Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Louis Frank Aversano Jr.
Louis Frank Aversano Jr.
Obituary
Guest Book
Louis Aversano Obituary
Louis F. Aversano Jr. liked to take care of everybody and everything. Especially his fish. At his home in Manalapan, N.J., Mr. Aversano, 58, kept a suburban-sized aquarium with five fish that he doted on.
"Those were his babies," said Lisa Aversano, Mr. Aversano's youngest daughter. "He would sneak in to see them early in the morning, and he would talk to them as if they were people. He would say, 'Hi fishies, good morning. Your sister is here to visit. Be nice to her. You guys look so nice today.' "
He couldn't help it, she said. After all, he exuded the same sunny disposition when helping to raise his four children or organizing neighborhood block parties.
There is a lot of father in daughter, Ms. Aversano said proudly. People call her "Little Lou" because they were best friends; they were former colleagues at Aon, where he was director of operations support; and they looked remarkably alike (except for the receding hairline and the mustache). And these days, she and her boyfriend find themselves the new parents of five fish. They spend time talking to them, just as her father did.
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 16, 2001.
Louis F. Aversano, Jr., of Manalapan, New Jersey, director of operations support and risk services for Aon Corp.
He will always be remembered as such an extraordinary human being. Words cannot express what a loving and caring man he was. He will be so deeply missed but will always be in our hearts. It is very difficult to go on with life without him but his family loves him so much and we are so honored to have such wonderful memories with him.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Carol OConnor
September 13, 2023
Right before 9/11 anniversary his bracelet with his name on it was the first thing I saw when I opened up my jewelry chest. I remember corresponding with one of his daughters years ago after receiving it. Rest in eternal heavenly peace ❤
Debbie
September 12, 2023
In loving memory of a wonderful man. You will always be missed, Lou. Your Rosie sent me an old picture of you yesterday and it is exactly how I remember you. May your precious soul continue to rest at peace.
Kathy
September 11, 2023
In memory of a wonderful person. Our Aon Colleagues will place a rose at your name at the fountain.
Along a fence between the towers and the southern tip of Manhattan near Battery Park - Nov 7, 2001
Nate
October 8, 2022
I came from Toledo, Ohio on Nov 7, 2001 to mourn the loss of so many. These two notes, side by side, held down with a stone, really got to me.
How you can show support
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Kathy - Aon
September 12, 2022
Our thoughts are of you and your family on this 21st anniversary. Time passes, but we will always remember your tremendous personality and ability to keeping everyone smiling and laughing.
Suzanne Poole - Vatland
September 11, 2022
Hey Lou, even though I have now retired from aon, this day brings me back to our working days and all the talks we had. Great man with a great legacy
Kathy
September 14, 2021
On this 20th anniversary of 9/11, time has passed but we have not forgotten our good friend and colleague. Best wishes to the Aversano family. Lou is in our thoughts. Regards,
Martin Bowen
September 11, 2021
God Bless Lou and his family. Remember his sacrifice and that of our fellow Americans who were lost in defending and honoring their memory.
Although I never met Lou in person, I had the pleasure of doing business with Lou over the phone from time to time over the years. A true gentleman and always a pleasure to work with.
God Bless his soul. Rest In Peace.
Debbie Strumolo
September 10, 2021
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always, Lou.
Suzanne Vatland
September 10, 2021
Lou, another year, big milestone - 20 years, hard to believe its been that long since you and 178 other Aon family were taken home. Just want to let you know, you still pop in my thoughts throughout the year, remembering how you use to solve issues, then turn the call into a long phone conversation that went from work to laughter. Your one big hearted man that made a very large impact on so many.
Carrie Krebs- Feesé
September 10, 2021
How is it that 20 years have passed since that tragic day? I will honor your legacy tomorrow at the Manalapan memorial as I do every year with your beautiful family! You would be so proud of all of them ! Love and miss you Uncle Lou! Until we meet again!
Wanda Rivas
September 9, 2021
I always remember your sunny disposition Louie. You always had a smile, a funny story. Your presence could just light up a room. Still think of you bud...
Cindy Roe
August 31, 2021
Remembering Louis on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Kathy
September 11, 2020
Time passes, but our fond memories of Lou will always remain. Lou was always smiling and energized our team. Miss you!
