any of you just ask. Like I said I do owe Kurt a big one. I am here at the Credit Union in Moundridge. Anyway I have rambled on for to long. Take care and peace be with all of you.
Tony
Lisa Barham
May 24, 2007
Karla,
I think of you quite often and still say a prayer. I worked at Slate Creek Elementary this past school year. As I would go in or out of the school drive, I would look to the east, with sadness, knowing that my friend and former classmate is just beyond those black iron gates. Then I would try to cheer myself up, remembering that he's watching over all of us now and he'll always be with us, no
matter what, as long as we keep our memories of him alive in our minds. (I know, with great conviction, that he'll always be in my heart. I have pictures of him hanging in my hallway, next to my niece who has also gone before us.They constantly remind me that they're both watching over us, and to remember them with love.)
Please remember Kurt with laughter and smiles. I think he made it such a part of his life, making others laugh, that's the way he'd probably like to be remmbered most.
Take good care of yourself and your family. I'll keep praying.
Love you lots.
- Lisa(Abrahams)Barham
shari flores
May 22, 2007
you are still in our daily thoughts.
Paula H.
April 9, 2007
Thinking of you and missing you. My thoughts are with your family....Karla, special thoughts are sent your way.
Carmen Fiedler
April 9, 2007
You might be gone, but not forgotten.
God Bless your family. Karla I think of you often.
Laura Franz
April 2, 2007
Soon it will be another year. It seems like yesterday, though. We've not forgotten, and never will. Karla, you are always in my prayers. I know it hasn't been easy for you. Kurt....we miss you. That part will never go away. Karla, take care. I think of you often.
we were friends.
April 1, 2007
Just thinking about you and checking who else has. For a guy who was such a goofball growing up you sure continue to have a profound effect on me...Take care.
March 20, 2007
I send my sincer's to the ford family! He will never be fogoten by his ever pleaent smile. Hope the light guides you home.
Sincer appology from his friends
Deputy Chris O'Neal
January 21, 2007
Kurt,
On January 19th, I celebrated the birth of my second child; a son. While thanking god for all of my blessings, you again come to mind and I'm grateful. VADIS - VADO.........1*
Charlie
December 28, 2006
Just remembering when you and Jill came out to the house for our end of the year party bro. There would be way to much snow for you guys to try it this year.
December 25, 2006
Christmas Day, missing you.
~sis
Michael wagner
December 18, 2006
Kurt, you are gone but never forgotten. Thinking of you and of your family. Miss you everyday brother.
Wags
Brenda
November 26, 2006
dearest karla, your family are in my prayers I never knew this happened otherwise I would have written to you and your family. I am so very sorry. Kurt was a wonderful man and officer of peace.
Det. Mike Sheehan
July 8, 2006
God bless you Kurt. May you walk in the lords eternal glory.
T
July 1, 2006
Can you read from heaven?? Sometimes I question that but you said to me " I'll know what you are doing". Well you have been metioned twice this week for things you said or for your actions towards others, God unites for a reason and your smile was always encourging. I hold firm to that. For simplicty sake, Kurt you are missed!! Thanks for being an angel to watch over us! God Bless!!
ROBERT GUEST
June 26, 2006
KURT WAS A GREAT MAN AND FRIEND. THE WAY HE WILL BE MISSED CAN NOT BE EXPLAINED
Jamie Foster
May 1, 2006
Kurt was one of the greatest deputies i knew, he was so excited to go to work every day and help the community. He also helped out our Explorer post and loved to share his knowledge with others. We will all miss him very much.
Jamie Foster
May 1, 2006
I will miss you Kurt.
Thank you for every thing you have given to the DCSO Exolorers and the community.
Susan Jones
April 30, 2006
Hard to believe its been a year.. I will always think of you and keep Jill and the boys in my prayers.
April 29, 2006
I miss you. k-
Paul D'Ambra
April 28, 2006
Kurt, your picture hangs on my wall and I see it daily. You were someone I loved as a SWAT brother. We trained together (you with that long green bandanna). I miss my conversations with you about "the boys" and life. I was truly hurt when you announced you were going back to Kansas. You have been an inspiraton to me. You were a great person, father, husband and Police Officer. I hope to see you again someday for another conversation. I love you Kurt. Paul....
