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Carlos Dominguez Obituary
There was always enough room for a Christmas tree and a menorah in the Dominguez living room in December. The holidays reflected a commitment that Carlos Dominguez and his wife, Maureen, made to each other in 1991 — a wedding ceremony presided over by both a priest and a rabbi, and with the blessings of both families. "When you got down to it," Mrs. Dominguez said, "our values were the same."
Mr. Dominguez, 34, was born in Little Italy, the second son of Cuban immigrants. He was the first in his family to go to college, attending New York University. "He was just a very kind, caring person," Mrs. Dominguez said. During their courtship, the two volunteered in soup kitchens on the Bowery. After marrying, they converted their public service commitment into parenthood, with three daughters: Maria, 10, Amanda, 6, and Michelle, 20 months.
He was an independent contractor for Marsh & McLennan for three years, setting up firewalls for their computers. In 2000, the family moved from Brooklyn to a house in East Meadow, N.Y., and bought a second car. Things were looking up: Marsh made him a permanent employee on Sept. 10.
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KEVIN KAMPER
September 11, 2021
Hard to believe 20 years has past. So much has happened. Carolos will always be remembered. god bless.
Christi Willmon
September 10, 2021
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate his life well lived. Your family is in my prayers. 2021
Cindy Roe
September 8, 2021
Remembering Carlos on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Denis
September 11, 2019
I'm thinking about Carlos today.
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Paul Koontz
September 11, 2019
This morning September 11th 2019 I watched the memorial ceremonies on the day we will never forget eighteen years ago and I saw Carlos' name and town East Meadow and being the town next to mine in North Bellmore I was curious about the man whom had perished that faithful day and reading all of these thoughts here of what a wonderful man he was and still is left me in tears. May God bless you Carlos and your family and my heartfelt condolences go out to all his many loved ones. We will never forget Carlos or any of those thousands of others who perished and continue to perish!
Toni Unkles
October 22, 2016
We visited the pools last weekend whilst on a trip to New York and stood next to Carlos' name and found the time very moving therefore we wanted to pass on our condolences as behind every name is an ever flickering light full of memories x
September 29, 2016
This year marks the 15th anniversary of my husband's death. He lives on in the faces of his children. We will never forget! On August 20, 2017 his daughter Maria will be married. As I walk my daughter down the aisle, Carlos will be there in spirit looking down at her, as a very proud parent.
September 14, 2016
Sorry for the loss of your loved one. May the God of peace and. M'comfort,comfort you in your loss h difficult time,
November 30, 2015
So sorry for your lost. It is very difficult to lose a love one. There are satisfying answers to life big questions. Please read Proverbs 2:1-5
Jacob
September 29, 2011
When 911 happened I was only 4 years old. Now it is 911's tenth anniversary. Honestly I don't remember hardly anything about that day, but over the past years I have learned about this devastating tragedy. It is horrible how so many hard working family men and women like you had to die like that. I can not even imagine what your family had to go through. However you, like the rest of the people who died on 911, will never be forgotten. In my opinion you are an American hero. Never forget Carlos Dominguez and the rest of the 911 victims.
Stephanie Le
September 29, 2011
When 9/11 happened, I was really young and I didn't even know much about it. This year was the 10th anniversary. Our school decided to plant flowers. We were given a slip with a person who passed away on 9/11 and wrapped the paper around the Iris seed. It makes me very sad that those people had to die that way. I feel sorry for the family and friends. It must be very heartbreaking that you lost a loved one that way. Carlos Domingues seemed like a hard working man that took very good care of his family, His wife and kids must be sad, but he will probably never be forgotten.
September 11, 2011
I am very close to your family today, but I wish I got the chance to meet you. Never forgotten<3
Bob Collik
April 24, 2011
The events of 9/11 have left a hole in my heart... something I may never get over. I remember hearing that Carlos was among those lost that day. So, of course, I wanted to acknowledge him after reading the April 3rd, 2011 Newsday article "9/11: A Decade Later."
Carlos assisted me in my video/photography business throughout the 80s and early 90s. I'm still in the business and I have to say, Carlos remains my favorite assistant (don't tell the others... LOL)!!! We spent hours together driving to weddings and other events while chatting and snacking... and Lord knows, Carlos enjoyed a snack... The Dunkin Donuts on Flatlands and E.83 was our hang out for a while when we were originally based in Brooklyn. Carlos, even, continued to work with us briefly after we relocated to Suffolk County.
