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Eddie D'Atri Obituary
Lynda Mari was painting her porch last fall when she was approached by a construction worker with an extension cord.
"Hello, I'm Eddie," he said. "You mind if I borrow your power?"
Eddie D'Atri was a handsome, muscular fellow. "I told him, 'You can borrow anything you want," Ms. Mari said the other day.
She asked him if he was a fireman. "I just felt it," she said. "Something just told me." He told her no, he was just a working man, but she didn't believe it. Her brother is a fireman, and something deep inside her made her fearful of falling in love with a guy like that.
But she did. They were engaged June 30.
Mr. D'Atri was 38. He studied nursing and was a lieutenant at Squad 1 in Park Slope, Brooklyn. He was crowned Mr. Staten Island in 1987.
Sadly, steel is stronger than muscle, and Mr. D'Atri leaves behind a broken heart.
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Renee Jones
September 11, 2024
My 2nd cousin. Never knew him or his family but named my on son after him. Forever in my memory and love. He is with his Mother and Grandmother. Love to his boys and wife, Linda
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Ray Macon
May 30, 2024
We called Eddie `Tracy´ while growing up. He was always larger than Life and enjoyed spreading joy to everyone. We were his Alabama side of the family. He was my second cousin. -Actor Ray Macon/ Atlanta
Cindy Roe
September 6, 2021
Remembering Eddie on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
A.L.
October 17, 2019
Hey edward,
I am terribly sorry for your loss on 9/11/2001, but thank you for your sacrifice that awful day.
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Sandy D'Atri
February 25, 2019
56 today! How life would have been so very different if you were still physically here but I thank you for always being with us, watching over, protecting and guiding. Leaving your favorite prayer (Psalm 23) with birthday wishes to the most handsome big brother a sister could ask for.
Psalm 23 21st Century King James Version (KJ21)
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; He leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul; He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for His name's sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for Thou art with me; Thy rod and Thy staff, they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies; Thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Sandy D'Atri
February 26, 2018
You would have turned 55 yesterday, hoping you heard all our wishes and felt all the love being sent to you. Losing you, Anthony and most recently "Gus" is a constant reminder to stop waiting a day, week or month to say something special, just a hello, to share emotions or just pick up the phone and call someone, because tomorrow may never happen. I love you Eddie and will always be thankful to you, for loving me.
September 6, 2016
Eddie, 2016 another year has passed 15 of them now. It still seems like yesterday as we watched the attack on tv. You, like Nicky & Cousin Louis were all off duty but still ran before being called in. The Job was your life! You were quoted as saying "That's the way you wanted to go out!" and you did, doing what you loved best! AJ & Michael miss you and the close attention you gave them. They still need you to watch over them! I pray to you to do so! Miss You! Love, Tony (Poppa
Tony Scaramuzzino
September 6, 2016
Tony Scaramuzzino
September 6, 2016
Alessandra D'Atri
September 6, 2016
I'm not sure why I find solace writing here to you, when with certainty you know my thoughts before formed. The 11th is almost upon us with all the sadness that ensues because of it, and although you reside within me every day, the 11th is the hardest of them all. I wish I would have called like I wanted to, or come to see you that weekend before, as I planned; but my wishes of the past to be changed are useless. My only hope is that you and Anthony continue to watch over us, I hope to make you as proud of me as I am of you. You are now and will forever be my big brother, the one and only ever real life Incredible Hulk; and absolutely no one can take that away.
Alessandra D'Atri
August 22, 2016
Alessandra D'Atri
August 22, 2016
Alessandra D'Atri
August 22, 2016
September 11, 2015
Dear Eddie, Another year has come to pass, 14 now. Today as all in the past we went mass with all the families we've come to know since that horrific day, and then gathered for lunch and comfort each other. I cried a lot today, You and Nicky were the sons I never had. Two loveable tough guys. Both of you loved your job so much.
You died a hero in a "Blaze of Glory" the way you said you wanted to go, You & Nicky are probably telling The Good Lord you'll go put out the fires of hell for him if he'd let you. Take care, put in a good word for me. Love, Tony (Popa
February 25, 2015
Eddie, Happy Birthday Today in Heaven, We All Miss You Now & Always, Rest in Peace! AJ & Michael Are Both Doing Well
Give Nicky, Louie & Barry a Hug Me, I Really miss You Guys
My Love To All Of You! Tony
Maria Sulecki
September 12, 2014
May God bless you...