Alyssa Giltner
April 26, 2006
Thinking about you buddy! We all miss your smile...
Lisa Barham
April 13, 2006
Karla and family, Jill and boys,and friends of Kurt,
I still hate the terribly tragic fact that we lost such a wonderful friend a year ago. I really miss seeing his smiling face and listening to his humorous anecdotes about family, friends and
life in general.
Kurt was a great guy and an amazing part of our community. He will always be remembered fondly,and forever in our hearts.
I wish you all the very best and just wanted to let you know that you are all always in my thoughts.
(And, Karla, I am still praying for you all, and do not intend to ever stop!)
Love, Lisa Barham
Class of'85
Laura Franz
April 8, 2006
It seems like yesterday that I got a call at home that this dear person had been shot and killed. My prayers still go out to his wife, boys, his parents, Karla and her family, law enforcement and all his friends, who seem to be everywhere you turn. I continue to keep my 918 bracelet with me daily, it reminds me of that smiling face, his enthusiasum for life, and the crazy old days when he would make us giggle and smile. Kurt, we haven't forgotten.
Paul Huber
January 30, 2006
I never had the fortune to meet Kurt, but I have been involved in two officer involved shooting situations, and I feel that Kurt did his job to perfection. He will be missed by a brotherhood of not only law enforcement but fire-ems as well. My prayers go out to all of his family for the supreme sacrafice that Kurt gave to all of us for a better place to live. Thank You Kurt!!!
Paul Huber, Halstead Police Department
BILL, GAIL, JOSHUA AND ALYSSA FORD
October 17, 2005
To our cousin Kurt, you were a dear member of our family. We are still struggling to comprehend your death. It just does not seem possible that someone as young and vibrant as you has been taken from us. Your memory will live on in the people who knew and loved you. Thoughts of you and your family and the grief they must be going through are never far away. The family will just not be the same without you. We are so proud of the job that you did and the people you helped in you short time here on earth. Love always.
kayla bell
August 20, 2005
Im am just a fourteen year old minor who happend to know greg. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know kurt is in heaven right now looking down on you and my thoughts and prayers are with you everyday.
love, kayla bell
Bob Simonich
July 25, 2005
This years match just wasn't the same without you. We know you were with us guiding us. Rest well my brother.
Tina Miller
July 23, 2005
I never met Kurt but he hold a dear place in my heart. I can't explain the feeling I have. I am so proud that he was an officer for newton kansas. I am a friend of greg's daughter and I want to offer my condoliences to the family. I hope that justice will be brought to the man that caused so much pain to you and your family. God will be with you and even though the pain will never go away things will get eaiser. Sarah askes that you will forgive her for what her father has done and that she also hold a dear place in heart for you. God is always there and he will help when ever he can. God Bless. Kurt we love you.
Anonymous
May 21, 2005
As a dear friend of one of Kurt's best friends, I feel obliged to extend my prayers and condolences to the family and friends of this valiant, chivalrous prince of men. I understand his motivation was to serve the greater good. Having perfected that, God blessed him and beckoned him home. Kurt must remain our inspiration as we carry on his mission of making our world a better place for our children!
Connie Vance (cousin)
April 26, 2005
It is still extremely difficult to comprehend the news that Kurt is no longer with us.
During the two years that Kurt, Jill, Preston and Adam attended church with us at Littleton Church of Christ in Colorado, we would scan the section where they sat to receive the huge smile from Kurt with bear hugs to follow.
Jill, Preston and Adam and Uncle Max and Aunt Virginia may your heart be comforted with the comfort that only our God can give.
II Corinthians 1:3
Because Kurt lived his life with such enthusiasm, he will always be with us.
Tina Donnelley
April 26, 2005
Kurt,
I miss you so much. I just wish that you could have had one more day or many more to be here with us. Everyone misses you so much including me. I still remember all the talks that we had and how you told me all you plans for Harvey County once you became Sheriff. I believe that you would have gotten it with no problem. Your watch is over now, we will take it over from here. Just keep watching from above and sending those cute smiles of yours our way.
