Luke A. Dudek

Luke A. Dudek

Luke Dudek Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 13, 2001.
Keeping the Tide In
Luke A. Dudek was forever proud to work at Windows on the World, where he was the food and beverage controller. He had a knack for numbers. Naturally, given the environment, he delighted in fine wine, and it was his custom when his wine glass was empty to remark to the waiter, "My tide is out."

But his special joy was Coqui Designs, the flower business he owned with his life partner, George A. Cuellar. (Coqui is Mr. Cuellar's nickname.) Mr. Cuellar operated the place and was the creative mind behind the designs they did for stores like Bloomingdale's and Gucci, and for countless weddings. The numbers, though, were the province of Mr. Dudek, 50. "He did the books," Mr. Cuellar said. "He did my taxes. He even delivered flowers on the weekends and did weddings. I called him the core of the apple."

The two had always wanted to own their own building. In May, they bought a building in Cedar Grove, N.J., to move the store to. They spent the summer renovating. To do the final touches, Mr. Dudek recently devoted a week's vacation to the store. His first day back at Windows on the World was Sept. 11.

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on October 13, 2001.


Luke A. Dudek, 50, fine wine and flowers

By day, Luke A. Dudek was an executive -- the food and beverage controller for Windows on the World atop One World Trade Center.

By night, Mr. Dudek worked at his own business, Coqui Design Inc. of Cedar Grove, a well-known flower shop he and his partner, George Cuellar, started 15 years ago.

On weekends, the Livingston resident shed the corporate suit and tie for jeans or a jogging suit to deliver flowers for weddings or floral displays.

"This was his hobby that he really loved," said Cuellar, Mr. Dudek's partner for 20 years. "He would set up weddings and parties and do everything that you could think of. After work he would stop by the shop and do the books."

Cuellar said his partner loved the business so much that after years of renting space, this year they bought their own property for the business. He said Mr. Dudek spent a week of vacation in September completing renovations.

His first day back to work in New York was Sept. 11. Mr. Dudek, 50, died in the attacks on the World Trade Center. A Mass of Resurrection was offered Monday in Our Lady of The Lake Church in Verona.

"He finally had his dream come true, but he never returned to it," Cuellar said.

"I owe part of my life to him," Cuellar said. "Part of who I am today is from sharing my life with him."

Mr. Dudek was born in New York and grew up in Livingston, where he graduated from Livingston High School in 1968. He graduated from Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1973 with a degree in psychology. His major was organizational management and quantitative analysis. Mr. Dudek also did post-graduate study in accounting and computer technology.

In 1985, Mr. Dudek and Cuellar opened the flower shop. Over the next 15 years, the store's reputation grew and its designs have been featured in bridal magazines and displayed at upscale stores like Bloomingdales, Louis Vuitton and Gucci.

Mr. Dudek traveled extensively on business, having gone to the United Kingdom, Mexico, Canada and Spain.

When he was home, Cuellar said Mr. Dudek found it therapeutic to tinker with cars and was handy around the house.

"He could take a car apart and put it back together," Cuellar said. "There was a Lincoln Continental in the driveway waiting for him to put back together."

Mr. Dudek, a connoisseur of fine wine, foods and Cuban cigars, loved his two Dalmatians --Barney and Gypsy, Cuellar said.

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September 12, 2021

Lisa Hall posted to the memorial.

September 10, 2021

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September 8, 2021

Cindy Roe posted to the memorial.

RIP Luke 9-11 2021

Lisa Hall

September 12, 2021

RIP 9-11 2021

Lisa Hall

September 10, 2021

Remembering Luke on the eve of 9-11, 2021 RIP Lisa Hall

Cindy Roe

September 8, 2021

Remembering Luke on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

Carrie Dudek

March 10, 2021

I didn't know you personally, Luke. My last name is Dudek too. And on the second anniversary of 9/11, after the reading of names, a co-worker said to me, "I didn't know you'd lost someone on 9/11. I'm so sorry." After that I kind of considered you an adopted relative, and your name and my name--it was OUR last name. I set out to learn about you. On one early anniversary of 9/11, I was with my mom, boarding a plane while they were reading the list of names, and that was such a surreal flight--I thought of you, and what it would have been like to have been on one of those planes. I think of you every anniversary, and in between. Here I am, reading about you on March 10,2021, March 9th being the anniversary in OH of the beginning of the pandemic, trying to comprehend death and grief... and I end up reading about 9/11 again... I saw it happen on TV live and I still can't look at the pictures again. Blessings and love from another Dudek. I wish I'd known you. Peace and love to your boyfriend, too.

