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Judson Cavalier Obituary
A couple of days after pledging his fraternity, Sigma Beta, and moving into his room at the University of New Hampshire, Judson J. Cavalier bought a bed. More precisely, said his college roommate and fraternity brother, Nathan Sloan, it was a mattress, and Mr. Cavalier never bothered to get the box spring or the frame. "He was, like, what you would call laid back," Mr. Sloan mused.
So laid back that the university invited him to take a semester off to think about his commitment to academics. With a friend, Mr. Cavalier went to Vail, Colo., where he figured he could ski a lot, and took a job as a ski-boot salesman. "He made phenomenal money. Everybody knew he was a good worker," Mr. Sloan said. "He just didn't sweat the stuff he didn't have to sweat."
Mr. Cavalier, 26, did graduate, and was hired by Thomas F. O'Neill, his next-door neighbor growing up in Huntington, N.Y., and a founder of Sandler O'Neill & Partners. He was about to be promoted from bond research to salesman. "Being a bond salesman, you made a lot of money and you played golf with the guys," said another childhood friend, Ian Crystal. "That was perfect for Judd. He was there."
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Mike Viscusi
September 11, 2024
You are remembered, Jud. Even your extended family still say your name every year.
Mike Viscusi
Cindy Roe
September 4, 2021
Remembering Judson on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Del Newberry
August 31, 2020
Such a young age to senselessly lose a young man. I pause today to think of Judson's friends and family and to let them know that we continue to remember them.
Shannon (Donegan) Doherty
September 11, 2019
I met Judd my freshman year at UNH. We both lived in Williamson Hall. My roommate Michele and I, knowing he was from NY, would call him Juddson Hudson when we would see him in the dining hall and around campus and it would crack him up. I later lived across the street from him when he lived in the Sigma Beta fraternity house and I in the Kappa Delta sorority house. He was one of the happiest people I have ever had the pleasure to meet. His smile could light up a room and his energetic personality was contagious. I think about him every 9/11. My condolences to his family, the brotherhood of Sigma Beta fraternity, and the UNH community. Thinking about my fellow Wildcat with a heavy heart today. Rest In Peace, Judd.
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Joann Fricano
September 11, 2018
RIP. You are remembered.
Bobby Carrero (Rehm)
September 11, 2017
Judd, just remembering all the fun we had as kids...
The days before cell phones yelling across the street as loud as we can "YOU WANT TO PLAY." Riding our bikes in the dirt trails then riding to the chocolate factory to get some candy. Swimming in my pool for hours until our eyes were red from the chlorine. Using everyone's backyard as our own playground. Wishing that when it snowed school would be cancelled so we wouldn't have to walk up that huge hill.
Too many memories to list but glad we had them...
March 19, 2017
Dear Cavalier family,
I am visiting NYC from Canada as a delegat to the UN's Commission on the status of Women. In my afternoon off I went to the 9/11 museum. As I walked around the pools, I found Judson's name. As I traced his name with my hand I knew I wanted to carry him with me as I wen through the museum. When I found his picture I could tell that he lived life to the fullest,his simile said it all. My prayers go out to you. He may not be with you on earth but he always live on in your hearts and the hearts of so many that he touch while he was here and even through his death. May God bless you. It is an honour to carry his name in my heart.
Megs
Sasha L.
September 12, 2016
Hi! I am a freshman at St. Thomas Aquinas High School in south Florida and today, 9/12/2016, all students were given name tags that read a 9/11 victim's name and I was honored to wear your son's name: Judson Cavalier. The thought of him and his family remained in my heart all day and I send all my condolences. God bless.
Kristina B.
April 16, 2016
Dear Cavalier Family,
This weekend I was touring the 9/11 museum during a visit to NYC during a conference. I had a small bit of time before my departure and headed down to where the World Trade Centers used to be to pay my respects. During this, I happened to come across the picture that was posted for Judd, displayed by 'The Last Column' and immediately noticed him as we shared the same birthday ... 7/19/75. A unique connection. Just a wonderful picture of a young man full of life. So heartbreaking. And so hard to believe that 15 years has just about gone by. My thoughts to your family - and Judd - as we will never forget.
