Thomas R. Shepherd

1929 - 2016

Thomas R. Shepherd obituary, 1929-2016, Stow, MA

Thomas R. Shepherd

1929 - 2016

BORN

1929

DIED

2016

Thomas Shepherd Obituary

Published by Fowler-Kennedy Funeral Home on Mar. 19, 2016.
Thomas R. Shepherd, age 86 of Stow, MA, passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on March 19, 2016. He was the beloved husband of Nancy Shepherd for sixty two and a half years. Born in Washington D.C. on December 28, 1929, he was the son of the late Henry Shepherd IV and Elizabeth (Green) Shepherd. Tom grew up in the Washington area and graduated from Lawrenceville Academy in 1948. He received a B.A. from Washington and Lee University in 1952, and an M.A. in industrial and Labor Relations from Cornell University. Tom and Nancy married on August 15, 1953, and in 1964, settled in Stow where they raised their family. Tom was a generous philanthropist who established the Shepherd Program for the Interdisciplinary Study of Poverty and Human Capability in 1997 at Washington and Lee University. He was a long time member of the Stow Conservation Trust and Senior Warden and member of Trinity Chapel in Shirley, MA. Tom had a thirty-year career with GTE Sylvania, beginning in western New York in 1956, and concluding in the Boston area as President of Lighting Products. Following his retirement from GTE, he was a director within the Thomas H. Lee Company and then co-founder of TSG Equity Partners. Tom enjoyed music, dancing, and spending time with his family and wife Nancy. He is survived by his four children, Katharine Green Shepherd and husband Bernard Terry of Lincoln VT, Ruth Hamilton Shepherd and husband Ken Pohlman of Lincoln VT, Elizabeth Shepherd Beneche and husband Claudel Beneche of Stow MA, and T. Nathanael Shepherd and his wife Lesley E. Shepherd of Stow MA, as well as eleven grandchildren and eight nieces and nephews and their families. Tom was pre deceased by his brother Henry Shepherd V, sister Elizabeth Shepherd Scott and sister Mary Shepherd Gwatkin. A memorial service will be held on April 2, 2016 at the Church of the Good Shepherd in Acton, MA at 2:00 p.m., with reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, please send gifts to Trinity Chapel, 188 Center Rd., Shirley, MA 01464 or the Shepherd Higher Education Consortium on Poverty, c/o Harlan Beckley, 312 Newcomb Hall, Washington and Lee University, Lexington, VA 24450.

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April 7, 2016

Adam Gibbons posted to the memorial.

April 2, 2016

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April 1, 2016

R. Werner posted to the memorial.

Adam Gibbons

April 7, 2016

I never met Mr. Shepherd, but benefitted immensely from the mature and capable interns that worked with me at Dorchester Bay EDC in Boston for the past five summers. I am forever grateful for the opportunities and resources created by the Shepherd Foundation and was always touched by the many stories from DBEDC staff and interns who had the pleasure of meeting the Shepherds each year in Vermont.

ellen krag

April 2, 2016

I did not know him well, or for long, but he has made an indelible memory, handling illness with grace, humor, optimism, and intelligence. I still laugh at the jokes he would greet me with every morning! my heart goes out to his family, for the loss of such a wonderful person. I am sure his spirit will live forever in the loving hearts of his family and community. ellen krag, emerson and stow.

R. Werner

April 1, 2016

Nancy's choice of a life partner became a fruitful marriage for them both and for many, many other good people. Tom's choice of Nancy likewise showed good sense and a prayerful response to God's loving care. May the stories of their 62 years together continue to inspire, encourage and strengthen their family, their church and the wider community in the days ahead. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace.

Jep Streit

April 1, 2016

I can't claim to have known Tom well, but even my occasional connections impressed on me what a solid pillar of grace he was; completely and utterly engaged by life and the opportunities to help whenever and wherever he could.

Martha Davis

March 30, 2016

Was there ever anyone who enjoyed life more than Tom Shepherd? When we think of nice, kind, inclusive, embracing, smart, humorous, and caring, we think of Tom Shepherd. A true gentleman to the core. He made our childhood special, along with Nancy and Katie, Ruthie, Lisa, and Nate. What fond memories we have of spending time with the Shepherd family in Orchard Park and in Stow. One of the best memories is recalling Dad and Tom together with their quick wit and shared appreciation of each other. Tom was a great man who touched many, especially our family. We send lots of love and caring thoughts to the Shepherds and know how much you must miss him. Always, Martha Russell Davis, Rob Russell, and Lisa Russell Stockman

G. Nyanankpe

March 30, 2016

What a wonderful life and works of God's faithful servant. May the Almighty God bless and comfort the Shepherd Family. I know that God as your Good Shepherd, will continue to lead, guide, and provide your needs even in your times of Grief.

From: Chaplain G. Nyanankpe, FMC Devens

Judi Guertin

March 29, 2016

We are so, so sad to hear of Tom's passing. We shall always remember his funny "thumb" stories. We hope you will find comfort in your memories. Love, Joe & Judi Guertin

Sylvia Daley

March 27, 2016

Dear Nancy and family please accept my sincere condolence for your loss. Tom was an extraordinary man who made this world a better place. I will remember him and your family fondly and the wonderful times we spent together in Stow. Love to you all!

William Lashley

March 25, 2016

My uncle Tom Shepherd was a loving and generous guy who never wanted to miss a joke or a dance. He wasn't too proud to play the fool at times, but he was nobody's fool, and people listened to what he had to say. Tom Shepherd will be known to many for his good works and the inspiration he gave to us. He was a moral exemplar to me, who had his head on straight and his heart in the right place and an unerring sense that most decisions were simple matters of faith and courage. He has left the world a better place, but his absence leaves a wide gap in it.

Carol Emery

March 24, 2016

We were fortunate to serve on Trinity's Vestry when Tom was the Senior Warden.
Tom was always very generous with his time, talent and treasure and it was obvious to all how much he loved Trinity Chapel.
From organizing and Chairing Trinity's annual Strawberry Festival and Christmas Fair to setting up and breaking down events at Trinity, Tom lived the motto of 'just do it'. We are sure that he is dancing and smiling down upon us; may we all remember his kindness, generosity and sense of humor. We feel privileged to have known him. May God bless and wrap his arms around Tom, Nancy and Family.
Holding Tom in our hearts. Love, Jean Crossman and Carol Emery, Friends, Westminster, MA

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