Suzanne
September 11, 2020
Another year Lou, and your still in our thoughts, heart and prayers.
Aon Finance
September 11, 2019
Dear Lou and Family, our thoughts and prayers will always be with you. Miss you.
Debbie Strumolo
September 11, 2019
Hi Lou, Just heard your name read at the 9/11 Memorial, and cannot believe so many years have passed since you were sadly called home. May your soul be resting at peace. You and your family are always close in my thoughts and prayers.
Lea Irwin
May 30, 2019
I visited the memorial last week. Louis was the first name I saw and I wanted to learn about him. Im truly very sorry for your loss. It sounds as if he was good man and very loved. God Bless
Ernest Garvin
November 16, 2017
To a great man and even greater friend; you will always live in our hearts. To the family, may God continue to bless and keep you always!
Nancy Muntner
November 15, 2017
I will not ever forget you either. As long as I live, you too live. I lived across the street from you in Marlboro,NJ
September 11, 2017
Just heard your name on TV. We never met but I wore your bracelet for a very long time for you and for all that perished. Some way I feel like I know you. I had the privilege of speaking with your daughter when I received your bracelet and I pray all your family is doing well and as best they can without you.
September 9, 2017
Lou,
It's so hard to fathom another year without you. You were such an amazing coworker and friend. May God Bless you always in eternal peace.
Donna Spera
September 6, 2017
Thinking about you Louman.
April 24, 2017
To all who perished on that tragic day and to everyone left behind.
I did not have the pleasure of knowing Louis Frank Aversano Jr or his family but they are in my thoughts and prayers. I look forward to the day when death and pain no longer exist. We can be confident that God will soon bring this about because it is impossible for him to lie.
J. Merricks
Bear, Delaware
Kathy M
September 13, 2016
Time passes, but we will never forget our Aon friends and families.
October 9, 2015
So sorry for your lost. It is difficult losing a love one. Please read Act17:24,25
logan james
September 16, 2015
God bless you
September 12, 2015
I said a prayer for you and your family yesterday. Love and hugs to you Antonio!
Veronica Benzinger
September 11, 2015
I miss you Lou.
WTC 9/11/15
Kathy Miller
September 11, 2015
The beautifull rainbow that spanned the downtown skyline this morning was heaven sent. No doubt that Lou had something to do with it! Our thoughts are with Lou and his family. Be well.
Debbie Strumolo
September 11, 2015
Lou, It doesn't seem possible that 14 years have passed since that awful day. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers, especially today as we hold our Aon Memorial. The skies opened up and the heavens cried yesterday to remind us all that they have a very special angel who we miss so much. Rest in peace my friend.
Del Newberry
April 22, 2015
To Little Lou and all of the family and friends that Lou left behind, I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you today, and honoring Lou's memory by praying for you today as well as all of the families of victims on that horrible day. May you be encouraged to know that there are thousands of us across America and beyond who will never forget. Much love from Texas
Faye Scott
September 13, 2014
I said special prayers for the Aversano family on 9/11. May God continue to be with all of you after losing your loved one.
Kevin Shampoe
September 13, 2014
I was just in Washington DC on 9/11/14 with 2 Million bikers to DC. My ride was in honor of Mr. Aversano. God bless.
Denise Johnson
September 12, 2014
I did not have the pleasure of knowing you, but I have a flag with your name on it that I purchased and I fly it in your honor and your memory. I took time to search the internet to see who you were and I am so sorry you are no longer here.
Kathy Miller
September 11, 2014
Another year has past and we will always remember our Aon friends, family and collegues. All the best to the Aversano family.
Gary Grant
September 11, 2014
Lou and I were Academy Bus commuting partners as he and I lived in the same community (Southfield Estates). I had moved to South Florida prior to the 911 devistation and had to watch on TV in disbelief as the towers fell. My first thoughts were of Lou......hoping he did not, for some reason, go in that day. I think of him often and will always remember our conversations on the bus.....he loved and spoke passionatley of his family every day.
