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Brett Alcaro Obituary
AGE: 37 • Formerly of Rumson
Brett Guarneri Alcaro, 37, formerly of Rumson, passed away at his home in Monmouth Beach on December 2, after a courageous battle with cancer. Brett was born in Missoula, Montana and lived most of his life in New Jersey. Brett was a graduate of Christian Brothers Academy and the University of Wisconsin, Madison. He was also a licensed commercial pilot. He worked side-by-side with his family at Rumson Market. Brett's true passion was the outdoors and he found his calling as an organic farmer, working on farms in Maine, New York and New Jersey. Brett was motivated to make the land a better place for his family, community and future generations. His legacy will be preserved by the impact he has had on many lives.
Brett is survived by his loving wife Germaine Murray Alcaro, his son Oliver, and their expected child due this month. He is also survived by his loving parents, William and Patricia Alcaro and Anthony Guarneri; his sister, Jaime and brother-in-law Dan McKeever; his mother-in-law Laura Murray; Nana Rose; sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law Keara and Christopher Weltmer and Eamon and Stephanie Murray. Brett was a devoted and loving uncle to many nieces and nephews. Brett is also survived by loving aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
Relatives & friends are invited to call at Posten's Funeral Home, (www.Postensfuneralhome.com), 59 E. Lincoln Ave. at Central & E. Garfield Ave. Atlantic Highlands, NJ on Friday, 2-4 & 7-9 PM. They are also invited to attend a Funeral Mass on Sat. at 10 AM from Holy Cross RC Church Rumson, NJ. Messages of condolences may be e-mailed to [email protected] and will be received by the family. Interment Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Middletown, NJ.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brett Alcaro
Joanne Polaski-Hulings
December 6, 2019
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and Brett today and always. It doesn't seem possible that Brett left our family 4 years ago December 2. Holding you, Aunt Pat and Uncle Bill, close in my heart and in my prayers. Along with Germaine, Oliver and Cormack - all three whom I hope to meet someday. I didn't know Brett as an adult. But, I will never forget him as a happy child with the smile he almost always had on his face. He was always such a good boy.
Hilary Downing
December 30, 2015
Your family is in my prayers. So sorry for your loss.
The Casas Family
December 7, 2015
Dearest Germaine and Oliver- We just found out about Brett's passing today. Please know that you, your family, and Brett's family are in our prayers. We are so sorry for your great loss.
David Murphy
December 6, 2015
Dear Bill, Pat, Jaime and Germaine - Kris and I just returned today from a trip only to learn this sad news. We remember young Brett as a smiling, friendly, helpful presence whenever we came to Rumson Market. We are terribly saddened to hear this news and will keep your family in our prayers, in hopes that you may find peace during this trying time.
Brad Cooper
December 5, 2015
To the whole Alcaro family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your entire family
Brad and Bonnie Cooper
Cynthia Dannen
December 5, 2015
Dear Pat, Bill and Family,
With prayers that the Holy Family will bless and console you during this sad time.
Wendy Kelly
December 5, 2015
Dear Germaine:
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your loved ones. Even though we never meet, I felt such sorrow for you at this difficult time.
Wendy Kelly
Peekskill NY
I read your story in the Journal Newspaper in Westchester County.
Brenda
December 5, 2015
Pat and Bill: I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
December 4, 2015
Our heartfelt thoughts & sympathies to you & your family. Wonderful memories of Brett & his amazing life will be with you forever.
- Susan & Jerry Pashin, New Orleans
Nancy Davis
December 4, 2015
Dear Bill and Pat,
I am so sorry about Brett my heart is broken for you and the whole family.
The Kerbs Family
December 4, 2015
Bill and Pat, The loss of a son or daughter seems nearly incomprehensible as to be unimaginable. Can anything be more unjust than to outlive the adult child who is a loving friend, a link to grandchildren, and an irreplaceable source of emotional and practical support? We can't feel your pain but our imagination is filled with an understanding and sharing of your feelings. Our hearts go out to you and your extended family.
December 4, 2015
You have my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your dear husband. God has loving concern for bereaved ones. He will comfort and strengthen your family through this most difficult time. (Psalm 146:5, 9)
Doreen Pampel
December 4, 2015
Pat and Bill, I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray for comfort for you both and for your daughter-in-law. Kevin sends his condolences to his dear fourth grade teacher.
Jack&Susan Janisch
December 3, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the Alcaro & the Guarneri families for the loss of their son. He was truly a good ,kind, beautiful person. To Germaine, our love and prayers go to you and your family on the loss of your husband and father to your children. He will be missed.
God has plans for him.