September 12, 2015
Dear cavalier family
My name is Lisa grant of visalia CA
Today I had gone to donate blood at our local blood bank
In memory of all our Fallon on that horrific day 14 years ago
I was blessed to have been chosen to donate in your beloved judson's name . I may never have met Judson but know I shall never forget .
With all my love and prayers to you and your family
Helen Allmond
June 5, 2014
I have just been to the memorial and rested my hands on the south tower water memorial. I looked down and saw my hands on your name. I had to find out who you were, and now I know. I shall never forget you Judson. I never knew you but I shall never forget you.
Pamela Sochacki
April 9, 2014
i remember babysitting for Judd when he was just a little child. My memory of a small little boy who was as cute as a button, but freckles driving his big wheel down the street and trying to keep up with him LOL
September 27, 2013
Dear Judd,
Just wanted you to know that there has been a picture of you, Joe and Ian on Davey's (Sid!) windowsill, next to his bed for 19 years. He knows you are gone but sometimes I see him staring at the picture at night with a peaceful look on his face. Your smile is imbedded in the hearts and minds of us all.
With love, Davey and all of the Cordes Family
September 3, 2012
To The Family,
I did not know Judson J. Cavalier, but the pain of 9/11 still hurts so much as the 11th anniversary fastly approaches. I hope that the Almighty has given you the needed comfort to cope with the loss of your loved one.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Katie
August 21, 2012
You don't know me but I have to share my storey. My best friend went to New York City and visited the memorial wall. She came across the name Judson and sent me a pic of the name on the wall as I was pregnant with a baby boy. This was already ironic as we had this name picked out already and didn't tell her so at that moment we knew it was meant to be. I just gave birth to my son on august 17th at the time of 9:11. This gave me goose bumps and I think its amazing. God bless
July 19, 2012
Happy Birthday Judd! Hoping you and Dennis are celebrating your birthday and are the best of friends. I think of you and your big smiling face all the time. xoxo -Patti Edwards
Ernie P
September 12, 2011
Dear Jud,
I just wrote a note on Joe's page. I'm glad I got to know both of you. Anne, Rita and I are thinking of you.
LIke I wrote Joe, I'll DJ for both of you anytime!
Cheryl Chitayat
September 10, 2011
Judd, I came to know you through your parents. From their honest sharing. From their deep, deep love for you. I will always think of you and your special family. Always.
Eva Sharp
June 20, 2011
Judd, I remember you very fondly as a young man coming to the bowling alley with your mom , and the pool at the Huntington Crescent Club.
Jason P Frechette
September 11, 2010
Miss you Juddy....you will always be in my thoughts....
Mickey Baron
September 12, 2009
Will never forget your smile or the day I taught you what the word "cavalier" meant...I still mention you every year that I teach, along with your buddy Joe Anchundia.. ..teachers never forget the great kids..
....Always-
Mr. M Baron
Charlotte Whitney
September 11, 2009
miss you all the time Judd.....always in my heart, thoughts and prayers!
Holly Cavalier
September 10, 2009
Much love to you. I miss you.
Doug Abraham
December 27, 2008
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Reuben Cavalier
September 11, 2007
Same last name as me, Rare
Tara Kiever (Crain)
September 10, 2007
Keeping my thoughts and prayers with you and your family with tomorrows anniversary of the day the world lost you my fellow HHS Classmate.
Kristine
October 25, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 8, 2006
In memory....
Taryn Lofgren
September 12, 2005
Judd lived a couple of houses away from me during our middle and high school years, and we graduated together in '93. You are greatly missed today and forever. My heart goes out to those who knew and loved him. Good bless.