Ernest Garvin
September 11, 2014
I have kept you and your family in my prayers for so many years. I remember when we worked together and all the good times we had; friendship is an everlasting thing, so one day we shall cross paths again. To your family I say may you continue to be blessed always. Lou was a great man and friend and he will be missed always, but never forgotten!
Debbie Strumolo
September 11, 2014
Hi Lou,
I cannot believe 13 years have passed. I can still remember our last conversation, and the last time I saw you as if it were yesterday - It still doesn't seem real. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers, and particularly today, when we hold our Aon Memorial. Rest in peace my friend.
Debbie
February 14, 2014
Happy Birthday Lou
Antonio Aversano
September 12, 2013
Thanks for your kind sentiments as we re-member the beauty and Love of our dear Lou!
Faye Scott
September 11, 2013
Shortly after 9/11, the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association (BGEA) made available bracelets to memorialize the victims of 9/11. I received one and the name Louis Frank Aversano was the name on the one I received. This was reminder to prayer for the families of those lost. I want Mr. Aversano's family to know that I still wear this bracelet often. When I do and look at his name, I pray for all of you. God bless you!
Kathy Miller
September 11, 2013
Dear Lou and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers each and every day. Miss you!
Debbie Strumolo
September 10, 2013
Hi Lou,
I cannot believe it is 12 years - I can recall every detail as if it only happened yesterday. Please know that I keep you and your family close in my thoughts and prayers (especially Rose, my Linked-In buddy).
Each time I think about some of the crazy and wonderful conversations we had, it's always followed by a tear and a smile.
Rest in peace my friend,
Debbie
Antonio Aversano
September 12, 2012
Thank you for your kind words and remembering our Dad. His legacy lives on!
Kathy Miller
September 11, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are sent to the Aversano family. Lou was devoted to his family and we are so blessed to have had Lou as a part of our Aon family. Lou brighten everyone's day and he will always remain in our thoughts.
Juanita Aurand
September 11, 2012
I am in the Denver office and we interface with the New York office on a daily basis. I remember Lou as a kind man, responsive to requests. His family is in my heart this day, every day.
Celeste Reynolds
September 11, 2012
Hi Lou, I can't believe it has been 11 years now.
A lot has chaged at Aon.
Continue to rest in peace
Barbara Boam
April 19, 2012
Barbara Boam & Kim Rogers walked a mile for you (mile #96) on 4/17/12 as a dedication to your life.
Kara Solomita
February 7, 2012
Although I did not know Louis Aversano in life, after reading all of the beloved memories and feelings, I am shown the impact of this man on all he came in contact with, and the love that he and his family and friends shared amongst them. My thoughts are with his family and friends always..
December 13, 2011
To The Family,
I was one of the fortunate ones who did not lose any family members on that hurtful day of 9/11. However, I would like to express my deepest condolences to you in the loss of your loved one. In lieu of the Almighty creating all mankind with the natural desire to want to live forever, death is so hard to accept. Therefore, your emotions may may be somewhat unpredictable. Tears may flow without much advance warning. But remember, " God is near to those that are broken at heart and those who are crushed in spirit he saves." May these concerning thoughts help somehow to convey the sympathy that hearts can feel but words can never say.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Antonio Aversano
September 16, 2011
Thank You to everyone who posted here. We all miss my Dad and I am grateful he will forever be remembered in the Love and Light that he radiated throughout his life.
Emily Prezzano
September 14, 2011
You may not know me, but I used to work with Lou quite a few years ago when he worked in mid-manhattan. I happended to be watching the 10th anniversary of 9-11 and when the families were reading name I heard his name. That brought on my curiousity and in search, I found this website. I was taken aback that it was him. He was a wonderful person to work with (he taught me everything I know today). I think about him once in a while and now he will be in my prayers as well.
September 12, 2011
I am Frank Aversano Jr., native of NYC. Many questioned if Louis was me or my father. Peace and remembrance from me and my family.
Jenny Connors
September 11, 2011
Dear Mr. Aversano, a person who could love their fish as much as you must have a special place in Heaven. When your fishies cross over the Rainbow Bridge, you will see them swimming happily toward you. God bless you and your family.
Joseph Innamorato
September 11, 2011
Can't believe it's ten years . Just to let you know that you and your family are always in my prays.
