Alan J. Lederman

Alan J. Lederman

Alan Lederman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 21, 2001.
Man on a Mountaintop
Alan Lederman and his wife, Nancy Zuckerman, had not spent a vacation apart in the 10 years they were together. But he really wanted to climb Mount Whitney in California. They talked it over. She gave him the go-ahead.

Mr. Lederman, 43, hiked a lot and had done some modest mountain climbs, but nothing like Mount Whitney. A friend, Ed Gilroy, was going to make the attempt, too. They had met in fifth grade. "My brother had very long friendships," said Roni Salkin, one of Mr. Lederman's sisters. He got himself as fit as he could. Every day, he went up and down the 14 flights of his Manhattan apartment building, listening to his Walkman.

In July, he and Mr. Gilroy traveled to the West Coast and began climbing. It was not easy. Some altitude sickness stopped Mr. Gilroy short of the top, but Mr. Lederman went on and made it. On his cell phone, he called his wife at her office and breathlessly announced his achievement.

Mr. Lederman was a senior client specialist for Aon, a job he had started just two months before Sept. 11. His wife had returned from her own trip to visit friends on Sept. 7. Awaiting her in their apartment was a picture showing Mr. Lederman at the peak of Mount Whitney, his route and his signature in the visitors' log. He had written, "Where is the snack bar?"

"I have it high on the wall in my bedroom, above his desk," Ms. Zuckerman said. "I feel my husband is peering at me from heaven."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 20, 2001.


Alan Lederman, 43, at the peak of life

Alan Lederman was on top of the world this summer.

In July, he landed his dream job in the World Trade Center with Aon Corp., the insurance company.

And in a two-week break before he reported for work, Mr. Lederman and a childhood friend from North Brunswick decided to climb Mount Whitney, the highest mountain in the continental United States.

When his pal, Ed Gilroy, couldn't make it all the way up the 14,494-foot peak in California, Mr. Lederman tried to spare his feelings by saying he too had fallen short.

But he hadn't. A picture the 43-year-old New Yorker took of himself at the summit shows him in shorts and a cap, a delighted grin on his face. He also signed the visitor's log at the top.

"He wrote down, 'Hey, where's the snack bar,' " said Jeffrey Salkin, his brother-in-law.

Mr. Lederman was in his office on the 92nd floor of Two World Trade Center when a hijacked jet tore into the other tower on Sept. 11. He called friends and family members to say he was okay.

Most of his co-workers left the building before a second plane rammed into his building. But two women were paralyzed by panic and weren't budging.

"He stopped and tried to help them," Salkin said. "That's the last we know. They're missing as well."

Born in Flemington, Mr. Lederman spent most of his life in North Brunswick. He was crazy about animals, particularly collies, and was one of the first people in his neighborhood to have a computer.

He worked for many years for his parents' North Brunswick hardware business, then took a series of jobs in the insurance industry. He moved to Manhattan about a decade ago, after marrying his wife, Nancy.

Mr. Lederman had a knack for making and holding onto friends. When he went out for his climbing trip this summer, he stayed at the home of Steve Kerekes, a buddy from elementary school.

He sent a steady barrage of group e-mails to friends and family members, featuring jokes, petitions to protect the environment or updates about what he was doing that week. Some of his friends are using those messages now to share their grief with other people whose e-mail addresses appeared on those lists.

"He just always had a way of making you smile," said Matt Manuel, a friend of Mr. Lederman's since 1988. "He would call up and say, 'Hey, buddy boy.' It was what he always called me. It's one of those things: You're going to miss those phone calls."

Mr. Lederman is survived by his parents, Stanley and Lila Lederman of North Brunswick; two sisters, Jean Lembo and Roni Salkin, and a brother, Nathan Leaflight.

A memorial service will be held at 11:30 a.m. Sunday at Temple Neve Shalom, 250 Grove Ave., Metuchen.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to the Association for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals or the Sierra Club.

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Dennis Spring

September 12, 2017

On 9/11, still very much on my mind. RIP Alan.

Shari Parish

September 11, 2017

To my dear friend Alan's family.........I am thinking of all of you today........
Always,
Shari Parish

Shari Parish

September 11, 2016

Thinking of Alan and his family today. Impossible to believe that 15 years have gone by.....
Always,
Shari

shari parish

September 11, 2015

To the Lederman Family,
Thinking of you today, and the memories of my dear friend Alan.
Always,
Shari Parish

Dennis Spring

April 1, 2015

Last week, my wife Penny and I went to the 9/11 Memorial. It was truly a moving experience for us.

We were moved and saddened to see Alan's picture on a memorial quilt, on a wall and outside around the waterfall.

Alan, and his wife Nancy, lived two doors down from us in our apartment house in NYC.

I never got the chance to know Alan well but do remember a chance meeting at the elevator one morning.

