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Michael Uliano Obituary
Michael A. Uliano, a broker for Cantor Fitzgerald, never changed much from the grinning 10- year-old boy who was profiled in 1969 by his Canton, Mass., paper for snagging a 20-pound bass off Cape Cod. That he had just recovered from a broken wrist only added to his reputation for athleticism.
For the next 32 years, relatives recall, Mr. Uliano returned often to the Cape to dig clams and test out fishing lures he fashioned from chenille and Krazy Glue. He rode the dunes in a 1973 Jeep whose grille he painted to look like a shark's mouth.
Work eventually brought Mr. Uliano to New York, and though he enjoyed being a broker for Cantor Fitzgerald, he really wanted to act. So much, said his sister, Martha King, that he even endured teasing as a student at Ithaca College when he took ballet lessons as a way to improve his football game and prepare for a possible theatrical career.
When he met Linda Buffa in Bay Ridge in 1993, she took note of his Boston accent. He ribbed her about her Noo Yawk habit of talking while chewing gum. They were married in 1996 in Las Vegas, with an Elvis impersonator giving away the bride.
Life had darker moments, too. In March, Ms. Buffa learned she had breast cancer. "Thank God, he was here for that," she said. Daily radiation treatments kept her from attending a ceremony in his honor in which the Canton high school retired the Number 10, which he wore as its quarterback.
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Elizabeth Krawchuk Coe
September 11, 2024
23 years, we have celebrated your life that was taken too soon, Micheal. Many memories of you as a young cousin , young man, friend and mostly a loving human being!
I cry tonight for all the years we have missed you but I know n my heart you are never far away.
Your Cousin, Lizzy
Ann Phelan
December 24, 2023
Today I visited your memorial at Hemmingway Landing in Eastham, never will you be forgotten.
Jeff Seltzer
September 12, 2023
God bless you Mike, I think of you often. Your huge personality and fishing advice is sorely missed.
We served proudly together with the 4/16th Inf Regiment. We all owe you a debt of gratitude. Fly free bro!
Emily
September 12, 2023
Time has moved us all Uncle Michael.
We still remember and miss you so.
Please continue to send and share your love with us, we need it still!
Love you always
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Anne Middleton ( Merlino)
September 11, 2023
Remembering you with love & happiness , looking back on our youth in Canton. You were such a beacon of light to all that encountered you. Thank you for your light & irrepressible joy.
Michele piper
September 11, 2023
Love you and miss what should have been.
Sister Shelly
C Ming
September 14, 2021
Twenty years later..
I’ve never forgotten your infectious sense of humor.
Keep ‘em laughing up there, dear Michael.
We weep here on Earth.
My deepest condolences to your beautiful family and friends.
God bless all.
Michele piper
September 14, 2021
20 years have passed. May God Bless you. Miss you. Sister Shelly
Emily Malaquias
September 13, 2021
We all love and miss you very much. We so badly wish you were here. I often think how different things would be if we never lost you. Going to bed with gratitude knowing that we gained you as an angel to watch over us. I hope you are proud and pray that you will love, guide and light us to God's will. Love you Uncle Michael.
Michele Piper
September 11, 2020
Love you
C Ming
September 12, 2020
Remembering the consummate fitness professional you were at Eastern Athletic Club, Brooklyn.
And how your grand sense of humor kept us in stitches. Our deepest sympathy to your family and friends.
Daphne R
September 11, 2020
Remembering the joy , the laughter and the spirit you brought to fields, stage and halls of Cushing Academy.
The Kindred Family
December 6, 2019
Thoughts of heartfelt sympathy we send to your family. Each day may God's strength and your loving memories help you to cope with your loss. Mike is still sadly missed and will always be fondly remembered.
Maureen Liquori
October 4, 2019
❤
Michele Piper
September 12, 2019
Yesterday you were with us all at the outer beach off in the side trying to catch a fish. Love and miss you Sister Shelly
Janice Rentel
September 11, 2019
My first thought and prayer this morning was for your beautiful family. We all hold you close in our hearts and will never forget your spirit. Peace.
