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Neil Leavy Obituary
Neil Leavy was very familiar with the World Trade Center. For a number of years in the 1990's he traded commodities, first oil, later gold, on the futures exchanges there.
But Neil Leavy, 34, had a firefighting heritage. His uncle was a firefighter. So was his godfather, who was a captain. Two of his cousins are currently on the job. "He always wanted to be a firefighter," his cousin Michael Leavy said. And so he became one, working at Engine Company 217 in Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn.
When he was not on the job, Firefighter Leavy could often be found in the basement of his parents' house in Bayonne, N.J., pumping iron. When he was not there, he worked part time as a bartender at Memories, a Staten Island tavern. "He was a workout maniac," his brother Mark said. "He was a strong, strong guy."
Firefighter Leavy, who was single, had agreed to be best man at his brother's wedding next year. The ceremony is scheduled for Oct. 4, a year to the day after Neil Leavy was buried. There will be no best man. "I look at that day with mixed emotions," Mark Leavy said. "It's the day I start a new life, but the day he was laid to rest."
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September 11, 2022
Never out of our thoughts miss you so much.Mom ,Dad,Mark,Dora,Milena,and Elissa.
Allan J. Leavy
September 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing Neil's story. I may never be so proud as to wear the same name. God Bless.
Diana Piccininni
March 9, 2020
The Broken Chain
We little knew that day,
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death, we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you.
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide.
And although we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
You have never been forgotten Neil.
Love always,
Diana Marie
September 13, 2018
Always in our prayers
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September 12, 2016
Another year has gone without you. We miss you more and more,it doesn't get any easier.Love you ,our hearts are broken .Dad&Mom
March 26, 2016
Always in our hearts.
Kathy Callovi
September 14, 2015
I participated in the Lambeau Memorial Stair Climb at Lambeau Field Green Bay, WI on 9/12/15. I wore a badge for Neil. On the 3rd round, I rang a bell and called out his name. Very proud of his services. I will do the walk again next year. Bless his soul.
S J. Friscia III
May 3, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Marisa Anderson
September 11, 2011
Dear Neil,
On this day of September 11, 2011 my heart continues to feel the hurt and pain. You are a hero and you're missed by many people. When I think of you I think of your smiling face, your kiddish ways, and a friend that you can always turn to. The pain will always be with me but the wonderful memories of you will always get me through. May God bless and comfort your Mom, Dad and Family. You will ALWAYS be remembered Neil! Marisa
September 21, 2009
Hello all,
I'm a student at Cornell University in Ithaca, NY. As part of a September 11th memorial on campus, the organizers handed out cards with names and pictures of September 11th victims. I received a card with Neil's name and photo, and a quick search brought me here. To Neil's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that Neil's legacy lives on in the hearts of so many.
September 11, 2009
Dear Neil,Another year without you. We miss you all the time.It never gets any easier. Love, Mom and Dad.
Michele Gayler
September 11, 2009
I wear a Mercy B.A.N.D. with Neil's name on it to remind me to think of and pray for his family and friends. My condolences to those of you who knew him.
August 19, 2009
Today would have been your 42nd birthday. We miss you and think of you every day. Love, Mom and Dad.
Tracy Clark
December 3, 2008
My name is Tracy Clark and I live in Austin, Texas. For the last couple of years I have been a volunteer of the TSA (Transportation Security Administation) puppy walkers program. This program breeds and trains dogs to be bomb detectors in the nations airports. The puppies are named after the people who lost their lives as a result of the 9/11 attack. The first puppy that I raised was named "Leavy" in honor of Neil. She sucessfully made it through the program and now works for the Sacramento, CA sheriff's department in airport security as a bomb detector.
September 11, 2008
Dear Neil, On this,the7th Anniversary of Sept. 11, 2001.You are forever in our thoughts and always in our hearts. Love Mom and Dad.
Jeanne Leavy-Cote
September 11, 2008
Dear Neil
Its Sept 11 2008 time has passed you are very much missed.Even though i never had the honor to meet you were are related we had the same grandfather...His name was Nicholas Leavy Sr....You are in thought and prayers daily
John Leavy
August 19, 2008
Remembering you is easy,we do it every day;missing you is a heartache that never goes away.HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE MOM,DAD,MARK AND DORA. AUG.19,1967-SEPT. 11,2001.
kristin
December 12, 2007
I go to SCHS and im doing my 9/11 project on you cause you did so much for the nation. and we miss and love you so much. rest in peace<3
September 11, 2007
On this sixth anniveracy of 9/11, you are never out of our thoughts.We miss being with you and our talks together. Love Mom and Dad.