September 12, 2014
A True Hero!
September 11, 2014
I thank you for your service. I thank you for your sacrifice. No greater love hath any man, than to lay down his life for a friend. You did so for strangers. And I remember you today and celebrate your life. A life not defined by a senseless, tragic act, rather a life of honor, dedication and service to others. May God bless your family and friends with peace
Joe Princetta
September 11, 2014
I miss you brother, your bravery, and commitment to your family and your job is beyond words... You are my HERO!! Love you!
Alessandra D'Atri
September 11, 2014
I will never forget what transpired 13 years ago today in our city, nor when dad called to say you were "missing" or the days that followed. Such great losses were endured this awful day, but my memories of you are all wonderful and sweet; and I will always love you. Sandy
September 10, 2014
Eddie, Another Year has Pasted Since 9-11-01, You ran to do what you what you lived for, & gave your life doing so. You said "It's The Way I Want Go Out!" Saving Lives!
We will Always Be Proud of You! Love, Tony A.J. & Michael
Your boys Michael & AJ
February 25, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN, 51 TODAY, UP THERE WITH THE BRAVEST OF ALL! 343, WHAT A PARTY WE'RE GOING TO HAVE, WHEN WE'RE ALL TOGETHER AGAIN, YOU NICKY, LOUIE & BARRY & ME. BEST WISHES AGAIN! LOVE, TONY (POPA), AJ & MICHAEL
February 25, 2014
You would have been 51 today. We love you today and always. Never to be forgotten.
R W
September 12, 2013
Thanks for your service Eddie... God bless you and rest in peace. A fellow firefighter
Brad Duncan
September 12, 2013
I participated in the 3rd annual stair climb in Charlotte, NC on Sept 7th. I wore a name badge and climbed in honor of Capt. Thomas Moody but two years ago in 2011 I climbed in honor of Eddie. I still remember him and his sacrifice and will do so if I am able to climb again in the future. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this time. I will never forget what he did. Brad Duncan Engineer E-40 Charlotte Fire Dept.
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
I remember Mr. D'Atri and I am honored to wear his bracelet on every anniversary of the September 11 attack. Patricia Mongelli
September 11, 2013
Eddie, To you Nicky, Louie & Barry I miss you guys! We will be together again one and we will make up for lost time
R.I.P. All lost at the WTC Tony S.
February 25, 2013
Happy 50th Birthday! Love always, Us <3
Tony Scaramuzzino
February 21, 2013
Eddie, Feb 25th is your 50th Birthday. You will spend it with the Bravest People that ever lived! Give Nicky, Barry & Louie a hug for me. You are in our thoughts & prayers. AJ & Michael are doing great! AJ Graduates in May. They carry your name with respect, you raised them well. Be as proud of them as we are. Happy Birthday! Rest In Peace!
Tony (Papa)
our "old" house, 159 Merrill Avenue, renamed for Eddie
Alessandra D'Atri
January 30, 2013
Eddie, graduating with our younger brother Vincent on his lap
Alessandra D'Atri
January 30, 2013
Todd Dorris
September 14, 2012
Just wanted to let you know that on Sept 11, 2012 I took part in the 9/11 Patriot Day Tower Ascent event in San Antonio, Texas. As a 15+ year volunteer firefighter I was humbled and honored to have carried your name and picture with me as I climbed the 110 flights of stairs. I climbed because you climbed....you will never be forgotten!
Sun Park
April 8, 2012
Eddy,
I found that we lost you on 9/11 after discovering your name on the memorial five years ago. Nothing but fond memories about the time when we thought we were invincible, working out together, and working together on construction.
I am proud of you for what you did and your accomplishments. I only regret that I didn't stay in touch and be able to keep up with your life.
I am confident that you are in better place now and I will join you when God decides to call me home.
Love you brother and rest in in peace.
Rhonda Begos
November 13, 2011
I went to the visit the 9/11 memorial, and took random pictures of names etched in stone, and your name was one that I took. I told myself, i wanted to know every name that I had on a picture. What a wonderful legacy you have left here - what a wonderful place people have to go to, to see you again:) Thank you Eddie for all that you've done:)
Sandy D'Atri
September 23, 2011
you will never be forgotten, I cherish my memories with you, Anthony, Vincent, Michelle and "Gus". I know that you and Anthony are together, for when i ask for your strength, you give it to me. Couldn't be any more proud to love you with all my heart. Eddie, you are a hero in so many ways to all of us.
