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Howard Neil Verman

1950 - 2018

BORN

1950

DIED

2018

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Howard Verman Obituary

Howard Neil Verman

Charlotte - On January 2, 2018, Howard Neil Verman of Charlotte, Vermont died after a long struggle with brain cancer. The Verman family is grateful to the loving community of friends and family who supported them during his illness and to the care of Dr. Alissa Thomas and the McClure Miller VNA Respite House. Howard was born January 13, 1950 in Newark, NJ to Michael and Rose Verman. He attended Middlebury College and was a life long educator. Above all he was a sweet and funny man who loved family, friends and fishing. There will be a private memorial service. In lieu of flowers please donate to Kidsafe Collaborative or the Lake Champlain Waldorf School.

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Published by The Burlington Free Press on Jan. 9, 2018.

Memories and Condolences
for Howard Verman

30 Entries

Rich Graham

April 3, 2018

Dear Katherine, William, and Steven,
Just heard the news (April 2) regarding Howie's passing and felt a wave of sadness go over me. I worked with Howie at IPD from 1991-1995. I always appreciated his wacky sense of humor! His big claim to fame (for me!) is that he was they guy who started the Woodstock Rain Chant!! Yes! On the serious side, my favorite quote regarding death is: "We come from the Earth and we return to the Earth. And it between we garden." I know Howie is leaving behind a beautiful garden! I'm glad I got the chance to meet and hang out with him. My sincerest condolences.

Dianne Pratt

March 8, 2018

Katherine,
I am so grateful to have seen you and Howie in Trader Joe's before I was stunned to learn of his passing this year. We truly never know how long someone may be with us and I am grateful that I have a tendency when I part from others, I consider it may be the last I see them.

I treasure the warm and delightful interaction with you both before he passed and hope that you and your children find a gentle way through your loss. I am so happy that you have had such a loving and caring husband, father, partner, and friend for the years you shared. May treasured memories continue to fuel your soul - With loving kindness,

Wayne Turiansky

February 20, 2018

Katherine, William and Steven,
Word of Howie's passing has just reached me and I can't tell you how sorry I am. I will always cherish the memories of the times that Howie and I shared. I know I am just one of a large large group of people who will miss him dearly.

Richard Duncan

January 29, 2018

Howie was truly one of the kindest people I ever met. I cannot adequately express the depth of my sympathy. It breaks my heart. I'm so sorry for your loss.

John Nessel

January 15, 2018

Katherine, just heard about Howies passing from Liza. My heart goes out to you and the family. I have such sweet memories of staying with you on Patchen Rd when we arrived from Florida so long ago. Early morning fishing trips to Shelburne Pond with a most enthusiastic Howie, me still trying to wake up. Peace be with you! Mary sends love.

Liza Little

January 15, 2018

Dear Katherine and Stephen and William, it has been so long but my memories of Howie will remain- his smile, his sweetness, his love of fishing and baseball and his commitment to all of you. I am so sorry for your loss.

Liza

Kevin McGuigan

January 14, 2018

Dear Katherine,
Just learned of Howie's passing. Living in south Idaho now, I had not heard about his illness. I can only imagine the heartbreak that you and your boys are navigating. My memories of Howie are old ones now, but they are strong and filled with the same warmth and humor that his many friends and acquaintances speak of here. God bless you in your loss. Betsi and I send our deepest condolences.

January 14, 2018

So so sad for your loss. Howie was a man everyone loved. We will all miss him. Love to your family, Linda & Martin Tierney

Chris Jobson

January 13, 2018

Dear Katherine and family - Saddened to learn of Howard's illness and untimely death. Remembering him and thinking of you during this difficult time. He was a special person who will be memorialized in our hearts with fondness and admiration. Our deepest sympathies to you and yours.

January 12, 2018

Dearest Katherine and Family. It is with great sadness to hear of Howard's death. He will remain alive in spirit and heart as I recall his caring sweet nature and his commitments to make our lives better. My deepest condolences . Lynne Durbin

Helaine Unger

January 12, 2018

Katherine and children. I am so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Howard, especially his sparkling eyes and smile.

Anna O.

January 12, 2018

Howard Verman was my principal while at BPMS. I remember him teaching all of us how to twirl and eat spaghetti the 'right way' and the 'wrong way'. Both presentations were followed by gym full of children's laughter- I am grateful for that memory.

Matthew Winston

January 12, 2018

I'll never forget his pants being pulled way up over his navel when we did our shtich as old borscht belt comedians at LCWS auctions! Watching the Giants in the playoffs with my dad at the Verman's. Stories about going to the Apollo to see, among others Otis Redding! Getting to fill in at bridge game, so many laughs! Good man, good times!!!!