Rest in Peace Lou
Kymberli Colbourne
September 11, 2011
We hold you in our hearts.
Carrie Krebs-Feese
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you always, but especailly today. I cannot believe it has been 10 years since I heard your laughter or saw your infectious smile. You must be so proud of your beautiful family. Your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren are all so proud of you. Rest in peace Uncle Lou, for you are our forever angel! xoxoxo
Carol Thoreson
September 11, 2011
I posted awhile ago but not sure I checked the box for you to contact me.
Anthony, I think of you often.....
carol thoreson
September 11, 2011
anthony i hope you read this. i don't know if you remember me but i was the office manager in the communication school at unlv. i think of you and your family every time i think of this day. and today 9/11/11 i am watching the remembrances on television and praying for you and your family. in march 2002 i was in new york went to the sight and saw your dads name at was then a temporary wall. seeing his name a man i had met changed me forever. god bless you and your family.
Aon Finance
September 9, 2011
It's been 10 years now and we at the finance group miss you very. Our prayers go out to your family.
Debbie
September 9, 2011
Hi Lou,
I cannot believe 10 years have already passed. It feels like I was just talking, joking, and laughing with you only yesterday. You and your family are always close in my thoughts and prayers. Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you.
Carrie Krebs-Feese
May 5, 2011
While your family's suffering will never end, I can only hope that this act has created some peace in their lives. I love them very much, and I love you too! This disgraceful coward is gone. Now, may you RIP Uncle Lou! xoxox
Ash Bel
May 1, 2011
Osama Bin Laden is DEAD ! Finally the monster is slayed. RIP Lou !
Antonio Aversano
September 12, 2010
Thanks Debbie and Jaclyn.
I am sure Dad is receiving and appreciating your prayers and is certainly sending a loving smooch back your way like only he could. (^_^)
Many Blessings,
Antonio
Antonio Aversano
September 12, 2010
Thanks Debbie and Jaclyn for keeping Dad in your prayers. I know he is hearing you and sending you loving smooch like only he could. (^_^)
His Son,
Antonio
Debbie
September 11, 2010
Hi Lou, I cannot believe it is 9 years. Still remember every detail of that day as if it were yesterday. I always keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace.
Jaclyn Kaczynski
September 10, 2010
Hey big Lou!!!
I miss you more then words can explain... Wow. 9 years you flirt, you! Thinking of you always. You were such an amazing man. I will forever keep you in my heart.
With love always...
August 30, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. I was online Googling my maiden name (Aversano) when I saw your name, Rose Aversano, which is my name also. I am now Rose Ausburn. May God bless you and your family.
Sallyann Aversano
February 16, 2010
Happy Birthday Lou! Love you
Carrie Krebs-Feese
February 14, 2010
Happy B-day Uncle Lou in Heaven. Loving you and missing you everyday!
YOUR ROSEY
February 14, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY!! I CAN'T EVER SEEM TO GET THROUGH A VALENTINES DAY WITHOUT HATING EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE. IT'S SUSPOSE TO BE A DAY FILLED WITH LOVE AND ALL I HAVE IS HATE. I HATE THAT MY DADDY IS GONE AND I HATE THAT TODAY, YOUR BIRTHDAY, WHEN WE CELEBRATE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER, AND WE CELEBRATE LIFE, I AM FILLED WITH SO MUCH HATRED!
Doug Abraham
February 14, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristinn Cannella
January 15, 2009
I miss you Papa Lou!! Lou was a man who always put a smile on my face at every birthday, holiday or just any day in general you were always the first to leave a card or note on my desk! Valentine's Day will always be a day to remember. xoxo I miss you!!!! Kristinn
Sue Carbone
January 14, 2009
Lou Aversano really was a remarkable man. I miss the fun we all had together.
Liz D'Urso
January 14, 2009
Lu always put a smile on my face. That's just the kind of person he was. Sweet, kind and funny. I will always remember how he cherished Lisa and the closeness they shared. It was beautiful and touching. I miss you.
Jennifer Glickman
January 14, 2009
Thank you for sharing such a heartwarming story.
