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Patricia A. Adams obituary, Altamont, NY

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Delmar, New York

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Apr. 17, 2026

10:00 a.m.

St. Thomas the Apostle Church

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Patricia Adams Obituary

Adams, Patricia A.
ALTAMONT - It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Patricia Ann Adams (Shaw), who departed this life on April 4, 2026, in Altamont, N.Y., the very day she celebrated her 75th birthday. Born on April 4, 1951, in Albany, N.Y., Patricia, known affectionately to family and friends as Polly, lived a life marked by unwavering dedication, love, and advocacy.
Patricia was a graduate of Bethlehem Central High School, where she met the love of her life, and was married for 57 years. In 1983, she played an instrumental role in establishing Builder's Kitchens, Inc. While managing the complexities of Builder's Kitchens, Patricia faced her greatest personal challenge with unforgettable courage, when her daughter Ali was diagnosed with Rett Syndrome, a rare neurological disorder. With tireless devotion, she ensured that Ali's needs were met every single day, embodying the very essence of maternal love and strength.
Her commitment extended far beyond her immediate family. Patricia was a passionate advocate for children with disabilities, and served on the board at the Center for Disability Services, where she was the driving force behind the creation of the "Ali Adams Fun Park," at the Langdon School. Thanks to her vision and tenacity, the park became a joyful haven where all children could play and thrive. Her proudest accomplishment was helping others through their struggles, a mission she embodied in every aspect of her life.
She was devoted wholeheartedly to her family, her energy and love boundless. Nothing brought her greater joy than spending cherished time with her grandbabies, watching their sports games, dance recitals, and school activities, nurturing each moment with love and pride.
Patricia is survived by those who loved her dearly, her husband, Richard Adams Sr.; her children, Bridgette McGowan (husband) Tom McGowan Jr., Richard Adams Jr., (fiancé) Dianne Francis, Ali Adams; her goddaughter, Sharan Johnson; her brother, James Shaw, (wife) Julie Shaw. She also leaves behind beloved grandchildren, Adam McGowan, Jackson Adams, Reesa McGowan, Jaylen Johnson, and Julia Francis, who will carry forward her legacy of love and joy. Patricia was preceded in death by her father, Joseph Shaw; her mother, Marion Gallup Shaw; and her brother, Joseph Shaw.
She will be deeply missed, forever remembered, and eternally cherished by all who had the privilege to know her. May Patricia Ann Adams rest in peace, reunited with those she loved and who now watch over her.
A Mass to celebrate Patricia's life will be held on Friday, April 17, at 10 a.m., at St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 35 Adams Pl., Delmar. Interment will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Glenmont. There will be no calling hours.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to The Center for Disabilities Services Adult Day Program.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Albany Times Union from Apr. 9 to Apr. 16, 2026.

Memorial Events
for Patricia Adams

Apr

17

Service

10:00 a.m.

St. Thomas the Apostle Church

35 Adams Place, Delmar, NY 12054

Funeral services provided by:

Applebee Funeral Home

403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar, NY 12054

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Dorita Dart Nobles and Ted

5 hours ago

My most sincere condolences. I thought of you often my dear cousin. Even though I haven´t seen you in years, you were always in my thoughts and prayers. Many fond memories . I hope heaven is like we´ve been taught.

Joan O´Connor

Yesterday

I´m so sorry to hear of Pat´s passing. She was a power of example to all who were blessed to know her

Neil j mitchell

April 9, 2026

My heartfelt condolences to all of pats family......she was a REAL straight shooter a wonderful human being..gentle but fierce....she helped many people....I am going to miss her....

Theodore (Ted) Wilson

April 9, 2026

Condolences to the complete Adams and Shaw family. I enjoyed many years of enjoyment @ BCHS and all social activities .Patty was a lovable character for which we all shared her compassion in all aspects of life. RIP Patty and Rich keep the strength !! We care !!!

Ted Davis

April 9, 2026

I am saddened to hear if my friend Pat's passing. She will be missed. A power of example

Paul Ehmann

April 9, 2026

Rich,
My sincere condolences to you and your family. Pat was a friend. Someone I respected and trusted. She was a hero, in the humblest way a person could be a hero. May She Rest In Peace.

Paul Ehmann

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