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Dr. Peter Charles Stickney, of Rutland, died on Sept. 27, 2017, at Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center, in the presence of family.
Dr. Stickney was born on Sept. 4, 1943, in Rutland, Vermont, the son of Lena Handly Stickney and Dr. Joseph Carleton "Ted" Stickney. He was the grandnephew of Gov. William Wallace Stickney who delivered the nominating speech for President Calvin Coolidge at the Republican National Convention in Cleveland, Ohio, June 1924. Stickney was also a direct descendent of James Stickney, ensign in Capt. John Belknap's company of Minutemen of the Second Regiment of Ulster County Militia during the Revolutionary War. Dr. Stickney's mother was a lifelong DAR member, whose Revolutionary ancestor was Ichabod Dyer. She was also a direct descendent of Mayflower passengers John Alden and Priscilla Mullins. Stickney was very proud of his heritage. A native and proud lifelong resident of Vermont and an avid history buff, Peter took great pride in his family history spanning seven generations.
Stickney was educated at Rutland High School and Phillips Exeter Academy, Exeter, NH. He received his B.A. from The University of Vermont, attended Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons, and received his medical degree from Albany Medical College. He completed his internship at Albany Medical College and worked at the Ottauquechee Health Center during his residency in internal medicine at Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center, which he completed in 1973.
Peter then returned to Vermont, where his family has deep roots, in order to set up his medical practice. He was dedicated to the Rutland community, serving his patients with care and compassion for 44 years.
Dr. Stickney was voted Rutland's Best of the Best by the readers of the Rutland Herald in consecutive years from 2009-13. He was also voted Best Medical Director by the Vermont Health Care Association in 2013. As well as tending to his private practice, Dr. Stickney very much enjoyed being medical director of The Pines at Rutland Center for Nursing and Rehabilitation for nearly 10 years. Doc also enjoyed being a volunteer; he was the team doctor for his sons' high school football and hockey teams for many years, which he and his sons took great pride in.
In addition to practicing medicine, Peter was a great outdoorsman enjoying hiking, biking, camping, kayaking, scuba diving, alpine and cross-country skiing, many racquet sports, and hunting and fishing the mountains and rivers of his home state. At home, he was an enthusiastic keeper of bees and carefully tended to several hives during the season. He also very much enjoyed the simple things in life, such as mowing his lawn on a Saturday afternoon, watching football and sitting with his friends, but nothing was more special to him than time in the company of his sons and his grandchildren.
Stickney is survived by his two sons and grandchildren: Peter Charles Stickney Jr. who is married to Kirsten Ann Beasley Stickney, with three children Dayton Isabella, Jackson Peter and Maxwell Beasley Stickney, and resides in Chicago, IL; Brett Lavin Stickney who is married to Jennifer Page Stickney, with two children Quinn Lavin and Ruby Elizabeth Stickney, two stepchildren Jack and Sophia Diguiseppe, and resides in East Granville, Vermont, where they are the fourth generation to enjoy stewardship of the Handly homestead.
The East Granville Handly homestead was built by Stickney's great-grandfather who is credited with building many of the homes still standing in East Granville as a means to provide adequate housing for the laborers he employed at his lumber mill.
Peter is also survived by his former wife, Gail Lavin Stickney, the mother of his two sons; his brothers Dr. Mark Carleton Stickney and Gary Lee Stickney; his sister, Vicky Ann Stickney; and his second and former wife, Marie Potvin.
Calling hours will be at the Clifford Funeral Home, Rutland, VT, from 2-6 p.m. Thursday, Oct. 19. There will be a memorial service at the First Baptist Church, Rutland, VT, at 1 p.m. Friday, Oct. 20, followed by a private burial.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Vermont Land Trust, in care of Clifford Funeral Home, 2 Washington St., Rutland, VT 05701.

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Published by Rutland Herald from Oct. 3 to Oct. 7, 2017.

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David G. Adams

September 27, 2024

Dr. Stickney, Not forgotten. A good doctor and friend.

Royal Barnard

September 27, 2023

We miss you dear friend

David Adams

September 28, 2019

Missing Dr. Stickney and his staff. I was always treated with kindness, patience and respect. I am grateful for that. With sympathy and kindest regards, David G. Adams

Rosalie Pettit

October 26, 2017

Heaven has a new angel & his name is Peter Stickney. This great doctor literally saved my life years ago when I lived in Rutland. He was a great doctor and a very caring soul. I know he will be greatly missed by everyone who ever met him. My thoughts and prayers are with his loved ones.
Rosalie Pettit

CHERYL CARR (WAITE)

October 24, 2017

I BELIEVE HE WAS MY DR. WHEN I WAS YOUNG.GOODBYE DR. STICKNEY. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME.

