Leonard Joseph Snyder

Leonard Joseph Snyder

Leonard Snyder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 29, 2001.
Risky Work, Risky Play

He may have been a risk-management insurer, but Leonard Joseph Snyder was hardly averse to risk. He loved to ski and hunt, and spent many a weekend in dicey weather fishing with his father on the family boat off Long Beach Island in New Jersey. But one of his greatest aspirations was so very much more tame: "He really wants to be a Little League coach when his children are old enough," said his mother-in-law, Kathleen Marquet. That would be the twins, Jason and Matthew, 2, and his 3-year-old daughter, Lauren. Mr. Snyder, 34, a vice president at Aon Consultants on the 101st floor of 2 World Trade Center, loved nothing more than "carrying his sons around on his shoulders," she said. It says much about Mr. Snyder, of Cranford, N.J., that his large family and many friends have been distributing leaflets bearing his picture as they journey from hospital to hospital, "looking for Lenny," Mrs. Marquet said. "We won't say that it's too late."


Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on September 16, 2001.


Leonard Snyder Jr., epitome of the family man Janine Snyder will always remember the image of her husband reading to his three young children the night before he died. Nestled in their beds, Lauren, 3, and 2-year-old twins Jason and Matthew listened intently as their father, Leonard Snyder Jr., read them five different fairy tales until they fell fast asleep.

"I usually read to them before they go to bed, but that night, for some reason, he read to them, which made my memory of him a little bit greater," said his wife, Janine. "He wanted to read one or two, but of course, he ended up reading five, and 'Little Red Riding Hood' and the 'Three Little Pigs' were definitely on the list."

Mr. Snyder, an insurance broker and vice president of special risks for AON Consulting, worked on the 101st floor of the South Tower of the World Trade Center. On the morning of Sept. 11, his wife learned about the terrorist attacks when she returned home from driving their daughter to school. She tried to call her husband's office, but there was no answer.

Born and raised in Wilkes-Barre, Pa., Mr. Snyder, 38, attended Bishop Hoban High School, where he was a diver on the 1985 Pennsylvania Boys' State Championship swim team, said his mother, Marilyn Snyder of Wilkes-Barre. He graduated from Kings College in Wilkes-Barre in 1989 and moved to New York City a year later to work for Seabury and Smith.

He met his wife at Kings College, where the couple was introduced by a mutual friend, his wife said. They were married in 1994, and moved to Cranford the same year.

"We were college sweethearts," Janine said. "We dated for eight years, then we got engaged and we were finally married."

Mr. Snyder was also an avid hunter, fisherman and golfer. And when he wasn't fixing things around the house, he was restoring his vintage 1965 Mustang convertible. But most weekends were set aside for family outings.

"We'd always do something fun, like go to Bowcraft (Amusement Park, in Scotch Plains) or go for a walk in the park," Janine said. "He loved his family so much."

The weekend before the terrorist attacks, Mr. Snyder and his family spent the day at his parents' farmhouse in Hunlock Creek, Pa. and had lunch on nearby Harvey's Lake.

Mr. Snyder is also survived by his father, Leonard Joseph of Wilkes-Barre; three sisters, Mary Snyder Cooligan and Nancy, both of Scranton, Pa., and Kathleen of Philadelphia; two brothers, Christopher of Hazelton, Pa., and Darren of Wilkes-Barre, and his grandparents, Fred and Nan Krackenfels of Wilkes-Barre.

A memorial Mass will be held 2 p.m. Thursday at St. Michael's Church in Cranford. The family will receive friends in the church one hour before the Mass.

The family asks that donations be made to the Leonard J. Snyder Jr. Children's Fund, c/o the Snyder Family, 26 Henley Ave., Cranford, N.J. 07016.

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Alex Kirby Taylor

September 13, 2023

I still think of you all often, Please know I will always have fun memories of my friendship with Len and you Janine. Happy Hours, Skiing, the Hunt. I hope you always feel the love to you and your family. Alex

William Williams

September 11, 2023

My name is Bill Williams and I went to grade school at the Franklin elementary school on Franklin Street in Wilkes Barre Pennsylvania with Leonard Snyder. I´ll never forget being his friend as a child. My condolences go out to the family.

