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John Kingston Hayes

1932 - 2018

BORN

1932

DIED

2018

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Donnellan Family Funeral Services

10045 Skokie Boulevard

Skokie, Illinois

John Hayes Obituary

John Kingston Hayes age 86 of Evanston. Beloved husband of Carole nee Fitzgerald; loving father of Megan Hayes and Nora Hayes; proud grandfather of John and Francis Morton, Nathaniel and Cordelia Eldredge Hayes and step-grandfather of George and Daisy Morton; dear brother of Jane (the late John) Davis and Mary (William) Ochsner. Family will be greeting friends before the 10:30 a.m. Funeral Mass on Saturday September 8, 2018 at Sheil Catholic Center, 2110 Sheridan Road, Evanston, IL 60602. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to Sheil Catholic Center. Info www.donnellanfuneral.com or (847) 675-1990

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Sep. 2, 2018.

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September 9, 2018

My sincere condolences to your family for the loss of your love one. May the God of comfort be with you during this sad occasion and may his loving words at John 6:40 console your heart.

Pat & Bill Gaul

September 6, 2018

John was a great person. He had the remarkable ability to bring people together with his laughter and kindness. Our sympathy to Carole and family.

Kenneth Monroe

September 5, 2018

I knew John as the guy who sat in back of the Sheil during Sunday Mass. We would always have a short friendly exchange when I was the Sacristan. I will miss his "anchor". I am sorry I will miss his Mass as I will be on a business trip.

Win Whelan

September 5, 2018

Thanks John, for your great sense of humor and for your faithful love of family and friends.

Sylvie Romanowski

September 5, 2018

Lively, curious, kind, a lovely man. My fond and enduring memory of John is meeting him, completely by accident, one bright summer day, in front of Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris! I regret very much that I will be unable to attend the funeral Mass, as I am still in Paris. Carole, you have my deep sympathy for your great loss. May God be with you.

September 4, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. May you receive strength and comfort from God. "He will make you firm, he will make you strong, he will firmly ground you." - 1Peter 5:10

September 4, 2018

So very sad to know my classmate at St Austines school has passed away !!!so many sweet memories we shared together !!!!
My thoughts and prayers are with at this difficult time !!!!!
Jeanine Minor Mulvihill

Mary Jeanne Larrabee

September 4, 2018

I enjoyed many post-Sheil lunches with John. I think his smile says it all--he was a fun raconteur and commentator on all things cultural/political/religious. We will all miss that smile.

Joan Lakebrink

August 31, 2018

John will be remembered as a kind, smart, loving inquisitive man. I have missed him. God grant solace to Carole and family as they grieve.

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10:30 a.m.

Sheil Catholic Center

2110 Sheridan Road, Evanston, IL

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Donnellan Family Funeral Services

10045 Skokie Boulevard, Skokie, IL 60077

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