CHS Class of 78 ❤
Eric Abramson
September 11, 2019
MISSING YOU TODAY CUZ, I WISH MY CHILDREN GOT A CHANCE TO MEET YOU. I WISH I GOT TO HAVE MORE TIME AS WELL, RIP MY FRIEND.
Brooke Bellinger
August 28, 2019
I just came across the bench and memorial placed in Michaels memory at Hemenway. Such an emotional find! Brought back 9/11 like it was yesterday. My condolences to all his family and friends!
Karen Cedrone
January 15, 2019
Michael, you will always be a star in Canton, and your light continues to shine in our hearts. You touched so many lives in such a positive way. Your love of life, people, and the ease of your ability to entertain and inspire remains in my memory. You were always smiling and having fun. We grew up together. Your spirit still remains, your presence, felt. Your loss, huge. You will always be a legacy in this town. Thanks for being a great friend to my brother Jim. Still praying for you and your family and feeling the sadness. Your spirit lives on. Love Karen Cedrone
D T
November 17, 2018
Dear Micheal
I did not know you or have the honor of meeting you. I do know that those who did, respected, loved, and still miss you very much. God bless.
EJ Callahan
September 15, 2018
EJ Callahan
September 15, 2018
You would be proud.
EJ Callahan
September 15, 2018
Anne Middleton
September 14, 2018
Thinking of you..remembering you.....knowing your soul is in a better place.
Elizabeth Krawchuk-Coe
September 11, 2018
Miss you Michael, another birthday celebrated in your memory! A walk on Fort Hill talking about you to anyone we pass, a meditative moment on the bench dedicated to you at Hemenway, many blue herons and a chirping cricket. They all remind be of you, your shining soul! We will never forget.
Janice Rentel
September 11, 2018
Never forget you Michael; your kindness and hilarity remain forever in my heart not just today, but always. You are forever missed and will not be forgotten.
Love to your family,
Janice MacDonald Rentel
September 11, 2018
Another year gone by. Miss and love you. Sister Shelly
September 14, 2017
Hi Mike. Celebrating your life has become
quite the tradition. You would be proud. Miss you daily. Brother E.J.
September 14, 2017
P
September 12, 2017
Another year has past. Michael, the world was a better place with you around. You made a difference in many lives and will always have people try to live up to what you are
Class of 78
Michele Piper
September 12, 2017
Love and miss you sister Shelly
September 11, 2017
Beautiful day remembering you Uncle Michael! Love and miss you always
Jeffrey Seltzer
September 11, 2017
God bless you Mike "Big U". WAR EAGLES
Jeffrey Seltzer
September 11, 2017
I met Mike in 1985 in Goeppingen, Germany when I arrived for duty at the 1st INF DIV FWD 4/16th INF, E Co. "War Eagles". I was a semi nervous Private and Mike was my first barracks mate. He was a Spec 4 and he made me very comfortable, making me laugh from the beginning. He'd often call himself the Big U, or stand in the mirror flexing, laughing. Huge personality, and a guy who do anything for you. It wasn't until just a few years ago that I learned of him being part of 9/11. Every year now I watch Fox news as they scroll all the names but Mike's in particular. And I pray. God bless you Mike.
Anne Middleton
September 11, 2016
Remembering you today Michael, on this solemn occasion. So sorry for all that happened to you, and your loved ones.
Rest In Peace.
Anne Middleton
Janice Rentel
September 11, 2016
Dear Michael,
You are never ever forgotten, leaned on often and remembered with endearing love and joy; I remember you always.
Classmate, CYO, friend, CHS 1978
Janice MacDonald Rentel ❤
Emma Xo
September 11, 2016
I miss you Uncle Michael. We all miss you. Please send your love, your energy and your spirit to us. I pray you are with Papa Mike and Leann and all the rest of our family that we love and miss.
maura kilgallon-mayo
September 11, 2016
15 years, hard to believe...
