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1997
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2014
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Benjamin NORDMEYER Obituary
NORDMEYER
Benjamin Joseph Nordmeyer, 17, beloved son of John R. and Mary Lynne Birck Nordmeyer, adored grandson of Jean (George) Birck and John and Ruth Nordmeyer. A nephew and cousin to many, Ben was a fun-loving, steadfast friend to many more. Ben loved school, from his preschool days at Country Hills Montessori to the eleven years he spent at The Seven Hills School (Lotspeich, Middle, and Upper). "Nordy" was as comfortable at the gym working on his "six pack abs" as he was in the kitchen baking red velvet cakes for friends' birthdays as he was singing in the school chorus. Ben played soccer, which he termed "fall training for the only sport that mattered," baseball. Ben enjoyed many accomplishments on the field with his pitching coach father beside him, his mother keeping score and cheering from the bleachers. Ben loved pitching, particularly the mental aspect, and was especially partial to his cutter. He was happy to catch for Seven Hills his freshman year because he thought that it made him a better pitcher. The home run ball he hit in Cooperstown will be forever on the mantle. As much as he loved the game, Ben loved his teammates with whom he played over the years more. None had a more prominent place in his heart than The Backstop Bats. Ben's affinity with animals and his love of the outdoors were unmatched. At an early age, he knew every animal at the Cincinnati Zoo not only by its species but its nickname. With Ben, one hour at the zoo meant seeing three or four animals. His summers were filled with many hours in the company of other "nature nerds" at The Cincinnati Nature Center where he attended summer camps and eventually became a Counselor-in-Training. Ben would joke that if the camp kids got restless, Bill or Jason would dispatch him to the woods "to find a snake or lizard or something to liven things up." In gratitude for the wonderful experiences and friendships which enriched Ben's very full life, the family asks that in lieu of flowers memorials be sent to The Seven Hills School, The Cincinnati Nature Center, and The Cincinnati Zoo. Visitation will be held on Monday, Nov. 24th at E.C. Nurre Funeral Home, 177 W. Main St., Amelia, Ohio from 4-8 p.m. A Mass in celebration of Ben's life will be held on Tuesday, Nov. 25th at St. Francis de Sales Church, 1600 Madison Road, Cincinnati at 7:30 p.m. (doors will open at 6:30 p.m.).
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Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin NORDMEYER
Chad Smith
December 8, 2014
Mr and Mrs Nordmeyer,
It was an honor and a pleasure to have worked with your son as both a camper and a "Counselor in Training" at the Cincinnati Nature Center. He was funny and creative, and his love of nature and the outdoors was contagious. He truly was a fine young man. My deepest sympathies for your loss.
Olivia Silverman
December 7, 2014
Ben is in my thoughts and prayers everyday. He has left an everlasting mark on my life along with every other life in the Seven Hills community. He was not only athletic, but he was there for me and just about everyone whenever you needed anything, even just the simplest hug to brighten up your day. Thoughts, prayers, and love to you both and the rest of your family.
December 1, 2014
Nordy....
Can't imagine what you're going through but know all your buddies are with you.
So sorry for your loss...so sad.
Juice # 32
Sam Pschesang
December 1, 2014
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with your family
Krystal Kruse
November 29, 2014
Ben, what a fun-loving and responsible counselor-in-training! I saw you becoming a great summer camp counselor. The counselors knew we could trust you to keep the fun going by playing a quick game with the campers, or whatever was needed in those fast-paced summers. You will be greatly missed at CNC and anywhere else you shared your wonderful talents.
Kathy Terrell
November 27, 2014
John you and your family have been heavy on my heart every since I heard the news. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
November 26, 2014
Praying for your family.
November 26, 2014
Emily and I are so sorry for your loss. We felt very sad to hear of Ben's passing. Bobbi and Emily Cook New Albany Oh
Jen Smiley
November 26, 2014
John and Mary Lynne,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Jen Smiley
November 26, 2014
Dear John and Mary Lynne,
We only knew you and Ben for a season of Backstop Bats. Jake played with the team a few years back. We have wonderful memories of both of you, and Ben, and our hearts are heavy for your loss and pain. We can't say anything to make it better, but we send our love and prayers. Mark, Nancy, and Jake Kaiser.
November 25, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. I didn't know him , but I know his grandparents, John and Ruth...my Dad and John were cousins. Sending love and prayers...Mary (Sr. Maury) Nordmeyer
November 25, 2014
Mary Lynne and John:
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers in a special way. My mom lit a candle for Ben. I think of him as someone who was a light to others in many ways. Peace and Love to you--Marilyn & Bob Herring
Bob Lamb
November 25, 2014
I am terribly sorry for your loss.