Jesse Ballew
April 25, 2005
I did not know Officer Ford but my online friend Mary Lou Abrahams did and she told me about this tragic event. In my youth I served with The Military Police for a while & can somewhat relate to this. My Wife Jeanette & I wish to offer our sincere condolences to Officer Ford,s Family.
Kathleen Sisil
April 23, 2005
I will always remember Kurt sitting at Newell's having lunch and cutting up with the other officers he would be on patrol with. He was always very kind,funny and a joy to know and be around. He was one of the most approachable officers I had met in a long time ( I grew up around police officers ) There was never anything that you couldn't talk to him about and you knew that what you said mattered to him. He had a wonderful and caring heart. And I know that he is missed greatly by all whos lives he touched. I can not begin to imagine the sorrow that his family is feeling and my heart and prayers go out to them. He was a men amoung men and I know that there is a special place in Heaven for him.
Lisa (Abrahams) Barham
April 23, 2005
Kurt,
I'm sitting here, looking at your picture, and I still have trouble believing you're gone - that I'll never see you picking the boys up after school anymoe.
I m so glad that I got to see you that once more, after you and your family moved back. I hate it, though, that your family is hurting so very much, now.
You could not have come from better people, and I say that, just from knowing you and Karla from Newton High and our class of '85!! You two are definitely priceless, beautiful people, and you, Kurt, will be missed so very, very much.
Jill, Preston and Adam, Mr. and Mrs. Ford, Karla, John and family,
please know that my prayers begin and end, every night, asking God that He'll continue to watch over you and heal your hearts. Though I know He will lessen the pain you're
feeling, somehow, you will always have some hurt with your many memories. (That's only human!)
Rest assured that there are many of us who will always be here for you anytime you need anything. We love you even if we don't know all of you personally.
We will never forget our friend, Kurt Ford, who, so very bravely, gave so very much to save the life of another.
To heaven he may be another angel but to so many he is a true friend,(as I have considered him and Karla for a quite a few years now!)
He will also live on in our hearts and minds as an admirable hero who so unfortunately, was taken from us far too soon.
I know he's watching all of us from above and I know he's also looking out for my young niece, up there! (I like to think of them as my guardian angels!)
I also believe that we will see them, again, someday, face-to face, when and Where none of us will ever have to hurt again.
Love and miss you always, Kurt.
Your friend and classmate,
Lisa (Abrahams) Barham
Verlyn Regehr
April 23, 2005
He took the oath to uphold the law,to fight the good fight no matter the cost. In a hail of gunfire he went away, the family left to mourn today. The memories the laughter, the smile on his face, forever remembered we loved him that way. For those that hope and do believe, its never a goodbye just a temporary reprieve. Then someday, one glorious day, beyond this time realm and space, they"ll all be together, an amazing grace.
Ruth (Florea)Boor
April 22, 2005
I first met Kurt when he was a young boy. He and Karla gave me huge hugs like they had known me all of my life. Every greeting therafter was the same big hug-no matter their age or changes in life. Kurt was a genuinely loving person, who saw good in everyone he met. What great parents he had! He is in heaven with Don and all of the others we have lost over the years-being with the family he loves there as well. It is unfortunate that our hearts are still heavy with the grief of his loss, but of course he would want us all to be strong and continue to make life a better place for knowing him. He was a true role model as he touched many lives in his short life. Please know I am thinking of you all - Jill, Preston, Adam, Karla, Max and Virginia. Stay strong and live your life feeling good about all the great memories you have of the positive, loving person that he was. Love to you all- Ruth
Kim Pepping
April 22, 2005
Kurt was an upstanding Police Officer, Husband, Father, and Friend. I cannot say enough about what a GREAT human being he was. He was very well respected by many of us. I really looked up to him. He was a good person all around and all that knew him will miss him dearly.
God be with his family in a most difficult journey that lies ahead of them. My prayers are with them all. God be with all of you and protect all of those still serving.