Nancy Krupp talking to Dr. Peter Stickney at the downtown Rutland Vt train station.

Nancy Krupp

October 21, 2017

Greatly missed by a great many.

Jay Rubin

October 20, 2017

Pete, You were, and still are, larger than life...and yet never with a single pretense or hint of ego. My thanks for your friendship. Sincere condolences to your family, your devoted staff, and to Annie, who gave you a sense of Peace.

Walt and Irene Crossmon

October 20, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to his family.We will definitely miss him and his staff. He was the Best of the Best! RIP Peter.

Carol

October 20, 2017

Peter, may you rest in peace! I will always be grateful for your kindness to my Tante.

Quiet moments with Zoey

Carol

October 20, 2017

Carol

October 20, 2017

Bill and Bonnie Pratico

October 19, 2017

We send our sincerest condolences to Peters family and office staff. He will be greatly missed by many people. Doc you saw our family through some dark times with kindness and understanding. For that we are forever grateful. May you R.I.P.

michael lCaulin

October 19, 2017

To the Stickney Family - He will be greatly missed not only by his patients but the entire Rutland Community.

Suzanne Ebel

October 16, 2017

Dr. Peter Stickney is missed so much. A kind person loved to talk about his family. Condolences to his family, patients, friends and staff who had the pleasure of working with him. He served our community and I miss him at the Pines.

Diane Sullivan

October 12, 2017

Dear Stickney Family,
It is with such a heavy heart that I send my sincerest sympathies to you all. I recruited your Dad as Medical Director for The Pines so many years ago. He was my parents physician, and I knew the tremendous care and compassion that he provided to them. I knew he would be perfect for The Pines, and he was! I spent many years working with him and have nothing but the greatest respect and fondness for him. I will miss Peter so much. We all will miss him so much! May God bless him for the work that he did caring for our community.

Amy Rood

October 12, 2017

Many hearts are broken by the loss of this wonderful man. He had a generous kind heart and will be missed by many. I am thankful to have known him, he was a great mentor and friend. Sending prayers to you Anne, so happy he found love again, and to his sons and family.

Father and son

Donna

October 11, 2017

October 10, 2017

RIP PCS.....no words needed...you know and I know, hope you will fly like a eagle!

Jimmy and Donna

October 10, 2017

Dear Annie,
Sending our deepest condolences for the loss of your loving companion, your heart must be broken, and I know how much you will miss Peter. Wishing you strength for today and hope for tomorrow.

PAM & JIM MANIERY

October 10, 2017

REST IN PEACE PETER YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED. YOU WERE OUR ROCK WHEN WE WERE SICK AND A FRIEND WHEN WE WEREN'T. PRAYERS TO THE WHOLE FAMILY MAY GOD GIVE YOU ALL GUIDANCE STRENGTH AND LOVE DURING YOUR TIME OF NEED.

Rita Godette

October 10, 2017

my deepest sympathy to the family and staff of Dr.Peter Stickney he was a wonderful doctor and friend always there for us he will be sadly missed

Jessica Anderson

October 10, 2017

Peter was a fine diagnostician, an empathetic physician and a friend. I will sorely miss his warm smile and medical guidance. My heart goes out to his grandchildren, his sons, and family.

Robyn Bierwirth

October 9, 2017

I am so very saddened for your lose. As a patient, I will say, he is so missed. No one can replace him.

October 9, 2017

Dear Annie...sorry to hear about the lost of your beloved companion Peter.
You were a blessing to him. Condolences to the his sons
RIP...You will truly missed

Loretta Currier

October 9, 2017

Peters dad was my mother and fathers doctor, save my Dad many times and I went to him, then I went to Peter. he fought for my daughter to get the right doctor when she needed surgery. Became a friend and cared so much for all of us. No one can come close to the compassion he had for his patients. You will be missed so much . Just a wonderful man, doctor and friend.

Pamela,Patrick Traverse

October 9, 2017

God Bless you Peter.

Conrad and Debbie Carruth

October 8, 2017

Always professional and respectful and a pleasure to talk with. Condolences to the family.

Conrad and Debbie Carruth

October 8, 2017

Always professional and respectful and a pleasure to talk with. Condolences to the family.

