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Phyllis Eisenstein Obituary

Phyllis Eisenstein (nee Kleinstein) of Chicago, age 74, passed away on Dec. 7, 2020, after a year-long struggle with serious neurological problems.

Phyllis was a notable, award-winning writer in the field of fantastic literature, author of 6 published novels and some 50 short stories. Alex, her beloved and loving husband of 53 years, was her writing partner on many of the shorter literary works. For fifteen years she was the Managing Copy-editor at Leo Burnett Agency, and worked at the Publicis Agency for several years prior to joining Burnett.

Phyllis taught fiction writing at Columbia College Chicago for nearly twenty years, where she received the Excellence in Teaching award, and was greatly admired by her many students for her literary acumen and lively teaching technique. She won the Balrog Award for Best Fantasy Book of 1978 for her first novel, "Born to Exile," published by Arkham House Books, a leading specialty press in the fantasy genre. Her shorter stories, also, have been nominated several times for the Hugo and Nebula Awards, the two oldest and best-known awards for science fiction. Phyllis graduated from the University of Illinois at Chicago with a B.A. in Anthropology. Earlier she majored in Psychology, another of her lifelong interests, at the University of Chicago.

Daughter of the late Irving and Sylvia Kleinstein, Phyllis is survived by her husband and best friend Alex, devoted brother Mervyn Kleinstein and his wife Anita, loving in-laws Trudy Schwartz, Anita Eisenstein, and Dale Sulak. She was a fond aunt to Howard, Scott, and Sheryl.

Phyllis was a talented, resourceful, very creative person, with a kind and generous spirit, who will be deeply missed by her family and her friends...and especially by her thousands of devoted readers, who have enjoyed her literate, intelligent, believable stories, which ever have explored a wide range of speculative, futuristic, and fabulous worlds.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Dec. 13, 2020.

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Gina M Holechko

December 8, 2024

Dear Phyllis:

There are so many days I wished you were still here to impart wisdom and humor into my soul. I hope wherever you are is as wonderful as the presence and time you shared with me.

Gina Holechko

December 8, 2023

William Hinshaw I would love to help with that if I knew how to reach Alex and ask him about it

William Hinshaw

December 7, 2023

I just wish there was someone that would see to it that her unplublished works get published. I know that she had a few books finished and at least one that she was working on.

Rita Rousseau

January 4, 2023

I'm so sorry I drifted out of touch with Phyllis and Alex the last few years after a long friendship sparked by a mutual friend (Ken Keller). I remember Phyllis as one of the smartest and most interesting people I have ever met (as well as a great novelist). And for all her perspicacity, she was kind, too. I'm glad that my life intersected with hers.

Hans Delsoin

October 31, 2021

I am saddened to learn about her passing. She was a wonderful soul who made everyone feel welcomed. I met her at the old Thursday night science fiction club meetings that use to take place in Rogers park, Evanston and various north side locations. She was always a shining light at these meetings. She made a black nerdy teenager feel like he had been given entrance to the court of kings. I went away to college and lost touch. However, I still remembered how she expanded my horizons. Rest in Power, Phyllis.

Joe and Gay Haldeman

January 2, 2021

We just heard about Phyllis. So very sorry. All our sympathy, Alex. Anything we can do for you?

Angela Gouletas

December 21, 2020

Phyllis hired me as a copy editor at Leo Burnett what now seems like many moons ago. Roughly ten years later, I took over her role when she retired, but I could never fill her shoes. She is most often described as a "legend" by Burnetters who knew her!

I can't seem to find a single photo of her, but I did manage to locate the photo of the retirement cake I had made for her. She got a kick out of the proofreaders' marks for sure!

I'm so sorry for Alex and the rest of her family to have suffered this loss, especially at this time in the world. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Michelle Overby

December 16, 2020

Phyllis was a wonderful coworker I've known for years. Much like her Dragons and Sci-Fi, she taught us all to fly in so many ways with the fire she put in our spirits to do our best. Phyllis was a gift to treasure. I'm so grateful to have known her.
Bless you Phyllis and your family - may your Burnett star always shine from above.