“For God has said, ‘I will never leave you; I will never abandon you’”.
“He died so you could live forever. That alone is worthy of your continual thanks and praise. Never again should you wonder what you have to be thankful for.”
Life on earth is just the dress rehearsal before the real production.
“When the tent we live in – our body here on earth – is torn down, God will have a house in heaven for us to live in, a home he himself had made, which will last forever.”
Aaron Kirtley
April 21, 2005
I imagine Kurt patroling the streets of gold bringing a smile to every person he meets, just like he did on earth.
Melanie Schnathorst
April 21, 2005
Kurt was one in a million. He always had a smile on his face and was such an encouring, uplifting person to be around. The world was a better place because of Kurt. I don't think I could imagine a better person to be a police officer. He was a true hero and will be greatly missed.
Monica Leonard
April 21, 2005
Kurt,
As a fairly new dispatcher I was only able to know you for a few short months. You will always be one of my favorites. What a character! Always joking and smiling, you always seemed to make things seem not so bad. Your friends here at Harvey County will feel the pain of losing you for a long time to come. I look forward to seeing you again.
To Jill, Boys and Family,
You are and always will be in our thoughts and prayers. Please know that we will be here for you always.
Kerry Lewis
April 21, 2005
Today we celebrated the life of Kurt Ford in two separate services. The first service was at the Commissioners' Chambers for Douglas County. I was told that several hundred former fellow employees along with Deputies from the Douglas County Sheriff's Office and surrounding agencies were in attendance. I was unable to make it to this service due to the fact that I worked all night.
I was able to attend the service for Kurt at the Littleton Church of Christ (where Kurt and his wife Jill, Adam, and Preston were former members). It was a beautiful service that once again brought tears to my eyes.
I was reminded of Kurt's words of encouragement and his great smile when I would see him at church. Kurt seemed to have this special perception about me when I spoke with him. There was not a single time when I was feeling discouraged that he did not have words of encouragement. A handshake would never suffice with Kurt, it always had to be a hug. He had warmth about him that distinguished him as an instrument of God's Peace.
At the service, we talked about a topic that I was just thinking about just last night:
"WWKD (What Would Kurt Do)"
As I responded last night to a violent domestic involving weapons and a suspect under the influence of methamphetamine- I thought to myself, what would Kurt do? How would he approach the situation tactically? How would he treat the victim? How would he treat the suspect?
I was suddenly aware of the spirit of what Kurt had committed his life to. JUSTICE in a time lawlessness... PEACE in a time of violence... JOY in a time of sadness.
Kurt's life is a testimony to what all of us who do this job want our lives to be... graciousness in the face of indiference. My prayer is that we all strive to make these attributes an enduring part of our daily lives.
Kurt would have wanted all of us to love a little deeper, laugh a little more, and remember to make the most of all that God has blessed us with.
To Kurt's Family, Friends, Colleagues, and the Citizens of Harvey County- May the Lord bless you and Keep you in this time of loss. May He make his face to shine upon you and give you peace...
Robyn Smith
April 20, 2005
Deputy Ford,
You were a great person to know, not a day went by that I didn't see a smile on your face. You were a great advisor to our explorer post and a great person to talk to, you will be missed.
Wayne & Jean Lindholm
April 20, 2005
Our sympathy to the family on the loss of Kurt. A police officer holds our highest respect and admiration. His loss will be shared by many.
Michael Wagner
April 20, 2005
Kurt I miss you brother. Kurt and I went to S.W.A.T school together at the air force academy. Not only did I learn from the instructors but Kurt was always there to lend the helping hand. Kurt always had the right thing to say even in the hardest of times. Kurt met you with a smile and left you with a smile. Kurt, what I wouldn't give to be in a stack with you again. Vadis Vado (you go I go) brother. You have fallen but will never be forgotten. Your swat brother WAGS
Shelly (Ashcraft) Bartel
April 20, 2005
Kurt; Heaven was made a little brighter the day you entered. Your life on earth was so short,but so powerful. Jill my thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. Kurt was a truly a gift from God. Never to be forgotten.