Cynthia Obier
September 11, 2007
The Louisiana Office of State Fire Marshal will be remembering firefighter Neil Leavy in prayer today. Supervisor, Cynthia A. Obier
August 20, 2007
AUG.19,1967-Aug.19,2001.You will always be with us. Happy Birthday. Love Mom and Dad .
Doug Abraham
August 19, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Carol Lockhart
July 5, 2007
Hey I am doing a project on 9-11 and I waned to do it on Neil because he seems very intersting to me and I hope you rest in peace.
Jason Wood
May 27, 2007
I wear his name on a 9-11 wrist band. I too am a firefighter, and I am proud to honor his life and sacrifice.
P Tabbernor
December 5, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 10, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
September 11, 2006
It's been five years since we lost you. You are never out of our thoughts. We love you and miss you. Mom and Dad
August 19, 2006
You are forever in our thoughts and prayers. Happy birthday Neil.
John&Ann Leavy
August 19, 2006
Dear Neil,Happy Birthday we love you and miss you. Mom and Dad.
September 13, 2005
Dear Neil, Another year has passed without you.It never gets any easier. You are forever in my soul. Love Dad. Sept 11th 2005.
August 19, 2005
This is your fourth Birthday away from us.In our hearts there is an emptiness. We love you and miss you.Love,Mom,Dad, and Mark.
August 19, 2005
Happy 38th Birthday.We all miss you and love you.You will always be remembered.
October 4, 2004
Oct 4th 2004 .Neil, may you rest in peace.
Dyan
September 10, 2004
Neil,
As the 3rd anniversary approaches, I feel like it was only yesterday. I just want you to know that we still love & miss you more than words could ever express. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I will always hold a special place in my heart for you....my friend and my hero.
Love & Miss you,
Dyan
JOHN -ANN LEAVY
August 19, 2004
DEAR NEIL,TODAY WOULD HAVE BEEN YOUR 37TH BIRTHDAY.WE ARE ALWAYS THINKING AND PRAYING FOR YOU. LOVE MOM AND DAD,YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS.
ann marie
September 19, 2003
neil, words cannot even begin to express how much you are missed. I think of you often and pray to God everynight that you are ok. I wish I could have let you know how much you really meant to me. please know that I love you and i will never forget you. Halee and Jake will always know how brave you were. You will be forever in my heart. Love AnnMarie
Amy Diana
September 10, 2003
Dear Neil,
I think of you often and there are times when I struggle to think that you are gone. I know that you are in heaven looking down on your family and all of your friends. I am so lucky to have met you through your cousin and even luckier to have spent time with you. You were always so sweet, kind and loving. Maybe that is why God took you to heaven. I remember all your goofiness and laughter. But most of all I remember how badly you wanted to be a Firefighter. Well Neil, you did it!! I will never forget you or the nick name that you gave me "Lerch Toes." God bless you and all of your family. You are strongly missed.
Love,
Amy Diana
August 19, 2003
Today Aug. 19th 2003 is your 36th birthday.You are always in our hearts and in our thoughts. Mom & Dad.
Patricia & Chris Hughes
September 16, 2002
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Diana Piccininni
September 16, 2002
I met Neil a couple of years ago through a mutual friend. We started dating and I guess because of bad timing, the relationship didn't work. But to my surprise we became friends and I realized how lucky I had been to have known Neil.
I don't think I have ever met a more caring and giving person in my life. Neil was on of those people who carried no ill towards any fellow man. He rooted for the underdog. He never gave in when or up and always stuck up for what was right.
Now that a year has gone by I reflect on all the laughs Neil gave me. And believe me there were so many. And I picture his smile and it makes me laugh. Even at your funeral, you still gave us laughs and smiles. What a prankster you were. I still miss you. I miss the laughs and smiles. And I miss running into you at the beach while you were running and I was roller blading. I miss seeing you on Fridays at the bar. I miss my friend so much.
