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Carol Rabalais Obituary
Carol Rabalais and her elder sister Patricia Tate exchanged harsh words during the summer when Ms. Rabalais mistakenly booked some standby plane tickets instead of reserved ones for a family vacation to their native Jamaica. But by the next day, Ms. Rabalais was her usual sunny self, the standby upset seemingly forgotten.
How very Carol, Ms. Tate said. Whether she was struggling as a single teenage mother in Brooklyn raising three children, or relishing her new job as an administrative assistant at the Aon Corporation, Ms. Rabalais, 38, never held a grudge, never lost her optimism, never doubted God. "The running joke was that although we fight, she would still come to my house and walk in and say hi, and play with the kids, and eat what she wanted to eat, and then say, 'Bye, I'm not here.' "
The two sisters were planning a cruise vacation next year, without children. And though Ms. Tate can still travel with her three other sisters, the dynamics will not be the same. "I've been telling my sisters, 'I can't even get into a good fight with you all, because you guys won't talk to me for a week,' and Carol would say, 'Forget it. Let's move on.' "
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Sujey Morfin
November 8, 2021
I visited the 9/11 memorial this weekend with my family, we searched for matching birthdays and Carol Millicent Rabalais was the only woman to share the same birthday as myself, when I saw her photo her glowing smile captured my attention as I was born 20 years to the date after her 5/7/83.I'm currently 38 yrs old. I wanted to say the your smile lights up the room and your spirit shines through today as it did yesterday .
S.J. Friscia III
March 14, 2021
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With Honor & Respect.
Virginia Cuff
September 11, 2019
As the nation reflects on 9/11 today (18 years later), I cannot help but think of Carol. She was a beautiful and extremely capable young woman. Prior to going to Aon, she was the Administrative Assistant at our Family and Life Center. Her radiant smile always warmed the office and encouraged those who entered. My colleagues often commented on her hospitality and competence. I thank God for having been blessed to have our lives intersect. My husband, Dr. Elliott Cuff, and I continue to pray for her family. May God continue to richly bless each of you as you hold Carol closely in your heart.
Loads of Love & Prayers,
Virginia Cuff
Connie Rabalais-tillman
September 11, 2015
14 years later, watching in disbelief! I am also a Rabalais from louisiana. God bless you. And your family!
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January 27, 2013
Your Mary Kay friends still remember you:)
D C
September 11, 2011
I pray for your family and rest assured that we have not forgotten you, any of you, because you all live on in our hearts. RIP beautiful lady.
December 16, 2009
I heard about her through the evangelist who preached at her church the weekend before when she received the Holy Ghost!God is an on-time God and He knows best. God bless you, especially the children it must be hard loosing the only parent that raised you. In my thought and prayers
Kristine
March 5, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
February 6, 2007
In memory....
Bernadette Jones
September 5, 2005
We will never forget!
Martha
November 2, 2004
To the family of Mrs. Carol Rabalais, Just wanted you to know that America still remembers.
P.S, You are in our prayers.
Gwen Wells
September 11, 2003
I saw your daughter today on TV in the 2 yr. tribute to your death and all who died on 9/11/01. You would be so proud of her. Rest in peace you did well.
Dorian Woods
September 11, 2003
I pray that you are resting well and sharing the heavens with Jesus.
I know you will be greatly missed.
Angie & Tony Clement
September 10, 2003
May you rest in peace and may God Bless your family and friends.
Ellen Kiefer
September 21, 2002
Dear Family of Carol.
I Just read the story about your loved one. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I am praying for you all. God's peace be with you all this time of loss. Sept 11,2002 I sang the Battle Hymn of the Republic and dedicated it to all of the victims. I especially thought of Carol during the song. I did not know her name at the time, but heard that she recieved the Holy Ghost baptism that very Sunday before. I will be in much prayer for you all. God bless you and keep you in Perfect Peace.
Love you all.
Ellen Kiefer
New Britain CT
Bill Connors
September 13, 2002
I represented Carol and wore her name on my armband in the Patriot Parade motorcycle ride in Phoenix on 9/11/02. There were 8 thousand motorcycles that participated in this day long event. It really meant a lot to most to put a name on their participation. I wondered about Carol all day. It was all a very moving experience. The parade route was lined with thousands of people waving flags and cheering. I wanted to learn more about Carol which led me to this web site. She was a beautiful woman. God bless her and her loved ones. Thank you for the opportunity to be with her.