Don & Linda Spencer
April 20, 2005
Our hearts are so sad at your loss of Kurt. We only knew you for a short time while you attended Littleton Church of Christ, but we so much apprecieate the work done by all our law enforcement men and women. It is so sad when one is lost trying to protect others and do what is right. May God bless and comfort you, Jill, and all the family who feel his loss so deeply.
Love,
Don & Linda Spencer
Centennial, Colorado
John, Robin, Jay & Alisa Klein
April 20, 2005
We are so sorry for your family's loss. We pray that God will fill you with peace and wonderful memories. We continue to pray for healing for the whole family.
Karla Winslow
April 19, 2005
Dearest Brother, How do we go on without you. My heart is broken. 1/2 of me is gone. You were so special to so many and I am so proud and thankful for that. My chest swells as I read the entries, but no one will know you like me. My very soul cries out, I wasn't there to protect you the way you have protected me our whole lives. I struggle to believe the reality of this nightmare. It is too much to bear. I love you. Sissy.
A heartfelt thank-you to all who have submitted kind entries on Kurt's behalf.
Harry Jr. & Aline Eilert
April 19, 2005
We are sincerely sorry for your loss and you have been in our prayers and thoughts daily. Please know that you are being prayed for by lots of people here in Sedalia,and especially at the First Christian Church. People ask us daily about you and your children and about Chris,our nephew. May God surround you and yours and be a help in all things in your days ahead and bring peace within soon. God loves you,and so do we.
Susan Ashcraft
April 18, 2005
Kurt. How can we ever think of him without seeing that smiling face. He was an Angel whom God loaned us for a very short time. Our condolences to all the Ford family. Our prayers are with you all.
Jr. and Susie Ashcraft
Bobby Wise
April 18, 2005
Kurt was simply put "a Great Man"
Jimmy Dudensky
April 18, 2005
So sorry for your loss.
Lynn Merritt
April 18, 2005
"Greater Love hath no man, that he lay down his life for a friend" That is the most Christlike action that one can fulfill in this lifetime. May God comfort the family and friends. Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. Lynn Merritt
Troy, Diane, Elizabeth, Brittany, McKenzie Senn
April 18, 2005
Kurt you are a friend like no other friend. It is amazing on how many lives you had an impact on the short time you were here. It seems like it was only yesterday that Jim, Scott, and Steve were telling me that you were coming back, I was so glad to here that. The day that you came by and asked if I needed any help, that you would like to work for me on your days off was a honor. The one regret that I have is not bring you on right then and their.
I had a set of house plans laid out that day, you told me that you, Jill and the boys were renting a house, and once you got settled that you wanted me to build that house for you and your family. You told me that you wanted that house because Jill and the boys deserved the best. I was unable to do so for you, but I will always keep these plans in my heart and when we meet again I will build that house for you. We will meet again buddy. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. You will be dearly missed but not forgotten.
Jeremy Clark
April 18, 2005
Heaven must have been short on angels, so God summoned one who was heroic and brave.
Danny Potter
April 18, 2005
Semper Fidelis Brother
Lissa Pitts/Bibb
April 17, 2005
Thurman Bibbs daughter.
Faris Family's and Performance Plus
April 17, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jill,Preston,Adam and family. Kurt has made so many memories that will be cherished forever. Kurt you will never be forgotten! God Bless
April 17, 2005
My prayers are with the family of this very brave man. Surely he is one of God's newest Angels.
Patricia Taylor
April 17, 2005
I didn't know Kurt, but his story touched my heart. May these words bring comfort to his family.
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not here to see, if the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me.
I wish so much you wouldn't cry, the way you did today, while thinking of the many things we didn't get to say.
I know you'll always love me, and I'll always love you, and each time you think of me, I know you'll miss me too.
When tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand.
He said my place was ready in heaven far above, and that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love.
And as I turned to walk away a tear fell from my eye, for all my life I'd always thought I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, and so much yet to do, it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday, I thought for just a while, I'd say good-bye and kiss you, and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized that this could never be, for emptiness and memories would take the place of me.
When I thought of all the worldly things that I'd miss come tomrrow, I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.