As I waited for the elevator I heard a door open and out runs a beautiful Main Coon cat who stopped in his tracks as soon as someone from inside the apt yelled "get back here". He ran back into the apt.

At the time, the management of our buildings didn't allow any animals in the apts.

Next, out comes Alan with a big, meek smile on his face. I decided to tease him.

I said I thought there were no animals allowed. Alan's smile immediately changed into a serious expression of concern.

That's when I told him that I'm glad to know someone else on the floor who has a cat because we too had two cats!

We both laughed and chatted about his new job at AON and how he tried to arrive early because it was a new job.

My wife Penny and I have since become close friends with Alan's wife Nancy, who I knows still misses Alan dearly.

Nancy still speaks with love about Alan and enjoys telling me about some of the memorable times she and Alan had together.

Alan, I know you're up there in heaven at peace now. Penny and I will always be friends with Nancy and look forward to hearing more stories about you and her.

Dennis Spring

September 11, 2014

Thinking of you today, and always. My thoughts are with you,
Shari Parish

S J. Friscia III

May 3, 2014

In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

September 11, 2013

Thinking of you and your family today.

Shari Parish

Shari Parish

September 11, 2012

Thinking of Allen and his family today and always.

Bob Wood

September 5, 2012

Alan and I were classmates at North Brunswick Township High School, and and I will be honoring him on the 9-11 anniversary by carrying a picture of him during a ceremonial run in Belmar. Rest in Peace, friend.

Brenda Serrano

September 11, 2011

Here a Puertorrican family with respect, praying for you and your family. Rest in peace. Daniel, Arnaldo and Brenda from Kissimmee Fl. We pick a flag with this name at Orlando activity today. God bless your family and have your soul with him

Marcia Parish Kasher

September 11, 2011

Alan lived around the corner from my family when he was growing up. He went to school with my children and I knew his family well. My heart and my thoughts are with you.

Shari Parish

September 11, 2011

I grew up with Alan in North Brunswick, NJ. We lived in the same neighborhood, and went to the same schools. My thoughts are with the family, always.

Seth Brown

December 21, 2009

I decided to Google Alan J. Lederman today, as it's the time of year when memories of old friends sometimes cross my mind, and was dismayed to learned about his fate.
My brother Gary and I were good friends with Alan during our high school years, though attending different schools, through a mutual friend (Steve K). I kept in touch with him through college and quite a few years afterward. Alan was a gentleman and a good friend. Despite our relationship eventually fading with time and distance, I have often thought fondly of Alan over the years and wondered what had become of him. I always remembered what a fine person he was, and hoped that he had found happiness and success in life. I have many fond memories of Alan, his family, and the times we spent together. Including the times we spent at Sir John's in East Brunswick drinking Wotney's Red Barrel beer. Alan was an inspiration to me and many others with his good character, and his sincere friendship. Billy Joel said that only the good die young, that sentiment certainly rings true in Alan's case. If the afterlife exists, I know Alan is in a better place.

P Tabbernor

December 5, 2006

In remembrance....

Kristine

November 10, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Janine van Noort

September 12, 2006

I met Alan in Amsterdam over 20 years ago. My girlfriend and myself would show those 'silly' Americans Amsterdam - Alan had met another American guy while travelling, Marvin - and boy did we have fun! Of course - that is how Alan is - we stayed in touch and wrote letters. I could not beat Alan's letters because he would write 8 pages easily! He revisited Amsterdam about 2 years later and again we had loads of fun and laughter. Alan came to visit me while I was in Chicago for work and my colleagues loved him! Alan is a warm personality, with a smile, ready to burst into laughter. Always a friendly word. His body stayed in the WTC but his spirit is high up and being held in God's hand.

I wish his wife, family and friends all the best and could not leave this space blank here. Warm greetings from the Netherlands.



Janine

Wendy

April 2, 2005

I worked with Alan for a few months at Rubin Group. He left there to go to AON. Alan was a really cool guy.

Deborah Anderson

September 12, 2002

I just wanted to let you know I was given a card with Alan's name to hold as I entered the performance of "An American Requiem" at Benaroya Hall in Seattle, yesterday. I will keep you in my prayers. It is good to know about him. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Dory Dickman

September 11, 2002

Today is the first anniversary of the tragedy and I turned my TV on for one moment to get the weather. When I saw Alan's name at the bottom of my screen, I couldn't believe it. I had met Alan and Nancy at a gym more than 6 years ago. I remember how both of them reached out to me since I was alone and one of the "new" people at the gym. Both Alan and Nancy are credited with turning me on to Sushi, a habit that has grown to expensive proportions since. I have not been in touch with them in a few years, but I have thought about them fondly many times.

My heart goes out to Nancy because I always looked to Alan and Nancy as the kind of couple I would have wanted to be a part of - two people who loved each other completely and were truly each other's best friend.

Alan - may you rest in peace.

Nancy - may your heart heal.