Dave Everitt

November 4, 2018

When I was a young dancer on scholarship in NYC in the 70's, I met Luke through some musicians I would jam with on the weekends. Luke became like the big brother I never had helping navigate through the craziness of Manhattan as a struggling artist. Luke had a white van and a large dog he would bring into the city and he would stay over in our crowded apartment of dancers.

Luke was well read, bright, light-hearted and well acquainted with the fine arts, as well as pop culture. We would go to dives on the Lower East Side and listen to amazing musicians and attend avant garde performances like Divine's "Women Behind Bars". He had a great twisted sense of humor.

Luke worked at a motorcycle shop in NJ at the time and would sometimes drive his 'hog' into the city. He got a kick out of embarrassing me dropping me off for class at SAB (School of American Ballet) on his motorcycle just as my Russian teachers were arriving.

Sometimes we would drive to the Poconos on the weekends so that I could breathe air with oxygen for a few hours and we'd practice our bad Italian. He taught me how to work out with weights since my chosen profession required me to hoist ladies into the air all the time. (I was a skinny kid.) I didn't understand why he wanted to hang out with someone with so little to offer, but I tried not to take his friendship for granted.

I lost track of Luke and everyone else when I left NY (my missing address book was my only connection at the time). Thanks to the internet, I got in touch with Luke months before the 911 tragedy and he was anxious for me to pay a visit to NYC, meet his wonderful partner and share his latest accomplishments.

Luke was the epitome of a solid friend. He was so intelligent and even tempered that he could always put the needs of others before himself. He always gave more than he received. I hope that those who had steady association with Luke through the years realize just how lucky they were. He was a rock and I share the grief of our loss, although most of what I remember of Luke resides only in my memory.

Your little brother, Dave

Joseph Collins

July 17, 2014

Luke and I took our mothers to an opera at Lincoln Center on either Christmas or New Years a long long time ago - Parterre box seats. We were friends, then lost touch. R.I.P.

John Dudek

September 11, 2013

God Bless Luke, his family, and ALL affected on that day. Let us Never Forget.

September 11, 2011

I received Luke's name today at church. To his family and friends know that I am praying for you on this day of remembrance and honoring Luke.

Paul Dudek

September 21, 2008

I felt compelled to sign this guest book for Luke. I did not know him at all but sharing the same last name I feel as if we share a common bond. I pray that God blesses your family. I have learned over the last several years that there are many, many Dudeks all across the country. Although I didn't know Luke; I am honored to sign this book. Thank You and God Bless.

Doug Abraham

November 20, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

Kristine

October 31, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

September 29, 2006

In remembrance....

Lisa (D'Agostini) Hall

September 11, 2003

My boyfriend at the time (Jerry Boyce) and I shared an apartment during college years with Luke. He was a quiet man who was "coming of age" with his identity. He was gentle and warm and harmed no one. Ironically, I have discovered that both Jerry and Luke have passed on. One of cancer and one a victim of 9-11. I will cherish both in my memory as they both had a part in forming the person I am today. A warm goodbye to Luke and Jerry for the good times we had as college kids. Love to you both, and I will see you on the other side someday.



Lee************

Linda Rann

September 22, 2002

I had the privilege of participating in the "Rolling Requiem" with the singing of the Mozart Requiem on Wed., Sept. 11, 2002 in Milwaukee, WI. At that time each participant was given a button with the name of a victim. Luke A. Dudek was the name on my button. This is to tell you that I am praying for the family and friends of Luke. God be with you.

Angie Campbell

April 25, 2002

May God Bless you and the family and friends that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in his loving peace forever.

Michael Iezzi

April 19, 2002

Father we entrust our brother Luke to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.

David & Elaine Weiner

February 13, 2002

Dearest Luke,



Elaine and will always miss you. Every Monday and Friday as I fly by I say hello and hope you are well. The whole event was so devasting and horrific.



Our Eternal Love,



Elaine & David

January 12, 2002

MAY THE GOOD LORD SHINE HIS LIGHT

ON LUKE A DUDEK AND MAY HE REST IN

PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD

BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD

BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...AMEN

Teresa Jahn

January 4, 2002

We are very sorry for your loss of Luke. May his life and love continue living in those who love him. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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