Sallyann Aversano
September 12, 2008
Hi Lou: I know I'm a day late and a dollar short. Anyhoo hoping all is well with you and our heavenly Father. My Sister Danielle Marie Lingg age 33 passed away on 7/1/08 so look her up I know she is there with you and our familly. Love to you always,
Carrie Krebs-Feese
September 11, 2008
Hi Uncle Lou,
Thinking of you and the family today..........I always call Lisa on this day. I know you are looking down on Your 2 beautiful granddaughters. Missing you! I know you are keeping all in heaven smiling like you did for us!
Love always,
Carrie
Debbie Strumolo
September 11, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family everyday. I think about you often and smile when I recall some of the wacky, wonderful conversations we had. Miss you!
Jaclyn Kaczynski
September 11, 2008
Lou,
Thinking of you and your family on this 7th anniversary.
Hope you're well in Heaven...
Jaclyn
Kathy Miller
September 11, 2008
Dear Lou and Family,
Thoughts and Prayers are with you each and every day. Lou is a very special person who brought joy to everyone he met. Miss you!
Lars
September 11, 2008
Hey VP, thinking of you today. Great memories. Man, we shared a ton of laughs over the years. . .That's what I will remember most.
Leonard Resto
September 10, 2008
Lou,
Missing you and thinking of you on the 7th anniversary. May you be at everlasting peace.
Len Resto
Carol O'Connor
April 1, 2008
Hi, I met Louis' family when I received his memorial band and had the chance to say goodbye in Brooklyn. I just wanted to stop by and say that I am thinking of Louis and you and hoping you are all doing okay. Peace always, Carol
Doug Abraham
February 14, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Sally, Vinnie & Angel Aversano
September 13, 2007
Lou We Love You God Bless
Lou and the AON crew...with an NYC Cow at WTC
Kym Quinn
September 12, 2007
I wanted to share this picture of Lou...laughing and making the rest of us laugh! I did some consulting work at Aon and had the pleasure to work with Lou and his crew in 2000. I was devastated on 9-11 and often think of Lou. He was terrific!! I hope this picture brings smiles! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Jaclyn Kaczynski
September 11, 2007
Hey Lou! Thinking of you today! God I miss you!
Sandra Mesa
September 11, 2007
My Dearest Friend Lou:
May God continue to keep your family and friends in his prayer, as we continue to keep you in ours.
Lou - I miss you so......
Tu Amiga - Sandy
September 11, 2007
I'll never forget you Lou .. from your teasing manner, to your absolute dedication to your staff, to your easy smile. God Bless you and your family
Chris Hay
September 11, 2007
I spent nine months working with Lou, and from day one he made me feel like a life-long friend. I looked forward to meeting with him each time I was in New York. My thoughts and prayers go out to Lou and his family.
Donna Spera
September 10, 2007
Louman,
Thinking of you always.....
You and your family are in my heart.
Donna
Antonio Aversano
April 17, 2007
Hearing of the tragic terror attacks from canada.....i cannot beging to explain the shock of all those innocent lives being lost....then coming across the name of Mr. Louis F. Aversano.....hit me even harder.
I am Anotnio (Tony) Aversano....i live in Montreal,Quebec,Canada and no relation to Mr. Louis Aversano but thought i would share my prayer and love for him and his family....my DEEPEST condolences to Mr.Aversano and his family....my you rest in peace.
With love...
Antonio (Tony) Aversano
Montreal,Canada
Carrie Krebs
February 15, 2007
Hi Uncle Lou,
Happy B-day 1 day late! I think of you often, and miss your magnetic personality. I was honored in seeing your beautiful new granddaughter 1 day old. I tell Lisa that I can't believe how your little Alexa looks like her Grandpa Lou. She has your hair line! LOL
I know you will continue to watch over your family, especially now beautiful Alexa.
Sleep in peace.
Love,
Carrie
Doug Abraham
February 14, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
steven aversano
October 24, 2006
louis
You were loved very much by your family.Rest in peace.
your cousin
steven aversano staten island ny
Kristine
October 12, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
September 19, 2006
May your family remember the wonderfuly times you shared during your brief stay on Earth.
Showing 1 - 100 of 220 results
Make a Donation
in Louis Aversano's name
How to support Louis's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Louis Aversano's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
Sponsored