Amy Fitzpatrick

January 11, 2018

Katherine and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love and light to all of you. - Amy Fitzpatrick

Meg Huffman

January 11, 2018

Howard skillfully, kindly and successfully helped our oldest son navigate the college application process. He was also a warm, friendly energy at many LCWS events; he will be remembered well and missed by many. My heart goes out to Katherine and the boys, hoping they can easily access what must be a treasure trove of wonderful memories to comfort and sustain. I give thanks for Howard and the positive influence he had on our oldest.

MJ Reale

January 11, 2018

Howard worked with our son and daughter for college preparation. He was an excellent teacher, patient, focused and understood our children who are very different from one another. We are forever grateful for his help.

Sally Borden

January 10, 2018

We at KidSafe Collaborative are tremendously saddened by the passing of our good friend and long-time KidSafe Board member, Howard Verman. Howard was our longest-serving Board member (since August 2003!), past Board President, and most notably co-Chaired our annual Yard Sale fundraiser for many years, bringing his dedication, hard work, leadership, humor and even silliness, to make the event a success each year. He also served for many years on our Community Advisory Board, reflecting his strong commitment to the safety and well-being of children and youth. Children were truly his lifetime passion, both in his volunteer work with KidSafe and in his career as an educator and with his work at Strategies for College.
We will miss Howard's true and sincere kindness, his dedication to children and to our work here at KidSafe, his humor and his twinkle-in-the-eye wit (he could always lift everyone's spirits or make us all groan at a silly pun or joke he'd tell).

Wishing you endless love and light, Howard; and our heartfelt condolences to the Verman family, from all of us on the staff, Board of Directors, and Community Advisory Board of KidSafe Collaborative

Cheryl LaFrance

January 10, 2018

Dear Verman Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Howie at Trinity College. He was such a funny, caring man. My prayers are with all of you.

Jordan Turner

January 10, 2018

Howard helped me apply to college back in my teen years and I can confidently say, without his help I would not be where I am today. He was patient, understanding, and knew how to guide you towards making a conclusion for yourself, instead of outright telling you what it is like most ordinary people would do. Howard was anything but ordinary, his kindness and will to help put me on a path to success at a school where I grew into the person I am today. I am deeply saddened by the news of his passing and would like to extend my condolences to his family, friends, and everyone who knew him. Thank you Howard, for helping me find my stride.

Carol Georges

January 10, 2018

Dear Katherine, I am so very, very sorry to hear of Howie's passing. I am sorry I did not know he was ill. I think of you and Howie with so much love---I always have. Please know you are in my prayers.

Love,
Carol Georges

Brent Sclafani

January 9, 2018

I still remember a long time ago Howie sharing a huge big book of Drummer Hoff at Barnes School with kids he brought over from Wheeler. It was creative and fun and educational for all: all hallmarks of Howie's career as an educator and who is was as a human being. He is gone way too soon. My condolences to his family.

Denise Shekerjian / Metz

January 9, 2018

Oh my, this breaks my heart. Howard helped our family, our sons, and became a friend. A good and gentle person -- rare. I will really miss his boyish smile, wise mind, and cheerful being. Our thoughts are with the family.

Armand Lavallee

January 9, 2018

It saddens me to learn of Howard Verman's passing. He was the principal when I was a student at Brewster Pierce Elementary school, and was always supportive to the kids. He would greet students coming in off the bus every morning with a smile and a friendly greeting. His family have my thoughts and prayers/

Bill Gottesman

January 9, 2018

Howard helped our family navigate the college selection and application process. He was skillful and personable, and we greatly appreciated his help. We are so sorry to learn of his illness and passing.

Mary McClements

January 9, 2018

I am so very sad to hear about this. Howie was such an incredible and kind man. So much love to Katherine and sons. xoxo

John Hines

January 9, 2018

I did not have Howard as a teacher at Wheeler school during the 70s but when he subbed on occasion, I appreciated his patience and generosity. In addition, I enjoyed when je dressed as "Fonzi" from Happy Days during halloween. RIP. My sincere condolences.

January 9, 2018

To the family of Howard.

Met Howard years ago when Strategies for College was with us at HWH.
He helped our daughter with her college aps.
Wonderful man.

Our thoughts and prayers to you all
Brian and Kathy Durett

Joyce Hoffman

January 9, 2018

So sorry for your loss worked with him at H O Wheeler School very funny and very good with kids RIP fly high

January 8, 2018

Howard will be remembered by his smile, laughter and twinkle in his eyes.. we will miss him deeply. Love to you Katherine and family.

Wanda and Zoltan

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