Robert Westfall

September 11, 2022

I went to Kings College with Lenny. I only went there from 1985-1986. I then returned to NY and attended community College. I knew Lenny as a commuter who frequently hung out with the guys on The 6th floor of Holy Cross Hall. He is thought about every day and remembered as a good friend. Robert Westfall - Manahawkin NJ.

September 11, 2016

God Bless Len! Never forgotten.

Robert Winchilla

September 21, 2015

Dear Lenny, I have many a good thought of going to band practice at Bishop Hoban High School. I remember how you played the trumpet. I also remember in the summer of '85 you riding around in a white corvette looking higher than life. Smiling as you were riding in that awsome car. Anyway Lenny, I hope you are at peace and I hope you are watching down over your family and are smiling. Rest in peace my friend Lenny.

Lisa (Gendelman) Levy

September 11, 2013

Len, today and every September 11th - I stop and remember you. We were "cubby" mates at Seabury & Smith for a few years (1990-1994). And I can still close my eyes and hear you giggling through the cubicle at all my mad-cap personal calls. I guess, they weren't so "personal" -- as you always took every chance you could to rib me about what my Mom said to me, or what my boyfriend said to me. I always enjoyed when we went out to lunch together with Anne (Puvogel). Lots of good times! I was only with you for a "blink" of your life -- and I miss you. I can't even imagine the incomprehensible loss your wife, children and family most feel. Shine on in all the glory of heaven, Lenny! Rest in eternal peace. Till we meet again.

Melissa Pullis

January 1, 2013

Hi Len, I thought of you today and of course Ed. Ed and you worked together and were also great friends. I'm sure your children are growing and excelling with Janine as being their mom. I remember you would always talk to Ed about my twins and yours. Till we all meet again.
Love to Janine and the children.
Melissa Pullis

PDQO

September 13, 2011

Lenny, you are a bright star, a breath of fresh air, and while my insides are saddened by the thoughts of what happened to you I can't help but to smile when I think of all the wonderful times we shared. You were truly a wonderful friend and I'm blessed to have had you and your family in my life!! I know when I looked up at the full moon last night you were there and my little one now 5 1/2 years old looked up as well and said good night to his pop pop and to his Mommies friend - I love you!!

Karen Tomchak

September 11, 2011

Nancy,sister of beloved Leonard, I am thinking of you and your family in a special way on this painful 10th anniversary. I will never forget your goodnes and kindess at the wake of my sister, Mary Agnes. She treasured your friendship and thought so much of you! As we know, the void of their earthly presence is is an unending pain until our Heavenly reunion with them. Many prayers and much love to you and family.

Michele Mazzei Dowling

September 10, 2011

I have great memories of Lenny from college. He was a super nice guy. Thinking of his wife and kids at this 10 year anniversary. My heart and prayers are with you.

Alain Noboa

September 12, 2010

Thinking of Len and remembering how we played basketball on the A&A/Aon team; he was a monster in the paint! I also remember we were both young fathers at the time and how dedicted he was to his family.

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and loved ones.

Webster and Kate Bouton

September 11, 2010

You are still loved and will always be in our hearts Len...

August 10, 2010

Lenny, I miss you. Josh

Carolyn Bednarcik

November 23, 2007

I didn't know you. I actually met your wife, Janine, recently while vacationing in the Turks & Caicos. I'm writing in the hopes that maybe she will see this someday and know how much your story touched mine and my husband's lives. Janine, you will always be in my prayers - Carolyn(Dallas, Tx).

James Eng

September 11, 2007

Lenny, god bless you, you will be always remembered. former employee of Seabury & Smith (1990-1999) James Eng, New york City

September 11, 2007

Miss you Lenny

August 30, 2007

Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and miss you.

kristine

August 19, 2007

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

July 16, 2007

good-bye to a very special person...who has, in many ways, made me better.

Annine Massaro

May 14, 2007

I just visited the trade center memorial this weekend. Although it has been years, I went to Law school with Lenny's sister Nancy and know her as an amazing person and friend. Reading the family story, Lenny sounds like a great guy that I am sorry I never had the chance to meet. My heart goes out with love and a wish for happiness and peace for all his loved ones. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

March 16, 2007

In memory....