Barry Kirschbaum at WTC
Tony
September 22, 2011
Eddie's name at the WTC
Tony Scaramuzzino
September 22, 2011
September 21, 2011
Nicky Rossomando
September 21, 2011
September 21, 2011
Eddie, it's 10 years & it still feels like yesterday, the hole in my heart for you Nicky Louie & Barry will never heal till we're all together again. They finished the memorial, I will try to attach your names from down there.
Miss You, Tony AJ & Michael are doing great
APRIL DeCandia
September 19, 2011
God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way..That is why I will never forget him.
September 17, 2011
Eddie, we got to attend the Squad 1 Memorial Mass with Sandy, Skip, CoriAnn and her family as you well know. I was so honored to be there for you, Brother, and the rest of the Squad 1 guys. Thank you for your loving and protective presence, and please give Dave a hug for me. He has been a help. Love always, Us
September 16, 2011
God is so please to have all of you with him...God bless eddie
September 15, 2011
I am proud and honored to have represented Lt.D'Atri at the 9/11 stair
climb at Red Rocks Amphitheatre in Morrison, co. Just seeing all the firefighters and people like myself at the climb brought tears to eyes even now as I write this.
I will never forget the events of 9-11.
And to you Mr.D'Atri: Thank You.
Debby Lyons
T.J. Kiesler
September 11, 2011
I did not know Mr. D'Atri, but I wanted to say "thank you" from the bottom of my heart to him and his family. Today, on the 10th anniversary of 9/11, my fellow firefighters and I climbed in honor of the 343 that passed away in the attacks. I am proud to say that I wore Lt. Eddie D'Atri's name on my gear as I climbed to the top of our neighboring city's highest building. I wanted to let the family know how much love and appreciation was felt for Lt. D'Atri that day and every day forward. Again, "thank you" for protecting us on that horrible day of 9/11. We Will Never Forget!
Sgt. T.J. Kiesler JFD
September 10, 2011
Eddie,I have a few memories of you, you would sneak us out of grandmas house, when we were supposed to be napping and take us for ice cream! We thought you were the coolest cousin ever- and you were! I wish I had known you better. This is Nina, Mark's daughter, and your first cousin. Today marks 10yrs. since you lost your life to save ours! Thankyou and our prayers are w/ your boys...
Will Harden
September 8, 2011
Hi, I am in 7th grade and I chose to do a report about 9/11 on this man. For what I've read, he was wonderful, a great father, a great fireman, and an overall nice person and dedicated.
May 31, 2011
I just wanted folks to know that I still wear Mr. D'Atri's memorial bracelet. He was a brave man and I am proud to tell people about him.
Patricia
aj D'Atri
April 3, 2011
love you dad.. miss you.. im doing very well in college.. im going to SUNY Oneonta next semester .. im getting my associates degree in criminal justice this year.. thank you everybody
Adriane
February 26, 2011
Happy Birthday Eddie! Still can't believe it's almost 10 years you're gone. I remember the 4 of us playing games like yesterday. Miss you :)
February 26, 2011
Happy Birthday, Eddie! (Feb. 25) We love you!
February 25, 2011
Happy Birthday! We miss you & think of you often.It's coming to 10 years & it still feels like it was yesterday. Aj & Michael are both doing great.
Give Nicky Louie & Barry a hug for me.
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas, Brother! Love you...
Lida Zeron-DeNardo
September 11, 2010
Dear Eddie,
I remember you on this day with sorrow but also with much pride. You and I didn't know each other that well, I knew Linda much better. What I do remember of you was a charming person who had a love for what he did. May you rest in peace and God bless you always.
February 24, 2010
Happy Birthday Eddie! Feb 25,2010 We miss you and think of you often. Your sons AJ & Mikey are both doing well. They both have your good looks and the respect you taught them. Say hello to Nicky, Louie & Barry. 911 broke our hearts & things won't be the same till we're all together again.
Love, Tony (PaPa)
harrison douglas
September 14, 2009
September 11, 2009
Ground Zero - World Trade Center
Vesey- Liberty- Church-West Sts.
Dear Mr. D’Atri,
I am writing this letter to tell you about how you are a hero. A hero puts there life on the line for someone else. Thank you for putting your life on the line to help get people out of the twin towers on 9/11/2001.
I am sure that your family misses you. But, they know that you died in great honor. You served your country and the people in need. I is nice to know that you were training to be a nurse. This shows how much you like to help people. Thank you so much.