Forever loved, never forgotten...
Steve McLaughlin
September 10, 2016
Thinking of my childhood pal Mike and the tremendous energy he possessed. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Uliano family.
Be assured that Mike will never be forgotten!
Steve McLaughlin - CHS 1978
Michele Piper
September 10, 2016
15 years my brother. God bless you.
MMUK
September 2, 2016
Happy Birthday to the guy who always swam against the tides...
and taught me how to navigate my way through them too.
Donna A
March 28, 2016
I have just read your name on the memorial .. One of the thousands which stood out to me. I live in UK and to this day I am still shocked and deeply saddened by the tragedy of 9/11 .. None of you will ever be forgotten. Worldwide .. RIP
Liz Krueger
September 13, 2015
I will love you always...you're forever on my mind
janet bush
September 12, 2015
May your spirit soar as it did in life. Always a smile and a laugh. To good times and memories. You live on in our hearts. We will never forget!!!
Ricki Titus Gordon
September 12, 2015
Michael I honor you on the 14th anniversary of your death. You were one of my favorite classmates. As I now fight for my own life, I am reminded how quickly yours ended. I love each day as if it was my last as I know you would have too. R.I.P., Michael until we meet again.
Maura Kilgallon-Mayo
September 11, 2015
Gone, but not forgotten.
I feel your presence and hear your laugh. You are missed...
Janice
September 11, 2015
I remember you and honor your memory always. I leave a yellow rose for you Mike, I never forgot what a great guy you were. CHS '78. Prayers to your family for strength and resolve.
michele piper
September 10, 2015
Miss and love you shelly
shelly piper
September 11, 2014
Another sad wonderful special day remembering you with family at your favorite place North Eastham
September 11, 2014
Mike
Rest in peace.
shelly piper
September 8, 2014
Wow 13 years still fresh in my mind every minute of those early days of 9-11-2001. We miss you and the times we would have had. God bless you love you your sister
Dan Higgins
September 15, 2013
Mikey,
I think of you often and miss you a lot.
September 13, 2013
On 9-11 my brother Mike lost his life, I pray that he is in God's light
September 13, 2013
Missing you, please watch over us, help us, find serenity,courage and wisdom in the appropriate places. I hope I honor your memory in a way you'd be proud. Marianne xo
shelly
September 12, 2013
my God what a glorious day at the outer beach we all had on 9-11 You were there in each of us
September 12, 2013
miss that smile and laugh, but I can still hear it in my head! RIP my friend!
September 11, 2013
Uli, your smile was infectious! RIP.
Joseph Uliano
September 11, 2013
thinking of you today.
September 10, 2013
Michael, think of you back in the football days. RIP
Ricki Titus Gordon
September 10, 2013
As we approach the 12th anniversary of 9/11 I remember you and your incredible smile and zest for life.....you were one of the nicest kids in my class at CHS. RIP, Michael...until we meet again:)
shelly
September 10, 2013
my dearest brother hold my dearest daughter in your arms
E.J.
November 9, 2012
Mike.It was mum's 75th birthaday. I so wish you were here. You would be proud.
September 11, 2012
Think of you often, Michael, but especially on this sad day. May you rest now in the loving arms of God. MB
michele piper
September 10, 2012
love and miss you dearly your sister Shelly
August 29, 2012
We often kayak Nauset Marsh, putting in at Hemenway. On the 10th anniversary last year on that beautiful day we tucked some wildflowers into your name plaque after seeing the dedication of a piece of steel from WTC at Chatham firehouse. May God bless your soul
EJ
May 8, 2012
On my mind heavy as I write this with tears in my eyes listening to my wife and daughter laugh and play in the background. How I wish you were here to be a part of it. I just wish you could see what I have become and I wish we could drive down s. Sunken meadow together as the sun came up with our favorite poppers to catch some blues. I really miss you mike. I'm far away were I want to be but deep inside I miss the sea and a body of water that surrounds the land made of compass grass and fine white sand it's not that big it's a fragile place footprints in the sand gone without a trace high winds and rough seas will make it erode but what does it matter the land is still sold a house will go up but that I don't mind because here on the cape good neighbors you'll find. Tom craw.
