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Robert Neil Obituary

Robert C. Neil 1959 - 2008 LANESBOROUGH Robert Charles "Bob" Neil, 49, of 1 Balance Rock Road died Tuesday, June 24, at home, following a courageous battle with brain cancer. Born in Pittsfield on March 11, 1959, son of Clifford Neil of Pittsfield and the late Emma Proctor Neil, he was a graduate of Mount Greylock Regional High School. Mr. Neil was co-owner of Bob Neil's Custom Canvas and Awnings in Pittsfield for 20 years. He also worked as a bartender at the VFW in Dalton, the American Legion in Pittsfield and the Country Club of Pittsfield. He was a communicant of the former Notre Dame Church. Bob was outgoing and fun-loving, and life was a party. He also enjoyed remote control helicopters and riding his motorcycle. He leaves his wife, the former Jana M. Greb, whom he married Aug. 30, 2006, in Lanesborough. Besides his wife, and his father, he leaves a son, Jesse R. Polo-Neil and his wife, Sarah, of Pittsfield; a daughter, Haili K. Polo-Neil of Boston; a stepson, Matthew X. Greb of Dalton; three brothers, Clifford Neil Jr. of Pittsfield, David Neil of Lanesborough and William Messer of the state of Florida; two sisters, Katherine Neil of Ocala, Fla., and Terese Balsamo of Pittsfield, many nieces and nephews, and his former wife, Rebecca Polo of Pittsfield. FUNERAL NOTICE: Calling hours for Robert Charles "Bob" Neil, who died June 24, 2008, will be Friday, June 27, from 4 to 7 p.m. at DERY FUNERAL HOME. A private graveside service with burial in St. Joseph's Cemetery will be held at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Brain Trust in care of the funeral home, 54 Bradford St.
Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jun. 26, 2008.

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Lisa (Berry) Torrey

July 16, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to Bob's family and friends. I knew Bob from when I worked at Berkshire West Athletic Club (about 10 years ago). He was always upbeat, he always made me laugh. You couldn't be sad in his presence, he was always smiling. I have fond memories of him. I was very sad to learn of his passing.

Sandra Zarn

July 3, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the family. Bob was a wonderful man, so full of life, and he even managed to keep his spirits up for those around him at such a difficult time. He will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Liz and Sally (Nonnie) Furlano

June 30, 2008

Jana and Matt,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bob was always one to brighten up my night every time I saw him. We'll never forget his smile. If you need anything you know where we are. Love always,

Ryan Niedzwiecki

June 30, 2008

I'm very sorry to hear about Bob's passing; my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I remember Bob coming in to my parent's deli on North Street - he was just a fun, happy-go-lucky guy that everyone was always happy to see - he will be missed.

Tracy Kipp

June 27, 2008

Jana and Family,
I am sorry for your loss.I met Bob only a couple of times through Cherie and he seemed like a wonderful man.My heart goes out to all of you.

Dave Malachino

June 27, 2008

Jana; Although I was not there phisically be assured I was thinking of you and Bob throughout....A great guy who always had a smile on his face and always did right by everyone. He will be missed and thought of often. Take care and god bless....
Dave Malachino

Kathy Neil

June 27, 2008

MY heart goes out to all who knew and loved Bob. He was a wonderfull man and brother, always wore a smile from ear to ear, had a big heart, along with an up beat personality . Bob will be missed but never forgotten by me, he will always be my little brother.

Tracey Couture-Mosegard

June 27, 2008

The thing I will remember you for most is your heartwarming smile and laid back style. You always had a way of bringing laughter to those around you. May you be at peace.

Kate Hubley

June 26, 2008

Dear Jesse & Haili,
It is with sadness to read of your Dad's passing. May peace come into your heart with time.
With sincere sympathy,
Kate.

Jamie Swanner

June 26, 2008

Jana and family,
I only knew Bob for a short while but he was a wonderful man and I am grateful to have known him. It was my honor to attend his benefit and I can only hope that you will find some peace in knowing that there are so many who loved him. He left this world the way that he lived, with fun, humor, and dignity. he is an inspiration for how to handle oneself in the face of such huge challenges. Love to all, jamie swanner and family

Greg Catelotti

June 26, 2008

I am very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. May God speed as my thoughts are with your family and friends.

Greg

Christine Messer-Hulland & Family

June 26, 2008

Cliff & Family:

Sending my most heartfelt sympathy to you and the rest of the family. Bobby was a fun, gentle, kind and loving person and I am so saddened by his passing. No matter how great the passing of time nor distance, I thought of him many times over the years. Your comfort should be that he is at peace and with Emma now.

Carrie MacKinnon (Bercury)

June 26, 2008

Bob was a wonderful man...I will always remember his hearty laugh & great sense of humor!!! My thoughts are with his family at this time.

Laura Ott

June 26, 2008

I didn't know Bob, but I got my hair cut by his sister-in-law...., and I saw the beautiful picture of Bob with his wife on her desk. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May you all find peace.

Tom Couture

June 26, 2008

Although you left way too soon, you lived life, both the ups and downs, with a gusto that few of us can match. The times we spent together at the lake are some of my fondest childhood memories. I'll always remember your love of life and easy going laughter. I'm happy you're no longer in pain and have been reunited with Aunt Emma. I love you and will miss you Bob.

KAREN JOHNSTONE

June 26, 2008

TO THE FAMILY OE BOB NEIL . IM SO SORRY TO HEAR THE NEWS.I WANT TO SEND SYMPATHY TO FAMILY. BOB WAS GREAT GUY. HE WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED. WUANE SISTER) KAREN JOHNSTONE.

keith and terese balsamo

June 26, 2008

Rest in piece bob
we love you and will always remember you

Darlene Ross

June 26, 2008

Jana,
We are so so sorry for your loss. Bob will be sadly missed in the hearts of many, and I am so glad we got to know him. I have never, nor will I ever, know anyone who smiled as much as Bob.
Love,
Dar and Codey

Wuane Johnstone

June 26, 2008

It's not right but it's okay, Bob enjoyed his life each and every day.
Bob was a wonderful friend. With great personal sorrow, I ask to share your loss and to extend my heartfelt sympathy.

Keith Barnes

June 26, 2008

Dave and Family,
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. Condolences to you and your family. May God Bless.

Wuane Johnstone

June 26, 2008

It's not right but it's okay, Bob enjoyed his life, each and every day.
Bob was a wonderful friend who made this world a little better for me and for all the others that knew him.
With great personal sorrow, I ask to share your loss and to extend my heartfelt sympathy.

Jim Foley

June 26, 2008

I am certain that Bob will be remembered by a lot of people for his quick wit and easy going smile. I am so sorry for the loss of a great man.

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