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Peter Bertine Obituary

1936 - 2020
Peter Kellogg Bertine, 83, devoted husband, father, grandfather, lawyer, athlete and advocate, passed away from heart complications on May 18, 2020 in Tucson, Arizona where he retired after 75 years in New York.



Born in Bronxville, NY in 1936 to Edwin and Dorothy Bertine (and sister, Joan), Peter attended Kent School ('54), Williams College ('58) and Syracuse University College of Law ('66) where he met and married Diane Bassett Bertine in 1965. He served three years of active duty in the U.S. Navy as an LTJG Officer. One of his many duties included captaining a tug boat that pulled targets for torpedo practice. Peter's cool, collected calmness was legendary.



An avid reader, political historian, Scrabble warrior, crossword wizard, unsuspecting card shark, road trip planner, astronomy aficionado, sushi connoisseur, hummingbird nurturer, emoji enthusiast, groan-inducing pun maker, quick-witted humorist and devout fan of The Eagles were just a few facets of Peter's multidimensional character that permeated his life…



Throughout his 35-year law career at Bertine, Hufnagel, Headley, Zeltner, Drummond and Dohn in Bronxville & Scarsdale, NY-and subsequent role in financial planning as Kellogg Consulting, LLC-Peter specialized in estate planning, taxation, family, business and real estate law. His deep love of the Adirondack Mountains and conversation led to a 1998 Supreme Court victory that protected specific non-navigable rivers for preservation in Upstate New York. The landowners and wildlife clapped enthusiastically.



Peter's sense of duty to his community was evident to all who knew him. He proudly served The Rotary Club, Lawrence Hospital, The Community Fund, Westchester Heart Association, Westchester Children's Association, Riverside Cemetery Association, NYS Cooperative Extension and Adirondack League Club, and was president/founder of the Adirondack Landowners Association.



An inspiring athlete, Peter was a rower who conquered the Head of the Charles throughout his 50s and entered his first triathlon at age 66. At 68, he completed the iconic Escape From Alcatraz, which starts with a 1.5-mile swim across the San Francisco Bay. At 72, he earned a berth to the age group ITU World Championships in Vancouver, BC. In his mid-70s, Peter retired to Arizona, segueing from triathlon to a more leisurely fitness routine including a weekly spin class with his daughter. Peter's athleticism motivated everyone who knew him and inspired two articles on ESPN about his Alcatraz triathlon (2011) and heart surgery (2012). "Remember," Peter told ESPN, "When it comes to living, it is always better to DNF than DNS." Trying is what matters most.



Peter is survived by his biggest fans: Diane, his wife of 55 years, his daughter Kathryn, his son Pete Jr., his beloved grandson Alex, 12, Alex's mom, Kasia, and his very best buddy, Barry Baldwin. He leaves so many dear friends, colleagues and clients that there aren't enough pages on the internet to list all the lives he's touched over 83 years. Peter's legacy of generosity, kindness and compassion lives on in his family and friends. We miss you and we love you forever. "Take it to the limit one more time…"

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Published by New York Times from Jun. 4 to Jun. 5, 2020.

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Horace

December 31, 2020

Mr Bertine always had a special place in my heart. I met him during his Son’s Peter Jr’s trails in the urban markets. Mr Bertine was the only person who ever gave us a chance to do better as black young people in Bronxville and he will be missed we love him Thank You Mr B you will always be rowing up stream in our hearts.

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Horace
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Elaine Banks Stainton

September 4, 2020

Peter was a wonderful help to me settling the estate of my husband 29 years ago. He became more than an attorney—really a friend. My most heartfelt condolences to his family.

Bob Archibald

June 14, 2020

RIP. Dearest friend and best "best man" ever. 60 year ago this August 1st..
Love, Margaret and Bob

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Larry Nilsen

June 10, 2020

I got to know Pete again 60 years after we graduated from Williams College, when he joined our crazy annual Phoenix AZ golfing reunion (surprisingly he played golf along with all the other sports in which he excelled). Pete was great company, and very unassuming. I had no knowledge of his many other accomplishments, and consider it a privilege to have been able to share fun times with him again after all these years. What an impactful life! Rest In Peace, good friend.

Simone Taylor

June 7, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies to you and your family. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

John P Brisson

June 5, 2020

Peter's soft spoken humble words were insightful, wise, often humorous and always on the mark. I truly enjoyed every conversation, every debate, every row and all our time together. A truly wonderful man who made the world better for his part in it.

Sam Crocker

June 5, 2020

What can one say? Peter was one of the all-time best people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing! Just a truly wonderful person by any standard of measurement.! A wonderful Little Moose neighbor and a good friend!

Christopher Lawrence

June 4, 2020

Big, big smile to read the above. There's a "twinkle in the eye" in those words that well befits their subject. A gentleman, a fine citizen of Bronxville, and a steward of the Adirondacks. I'm thinking of all the Bertines and thanking you, Katherine, for sharing him so well right now. Love, C.

Patricia McNeal

June 4, 2020

To a man who has inspired me to do epic things... I will forever be grateful of the memories you created. Ill miss you R. I. P. Much Love~ Pat

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Livia Devereux

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Kathryn Bertine

June 4, 2020

A memorial service will be held at 10am on July 1st at Christ Church in Bronxville, NY followed by internment at Riverside Cemetery in Norwalk, CT at 2pm. We will follow all social distancing guidelines as they develop. Those who cant attend in person may watch the memorial via livestream. Follow @kathrynbertines social media platforms for links and details. Thank you, everyone. ❤We feel the love. -The Bertine family

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