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Rob Ingram
September 13, 2011
Hannah Chun Welsh posted this in the Cushing Academy Facebook Traditions group page and I re-posted it on my Facebook page. Michael touched many lives. Many of us were thinking of you often this past weekend.
Sue Richardson- Hibbens
September 12, 2011
Dear Gail and Family,
I was on the Cape Sunday and as I passed the entrance to Hemenway I remembered again how special Michael was to all whose lives he touched. You said he was intense and I would have to agree but I believe that intensity allowed him to experience everything with such a fierce joy that we will all remember him and grin. He didn't let a minute of his life go by without pouring passion into it. I know your pain must still be fierce but I pray for all of you that those wonderful memories fill you with even just a bit of his joy as well. His was a life well lived.
Maura Kilgallon-Mayo
September 12, 2011
Dear Michael,
As I sat on the beaches of Welfleet and Orleans this summer watching my twin girls catching whatever they could in their fishing nets, I recalled your letters about your summers on Cape Cod. Staying at your grandmothers and loving every minute, I could totally see why this place was so special to you.
I remember your wild sense of humor, your great laugh, and who could forget that contagious smile. You may be gone Michael, but certainly never forgotten. Yesterdays ceremony in Canton was a perfect example of that. You touched many hearts. God bless you my friend. See you on the other side.
xo,
Jonathon Spenceley
September 11, 2011
Mike,I woke up this morning on this the 10th anniversary of 9/11 I had heard that you died from my roomate at Cushing Academy a year after in Boston when I was visiting him,for some reason I couldn't stop thinking of you and the great time we had in CA.I took my daughter and her friend to the mall to get out of the house and while passing a TV which was on CNN I looked up and saw your name on the bottom of the screen.To the Uliano's may God Bless you all! Mike (Uli) Rest in Peace!!He always had a great smile!
Kevin Cook
September 11, 2011
Mike -
Today we remembered you in Canton with the dedication of a memorial to you at the Veterans Park. It was a beautiful day and all that were there were touched by all those who remembered not how you died, but rather how you lived.
I gave your family a flag which was flown in your honor over Bagram Air Field in Afghanistan. I was glad to be able to bring this flag to your family and I know they will cherish it always.
God Bless you Mike. We will see you again when we pass on to the next life.
Kevin J. Cook - CHS Class 1978
Joe Merlino
September 11, 2011
To the Uliano's. We will miss Mike now and always. He was a great friend and a good man. He always looked out for us in younger days and was a great friend to all. We remember many days on Norfolk Street playing with the Uliano crew. We stopped by the memorial at Canton Cemetery today and think the workd of you. Be at peace now and always, Joe, Anne & Tina Merlino
Philip Dalton Crawford
September 11, 2011
Mike,May the Lord protect you, And fold you in his arms. May the flight of angels sing thy to thy rest.
Thomas Crawford III
September 11, 2011
To My Cousin, Michael,
On this day - and every day since September 11, 2001 - I remember you and your passion for life you exuded each and every day of your life. You influenced me in ways that I carry with me to this day. Your spirit endures on the shores of Cape Cod - and it always will. I will NEVER forget, Michael ... NEVER.
Stephen Young
September 11, 2011
Hi Mike
Thanks for the great memories at Cushing Academy.I think of you often when I explain to my kids that I took ballet in high school. Of course you took it to better your body and sole .I took ii to meet girls. God bless you and your family on this day.
Your classmate,
Stephen Young
Class 79 Cushing Academy
September 11, 2011
Dear Michael,
I've never forgotten you, your spirit, your gift of laughter and gentle kindness. I think of you often and visit you at the memorial each year and leave a yellow rose for friendship and faith; I am inspired by the tribute to you to press on and live each day to it's fullest in honor of you. May God bless and keep your wife Linda and your family close to his heart in comfort and safekeeping. I know, beyond any doubt, that you are with Him watching over all of us. You will never be forgotten; ever.