I can also understand how you turned out the way that you did. Your family is so welcoming and loving, even during the worst loss of their lives. I wish there were something that I could have done for them, it was heart breaking, to see how much they lost when you looked into their eyes.
I hope you watch over your family. I hope your brothers wedding next month is a joyous occassion and not a sad one. I wish him and his lovely bride all the happiness in the world. And I hope that your parents can find some peace in knowing what a wonderful person you had turned out to be and how loved you and your family are. I'm sorry that you are no longer here and I miss you very much, but I am also thankful that I was truly blessed to have known your kind soul. Whether you wanted the title or not, you are a hero, not just for your loved ones but for a nation and many parts of the world.
I miss you friend.
Love always,
Diana Marie.
Mary Campbell
September 11, 2002
To the Leavy Family:
Neil we never met but I knew your dad. Your father and mother are 2 very lovely people. I wear your hat that your dad gave me all the time in honor of you.
You will be sadly missed but will never be forgotten.
We will always remember 9-11-01.
God Bless.
Love,
Mary
Michelle
September 11, 2002
Neil, I never knew you in this world but you and your family are in my heart. I am a Georgetown student and have been given a ribbon in your name. I will be honored to wear it in memory and tribute of your courage. Your spirit will never die in the hearts of those whose lives you touched. God bless.
John Leavy
September 2, 2002
To Neil's family I would like to extend my deepest simpathy to you as we approach Neil's one year anniversary. I only met Neil once but I felt I knew him my whole life. He was a confident articulate young man who, without question, could have been anything he wanted to be in life. He gave you all the gift of his 34 years.
Lt. John P. Leavy FDNY
August 23, 2002
ALWAYS LOVE YOU,NEVER OUT OF MY HEART.
DAD
Rob Maddalone
April 1, 2002
Neil "Lance" Leavy,
On behalf of all the members of Engine 241 and Ladder L109, We miss you and you will never be forgotten Neil. We are all better men for having known you. Rest in peace Brother.
Whitnea Roseland
March 1, 2002
I am a Junior this year at the University of South Dakota. I am proudly wearing Neil's name on wrist. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless America.
February 19, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG HERO NEIL J.LEAVY AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ALL HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Dyan
December 29, 2001
Neil,
You are my hero today & always. You will be in all of our hearts forever. I was lucky to have known you (and worked with you...now that was truly an experience!) You made me smile & laugh no matter how I was feeling, and I will always remember those times.
My prayers are with your mom, dad & brother, may they find the strength they need.
Love you!
Dyan
pat bongiorno
December 29, 2001
I FELT PRIVILEGED TO KNOW NEIL FOR MANY YEARS==HE DIED DOING WHAT HE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO, HELP PEOPLE==HE WAS A WONDERFUL, CARING PERSON AND WILL BE SADLY MISSED ALWAYS==
DANNY MUCCINO
December 29, 2001
NEIL WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART. HE WAS A TRUE FRIEND AND IS A TRUE HERO.HE WILL BE FOREVER MISSED AND NEVER FORGOTTEN."LOVE YA MAN"
robert burmeister sr.
December 26, 2001
neil iwas proud to know you as you grew up with all the other st roch's kids.you will always be in my prayers along with your family.love bobby b
Teresa Jahn
December 25, 2001
We thank Neil and all his family members who dedicate their lives to help others as firefighters. Such dedication come with a brave, warm and caring heart filled with love for his fellow man. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Neil. May his courage, life and love continue living through all who love him. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Judy Cherbonneau
December 8, 2001
On September 11, you made the ultimate sacrifice, Neil. On that day, along with your 342 other brave comrades, you entered the gates of Heaven. I know that because that is where all heroes live after they leave this earth. God was the lucky one on that day, he received 343 heroes who wore turnout gear! God Bless you and I hope your family, friends, and comrades find comfort knowing that millions of people all over the world are praying and thinking about each and every person who perished on September 11. I am so sorry for your loss, Neil and family.
Gary Lamb
November 15, 2001
I too am wearing Neil's name, Proudly, and will keep him and his family in my prayers.
'We are all realted
Michele Dixon
November 7, 2001
I am wearing Neil's name on my Mercy B.A.N.D.
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