Chantal Weaver
November 25, 2014
John and Mary Lynne,
"Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning."-Psalm 30:5
The Weaver family will continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Blessings,
Jerome, Chantal, Joshua and Jeremiah
November 25, 2014
Ben will never be forgotten. Those red velvet cakes were amazing, he was such a talented cook. Lots of love
Charlotte Goering
November 25, 2014
My prayers are with you. I am so deeply saddened by this terrible news, Mary Lynne and John. I will remember your precious son Ben in my thoughts and prayers.
November 24, 2014
Dear Mary Lynne and John,
There are no words to convey our sorrow at the loss of such a wonderful young man. One of the many qualities which made Ben so special was his generous heart which opened him up to new friendships. From the day Bennett transferred to Seven Hills in eighth grade, we knew that "Nordy" was someone whose character he respected and whose friendship he treasured. Please know that Ben's positive influence on Bennett and his friends and classmates will live on forever. We pray for comfort and peace for your family.
Chris and Randall
Robert and Linda Hallgath
November 24, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. May god be with you and your family..
Courtney Bryan-Caron
November 24, 2014
Mary Lynne - Paul and I were devastated to hear this news. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We wish we could be there in person to honor your beloved and very special son at the service tomorrow and to be there for you in whatever way you may need. But, since we can't be there in person, please know that we are with you in spirit.
Our sincere condolences!
Courtney and Paul Caron
Jennifer Black
November 24, 2014
There is nothing that I can do for you in this time of sorrow but pray. Today a rosary was said for you. May you somehow feel the closeness of our Lord in the sorrowful time.
Susanna Max
November 24, 2014
My thoughts are prayers are with the family. What a beautiful tribute.
Howard Hughes Sr.
November 24, 2014
Our deepest sympathy to Ben's Family.
God Bless you & God Bless Ben.
Howard & Virginia Hughes
Cameron Hayward
November 24, 2014
I remember Ben when we were both on the Tealtown Cobras. He was fun to be around and always kind to me, the players, and the coaches. He always had a smile on his face.
Kevin, Joan, Kyle, Megan and Troy Proffitt
November 24, 2014
The Proffitt family extends our sincere condolences to your family during this time of loss. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you.
Kris Deck
November 24, 2014
John, I so remember stressful times at work when you just wanted to get home to be with your little boy. Praying for peace for you and your wife.
young
November 24, 2014
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Christy Dickerson
November 24, 2014
Hoping you find peace and my family will be praying for you.
Sherryl Turner
November 24, 2014
My heart broke hearing the news about Ben. What a fine young man. Dear John and Mary there are no words.
Todd and Tisha Carson
November 24, 2014
Dear John and Mary Lynne,
Our heart is heavy, and we simply cannot express just how deeply saddened we are by the loss of such a wonderful young man. The whole community shares in your loss. Yet you have so much to be proud of, and your loss is Heaven's gain. We so enjoyed watching Ben play baseball while Jamie was with the Bats, and it was honor getting to know both of you. Truly, ‘Nordy' was a great athlete, and even a greater person on and off the field.
We pray for your peace and comfort in this difficult time. If there is anything we can do to support you, either now or further down the road, just let us know….lean on your friends and brothers as much as possible.
We love you, and we will forever love Benjamin.
God Bless You.
Doug Huff
November 24, 2014
I am thankful that I had the opportunity to have Ben in my class as a student during the 7th grade. I will always remember him as someone who was very respectful and disciplined. I particularly enjoyed our discussions about baseball and the Reds.
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
November 24, 2014
With our most sincerely condolences and please know we are praying for you.
Woody and Sharon Woodrow
Laura Courtney
November 24, 2014
Hoping you find comfort, peace, strength and the love of family and friends. Holding you close in my thoughts and prayers.
November 24, 2014
Nordmeyer as you mourn the loss of your loved one may you continue to draw close to the God of all comfort in prayer and he will draw close to you. ( James 4 : 8 ) My sincerest condolences to your family.
November 24, 2014
John and Mary Lynne,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thougnts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.
Greg and Robin Russell
November 23, 2014
John and Mary Lynne,
My thoughts and prayers are with both of you. God bless you and please know that if I can ever do anything for you let me know. I remember Ben as such a nice young man when I met him at a Reds game and when I played Santa Claus at Corporate Express. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Sincerely,
Dave Starkey
Peter and Lisa Miccoli
November 23, 2014
Dear John and Mary Lynne~
There are no words that could express how terribly saddened we are for the loss of your beloved son, Ben. He was a wonderful young man, a friend to all, and a champion both on and off the field. His kindness to our son, Drew, and his friendship with our daughter, Sydney, was and is such a positive influence in their lives. They were fortunate to have known him and he will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
Please let us know if there is anything at all we can do for you at this time or in the coming days. While nothing can diminish the pain and sadness of your loss, we hope you will find comfort in knowing how much Ben was loved.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Andrea Jackson
November 23, 2014
It was an honor to know such a wonderful young man. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Cindy, Bob and Jeff Welch
November 23, 2014
Dear Mary Lynne and John,
There are no words which can begin to express the depth of our sadness at the loss of such a wonderful young man. We watched Ben grow from a little boy into a compassionate and caring young adult, and were fortunate to witness firsthand the joy he brought to the lives of those he knew, from his many school friends to the children he touched through camps at the Nature Center. We hope it will be some measure of solace to know that Ben will always be thought of as a kind and generous soul who made the world a brighter place. With love and prayers, Cindy, Bob and Jeff Welch
a sympathetic neighbor
November 23, 2014
The deepest sympathy for the family! From reading the condolences Benjamin must have been a fine young man who touched the lives of many. May faith and precious memories carry you all through this difficult time. 1 corinthians 1:2-4. Heartfelt condolences.