James Klies

December 16, 2020

I had the pleasure of working with Phyllis at Leo Burnett (not in the same department, but the same row of cubes!), and enjoyed her outgoing personality, and wonderful sense of humor. I also enjoyed talking with her at the conventions. This photo is from the Windy City Pulp convention in April, 2019.

Kathleen Ring

December 16, 2020

I worked with Phyllis at Leo Burnett for many years. She was a true professional but was also a kind and gentle soul. We loved hearing about her interesting life outside of the office. I am a fan of science fiction so have read some of books. It seems like it was just yesterday that we were celebrating Phyllis' retirement. I am sad she has passed but happy that she was able to lead such a wonderful life.
Kathy Ring

William Hinshaw

December 15, 2020

I only got to exchange email with her and got to know her some that way. We had talked about her work and some of the other authors that she has worked with. I would constantly asked her about publishing progress as I'm a rabid fan of her work. I hadn't had a reply to a few emails recently and my worst fear was confirmed. I hope that all who knew her will see to it that her works get published.

Sincerely, a rabid fan
William Hinshaw

Gerard Bauer

December 13, 2020

Alex,
Jackie and I are so sorry to hear about Phyllis’ passing. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Earlier this week, as I was dusting some overstuffed bookshelves, my eye fell upon The Crystal Palace and I thought I should read it again. I will, and I hope you can take some comfort in her legacy.
If there’s anything we can do, please let us know.
Take care.

Gina Charlton née Holechko

December 12, 2020

And so for every great person who falls that goes not fully sung about for the ages, there are a hundred, nay, perhaps a thousand souls who were touched and changed irrevocably for the better by that unsung hero, I am speaking of course of a great teacher. Phyllis Eisenstein was this teacher for me and I am terribly sad to hear she was ill and has passed away. It never really felt like there could be a last time to hear her opinion on the latest in sci fi and fantasy literature and hear all her great stories about so many important and great writers. But more importantly her observations and integrity were always illuminating and refreshing. Her shoulders in my memory will be held high next to the greatest giants in literature, especially as a woman in a field of genre literature that was doggedly during her more tender years dominated by men.
I looked up to her as a role model as a female writer myself, was brought into a community of great minds and lovely and generous people because of her and I can only give to you Alex, my deepest condolences and heart felt gratitude that I had the pleasure to know her. I don’t think she had any idea how much she changed my life and how much she helped save me from living a different type of life.

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Beverly Friend

December 12, 2020

I met Phyllis and Alex in about 1968 or 9 at a Tolkien conference in Urbana, run by Jan Finder (also now deceased), and we remained friends ever since. I owe both of them a debt of gratitude for the information and advice they gave me when I was working on “The Science Fiction Fan Cult” (PHD dissertation for Northwestern University) in 1975. I could never have done it without them. I admired Phyllis as a colleague and brilliant writer. “Sorcerer’s Son” is one of my favorite books – read more than once. She was such an original writer and I remember her stating that this may have been a problem – she might have had better luck with publishers had she written the same kind of work repeatedly. That would have been a shame.
She died far too young, filled, I am sure, with many stories she did not live to tell. She will be missed – never forgotten. It is a very sad day

Laura J. Underwood

December 12, 2020

She was a bright and brilliant writer. Loved her work when I came across it so many years ago. Met her at a World Fantasy in Chicago, and she was such a nice person. This just breaks my heart. So Sorry for her loss.

David Voderberg

December 11, 2020

She was my Science Fiction writing professor at Columbia. She was a wonderful human being and I loved her greatly. She will be missed.

Hillarie Mankoff

December 11, 2020

I always enjoyed talking to Phyllis when we met at Thursday night, and at conventions. May her memory be a blessing for her family.

Melanie Silver

December 11, 2020

I remember talking to Phyllis at length at the many Science Fiction Conventions we went to in common. She was always a great storyteller and friendly. she will be missed. May her memory be for a blessing

Steven H Silver

December 11, 2020

Thank you for your friendship, your words of encouragement, and being there. Your memory will truly be a blessing.

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