America will remember its heroes that put their lives on the line on 9/11. Thank you so much.
Sincerely,
Harrison
April 21, 2009
Your boys have a lot to be proud of...they have your genes!
April 21, 2009
February 27, 2009
Happy Birthday, Eddie!
(February 25th)
Love,
Us
Alessandra D'Atri
December 2, 2008
I remember you and always will. I know that you have Anthony with you now and feel doubly blessed to know that you're both watching over us. Doubt AJ, Michael or Lynda would remember me but know they have all of you in them. I pray for you and for all the family of which I don't know but am blessed to have known you and to still love you. thank you Eddie for all of you who are!
rich marino
April 21, 2008
yesterday..pope benedict..blessed you eddie and all who perished on 9/11...his prayer was so profound
but he knows God has you guys in his
presence...so we ask that you guys send that prayer back to us..to give us strenght and wisdom in Gods love
Tracy Clark
April 19, 2008
My name is Tracy Clark. I am raising my second puppy for the Transportaion Security Administration (TSA). These puppies are names after the victims of 9/11. This puppy's name is D'Atri in honor of Eddie D'Atri. We hope that she will go on to be a sucessful dog in the TSA program and serve our county in honor of Eddie.
Eric
April 14, 2008
Thanks for saving our lives.
Ira Polansky
March 17, 2008
Yo MO!!!!!
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and miss you. It's been almost eight years since my 40th birthday and your last day with us. Your presence is still felt. You were my inspiration in the gym, in my work, and in my dedication to all things cherished. Wish my birthday didnt have to bring such sad memories, but it taught me to always look at the big picture. I was angry that morning that I turned 40!!!! My...we take things for granted, don't we? I look forward to seeing you again...in a better place. Victoria is almost 12 and she remembers you and still thinks about you all the time also.
I miss you every day!!!
Your buddy 4EVER,
Ira
February 25, 2008
Happy Birthday, Brother!
Love,
Us
V T
January 17, 2008
May God Be With You
joey PISANO
January 1, 2008
eddie you are missed from joey pisano.
November 3, 2007
November 3, 2007
Eddie D'Atri was a true champion both on and off the stage...
MARIO STRONG
November 3, 2007
REMEMBERING MR. STATEN ISLAND
ALEX DATRI
July 11, 2007
THINKING OF YOU CUZ...DET. ALEX D'ATRI
Adriane
February 4, 2007
Dear Eddie,
I've been thinking a lot about you lately, maybe because our birthdays are coming :)
I still can't believe you're gone, but you'll never be forgotten!
Miss and Love ya!
Mario Strong
January 8, 2007
Hi Rich,
I'm sorry to say that I have been unable to locate any photos of Eddie winning the Mr. Staten Island competition. Normally the family would have such pictures, next would be the shows promoter (whoever that was). If I ever come across any I will let you know.
rich
January 4, 2007
dear mr strong thank you for the photo of eddies boys....do you know if there is a photo of ed from the show he won?
Eddie D'Atri's two sons Anthony and Michael receive the Staten Island Bodybuilding Award
Mario Strong
December 30, 2006
In May 2002, former Mr. Staten Island and FDNY Firefighter Lt. Eddie D'Atri's two sons Anthony and Michael received the Staten Island Bodybuilding Award on behalf of their father who was lost on 9/11. Eddie was a dedicated father, a respected bodybuilder, and a friend to all those who had the honor to know him.
rich
November 22, 2006
did you know that eddie won the mr staten island bodybuilding contest in 1986 or 1987....does anyone have a photo from that show?.. iam sure his sons are so proud of him
Linda Datri
November 20, 2006
Eddie, I know that we've been through some tough times and I'm sorry some of those times even had to happen. But, one thing we always remained good friends. The boys are doing so well, you would be so proud. we miss you very much
Love Linda
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
maria southmore intermediate school
September 28, 2006
thank you for risking your life to save other people
rich
September 22, 2006
hey ed..pray for us here...
P Tabbernor
September 19, 2006
In remembrance....
September 16, 2006
Eddie, thank you for your friendship and compassion! You are a special soul. Keep on watching over us. We need you.
Evelyn B
September 15, 2006
Although I did not know Eddie, I am so proud of all of our service men on 09/11. They tried their best to get everyone out of the building but unfortuneatly some of them were unable to make it back themselves. I have only the utmost respect for them. Thank you, Eddie, for your courage and bravery. God bless!
