A.R. Gurney

1930 - 2017

A.R. Gurney

1930 - 2017

BORN

1930

DIED

2017

A.R. Gurney Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 14, 2017.
A.R. Gurney, a playwright known best for the plays “Love Letters” and “The Cocktail Hour,” died Tuesday, June 13, 2017, according to multiple news sources. He was 86.

His agent, Jonathan Lomma, confirmed the death to The New York Times but did not give a cause.

The Buffalo, New York, native often wrote about growing up in his hometown’s upper-class culture. His plays were praised for their witty observations regarding the decline of the upper-class White Anglo-Saxon Protestant group in the United States.

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Gurney, who was born Nov. 1, 1930, was the son of a real estate and insurance magnate. He attended the private Nichols School in Buffalo and graduated from St. Paul’s School in New Hampshire. He went to Williams College and then the Yale School of Drama. He became a professor of literature at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology.

He wrote plays while teaching at MIT including “The Middle Ages,” but it was not until his 1981 play, “The Dining Room,” that he became a success. He made his Broadway debut in 1987 with his play “Sweet Sue.”

In 1988, he had two successful plays produced: “The Cocktail Hour,” which was based on his upbringing in Buffalo, and “Love Letters.” Gurney was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize for drama for “Love Letters.” The play opened on Broadway in 1989 starring Jason Robards and Coleen Dewhurst.

Throughout his life, Gurney retained close ties to his hometown.

“Buffalo was the heart of my life,” he told the Buffalo News in 1987.

His most recent play was “Family Furniture,” which was produced in 2015. He also penned four novels.

Gurney is survived by his wife, the former Molly Goodyear, and four children.

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August 29, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing our love ones is never easy but may the love of people that surrounds you soften your grief. And may you find comfort and peace in drawing closer to God in prayer during this difficult time.

Jen Spaulding Gurney

August 25, 2017

I, as well as many others, remain in shock and sorrow. I treasure the memories of him, the limitless advice he gave me, and the laughter we could always share.

July 17, 2017

Not only was Pete a prolific and timeless playwright, he was also a incredible human being. He always had a bright smile and incredible wit. He made everyone in the room feel comfortable and was always happy to engage in conversation.

I shall miss him terribly especially sharing a glass of red wine and great conversation.

My heartfelt sympathies go out to Molly and his family.

I wish him a wonderful journey home.

RIP my friend.

Andrea Risoli

June 26, 2017

To the family and friends of A.R Gurney, I wish to leave you with my condolences on the lost of your dear loved one. I hope you recieve all the love and encouragement during this time. May you have confidence and know our dear loving heavenly father cares about you and he will soon reunite you with your loved one.

M C

June 23, 2017

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the family for their loss. May you find comfort in God during this time of sorrow. (Psalms 86:17)

June 21, 2017

My prayers to the family of A.R.Gurney. May your find comfort in his memories.

Carlotta

June 20, 2017

May the God of all peace bring comfort to the Gurney family and friends at this difficult time.

Harry Simpson

June 19, 2017

Godspeed, and thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

Betty Armour-Fowler

June 19, 2017

My prayers and condolences to the family of A.R.Gurney. He live a long life of special mightiness from God. Psalms (90: 10.). Keep his many, many memories close in your hearts and minds and cherish them forever. May the comfort of God be with you all during this time of grief.

June 19, 2017

My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Lisa Linden

June 18, 2017

Pete Gurney was an extraordinary playwright and an even better friend. The family of Lloyd Kaplan sends deepest condolences to Molly, and to all who knew and loved him. --Lisa Linden

Leslie (Hoban) Blake

June 17, 2017

To all of Pete's family, please accept my sincere condolences. As someone who knew him both collegially and professionally, he will be missed, but his works will live on.

Marie

June 16, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. May Mr. Gurney rest now and be safe in God's memory.

Lynn

June 16, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.Make God your stronghold in the days ahead.

June 16, 2017

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

June 16, 2017

I'm sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace to cope with your loss Phillippians 4:6,7.

Thea

June 15, 2017

I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. And may your family find comforted love and strength and with the support of family and friends at this time.

Seton Ijams

June 15, 2017

Very sorry to hear this news. We at the St. Nicholas Society honored him with our Washington Irving Literary Excellence Award where I met him. I also attended a boys camp in Maine with his son George.

Condolences to the family.

Valenda Newell

June 15, 2017

U gave the world so much of oneself....such brilliance....one will always be remembered...thanks for sharing....MANY PRAYERS and BLESSINGS to family and friends

Jose Rivera Cosme

June 15, 2017

Sending my prayers to MIss Molly and her family...
Mr. Rivera , PS 180

christian

June 15, 2017

My deepest sympathies to the friends and family for your loss. Rest assured life is precious to our Creator. He promises to act in our behalf.
1 Corinthians 15:26

June 15, 2017

Goodbye Mr Gurney. May God give his family, friends and fans much comfort at this very sad time. God love you.

Mickey George

June 15, 2017

Rest in Peace A.R. Gurney.

John Clinton

June 14, 2017

My wife & I did "Love Letters" many times. Each time it was exhilarating -- especially doing it with the love of my life. Thank you Mr. Gurney for so much happiness -- Andy & Melissa.

Rose Duodu

June 14, 2017

Rest in Peace A.R. Gurney. John 5:28

June 14, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the Gurney family in your time of grief. May the God of all comfort strengthen you.

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