John Blang
November 23, 2014
Mr and Mrs Nordmeyer,
My prayers are with you. I was a CIT with Ben at Long Branch for two years and he was always someone that I admired and respected. He was always radiating positivity and making all of our days even better. He was someone that I tried to be like everyday that I worked with him. He was a real mentor for me and I believe that he helped me grow and become a better person. I was honored to have met him and you all will be in my thoughts and prayers. The entire CCDS soccer team sends their condolences to your family and we are all thinking of you.
November 23, 2014
Mary Lynn and John, We are so deeply saddened to hear of your loss of your son Ben. Please accept our deepest condolences and know that you are all in our thoiughts and prayers.
Joe and Cindy Yorio
Shawn (Doepel) Scroggy
November 23, 2014
John and Mary Lynne,
I cannot begin to imagine the pain and heartache you are going through right now. I can only pray for God to bring you the strength and courage to face the upcoming days. Know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many. God bless.
Denise Barone
November 23, 2014
Prayers.
Julie Spaccarelli
November 23, 2014
Mary Lynn and John~Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your most beloved son. Know that Ben and both of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Lord God, please look down upon this family and lift them up in their time of sorrow and place Ben in your loving hands .Amen- Love, Julie Spaccarelli and Claire and James Piorkowski
Tiffany Lilze
November 23, 2014
MaryLynn, John, Susan and Jean,
I was so sorry to hear about your beloved Ben. Your family blessed my childhood with such great memories and I know that same love of family will support you during this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Beth and Peter Clayton
November 23, 2014
Dear Mary Lynne and John,
We offer our deepest condolences to you. We were honored to know Ben and grateful to have him a part of our son, Matthew Clayton's life. These two boys shared a passion for baseball that was unbelievable. One of my greatest joys was to watch Matthew and Ben processing and strategizing the mental plays of the game together and independently. Matthew enjoyed Ben's company on and off the field. He always respected him and followed his leadership. Your son was a tremendous inspiration to many of our boys. We are grateful for his life and thankful for your impact you made on him. The two of you have been our children's biggest supporters on the sidelines, please know how much we appreciate your efforts and the wonderful example you have been to all of us. We will always remember Ben as one of the most upstanding young men that made our son a better person. God bless!
Julie Crist
November 23, 2014
My prayers are with you. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Rob Knueven
November 23, 2014
John & Mary Lynn,
Words can't say how much we are saddened for your loss. Please know you are in our prayers. Prayers for strength, courage and peace in this difficult time.
Rob, Barb, Jacob and Sam Knueven
Cincinnati Ohio
November 23, 2014
May God hold you close as you prepare to celebrate the life of this extraordinary young man.
Carol Higgins
November 23, 2014
Mary Lynne and John, there are no words that will comfort at such a sad and difficult time. I enjoyed talking baseball with Ben when he and John would be walking the dogs or when they were in our backyard in the batting cage hitting all of those buckets of baseballs. I remember how proud he was of his homerun at Cooperstown. I will miss coming home from work and seeing them throwing in the street or him cutting the grass. There will be a void in the neighborhood which pales in comparison I'm certain. My prayers are that God will hold you both in His loving arms and ease the heartache daily.
Carl & Carol Samson
November 23, 2014
Dear John & Mary Lynne,
We can find no words to really express our sorrow for your loss - a loss in which so many share.
It has been an honor to get to know Ben. He was always respectful, courteous and gentlemanly to our girls, and such a strong presence in their lives. He will be sorely missed.
May you be comforted with the knowledge that Ben was loved by many.
Our love, support and prayers go out to you now and in days to come.
Bill Leinweber
November 22, 2014
John and Mary Lynne, my heart breaks. I clearly remember Ben's birth. Joyful. Precious. There are no words to express the sorrow except to say I love you and pray for you and your family.
Beth Shaw
November 22, 2014
What a beautiful tribute for an incredible young man! Mary Lynne and John, it is with a very heavy heart I express my deep condolences to you both. Ben certainly was a fabulous example of a life well lived albeit cut way too short. The Seven Hills community will be forever changed by the mark Ben left there...he was special in so many ways to so many people. Please know that I will be praying for peace for both of you in the upcoming days. I'm here for you for whatever you might need.
Much love,
Beth
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