Royal & Zip Barnard

October 8, 2017

There are no words sufficient to do justice to the broad knowledge and empathy of this wonderful medical diagnostician and caregiver. He tirelessly served thousands of us not only as our Doctor, but as our Friend. Our deep respect and sympathy to his family. Our great appreciation for the blessing, joy and honor to have been his friend.

October 8, 2017

Our Deepest sympathy to the family and staff of Dr. Stickney. He was truly a wonderful man and Dr. He will be greatly missed.
Machia Family

Stan and Dave Kantorski

October 8, 2017

Dr. Mark and all the Stickney family, my condolences on Drs. Passing he had been many of my family's Dr. through the yrs. He was also a intrigual part of my Moms passing when he told use she had pancreatic cancer in 2002 and was there every minute until she passed God Bless the way he told my Dad and I, GOD BLESS YOU DOC, AND RIP.

October 7, 2017

Gary, Vicki and Mark Stickney - Sorry to hear about your brother, Peter. It was a shock to us...Nancy & Ray Gray, Braintree

Lynn Churchill

October 7, 2017

Stickney Family

I am so very sorry for the loss of Dr. Stickney. He was not only our family doctor, but also an important part of our lives. He has seen our family through serious illnesses, death as well as recovery. Rutland has lost an incredibly compassionate doctor that took time with his patients and more importantly listened. My prayers are extended to your entire family.

Tom Conway

October 7, 2017

Dear Stickney Family,
Peter was quite a guy. Over the years, I was fortunate enough to know him as a friend and my dr. Peter was kind, compassionate, easy going and a wonderful doctor. He had a fantastic personality & sense of humor. His love for his family, friends, and life was amazing. Peters' time on this earth made such an exceptional difference. He touched the lives of so very, very many in a wonderful way. Rest in Peace Peter.

Tina and Fred LaPlant

October 7, 2017

Mark Stickney & Family-

We are so sorry to hear about your brother's passing our thoughts & prayers are with you all during this time .

Donna Tailby Knerr

October 7, 2017

Gary, I am sorry to read about the death of your brother. My prayers are with you and your family

Amanda Pagano

October 6, 2017

Stickney Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Dr. Stickney was more than just our physician, our entire family saw him as a very important part of our lives. He's seen us through illness, death, and of course recovery. For me he will always remain a gental giant, a man of true compassion, a brilliant doctor, and my personal savior. We will be forever grateful to have known such a wonderful man. Peace and Prayers,
The Pagano Family

Lorraine Austin

October 6, 2017

Words cannot began to express the loss we all feel. Dr Stickney was always there for us during the past 40 years. He was patient and caring. Never in a hurry. He made each and every patient feel special and important. The world needs more people like him.

Mary Sarty

October 6, 2017

Thank You Stickney Family for all the Memories. Dr Peter Stickney did so much to keep me healthy when I was in Vermont. Some people leave Foot prints on our hearts and we are never the same. May GOD Bless You Family, he is waiting for you.

DJ Hammond

October 6, 2017

Kindness, compassion, empathy and intelligence.. He was the whole package.. I will miss him and his great staff that he once told me were like family to him.. I enjoyed his stories about his sons and grandchildren.. May he Rest In Peace for a job well done.. Sincerely,

Patti Buscemi

October 6, 2017

Dr Stickney left this world exactly the way he wished; helping people right up until God called him home. He was my doctor and friend for many years. He served our community well, and his staff was exceptional. I have been grieving since I heard he was ill, and eventually passed on. Rest In Peace Dr Stickney, you've earned eternal rest.

Marilyn Gratton

October 6, 2017

Greatly missed and loved by me.

Marilyn Gratton

October 6, 2017

Peter you were a great Doctor and also a friend and I will miss you very much.

Jean Logan

October 5, 2017

To Doctor's family and staff,
Rutland has lost a superb physician, caring friend and true humanitarian.

"Those we love don't go away they walk beside us everyday unseen, unheard but always near, still loved still missed and very dear."

Thank you doctor for your time and care- fly high, fly free, cheers to your chapter in eternity.

Guy & Joy Loso

October 5, 2017

Guy and I are so deeply saddened to hear of your passing Pete....you were always there for us, as a 'Doc', and as a friend....YOU SAVED GUY'S LIFE! There are so many memories of you that we hold dear.....and we will hold them all close to our hearts forever until we meet again....bless you for being such a good man <3

Wilk

October 5, 2017

You will be forever missed!! You were so special to us!! Friend, doctor and beyond... RIP our friend!! Love.. Steve & Leslie

Rick Conway

October 5, 2017

Peter Stickney has been my doctor and friend for many years. My thoughts and prayers for his family and outstanding staff. We will miss you dearly. ( Ride that Triumph motorcycle right up those stairs and through the pearly gates :) :) .