Amiee Joyce
December 3, 2015
I am extremely saddened by Brett's passing. My heart goes out to his wife and children, as well as his parents. May you find peace and strength during this difficult time. May you remember the sound of his laughter and the look of his smile.
Ellie Lapidus
December 3, 2015
I pray for strength for you and your family in the devastating time. Brett was a special sole and we will remember him always.
December 3, 2015
Bill, Pat and Jaime,
So sorry thoughts and prayers
God Bless,
Dwyer Family
Kristi Queen
December 3, 2015
Germaine
I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you.
Laurie Gershgorn
December 3, 2015
Brett's can-do and generous attitude, his show of respect for all he came in contact with, his smile, the love and pride he professed for the land, his family and his upbringing, is the shining example he gave us. With fond memories, my prayers for his wife, children, family, and friends.
December 3, 2015
Pat and family-We are so sorry for your loss! You are in our thoughts and prayers for healing.
Kirk and Nina Willey, Shrewsbury
Joanne Polaski-Hulings
December 3, 2015
Rest in Peace Brett with love your cousin, Joanne
Brett on the tractor.
December 3, 2015
Joanne Polaski-Hulings
December 3, 2015
Dear Aunt Pat, Uncle Bill and Uncle Tony,
Words cannot convey the deep sorrow I feel at the loss of your son, my youngest cousin, Brett. My heart breaks for the 3 of you as well as for Brett's wife, Germaine, his young son, Oliver and his loving sister, Jaime. He was always such a good person, going back to his childhood. I have nothing but fond, sweet and loving memories of him...gone too soon. Rest in Peace, Brett...you deserve that. And don't let my dad or Uncle Rich "tease" you too much.
I love you Aunt Patti and you will be in my thoughts, my prayers and my heart along with both of my Uncles, Bill and Tony, Brett's wife, Germaine, and young son, Oliver and His loving sister, Jaime.
Always & Forever,
Joanne
Susan Oftedal
December 3, 2015
So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers.
Rhubarb harvest with the crew
Jessica Clarke
December 3, 2015
It was an honor to farm with Brett. I am proud to have had him as a coworker, mentor, but most of all-- Friend.
Love to his family and Germaine and Oliver.
Amy Sonin
December 3, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. While nothing can ever fully ease your pain please know we send you all of our thoughts, prayers, and strength.
-The Sonin Family-
Sue H
December 3, 2015
Saddness engulfs me at his time. Brett and I started at Hilltop Hanover at the same time and worked together for several years .A truly wonderful person always with a smile and sincere word .
December 3, 2015
Dear Pat and Bill we are so sorry,our thoughts and prayers are with you both and your family. Jill and Donald Boughrum
David Brennfleck
December 3, 2015
I am so sorry to hear about Brett. My thoughts and prayers are with you Bill, Pat, Jaime and Germaine. I hope that God helps you find peace through this very difficult time.
debbie higgins
December 3, 2015
Words can't express my deepest sorrow.
Ilene Montesinos
December 3, 2015
Such a wonderful , loving man. He was a amazing asset to Hilltop Hanover. He is missed.
December 3, 2015
Bill & Pat,
Jane and I are so sorry for your loss. I pray for his family and for Brett.
Peter & Jane Dixon
December 3, 2015
Pat and Bill we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Patty and Ed Schlitzer
Valerie Hollingsworth
December 3, 2015
There are no words to offers. Only a heart filled with love for those who knew and loved Brett.
The O'Mealia Family
December 3, 2015
We are all saddened by the loss of such a kind and gentle soul.
December 3, 2015
Our thought and prayers are with you and your family especially at this time. We prayed for the repose of Brett's soul and for his/your family at morning mass. May the Lord bring you his peace.
Bro. Ralph and the CBA community
Amy Aho
December 3, 2015
We am so sorry for your loss. Our hearts goes out to all of you.
Sincerely,
Aho family
Bob Cecere
December 3, 2015
Bill, Pat, and Brett's family, we are very sad to hear of Brett's passing. Brett was always a cordial gentleman during our interactions at the Market. Our deepest sympathy to you all. The Cecere's
December 3, 2015
Bill,Pat and family, Rita and I were so sorry to hear this news. All the McKenna family send our heartfelt sympathies to your entire lovely family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bill McKenna,Rita Jurakovich
Sue Hacker
December 2, 2015
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Brett's friends and family. In my first year volunteering at the Hilltop Hanover Farm in Yorktown Heights, Brett made me feel very welcome and was greatful for our commitment to the farm. He always remembered my name; what a great smile.
My prayers go out to Brett's family at this very sad time.
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