Lori Jendrzejewski

September 11, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today and always.

Rich Farber, CFP

September 11, 2003

Today, 2 yrs thereafter, the memories are just as sharp and vivid of that horrible day. I lost many friends and associates that day.



I worked in #7 WTC for Hartford Insurance for 13 yrs. And with my position as SR. Acct Exec, I had the wonderful opportunity to associate myself with a Brokerage firm called A & A, or commonly know as Alexander and Alexander, in which Lenny was just starting out as an acct mgr under vincent marinello, his boss. Many yrs passed, as we worked together, as I provided coverages for him thru Hartford, and he sold them to his clients.



I remember him as it was yesterday, but its actually around 16 yrs ago, as he was single at that time. He always had a smile, loved to eat out and have Lunch. Great personality and humor, and someone that you just want to be friends with!



On this tragic day, I remember Lenny and miss his friendship, and to his family, he was a wonderful, and kind person. I was the Lucky person to be his friend.



May G_D Bless You and Your Loved Ones!



Thinking about you and miss you,



Your Friend Always,



Rich

09\11\03

Liz Almond

March 4, 2003

I was thinking about our loss today and of course you came to mind. I just wanted to note that you and others were thought of and remembered as a symbol of how really precious life is... I think the world is forgetting this now... i cant and wont forget.

Amanda Pate

September 17, 2002

Leonard sounds like a good man. I wish i would of had the pleasure to of met him. September 11 was a very very sad day. No one will ever forget it.

Robert Winchilla

September 15, 2002

It was a pleasure to have known you Leonard Snyder. Whenever I saw you in High School at Bishop Hoban you always wore a smile :) . I remember you cruising around in Wilkes-Barre, PA in the mid 80's in a white corvette, the smile on your face stretched from ear to ear. That is the picture I will remember of you, A happy picture of a man "Loving Life".

My Heart is so sorry for your wife and family that suffers from your absence. Nothing I say can ease the suffering you've experienced. I will always keep in my prayers, your wife and children, your mom, dad, sisters, and brother, May the Lord Jesus Christ Watch over You, Protect, and Bless You Always and may he ease your suffering.



You are surely missed...





Robert Winchilla

Class of '86

Angela Holm

September 12, 2002

The Snyders were my first friends when my family moved to Wilkes-Barre in 1970. We lived next door for 6 years and grew up together. We would spend hours playing on the swing set in their backyard. My favourite memory is from the time we put on a play in our basement around Halloween in 1974. It was called The Case of the Missing Jewelry and Lenny played the detective. Here we were, all the kids from the neighborhood in eye brow pencil makeup (for the moustaches'), putting on a play in a basement for our parents. It was a riot, we could not stop giggling. Unfortunately, I lost contact with Lenny and his brothers and sisters when we all went to different schools, but I have kept up to date with all of them through their parents. Dr. Snyder has been my family's dentist for over 30 years and has shared with us what had been going on with everyone. I have never had the pleasure of meeting Janine personally, but felt I knew her and the kids through Len and Marilyn. My heart goes out to the entire family and I will miss Lenny very much.

Michele Vazquez

September 10, 2002

Lenny's Mom & my Dad are cousins, I grew up in NJ, about 2 miles from NYC, & rest of family in W-B, where Lenny is from. I have not seen Lenny since we were kids-we have such a large family that its hard to keep up with everyone-My heart goes out to his wife & children-My family attended the service in W-B for Lenny-said it was heart warming//It still hurts so much...& not a day goes by when I don't think about Lenny & his family.. God Bless You Janine-

Michele (Daring)Vazquez

colleen murphy otremsky

September 5, 2002

I went to high school with Lenny and probably hadn't seen him since, but when my family in Wilkes-Barre told me of his death, i couldn't believe it. It put a face on this national tragedy for me. I think of his family, and his wife Janine and kids and my heart just aches for them. I hope this guestbook can ease some of their pain and loss, and their memories bring smiles.

Liz Almond

August 24, 2002

Lenny,

Although our paths only crossed a few times it was enough for me to have experienced the true heart and character that you were. It may have been years since we saw each other but when we did you remembered and made us feel as if it was just yesterday. Your devotion to your family and friends and the light you brought to room with that smile is something I wont ever forget.