It was apropos to see you, Maureen, flipping through your wedding album in the Newsday video clip since that brought back special memories of that day. I remember the wedding day vividly; not only because we photographed and videotaped the occasion but because it was great to see Carlos enjoy being a guest, for a change! My crew was served dinner in the adjacent ballroom. Carlos, I suppose out of force of habit, came in to eat dinner with us, the staff. Being the senior married man at the table, I, of course, sent him back to eat with his guests and new bride.
There are so many stories of those days and we always had fun together. Carlos, somehow, had a knack for helping the day ease by with his humor and calm demeanor. I think he learned a few photo tips along the way, also.
Maureen, you and your daughters, were obviously, the light of his life and, as you indicated, he expressed his caring in many ways. So many others were lucky enough to have known Carlos and I am glad to have the opportunity to add an anecdote on his behalf.
Stay well and regards to the family.
Stan Kravetz
April 3, 2011
I had the pleasure of knowing Carlos through work. We worked together, we had lunch together, we walked together, and our families got to know each other but only too briefly. Carlos has a permanent place in my heart for his warmth and kindness. I can fondly remember his sense of humor and his tirelessness when anyone needed his help. One of my lasting visions of him is how he would always punctuate a joking line by patting himself rhymeicly on his stomach to the tune of "ta-da da da".
Maureen, I'm happy for you as your life has moved and you have happiness. Carlos will always be a part of you and your daughters.
He is missed.
April 2, 2011
I knew Carlos at Deutsche Bank, and it was a pleasure. Such a genuine, and down-to-earth man. One of the first peolpe I met there. Was heartbroken when I heard we lost you. Bless you and your family.
Brian Myers
April 2, 2011
I knew Carlos at Deutsche Bank, and it was a pleasure. Such a genuine, and down-to-earth man. One of the first peolpe I met there. Was heartbroken when I heard we lost you. Bless you and your family.
Maria Dominguez
March 30, 2010
Dear daddy,
Its been almost nine years since you passed away. While i once was your little girl, im almost all grown up today. I'd give anything to have you still with us ,even though your not here you influenced me in so many ways. While ive never really looked at the websites before, its nice to see how you influenced other people, and are missed by not only me. I love you daddy and i hope your looking down and are proud of not only me, but of amanda and michelle and of whom we have become and of all the things we will do as we grow older until we finally go to be with you.
with all my love,
Maria
Doug Abraham
June 13, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Yvonne Valdes
June 26, 2008
Carlos was an incredible person in this life and I am sure he is watching and caring. I regret letting life's trivial things keep me from my cousin. Your life was too short, rest in peace.
Sean O'Reilly
September 12, 2007
"OK" is the word that pops into my mind when i think of Carlos. I know OK does not do him justice, but Carlos was always as cool as a morning breeze. I worked with Carlos At Marsh, and was guaranteed, a pleasant, intelligent, and helpful response that was always proceeded by an "OK".
Carlos I miss you Buddy.
God Bless you, your Wife and your little girls.
SeanOR
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Alexander Garza
October 14, 2006
Im sorry to hear about SSG Dominguez. He replaced us in Taji, and in the short time we got to be around him, he was great. My condolances to the family.....
SGT Alexander Garza III
P Tabbernor
September 28, 2006
In memory....
Dan Flickstein
March 5, 2006
Carlos' memory is indelibly imprinted on my mind. He belonged to a class at Lincoln High School filled with memorable people, and among them, he remains a standout. I shall never forget his sarcastic wit and wonderful sense of humor, and how extemely warm and helpful he was when we produced our school play and literary magazine. I have missed him all these years, and I am sorry to have learned about his demise, much too early in his life. He was a terrific adolescent, and even had I not read the other entries in this guestbook, I would be sure he had become a fine man. I never have and never will forget him. May his soul rest in peace.