Ed Seager

October 5, 2017

Stickney family,
Knew Pete in a lot of different ways... client,doctor and friend. He was always the same great guy. I'm going to miss him very much.

Shannon Turco

October 5, 2017

Mark and Family -
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Dr. Stickney was a wonderful doctor and I enjoyed working with him at RRMC. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bruce Anderson

October 5, 2017

Pete..You were one of the great ones. Super doctor and a true friend.You are going to be missed. May you rest in peace.

David Adams

October 5, 2017

Thoughts and prayers for Dr. Stickney's family, his staff and all who loved him. RIP DR. Stickney. We will all miss you. David Adams

Harold Hubbard

October 5, 2017

To Peter's Family,
He was one of a kind...never in a hurry and always had the time to rekindle our RHS days. He is the reason that I defeated prostate cancer in 1996. A special prayer is said every night for this wonderful man. RIP my good friend......Hubby

Sarah Graham

October 4, 2017

Dr Stickney will be greatly missed. He was a wonderful doctor and compassionate person. My deepest sympathy to Peter's family

Steven & Mj Hochberg

October 4, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Stickney family. May the memories you hold in heart bring you a measure of comfort during this time of grief. The community has lost a kind and compassionate man. Dr. Peter Stickney will be missed. RIP.

Linda Stred Gagnon

October 4, 2017

The loss of this dear, compassionate man is felt by many. Rest in peace Pete.

Patti Ingalls

October 4, 2017

My heart is broken. What a wonderful man, friend and Doctor. I'm lost to find the words with such sadness inside my heart. He will be missed by so many people.

Woody & Betty Woodard

October 4, 2017

Our prayers to the Stickney family....

Tammy Parker

October 4, 2017

Words cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. He was a wonderful Dr And friend to many, He was always there for me for over 30 year, Rest in peace my friend.

Cheryl Lienhard

October 4, 2017

Dr. Stickney will be greatly missed. He was the kindest, most compassionate man, doctor and friend we knew. Our hearts are broken and deeply saddened by his passing. Prayers for his family and staff. We are blessed to have been a part of his life. Rest in peace.

Red Start

October 4, 2017

Thank you Dr.Peter Stickney for your many yrs. of service..Your work here on earth is done..May you rest in peace now..Thank you..

Mary Beth Alberico

October 4, 2017

I feel blessed to have been able to work for years with Dr. Stickney at RRMC. He was a kind and gentle soul. He will be deeply missed. My sincere sympathies to his family.

Tom and Nancy Gibbard

October 4, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to Peter's family. He was such a caring person and great Dr.
Rest In Peace, Peter

Janet Craigue

October 3, 2017

Rest In Peace Dr Peter Stickney. Thank you for all the years of caring for our community! You will be very missed! I enjoyed working with you over the years.

Judy Hulsebus RN

October 3, 2017

Dear Mark and Family,
Please accept my sincere sympathies for the loss of your brother. The area has lost another wonderful doctor. It was a pleasure working with him in the ICU for many years. You and your family have been in my prayers. May the Lord give you all the comfort and peace that you need at this time. God bless.

October 3, 2017

I prayed for you to heal and get better but it wasn't meant to be, my friend. I will never forget you kiddo and bringing you your hydration everyday you would come to the pines. Love and hugs go with you to Heaven, my friend

Carolyn Rappeno

October 3, 2017

Dr. Stickney will be missed by many, myself included. This gentle and caring man was my doctor for over 30 years. Sending my heartfelt condolences to his family, friends and office staff.

Lucie Houle

October 3, 2017

RIP

Lucie Watterlund

October 3, 2017

You are missed. You have been my doctor for 40 years. My sympathy to the family of a wonderful doctor.

Janet Cole

October 3, 2017

I was so saddened to hear of the loss of my doctor of many years. Will miss seeing you and your wonderful staff. Rest in Peace.

Barb and Bob Amsden

October 3, 2017

Such a great loss for everyone who knew and loved him. We will miss him. To his family and staff you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Patricia Schroeder

October 3, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Dr. Peter Stickney. He was a kind and gentle soul. My thoughts are with his family and friends during this difficult time.