Your classmate,
Janice MacDonald Rentel
Canton High 1978
michele piper
September 10, 2011
please give us all your strength to get through tomorrow mis s you your sister shelly
Marianne Krueger
September 10, 2011
On 9-11 My Brother Mike lost his life, I pray that He is in Gods Light.
Cindy Ming
September 10, 2011
Remembering always your grand sense of humor. Replying to the very dapper, well-groomed Cybex salesman with an unusual "fade" hairstyle at Eastern Athletic after his serious, dynamic run through of the fitness equipment to us, the Fitness Staff, "Any questions?" with "Where d'ya get your haircut?"
We broke up!!!!!
Always remembering your johnny-on-the- spot helpfulness and kindness.
Always remembering you.
May God bless you, Linda and your family in this time of sorrow.
helen renegar/knoth
September 9, 2011
thinking of you tonight. sad too really. however i found myself dozing off.... we all are in vegas, andrew, carolyn myself and vinny standing outside the hotel, i could feel the evening air.... we are waiting for the car. you and linda are getting married....i see us at the chapel, vinny i can hear, his speech to his dearest friend and his lovely wife. we are full of laughter.
time jumps... linda and i bathing in the sun at the shore. linda and i in the bathroom at restaurant trying to make something out of my bad hair cut! new years, plays on broadway....i got scared and awoke. on the eve of this sad day i guess it was gods way of reminding me of happier times. i am grateful for these very real memories and honored to have known you at all. rememberd and never forgotten,thanks for all the laughter.
August 16, 2011
thinking of you a lot lately... love and miss you!
liz krueger
May 16, 2011
thinking of you...love and miss you uncle michael
May 16, 2011
forever loved, never forgotten!
May 4, 2011
God bless Michael you are missed but never ever forgotten
michele piper
May 3, 2011
Dear Michael, I know that one of the Navy Seals who got Bin Laden had the same qualities as you. Love of family, sense of self,Always striving to do and be the best. Not giving up no matter how long it takes because you want to make it right somehow. We miss you and it hurts to know we will never know what might have been. Always your sister Shelly
St. John the Evangelist School, Class of 1974 Canton High School, Class of 1978
May 2, 2011
My dear friend, Michael.
Your many St. John and Canton High classmates still sorely grieve your untimely loss. Our hearts are now a bit lighter as we learn that the evil spawn responsible for your death, and that of so many other innocents, must account for his actions before God. May that bring you some measure of peace, as it does for us who carry on in your name.
Michael, we remember you! We treasure you! And, may we make you proud!
Emily
May 1, 2011
They got him uncle Michael! Miss you so much! We have waited so long but we will win this fight rest in peace!
Janet Bush
March 7, 2011
I will never forget Michael, I started working downtown a month after 9/11. I dated a guy Steven who introduced me to Vinny and I met Andrew only one time, I felt like I had just met great people...never met people who loved their jobs so much. I knew Vinny and Andrew they introduced me to Mike down the Jersey shore. Michael would recite poetry and talk about his friends & family from MA. He was worldly he talked about dance, fishing, wrestling, that he loved to act... I always think about Michael, Vinny and Andrew...they were great people that I knew would always be special. When I spoke w Steven a year later, he told me that I had friends who perished in the WTC, I just want his family to know I pray for Michael , Vinny and Andrew everyday. To his family and friends, his wife Linda, whom I've never met, Linda, he used to talk about people he loved and he is looking down upon all of you. We will see him again. I WILL NEVER FORGET!
Liz Krueger
January 24, 2011
Uncle Michael,
Thinking alot about you these past few days especially on Sunday. Wishing you were there. <3
September 25, 2010
Deepest feelings from a girl who was in love with you from afar in fourth grade at St. John's School in Canton. Devastated to see how it ended for you. Always remembering your inner glow, and praying for you into eternity, all these years later. God bless you, Michael, and keep you, until you see those you love again in heaven.