As I walked through heaven's gates I felt so much at home, when God looked down and smiled at me from his great golden throne.
He said,"This is eternity and all I've promised you, today your life on earth is past and here it starts anew. I promise no tomorrows, but today will always last, and since each day's the same day, there's no longing for the past. Though I promise no tomorrows on earth to anyone, so many live each day so sure of seeing ONE MORE SUN. Yet each one knows that I will call and no one knows just when, they will never stop to pray or ask forgiveness for their sins. For many have I turned away so sad at heaven's gate, for when I called, they weren't ready, and it was much too late. You have been so faithful so loving and so true, though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn't do. But you have been forgiven, and now, at last, you're free, so won't you take my hand and share my life with me?"
When tomorrrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart, for every time you think of me I'm right here in your heart.
May Kurt watch over and protect you all from his heavenly home.
Carol Posey
April 16, 2005
May God be with your family & friends during this time.
BIll Ruppart
April 16, 2005
Kurt,Family and Friends: Kurt Ford, He was my friend.
Death took the sceptre from his failing hand, and all men said, "He gave his life to teach the task of honour to a sorid land!"
April 16, 2005
May this brave man rest in peace
Brian Kingsley
April 16, 2005
Dear Fords, Winslows, and Prestons,
Words cannot express how sad I am for you right now. This tragedy has hit me harder than anything else has ever hit me in life. I just cant imagine what your family must be feeling. It gives me some comfort to know that Kurts legacy will live on in all of us who knew him. I know I am going to strive to be a better father, husband, brother, coach and christian because of Kurt. He touched so many people in so many places, and I feel so honored to have known him. Eveything that everyone has said about him is so true. They really aren't trying to make him sound good because he died so tragically, he really was that good. I grew up in the same church as him. When he became Police Chief of Hesston he moved in across the street from me, I played many softball games against him, the first time I took my oldest daughter "trick or treating" I went to his house first. The last time I saw him I coached my daughters soccer team at the Newton Rec right next to him. I hadn't seen him since he moved to Colorado and I didn't know he was back in town. I got the chance to talk with him for a few minutes before practice started, and it was just like I had talked to him yesterday. He was so happy to be back in Newton, and so happy to be back on the Sheriff Dept., that he was about to burst. I could go on and on with stories about him, but everyone that knew him already knows his story. You will be forever missed Kurt Andrew Ford but NEVER forgotten. We love you and pray for you and all of your family.
Love,
Brian, Kelly, Haley, Maycee, and Mia Kingsley
Linda Goulden
April 15, 2005
I have a brother and 2 brothers-in-laws, in Law Enforcement and every time I read about a fallen Officer it touches me deeply. I don't know what his friends, family and fellow officers are feeling right now, but please know that you are not alone in your grief.
Kurt was a man that will NEVER be forgotten as he has touched so many lives.
To the Ford family...
Please keep his name alive and never forget what kind of a man and father he was.
He will live on in you,
in your tears,
in your smiles,
in everything you do and
in your hearts.....
FOREVER......
Bless you all...I am so Sorry
My heartfelt condolences.
Valorie & Larry Bachman
April 15, 2005
Kurt,
Today I went to see you and the picture of Ottie that reminds everyone of you stared up at me. I can't even put in to words how you will be missed. My heart is missing something that will not be returned. You gave to my girls the real meaning of a true and loving man! They will miss you greatly! Larry feels a geat loss in a friend he has watched grow through the years. Your family has so much to be proud of Kurt, you are what every man, woman and child should want to be. You make me want to be a better person and I hope that I and my family can do you proud! I will never forget you and what you have done for your mankind. Until we meet again take care dear friend! Love Val
Jill and Family,
I can only hope that time will heal your broken hearts. No words can be said to ease your pain, but know that many are here for you daily and wish you the best as you pick up the pieces. God has received one of the best! Memories are something no one can take from us so fill your heads and hearts with all that Kurt has left you and one day you too will be with him in eternity. Your friend as well forever! Valorie & Larry Bachman
Jody Stanley
April 15, 2005
Although I had never met Kurt, I would like to send my condolences and prayers to his family and friends. Many times we overlook what our officers do every day or forget to thank them and treat them with the utmost respect. Thank you for providing a safe haven for us and trying to make this world a better place to live. Thank you for watching over us still. May we serve you proud as Your light shines through from all of those you have touched, including myself. May God Bless you and your family. You will be missed.