Manny Ochoa
September 11, 2003
It wasn't until several days after 9/11 that I became aware that Carlos was among the missing at the World Trade Center. Up to date, he is the only person I knew who lost their life there yet it saddens me deeply. I worked with Carlos at Bankers Trust in NY for a short time and remember sharing a car with him once to our disaster recovery site in Parsippany where I got to know him better and realized what a great person he was. He impressed me with his intelligence and technical knowledge. He won my respect and admiration towards him by his sweetness and respect for others. I will always remember Carlos as a true proffessional and kind friend.
Linda Russell
September 25, 2002
My deepest sympathy to the family of Charlie.
I knew Ben back in Brighton Beach and it took a while to figure out that Charles was his brother.
I feel so sorry that he lost his brother in such a senseless and tragic way. My prayers go out for you all.
Christine Fitch
September 13, 2002
I had the great honor of singing in the Rolling Requiem at 8:46 a.m. on September 11, 2002, at St. Josephat's Basilica in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, wearing a pin with Charles (Carlos) Dominguez's name upon it. I was part of a chorus of over 200 people singing the Mozart Requiem. The Basilica, which reportedly seats up to 1,700 had crowds standing at the back for the service. I thought about Charles, wondered what kind of a person he was, and am so happy to have found this web site where his classmates, co-workers and family have left beautiful memorials. I pray that the family who mourns will find comfort in the beautiful memories that Charles must have left behind. He sounds like a wonderful person and I hope he was able to hear from heaven this tribute in music being sung around the world in every time zone at 8:46 a.m. and know that someone was singing with him in mind.
Dena Friedman
September 11, 2002
One thing that had been of some comfort to me through the year since September 11, 2001, was that I did not know anyone who died or anyone who lost a friend or family member in the attacks. One year later, September 11, 2002, that changed. I was reading a list of names of victims on the internet when I came across Carlos Dominguez. My heart sank.Maybe it's someone else, I thought. It's a pretty common name. Later, as I looked through the photos published in the New York Times, I quickly jumped to the "D's" to see if indeed the Carlos Dominguez I remembered was same one whose life was taken. To my deep sadness, it was. It was the same Carlos Dominguez with whom I had spent several years at Abraham Lincoln High School in Brooklyn - 1980-83. I remember that we worked together in the English Dept. office, were in a club together and even went on the school's ski trip. I'm sure our drama/speech teacher, Mr. Dan Flickstein would recall Carlos fondly. Carlos always affectionately referred to Mr. Flickstein as "Flicker." To which Mr. Flickstein replied, "You can call me Flick, but please don't call me Flicker." As I sat and watched the coverage of the day,I lit a candle for Carlos and watched it burn brightly as I sat in my living room, no longer in my comfort zone. Rest in peace Carlos.
Your old Lincoln High School friend, Dena
Denis Gulsen
September 11, 2002
I went to junior high and high school with Carlos. I'll always remember him for his true kindness to others.
Patrick Kidney
July 16, 2002
I worked with Carlos over at Marsh. I had gotton to work with him often just prior to my departure from the company. He was such a good guy, never a bad thing to say about anyone or anything. He was a gentle well spoken man that was extremly intelligent. He would always make time for you if you had a question. I am happy to be able to say that one of my last times working with him was the completion of the Marsh data center project completion. This was a major accomplishment in which many hours, and planning went into. We all went out to dinner and celebrated, had allot of laughs, and then Carlos, and another Marsh employee named John shared a car ride home. Carlos was a good man who loved his family and was a dedicated employee to Marsh. Marsh as a whole lost a number of top technology, and other employees that dreadful day. The company will never be the same. The real sad thing is that all of the people I knew were such amazing people who had so much more to give to everyone around them. Carlos will never be forgotton, for his family who had to be extremly devistated by this, You will be in my prayers. May God bless you and keep you healthy, safe, and give you the strength to get past this... To his little girls, your were your fathers life " He Loved you more than anything in the world". Be strong and never forget the man that he was. Follow your dreams strive high in life and make him proud...
Melony Corujo-Liz
January 18, 2002
Our cousin Carlos was a gentle, and noble person. May his spirit, and love live on in his beautiful family. We will forever remember him as the Great Man he was.
Love, Iliana, Melony, Felicia & Mireya
January 12, 2002
MAY GOD BLESS CARLOS DOMINGUEZ AND
MAY HE REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND
FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN..
Teresa Jahn
January 4, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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