Joshua C. Terenzini

October 3, 2017

Our community hasn't felt a loss of this magnitude in a very long time. Dr. Stickney was one of the best men that I have ever had the privilege of knowing. He was more than a Doctor but a friend. My family and I will always be thankful for our Doctor!

fran wharton

October 3, 2017

RIP Dr Stickney.. You were not only a great doctor but a very compassionate person.. When I came home for my Dad's funeral I had a minor procedure done in your office after the service.. My Dad and both my brothers were patients of you also.
You will be missed by many .. fran (mainolfi) wharton

KB

October 3, 2017

R.I.P.

Hannah Dicton

October 3, 2017

Everyone in my family and so many other families in this community will miss your compassionate care. All family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. You will be greatly missed by many. You truly cared about your patients, and I will never forget the care and advice that you gave. May you rest in peace

David Holdren

October 3, 2017

Rest in peace Peter.

Ron and Sue Ryan

October 3, 2017

Peter, you will be dearly missed. You were our family doctor for more than forty years starting with my dad. You were a compassionate, caring and loving doctor and friend. God and the angels gave you your wings, which you surely deserve. Rest in piece our dear friend.

October 3, 2017

so sorry will be missed by all!! lucille McLellan

Laurel Darling

October 3, 2017

Peter, may you Rest In Peace knowing that you were a dear friend to many in the community. You will be missed more than words can say.

Marsha Fletcher Dixon

October 3, 2017

A friend and dedicated physician who served his community well. Peter was loved and will be missed by so very many people. May Light shine upon your soul as this is your time to rest in peace.

October 3, 2017

Wonderful doctor. Sorry for you loss. Sending prayers.
Kelly Hotchkiss-Holden

October 3, 2017

A man who served his community well and was loved by many. May your soul now rest in peace. Marsha Fletcher Dixon

Kathy & Tim Wierzbicki

October 3, 2017

What a terrible Loss to our community. Peter was a very special Friend & Doctor and will be deeply missed by Kathy my wife & I and my family. Rest in Peace our friend. To Peter's family & staff, you're all in our prayers during this difficult time.

Pam Traverse

October 3, 2017

Peter, my friend , my doctor of many years.A very devoted and compassionate Dr.always put his patients first.A very dedicated physician.We will miss you. May you be at peace. God bless you and your family.our deepest sympathy. What a loss to so many of us.

Laurel Darling

October 3, 2017

My sincere sympathy to this incredible Doctor and friends family. He will be missed more than words can say.

mary wood

October 3, 2017

Dr Stickney was always there when needed.
a careing doctor.

October 3, 2017

Such a sad time,He was my Dr. for forty years plus,No one can replace him,Rest in peace Dr.
Betty Rozell

Lucy Notte

October 3, 2017

To te family of Doc:
God saw Peter getting tired, a cure was not to be , so He put his arms around hm and said come home with Me. A golden heart stopped beating hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove He only takes te best.
Your Dad was a great friend from Carriage Room days to him being my doctor. Peter always had a kind word. I think he was the happiest when he was talking about his boys. Rest In Peace Peter. Heaven gained another angel.

Judy and Albert Stella

October 3, 2017

We are so saddened to hear of the passing of Doctor Stickney. He was our doctor for forty years. He became more like a friend. He will truly be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family at this most difficult time. Rest in peace Dr. Stickney.

Ray Fish

October 3, 2017

Dr.Stickney was a thoughtful,
compassionate and caring man. He listened to our needs and proceeded professionally. My mom and I will miss him greatly. He always treated us with with respect and a cheerful smile. May he rest in peace.

Donna Kennedy

October 3, 2017

Dr. Peter Stickney will be greatly missed by many. He was my doctor, my friend. Peter was my mom's doctor and when she passed, he called me and talked with me about her death. He had a kind soul. I'm so saddened by this and my heart goes out to his family. May the Lord be with him and his family always.

Carolyn Putnam

October 3, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Truly a wonderful person, great doctor and friend. He will be missed.

Jim Borne

October 3, 2017

To the family of Dr. Peter Stickney: We are deeply saddened by your loss. Peter was my neighbor, my mentor, my friend, my go to guy for anything needed. May he rest in peace, knowing that he gave so much to so many of us, forever in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary Marceau

October 3, 2017

Dr Peter Stickney was my doctor for over 30 years. He has always been a rock for me and helped me through good times and bad. He will always hold a dear and loving place in my heart. I will always miss him not just as my physician but a dear friend. No one will ever be able to fill the void I feel now without him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and he will be sorely missed in this community.

Jack Healey

October 3, 2017

My deepest sympathies go out to Dr. Stickney's family. A wonderful man who will be missed.

Joan Bixby

October 3, 2017

I am going to miss this wonderful man, he was my doctor for over 40 yrs.Rest in peace Peter.

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