September 23, 2010
My Dear Son Matthew You are doing exatly what your Uncle Michael would expect you to do. Encourage and support your nephew as he did with you.. Your memories are precious as Darkarie and KayleeAna's will be. Continue to grow into the man everyone including your uncle would be proud of. Always Mum
matt mcgillveary
September 22, 2010
Hey uncle Mike I don't know why this year was the hardest for me i cryed all day sept.11th as I am right now I guess every year i just blocked it out but I couldn't I took dakari stripper fishen all weekend when we went camping under the bridge I tryed to teach him just like you did me and we caught two nice strippers first ones of his life I was part of that experiance I know you were too!.When I got home that weekend the first thing I did was pick up our pitcure of us fishing on my dresser like i do everyday because it always falls but i'm not movin it.This is real hard for me I don't get it it hurts more know then it ever did.
Pat & Tom Crawford
September 12, 2010
Michael,I just read all the wonderful accolades written about you. You are so loved and so missed by your family and friends. Uncle Tom and I remember all the fun times we had together and all the great stories you would tell us. We talk about you stopping by our home in Sandwich and relating your fishing experiences and the exciting phone calls to Uncle Tom when your returned from a successful hunting trip. We will always remember your enthusiasm and the joy you brought into our lives. Love,
Aunt Pat & Uncle Tom
Peggy Crawford Plante
September 11, 2010
Michael, I didn't get to spend enough time with you as I wished. I remember you as a toddler and at Maryann's cottage one summer in Bass River and the fun we all had. You certainly were an inspiring guy and loved by so many as written in this guest book. You and your family are always in my prayers. Peggy Crawford Plante.
Thomas Crawford
September 11, 2010
Always in my memory, Cousin Michael - and I know you're always watching over us from above. I will never forget ... and for as long as I live and breathe, I will endeavor to assure no one else does either.
Thank you for having been, and continuing to be, such an inspiration.
Thomas
Cindy Ming
September 10, 2010
Michael, you were the best at the health club where we first met each other in Brooklyn. You kept me laughing in stitches all the time and you were a fabulous trainer. I am glad you and Linda found happiness even though it was much too brief. My heart and deepest condolences go out to Linda and to the Uliano family and friends.
September 10, 2010
My God It has been 9 years. Bless us
all. Love you Michael and
miss you. Your sister
Shelly
Henry Jr
August 4, 2010
Uncle mike im thinking of you tonight, looked up your name on the internet and came across this aweseome page...although i didnt get to see you as often as i would have like you always had a special effect on me, you inspired me and gave me something to look up towards. I remember how excited i was when you would visit with your awesome jeep and playing soldier in it with my best friend. My most fond memory was the christmas you came to visit when you took us to go sledding at wampatuck and look for deer tracks and wrestling with you after..i remeber you teaching me to shoot a bow in arrow in my backyard in the snow and how amazing i thought that was...love and miss you. Henry jr
Philip Dalton Crawford
July 4, 2010
I did not know of your passing, My cousin Peggy Plante,Nee Crawford told me last night in a phone call that you passed away.
I remember when your family came to Burbank for a visit, Thoes were wonderful times. I'm also listed on the 9/11 Memorial Wall under the name Dale Crawford, My 2nd middle name, God Bless you, And your wonderful family.
Bill Smith
March 8, 2010
Michael was a classmate of mine at Cushing Academy, as well as a teammate in Track and Field. Michael, Jay Taylor, and myself set the school's team javelin record together. I am still waiting for Michael's javelin to come down. Wow, what an athlete! But as incredible an athlete as he was, Michael was even more gifted as a person. I thought about Michael today, as his laugh and hugs just seemed to be in the air. He touched so many people and to this day, 31 years since we graduated, I can still hear his voice shouting encouragement to his teammates. His spirit is as large today as his life was on this earth. God bless you, Michael.
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