Betty Jarratt

Betty Jarratt obituary, Portland, ME

Betty Jarratt

Betty Jarratt Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 8, 2017.
Betty Jarratt, 94

PORTLAND - Betty Jarratt passed away peacefully on Oct. 5, 2017, at The Cedars, in Portland.

She will be remembered for her unwavering joie de vivre, her determination to achieve goals, and the unquenchable optimism that inspired so many people who encountered her throughout her long life.

Betty was born April 12, 1923, in Springfield, Mass., the daughter of Joseph and Elizabeth Targett.

After attending West Springfield High School, she went on to Ohio Wesleyan University, where she was elected to the Mortar Board honor society, and was a member of Alpha Gamma Delta sorority as well as being the first female editor of the yearbook.

In 1945, she was awarded a bachelor's in psychology and immediately accepted employment as a field director of the Girl Scouts of America, where she directed the first interracial day camp in Indianapolis. At first, local opposition was strong enough to necessitate police barricades, but the season ended successfully and young Betty was proud to have contributed to lowering an important social barrier.

After a brief stint working for Arthur Inman, the eccentric author of a 17-million-word diary, Betty moved to Hartford, Conn., to be a psychiatric aide at the Institute of Living, garnering her first direct experience with lobotomy and electroshock, innovative therapies whose use deeply disturbed her.

In 1947, she married lyric tenor Howard Jarratt and moved to New York City, soon becoming the administrative director of the School of Sacred Music at Union Theological Seminary.

The next 15 years were an exciting time of intellectual evolution for Betty and artistic growth for Howard, with a highlight being the birth of their two daughters, Kristin in 1949 and Heidi in 1953.

In 1962, Howard was appointed chair of the opera department at Southern Methodist University in Dallas. Betty decided to return to academic life, choosing to study the Dallas Police Force for her master's degree thesis. She also collaborated on a project to gather psychological profiles of such nationally prominent figures as Richard Nixon; and she began teaching to nurses at Parkland Hospital.

While driving to work on Nov. 22, 1963, hers was the first car stopped by the Secret Service near Dealey Plaza, where Betty's hero, President Kennedy, had just been tragically shot. The next morning, she was sitting in the Irving, Texas, living room of Marina Oswald, sipping tea and beginning a psych-ological profile that would be cut short by the FBI the following day.

In Dallas, Betty was able to redirect her focus to psychology, and so when her marriage ended in 1966, she was delighted to be chosen by Johns Hopkins Hospital as one of only eight women to participate in a ground-breaking program for mature women, training under Joel Elkes, the father of modern neuropsychopharmacology.

Over the next 20 years in Baltimore, Betty worked as psychiatric liaison at Johns Hopkins Hospital and created the first crisis intervention program at Sinai Hospital, while also developing a large private practice and marrying her beloved second husband, actor, singer and director Glenn Burris.

In 2006, Betty's dedication and unique skills were rewarded when she became the inaugural recipient of the Johns Hopkins Department of Psychiatry's Charmian Elkes Award for Innovation in Mental Health Services.

Throughout the 1970s, Betty and Glenn spent as much time as possible at their second home on the waterfront in Merepoint, Brunswick. Countless friends and relatives enjoyed vacations in the classic wood-paneled guest cottage. Both daughters were married in the main house's great room, whose floor-to-ceiling glass walls afforded beautiful views of Birch Island in all kinds of weather.

By the mid 1990s, Betty had moved full-time to Maine, where she would create an innovative home treatment program for Maine Medical Center, while spending 20 years with the hospital's psychiatric consultation and liaison service, providing counseling and comfort to patients in every ward of the hospital. She also carried on a busy private practice in Portland and Brunswick, retiring only at the age of 85.

Even after hanging up her official hat, Betty continued her unflagging interest in her fellow human beings, establishing a group called Celebrating Nine Decades, which met monthly at The Atrium, where she resided for six years before moving to Osher Inn.

She was predeceased by both her husbands; and her only sibling, best buddy and brother, Joe Jr.

She will always be a guiding light and inspiration for her daughters, Kristin, of Amelia, Italy; and Heidi, of Rome, Italy; her granddaughters, Jessica and Emily Rampazzi; and her great-granddaughter, Kirsten Locatelli, all of Rome, Italy.

To share memories and condolences with the family, please go to: www.athutchins.com.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the
Iris Network Serving the Blind
189 Park Avenue
Portland, ME 04102







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January 11, 2018

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Nancy Burris-Plotkin

January 11, 2018

Dear Family of Betty,
My Christmas Card just got returned to me today and I wondered why.....
I am Glenn Burris' Niece. I sent her a video of me singing. Did she ever listen to it? She wrote to me that her eyesight was poor but I hoped she could hear me sing. I included a favorite song Glenn used to sing. I was planning on visiting her this summer. Betty was very nice to me and left a lasting impression when she visited us many years ago. I hope her death was peaceful and that her loved ones have a full heart of good memories.
Nancy (Burris) Plotkin

October 16, 2017

Dear Kristin, Heidi, and the rest of Betty's family,
My husband Jay and I were truly lucky to have Betty as our Ambassador when we moved into the Atrium. She did a very thorough job of introducing us to everyone and everything in our new location. As three psychologists, we all found we had many common interests.

Thank you for the wonderful obituary account of Betty's many accomplishments in her very active life. She was a truly remarkable woman who will be very much missed by all who were lucky enough to have known her.

My sincere condolences to her loving family,
Lois Stack

E G

October 13, 2017

Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss. May the God of all comfort make your hearts firm at this difficult time. Find comfort in the words found at 2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17

Lynne Jackson

October 11, 2017

Dear Kristin & Heidi,
I will always remember Betty. She was a woman, a lady of rare qualities. She met everyone with a smile, listened and comforted those in need with such ease in a very sincere and compassionate manner. I am a retired RN from MMC and I know I have been privileged to have had Betty as my "co-worker".

October 10, 2017

to a life well lived...

ANN RUST

October 9, 2017

DEAR KRISTEN,AND HEIDI,I WILL ALWAYS TREASURER MY QUALITY TIME W YOUR MOTHER,AS QUALITY ,CLASS ACT AND KINDNESS WAS YOUR MOTHER...KRISTEN, WE MET ON THE BOAT TO ALASKA...ONE OF MANY MEMORIES, ALONG W LUNCHES AT DIMILO'S...MY SYMPATHY TO YOU ALL ...ANN RUST GORHAM ( WE MET AT MMC)

Lori Fusco O'Donnell

October 9, 2017

Dear Kristin & Heidi and to Betty's entire family:

I am deeply saddened to hear of Betty's passing. I had the pleasure of working with Betty for 19 years in the Department of Psychiatry at Maine Medical Center. She was such a lovely lady and friend. She always made everyone feel important and special always wanting to hear how your day and life was going. I was so lucky to share so many special times in my life with Betty. She was at my wedding shower; my wedding; my baby shower and shared in the excitement when I gave birth to my two sons. She adored her family and I always loved hearing about all of her adventures. She will always hold a special place in my heart. You are all in my thoughts and prayers and may your many wonderful memories bring you peace at this most difficult time.

Love always, Lori (Fusco) O'Donnell
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Brian and Gaye Sheets

October 8, 2017

Kristen and Heidi,
Thank you for sharing your mother with us. There won't be a single day that goes by that we won't reminisce about Betty. She came into our lives and changed us forever.We feel truly blessed to have known her. The world is a better place due to her smile,her witt and her love of life. We loved her dearly and will miss her always
With sympathy and love,
Brian and Gaye

October 8, 2017

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