This world was blessed to have you in it and I was blessed to have known you.

Stacy Scherf

August 8, 2002

I had been temping for the Special Risk team for more than a month and was there that day. Len was one of the nicest people I'd ever met in NYC. He borrowed CD's from me to listen to during the day. I really enjoyed working with him. I remember seeing him in his office that morning...but after the first plane hit, I never saw him again.



I worked on a big spreadsheet for him for the Catholic Archdioses and now, every time I walk by there, I have to stop and think of him & say a prayer.



I have spent the last year trying to get over the guilt of surviving when Ed, Laura, Len, Ed & Anna all had children to support and I lived a selfish existence in NYC with no children - not even a spouse. I am so sorry.



God bless you Len...And love & prayers to his family. I hope the pain is a little less each month - knowing he is in a better place and you will see him again.

June 25, 2002

Lenny:

I sit at my desk everyday looking at your picture and waiting for you to come in and have a cup of coffee and talk about the family antics from the night before. As the months go by, you are missed that much more and I realize it was not all just a horrible dream. I miss our luncheons, our conversations and your guidance. I pray for you and Janine and the kids everyday. You are a good man my friend. I miss you.

Genna Kundratic (Koval)

May 26, 2002

I went to high school with Lenny and always considered him a friend. I remember that he always had a smile on his face. I remember him as a diver for the swim team and I remember cheering him on. I hadn't seen him in years. I can't help but feel, however, that I lost a friend on September 11th. I never had the good fortune to meet his wife or children, but I hope they know that so many people who they don't even know exist, are praying for them everyday. My heart goes out to her and everyone whose life that Lenny's touched. God Bless all of the Snyder family.

May 6, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..LEONARD J.SNYDER AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...AMEN

Pamela Crocker

March 28, 2002

I would like to make a block for the memorial quilt in honor of Leonard. If you have any pictures or special interest of him that might be added to his block I would appreciate your help. I would like to make his block a remembrance of him that his family will be proud of. Thanks, Pam C.

Janet Rocco

March 21, 2002

Len and Janine were my neighbors. My favorite memory of Lenny was when he would pick up his dog "Hershey" and toss her gently into my yard so that she could play with my dog "Shadow". Our yards faced eachother and we always had some good conversations. Janine, he is with you in spirit watching over you and your children.

Jessie Barsin

February 4, 2002

Len was the account manager for "Continental Grain Company", now ContiGroup. He was the individual who helped me through the paperwork in connection with the loss of two of our employees in the Swiss Air tragedy not too long ago. He was enormously helpful, kind and very concerned about being as responsive as possible and it was clear that he felt concern and grief over the loss we suffered as a result. I didn't know Len personally, but only recently learned of his death at the WTC and wish to extend my condolences to the AON group and to Len's family and friends.

Patrick Wills

February 1, 2002

Len is one of my oldest and closest friends. I knew him since we were about 8 years old. Len was always a blast to be with. He enjoyed a good time and more importantly he loved seeing other people have a good time. The parties down at LBI were fantastic and Len always made sure everybody was taken care of.

We went to grade school, high school and college together. Thats a lot of time and the experiences we shared are too numerous to mention. I don't recall ever having an arguement with Len at any time during all those years. He was a good friend and I'll miss him. I truly can't believe he's gone. I still can't believe the September 11th actually happened. I've even been to the WTC (Nov 3) and I still can't believe it.



Len had a great group of friends and we always enjoyed our get togethers. Len was the glue that held all of us together.



Recently my calls to Len consisted mainly of talks about fatherhood. He loves his kids and his wife more than anything, that was always clear. He always will. I would tap his brain for daddy tips and he would always help me out.



Thanks Len - for everything.

suzette gibbons

January 23, 2002

I work for a watch co. and today I rec/d a call from Lenny's wife Jeanine. She was telling me that she wanted to replace a watch that he was wearing the day of the tragedy. She wanted to pass this down to the children. When I hung up the phone I cried the rest of the day. My heart is broken for her and the children. This watch is discontinued and no longer around. This is very important to her because it was his. I have a mission to find this for her. I may not know you or your family but my heart is completely broken for janine and the children. May god give you all strength. My heart and prayers are with you!!