Jerry Perlowin
September 10, 2002
To the Family of Carol Rabalais:
I have waited almost a year to find the words that may express my sorrow about the passing of your mother, sister, aunt, friend. Carol worked for me at Kern Informative Resources. But she didn't really work for me - I worked for her, because her kindness, wisdom, love of life her family - and most importantly, her refusal to give up in hard times (of which she shared many with me) made her a step above us all. I looked up to Carol and drew strength from her. She was such a beautiful person, so sweet and loving - a beacon of Godly light in this sometimes cruel world we live in. I can't imagine your grief at not having her here on Earth anymore, but we all know for certain that her soul shines in Heaven, and that she is caring for her children from God's gate - whether we can see it or not. God bless you, the family. Carol was also a reflection on all of you - and to the children - your mother was a special lady who influenced my life and spirituality greatly, and one who will always be close to my heart. Her love for you was beyond words, and will last to eternity. God bless you on this difficult upcoming anniversay.
Angie Campbell
May 10, 2002
May God Bless you and the family and friends that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in peace..........
Anonymous
March 27, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN...CAROL RABALAIS AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HER LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA..NEW YORK AND THE GOOD PEOPLE OF JAMAICA..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Marie
March 17, 2002
Dear Auntie,
You are a sunshine, although you get on my nerves a lot
...esecially when I was pregnant. You call me every day twice a day to ask me if I pack my bag to go to the hospital. That morning when you call me to ak me if Kerene call me, and to inform me of the bombing, if I only know that was the last time I would speak to you I would not think so lightly of your phone call. Well,I am taking it day by day and most importantly my daughter smile like the sunshine like you did...I love you and I will keep an eye on Kerene plus I know your doing the same.
P.S. She was born on Sept.17.2001, 8lbs.10ozs.
Kerene Reeves (Daughter)
March 5, 2002
I want to thank everyone that took the time to write something beautiful and encouraging about my mother. I'm the oldest child 20 yrs old and trying my best with the help of my aunt to help take care of Selvyn and Samantha my brother & sister (12 & 15). It's really difficult coping with my mother that was a single parent not being around anymore. Not a day goes by without thinking about her. I also worked with my mother on the 98fl and i was saved that morning by a few minutes. I feel guilty knowing that every morning we go to work together, and the one day i was a few minutes late saved my life, i can't believe something so vicious could happen. We gladly appreciate the love everyone as shown us.
We Love You MOM
Doris Leslie
January 30, 2002
Dear Carol: Even though I've seen you around the office, I did not meet you personally. Needless to say, it saddens my heart to see your beautiful smiling face on our missing list. It saddens me further to have been somewhere this past Monday, sitting across from a very attractive young lady, that happens to be your oldest daughter. I say "saddened" because looking at her, her heart is breaking. I would like to say to her:
You speak very highly of your mother, anyone can tell she left a memorable impression that will NEVER fade. Take courage from this, lift up your head high, be very proud of what your mother was, take care of your sibblings. Keep the family circle together. This is where your strength will come from. You cannot do this alone, so pray to God every day for the strength you will need, he has never failed anyone, neither does he give anyone more than they can bear. I gave you Rev:21: 3-4 to read. Prayer can move mountains. When you feel too overwhelmed, and you will, let it out. I told you not to be afraid to cry. Seek the help you need. A lot of us here at Aon, is with you always, just call on any of us. Your mother's spirit will be with you always.
Our hearts are breaking together!
Samantha blake
January 19, 2002
Hello this is Samantha her daugher I miss her so much and thank you to the people who wrote.
Pauline Prince
January 15, 2002
In the time of trouble he shall you in His pavilion. Psalm 27:5 I certainly agreed with one of your guest that Carol's picture just jumped off the screen and into my Spirit. I know she was a child of God and living in His presence. I wish her entire family and especially her children all the blessings from above. Keep her in your hearts, she is very happy with her Creator the Lord Jesus Christ. May the God of all Grace lead and guide you all into His Destiny. Our Prayers are behind you. Love the Lord and He will continue to give you Peace.
Marie White
January 2, 2002
To the family,"Lift up your heads and be encouraged, weeping may endure for a night but joy will come in the morning." I just want to say that Carol's time had come to fulfil her space in heaven. When I first observed her picture her spirit speaks to me as a person who loved the Lord Jesus. So I feel that she is safe now in his arms. Remember the good times you all shared and some funny things she's said that will keep you smiling or laughing. Take care of the children and assure them that Mommy loves them. Go about your normal activities just as Carol had known before she departed this life, that's what she would want. God bless you all. May his peace be with you now, henceforth and forevermore!
Teresa Jahn
December 15, 2001
May Carol's life and love be carried on in her children. We are very sorry for your loss of Carol. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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