Larry Arguello
April 15, 2005
The very first day I met Kurt he had a smile on his face. I don't know what it was at that moment, but I knew that I would have a friend for life. I know I'm not telling you anything new about Kurt, but he is the kind of person that would put you first before him. That's what made Kurt the special person he is. I know Kurt has a special place in his heart for his family and friends. To Jill and the boys, I ask the Lord to be with you all in the challenges that you will face everyday. Our prayers are with Kurt and his family.
Deputy Larry Arguello (VADIS VADO 1*)
DCSO-"What we do in life echoes an eternity"
Donna/Gene Entz
April 15, 2005
It is with deep sadness I email this message to Mr. and Mrs. Max Ford, Mr. and Mrs John Winslow (Karla) Jill, and sons, I met Kurt at the Chisholm Trail Festival some years ago and he helped our organization with the ident a kid program. i immediately noticed his eyes which seem to smile up his whole face. What a kind person he was and seemed always smiling and happy, how he was with the kids was awesome. I had the pleasure of visiting with him at time and he was so pleasant to visit with. I am very happy to have met him and I would see him now and then and he never forgot my name. I also worked with Karla in one of the local hospitals and what a joy she was. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, and all the officers during the days ahead. Kurt has left lasting memories for all who knew him, the memories mean so much. May God Bless and watch over the family in the days head. Always Donna/Gene Entz.
Carolyn
April 15, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers to the family of this very brave man.
Tyson Leinweber
April 15, 2005
Cops have a tendency of only being genuine with those they know and trust. I can truly say that Kurt was genuine with not only those he knew but those he didn't as well. Kurt was always willing to smile, shake someone's hand, and make them feel important. Kurt was not only an outstanding Cop, but an outstanding human being as well! My thoughts and prayers are with Kurt, Jill and Boys. God Bless!
Judy McDiffett
April 15, 2005
Kurt Ford: To know him was to love him. He was everything a hero should be. Brave, courageous, and honest. He was a kind and affectionate man. Kurt's smile and his warmth made him dear to many. He gave me a hug everytime he saw me. Those hugs were special. When he left to got to Colorado, I told him I would miss those hugs. I was delighted when he came back to Harvey County. He was to be our next sheriff. Everyone was confident of that, and everyone was pleased. That dream ended on April 8, 2005. When I was told there had been a shot out, and Kurt had been killed,I refused to believe it. I rushed to the Courthouse. When I learned it was true I was devastated. He was so precious to us all. Kurt's death has left many, many people heartbroken. My prayers are with his family. It is hard to know that his precious sons will grow up without their father. I want to thank Kurt's family for allowing us to share in their grief. The messages from Karla, Steve Bayliss, and Tom Shane were a balm for our wounded souls. Mike Flavin has never sang more beautifully than he sang at Kurt's funeral. God was surely there in the beauty of the words and songs. My prayers will be with Jill, Preston, Adam, Mr. & Mrs. Ford and Karla and all of his family. You will be in our hearts and minds.
Sabine Morgan
April 15, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you
Lt. Robert McMahan
April 15, 2005
Often when people pass many say alot of nice things that they wouldn't say otherwise and don't really believe. That is not true in Kurt's case. Everything written or said has been true and there is much more to say. I don't have the ability to give this man a proper tribute, but he was and always will be one of the finest men I have ever known that wore a badge. Kurt had more integrity, more honor, and more courage than most. He was always loyal to his family, friends, and law enforcement family. We will all miss him more than we can tell.
Jill and boys... he loved you all and was a proud and happy husband and father! God bless you all!
Shirley Schroeder
April 14, 2005
My son said the sun set and raised with Kurt. Altho I never met him. If my son said he was one of the best then i believe him.
He had to be the best there was.
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