Sam Wineburgh
September 11, 2004
Judd and Joe - the two names will always be linked for me, though I wish it were otherwise. I watched your friend grieve, and you'll forever be remembered by me. Take good care of each other up there . . .
Brian Bjorkman
September 13, 2002
Jud, freshman year wouldn't have been the same without you man. I think back of all the great times we had while adjusting to our first year in college. All the great times with Fred, Lay, Scooter, TK, Stevie, Petey, Santos, Jeremy, Dorian, and everyone else on the 8th floor of Williamson. I know I speak for everyone when I say that you were one of the best people I've ever had the chance to know. The day I found out what happened my heart just sank. It brought this whole crazy thing to a personal level actually knowing someone who’s life was taken so tragically. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Kevin Rafferty
September 11, 2002
Your personality & smile brought out the best in everyone around you, and I'm so happy to have been a part of that. You will be missed and your memories forever cherished. May you rest in eternal peace, Juddy.
Chad Fletcher
September 11, 2002
Judd,
Knowing you has made me a better person in life. I thank you forever.
erniep
September 10, 2002
Last time I saw you was on your birthday last year. It was a fun time. Thanks for letting me play DJ and mess around with your stereo system.
You and Joe were great guys. Hope you both knew that.
Scott Johnson
September 9, 2002
Jud,
I'll never forget meeting you on our first day at UNH. Thanks for making that year so memorable. You were a great friend and a truly fun guy. We'll miss you.
Your Friend(UNH 1993-94)
Donna Cavalieri-Plogman
August 16, 2002
As we approach the one year anniversary of Judson's tragic death, we send our deepest sympathy and the hope that Judson's love for his family will help you through this time. May God Bless your family & watch over you all.
Trent Wortham
July 18, 2002
Judd you will always be missed.
God Bless
Linda Hughes
May 21, 2002
I received a Mercy Band with Judson's name on it so I feel a connection to him even though I never knew him. I pray for his family that God may comfort them and bless them. My heart goes out to all his family and friends.
RENEE KRELIK
May 16, 2002
JUDD I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING OVER ALL OF US. EVEN THOUGH WE NEVER MET I THINK OF YOU OFTEN. HELP YOUR FAMILY ,ESPECIALLY YOUR PARENTS, FIND SOME PEACE. YOU ARE MISSED BUT I KNOW YOU ARE IN A PLACE WHERE THERE IS NO VIOLENCE NO HATE JUST LOVE. GOD BLESS!! DET. RENEE KRELIK
Jody Cavalier
May 15, 2002
Judd, We miss you so!! You were a joy to us all. I hope you are enjoying your new life with your family on the other side..both your grandmothers, Joe, and all those who passed over with you. We miss you here. Please help your parents to go on with their lives.
Love your Aunt Jody
Fellow UNHer
May 15, 2002
God Bless you and your family!
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
May God Bless You and the ones that you left behind.
Mickey Baron
February 10, 2002
I'll not forget your smile and good nature.
--Your old English teacher
Mr. Baron
John Troncellito
February 6, 2002
May you rest in peace. We will not forget you.
Audrey Davolt
January 27, 2002
I received a band with your name,and I wish so much I could have met you. Your heart must have been as big as your smile,and I'm sure my Tami will enjoy you as much as your friends did. God Bless and Keep you always in our hearts.
Patti Edwards
January 13, 2002
Words can not describe how badly you are missed. Please hug my Dennis for me. I am sure you are best friends by now!
Teresa Jahn
January 6, 2002
Seeing Judson's contagious smile in his picture made me smile. So he is still touching lives in a positive way. His huge, happy, and friendly smile must be a reflection of his heart. We are deeply sorry for you loss of Judson. May his smile, his life and love live on in those who love him. May the sorrow in your heart be lightened by the warm memories of times shared with Judson. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
December 18, 2001
MAY GOD IN HEAVEN BLESS YOU JUDSON J.CAVALIER AND MAY YOU REST IN PEACE
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER
FORGET 9/11/01
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