Love,

Dory

Robert, Nancy, Dustin and Laura Sutton

September 9, 2002

In memory of Alan J. Lederman

We did not know Alan, but my husband is the brother of Cam Sutton who works for Aon. I came across this on the internet and wanted to express our deepest sympathy. I have thought of all the lives lost that day and especially of the ones from my brother-in-laws company. It still hurts deeply. Our deepest deepest sympathy to the family.



Nancy Sutton

Seth Jonas

September 9, 2002

I worked with Alan for a couple of years at DeWitt Stern Group. We had similiar positions at DSG & we worked together often. I was so sorry to hear of his passing. He was a great guy & will be truly missed.

Glendia Bost

September 9, 2002

Alan, even though you were new like the rest of us, you seemed to know more than anyone there. And for that I thank you. You helped the helpless and you were the voice of reason when there was confusion around. God bless you and your family. May they find peace.

Alan's block for the United in Memory 9/11 Memorial Quilt

Suzi Cassidy

May 4, 2002

I have created a quilt block for Alan for the United in Memory 9/11 Memorial Quilt. It is so touching to see how much Alan is loved and remembered by his friends and family.

Angie Campbell

May 3, 2002

May God Bless you and keep you forever. Rest in his loving peace..........

Evan Mulvaney

April 25, 2002

I give my sincerest condolences to the entire Lederman family for the great loss of their fine son Alan. I went to school with his brother Nathan, we were great friends. I also got to meet his family and know Alan too, albeit far too briefly.

If Alan was anything like the spirit of his own brother Nathan, the world has taken a great loss.

I wish Nathan and his entire family the swiftest healing process possible from their tremendous loss.

John Lembo

April 23, 2002

He got me so drunk the night before my wedding...I guess it was appropriate since I was marrying his sister.



There isn't a day that goes by that I don't reflect on my brother-in-law and dear friend...I see only a smile on his face and hear only a kind word and jovial thought because that's who he was, someone who made you feel good about yourself and about knowing him.



Our time here is too short but I am truly blessed to have known Alan.



I miss you my friend



Love



John

Andrea Giacomazza

April 4, 2002

I worked with Alan for a few years at Frank Crystal & Co., Inc. He was a kind, sweet, funny man who always made me laugh. He was a great guy who will truly be missed by many.

Leslie Bilyeu-Langer

March 11, 2002

I grew up not far from Alan and met him in the fourth grade. All through the years and through high school I remember Alan as always smiling and fun-loving. There was absolutely nothing controversial about Alan - he simply had a positive impact on all around him. I read that he stayed in his office to comfort two coworkers who were afraid to leave - not surprised at this unselfish act. My deepest condolences to his friends and family.

Pat Powers -Wry

March 11, 2002

I met Alan when I was in 7th grade and he 8th. I remember how he and his friend Steve K used to tease me as a I waited to go into my civics class. We remained friends throughout HS and even after mostly through the bond of Drama. (I will never forget Alan as cupid in Two Gentlemen of Verona).



Alan and his parents were always very kind to me. I attended my first Passover seder at the Lederman home, they took me with them to Mystic, CT. and Lila gave me a beautiful kitten -- Becky with whom I shared 14 wonderful years.



After a silly misunderstanding, we lost touch for a time but I was very happy to have mended fences with Alan at the time of a mutual friend's wedding.



He will be missed by the Powers-Wrys and always in my prayers.



ppw

Anonymous

February 20, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN ALAN J.LEDERMAN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS...GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY ALANS SPIRIT BE WITH THE MOUNTAINS HE LOVED.MAY GOD GREET HIM AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN

Jonathan Korzun

January 27, 2002

I meet Alan in the 4th grade, we were classmates and friends through high school. We had lost contact over the years, but a few years ago became reacquainted. My wife and I spent all too short a time with Alan and Nancy, but what time we did spend together made it clear why we were friends all those years ago. Anyone who does not believe there is good in the world, or who does not believe there is a God, never knew someone like Alan. He will live on in the hundreds, if not thousands of lives he touched.

Alan Doloboff

January 16, 2002

I worked with Alan @ Frank Crystal & Co. for 1 1/2 years. He was a stand up guy to work with and it was a honor to know him. We sure did enjoy "noshing" together in the office.

Dolores Dohn

January 15, 2002

I knew of Alan through freinds mahy years ago. When I saw his name in my local Newspaper I pryed that it was not him, but now I know it was. As we journey through this life we never realize how many people we touch. Many prayers and Gods loving hand cover you and your family at this time of sorrow. God is a loving God and I'm sure that Alan is showing Him is photo album of dreams he had. God Bless

Teresa Jahn

December 25, 2001

We are deeply sorry for your loss of Alan. I also think he is probably peering at you from heaven. May you feel his warmth and love penetrate into your heart. May his life and love live on in those who love him. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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