Thomas-Arcobasso-Obituary

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Thomas J. Arcobasso

Feb 20, 1938 - Jul 11, 2011

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I used to order from his restaurant , when it was located in Florissant. Pasta Con Broccoli, House dressing on the salad, "to go" I would pick up and he would come up front and always say hi , and ask me why i never dined in... lol later on when he moved his place to St Charles I then learned he had a country place right down the road from mine in Callaway County. He was a cool dude, great businessman. Im Glad T took over the legacy.

I think I said it all in 2019 so I will just post what I said then. It's hard to believe we are coming up on 10 yrs that Tom A. has been gone from this earth and journeyed to his home in heaven. He has been missed and stories continue to be told about our experiences with Tom and his family. We hope the love of friends and family carried you through the grief of losing him.

It's hard to believe we are coming up on 8 yrs that Tom A. has been gone from this earth and journeyed to his home in heaven. He has been missed and stories continue to be told about our experiences with Tom and his family. We hope the love of friends and family carried you through the grief of losing him.

It was always a great time when we went to Arcobasso's and got seated by Tom he often sat with my wife and I and asked how things were going, one night he stopped by and asked how things were, and I mentioned that the sauce was kind of salty, he reached over grabbed a piece of bread and dipped it in the sauce, immediately snatched my plate and ran back to kitchen. Moments later he appeared with a new plate and asked if I would taste it was great as always. He is a great man and we miss him...

To Judy you are the love of his life. He your knight in shinning armor. Together you both showed us what the "true definition of what love really is"
To Toni my oldest & best friend since we were what 12 yrs old. There are so many memories that I have of your dad but theres one that sticks out in my mind. Remember the old Skate Palace roller rink on Fri/Sat nite the skate parties we would have to go to ? It was a weekly ritual for me to call the restaraunt when I thought that you were...

Many great memories of Tom Arcobasso and the restaurant we ate at for years back in Dellwood, the quiet and friendly atmosphere and great service, the many times Tom dropped by and sat and asked how thing were, after the place closed and moved to St Charles we followed the great food and caring attention we felt. When walking in the front door and being greeted by Tom, remembering our names and seating us as if we were part of the family. We will miss Tom and always remember the man whom fed...

So sorry for your loss. I also met Tom in the 70's at the Dellwood location. I just heard about his passing or I surely would have paid my respects. He was truly a great man and will be missed by sooo many!!

Dear Judy and Family, My Husband, Tom and I were so saddened and sorry to hear of Tom's passing from our daughter, Becky Varvera. Tom was a wonderful man, truly devoted to Judy and his family! May God Bless all of you and heal you in this great time of loss! We will always remember Tom! Sincerely, Tom and Janice Murray

Judy and Family,
We were so very sorry hear of your loss. We first met Tom and your family at the restaurant in Dellwood. He always remembered his customers and was a gracious and friendly host. He will be missed by many.

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Thomas's Obituary

ARCOBASSO, THOMAS J.; on Monday, July 11, 2011. Beloved husband of Judy Arcobasso (nee Rex); loving father of Sherri Arcobasso, Toni Arcobasso, Chrissy (Jeff) Ayers; loving grandfather of Danielle and Blake Fowler, Nicole, Dominique and Spencer Ayers; dear brother of Frank Arcobasso, Joe (Delorese) Arcobasso; dear brother-in-law of Pattie Robinson and Tom (Sharon) Rex, an uncle and a cousin. Tom was the owner of Arcobasso's restaurant for 33yrs. He lived for his children and grandchildren. He loved to be outdoors fishing and hunting. He was a friend to everyone he met and treated them like family.SERVICES; will begin on Thursday, July 14th at 9:30 AM at the STYGAR MID RIVERS Funeral Home 5987 Mid Rivers Mall Dr. (St. Charles) then to St. Josephs Church Cottleville for 10:00 AM Mass. Interment Calvary Cemetery. Memorials to the Humane Society preferred

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