Jacqueline Havira

January 23, 2002

As I read over the other entries of this guest book I can't help but smile when I think about the times I spent with Lenny. We went to grade school & high school together. I couldn't help but laugh when I read a previous entry about Penn State football games. I attended Penn State and Lenny & his gang would come down for games. Although he did not attend Penn State, Lenny is a Nittany Lion at heart! I distinctly remember one occasion when Lenny came to State College for a game, I knew I was in trouble when a Winnebago pulled up to my apartment and 10+ guys pilled out! He and his friends were a "portable party" wherever they went!

I wish I had the "magic" words that could ease the pain felt by Janine, the children, Lenny's family, and friends. All we can do is remember the gift that he was to all of us. My eyes will always smile when I think about Lenny but my heart will always break. Thank you Lenny for being my friend. I love you.

Tammy Drevenik

January 21, 2002

I went to grade school with Lenny and never forgot him. He was the kid in class who was nice to everyone, no matter what. We went to a Catholic school and sometimes the nuns were pretty tough, but we had fun nonetheless. He had a great smile and was always happy, joking around. I know he is with God now, but I feel for his family. I remember them as a close, happy bunch, especially his mom. I will cherish the fond memories of childhood laughs and innocence. If we could only turn back the clock. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. I hope they find peace. God bless.



Tammy Drevenik (school classmate)

Mark Pfeiffer

January 5, 2002

My wife and I lost contact with Lenny after we got married. The last time I saw him was in the middle of Beaver Stadium amidst 100,000 people. Somehow he spotted me and came over to say hello. That was typical for Lenny. He was a kind soul. I will always remember his parties and how he went out of his way to make strangers welcome. I will remember how he would get the strangers to leave at the end of the night by playing "New York, New York" by Frank Sinantra. I will remember wiffle ball at Long Beach Island and the liguor store accross the street from the Vincentown Diner. I will remember plummeting down Route 81 in the Suburban and coaxing his car up Route 115. I will remember the cab race and the song "One Foot in Front of the Other." With all the tragedy, I can't help but remember the fun. Thank you Lenny. Hang in there Neener.

Ann Klein

December 30, 2001

Len Snyder was and always will be a very special part of my life. He married one of my dearest friends and roommate from college. Lenny has so many great qualities. So many that they wouldn't fit on this page. Is it so hard to not ask why? Why did it have to be Len? He leaves behind a beautiful, extremely loving, caring wife Janine and their 3 beautiful children.

Lenny, I love you so much and am so grateful that two weeks prior to September 11th, we drove down to LBI-just you and I in your convertible. You told me how happy you were and how much you loved your life, Janine and the kids. I was really cold in the convertible that night, but I could see how happy you were to be riding down the beach with the top down. That evening, Len, Janine, myself and the three kids slept in the same room. I joked with him the next day about his snoring. I treasure that weekend and the memories. You were so amazing Lenny and I wish I had told you that more than I did. I will always think of you, and will always be here for Janine and your kids- no matter what.



I promise to share all the stories I can remember and share with your children what a wonderful caring father, husband and friend you were. I love you and words cannot express how much are and always will be missed.



Love you,

Ann

terrome porter

December 18, 2001

len was a great guy and heaven got an great angel peace&love goes out 2 his family nay god bless.

Teresa Jahn

December 11, 2001

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Lynne Gaynor

December 5, 2001

I had the pleasure of working with Len a few years back. What a nice person. He always made work seem like fun.



My last memory of Len was at a weekend trip to Vinnie's house. He came along with (who at the time was his Fiance)Janine. We had a great time. He even took time to play with my daughter Candace. He seemed like he had a nitch for children.



May God bless and watch over your family and may your children come to know what a wonderful father they had. I'm sure his spirit will live on in each of them.

Becky Machonga

December 3, 2001

Len, I always enjoyed our conversations when we called each other to discuss Special Risk issues. It was devastating to find out you are no longer with us. My thoughts and prayers are with your wife and babies during this difficult time.

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