June 26, 2006
If there is one thing that all of this has taught me, it is that love endures.
rich marino
January 17, 2006
i want to pay honor to eddie.whom i never met...i met a guy onthe beach here in jersey and told me about a firefighter from S.I. who was lost on 9/11 and was a avid bodybuilder....as a brother bodybuilder i thank you ed for your giving...for those that dont know the hard work to compete..Ed had to be special....
Tony
December 8, 2005
Eddie, you were more like a son to me than a son in law. you were hard to handle, but easy to love. I miss you! AJ & Michael are doing well in school. You would be proud of them, they carry your name with the pride & respect you taught them to have.
Kristin
September 12, 2005
I pass the street named for Edward D'Atri everyday. I wanted his family and friends to know he will be remembered and prayed for always.
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Paul Daly (D'Atri)
April 17, 2005
I lived in Park Slope during 9/11. I didn't know Eddie but my heart and thoughts go to his family.
Pamela Long
September 11, 2004
God bless you and all those you loved and served. May peace fill their souls and joy in their hearts.
Antonio D'Atri
July 12, 2004
Dear Family D'Atri,
I also didn't have the pleasure to know Eddie, but I'm sure he was a good father. My respects to the whole Family. God bless you all.
Antonio D'Atri from Argentina.
Jonathan Nelson
November 30, 2003
To all of the loved ones Of Eddie D'Atri:
This is Jonathan Nelson, Howard's son. I never expressed my deepest sympathys to Alta or the rest of you. And for that I am sorry. For what I knew of Eddie, he was a great man. He always seemed to stand tall and proud. Full of life. It was an honor to know him.
Jennifer Cload
September 11, 2003
During a ceremony held here in downtown Toledo, i had the honor to read off a few names of people who died on 9/11. Edward D'Atri, was one of them. I just wanted to say that I read his name, along with the others with pride and the utmost respect that they all deserve. Thank you Edward for your great sacrifice. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Cynthia Ciciolla-Bruno
September 11, 2003
My sister and I went to school with Eddie we lived in the same neighborhood on Staten Island. I used to call him Mr. Prince Charming, the name fit his personality exactly. You really had to know him and you know that name was perfect for him. I also remember he loved working out and getting ready for the next body building contest he could find. He was a very sweet person and will be missed.
My heart goes out to his wife and boys.
Sincerely,
Cynthia Ciciolla-Bruno
TRACY NOCERINO
February 4, 2003
GOD BLESS YOU EDDIE, YOU ARE DEFINITELY MISSED DEARLY.BRITTANY HAS DONE A REPORT ON YOU IN SCHOOL,AND WILL NEVER FORGET THE MARC ANTHONY CONCERT.SHE TELLS EVERYBODY HOW SHE GOT TO SIT IN THE FIRE TRUCK, RIGHT BEFORE THE CONCERT.WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU.AND MY THOUGHTS GO OUT TO YOUR TWO ADORABLE BOYS WHO ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU.
YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR PRAYERS
LOVE TRACY
Lacy Bunston
September 23, 2002
Good luck to those who last a good friend. My class, at Nashua-Plainfield are resreaching those who died on September 11. I picked Lt. Edward Alexander D'Atri.
patricia mongelli
September 13, 2002
i was honored and priveleged to wear a pow/mia bracelet 30 years ago and i feel the same about wearing lt. d'atri's firefighter bracelet today. i will share his bravery and devotion to saving lives with my 7th grade english classes.
sincerely,
patricia mongelli
John D. Pascoe
September 10, 2002
Hello,
My names is John i never knew Lt. Eddie D'Atri but he has opened my eyes to alot of things. I am a senior at St. Pius X Catholic High School here in houston. My whole school is wearing a name from someone from that day. I selected Eddie. The 9/11 seemed to be so far but after seeing the title just a working man. It has really opened my eyes. Eddie seemed like a very nice guy. Reading and praying from him has made it seem more real for me and has caused me to look and address alot of things in my life. After seening and reading about how short life is. It has really inspired me to do something great. Eddie has been in my prayers and this has been a project that opened my eyes and touched my heart.
truely your,
John D. Pascoe
cynthia ciciolla-bruno
September 10, 2002
Dear D'Atri Family:
I am very sorry for your loss. I went to school with Eddie he was a wonderful person and will be greatfully missed.
Cynthia Ciciolla-Bruno
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