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Michael Crandall Obituary

Michael R. Crandall Jr., age 40, late of Oak Lawn, IL., passed away on June 6, 2003. Beloved husband of Maureen; devoted father of Michael III and Daniel Crandall of Homewood, IL., Blake, Brandon and Dylan Crandall of Oak Lawn, IL.; loving son of Michael Sr. and Wanda Shirley, nee Webb Crandall of Park Forest, IL.; dearest brother of Carla [David] Litton of University Park, IL., David [Candace] Crandall of Beecher, IL., Deborah [Todd] Gasbarro of Park Forest, IL. And Daniel A. [Tracey] Crandall of Plainfield, IL. Services were held Monday, June 9, 2003, at Smits Funeral Homes-Steger Memorial Chapel, 3045 Chicago Rd., Steger, IL. 60475. Interment private. For info. 708-755-6100

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Published by SouthtownStar on Jun. 12, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
for Michael Crandall

Sponsored by a prayer inside me.

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a prayer inside me

June 7, 2004

It's not easy to fight the tears away

when I think about how yesterday

marked one year you went away

so strong the pain and so much sorrow

even though we'll see you some tomarrow

at times I feel you in someone

I see you in the eyes of our sons

I'll remind him often to look in the mirror, and I'm glad

"Look inside, you'll see your Dad."

Mikey's graduating eighth grade today

I know you're not too far away.

Kimberly Dermit

June 4, 2004

A year has gone by so fast - still hard to believe that you're really gone. The bitterness of your leaving us is now replaced with the peace that comes with knowing you are keeping an eye on us and enjoying the laughter that life continues to bring. None of us will forget Mikey and will forever have his big smile and sweet spirit in our hearts!

Always - Kimmy

Carla Litton

June 3, 2004

This Sunday will mark 1-year of your passing. We will all get together as a family to think of you, to remember your kind spirit, and most importantly to Celebrate the better place in which you now live! Although you are missed, I can smile just a little knowing you are at peace with God and amongst all the angels.



I Will Forever Love You!!



CC

A prayer inside me.

March 3, 2004

Thinking of you so strongly today,

remembering a moment with our son.



Looking at a picture,

when he was only one.

His eyes so bright and glad,

to be in a fishing boat with Dad.



As every year since then,

he's shared a week agian and agian.

His eyes light up, and I am glad, he shares it with your Dad.



Every day we think of you,

and sometimes we even cry.

Although we know what became ofyou,

we always ask why?



There is no answer to what is fair,

but I am so glad we got to share-

two smiles when we think of you,

and all the laughter caused by you.



Forever in our hearts.



Tracey, Michael III (14), and Daniel (12).

(I'll submit picture later)



P.S. Daniel is working on a project for school about the ethnic group of his family. He's only claiming to be Italian. (Just like his Dad).

Carla Litton

September 29, 2003

It was a hot day in August

When you came into this place

It would be a cold day in June

When I saw your precious face.



It was a forty year span

Of which I was not a part

It will be a long time coming

To get you out of my heart.



You were a stranger to me

Someone I did not know

I grieve now so strongly

For all I did not show.



I think of you so often

Not sure where it takes me

For the memories are distant

Nothing vivid I can see.



Although we were strangers

We shared the same name

The hole it’s left inside me

Tells me nothing will ever be the same.



I miss you my brother

While you gaze at me from up there

How I wish we could go back

But I still don’t know where.



What I could do different

Remains a mystery to me

But I know one thing’s for certain

Twas blind but now I see.

Carla Litton

August 15, 2003

It's been 2 months since your passing, and as I stop to think of you, I remember only the good. You had a kind-hearted spirit, and I beleive you would have done anything it took to be accepted and loved! I grieve for your passing, though I know you are in a much better place. I am deeply saddened by the relationship we did not have in your short stay here on earth. It's tough not to blame myself for not being there for you. But somehow I feel that as you look down upon your family, you have to know that we were always on your side. Just helpless to what we could have done to make you better! Your memory will live on in my heart, as I am reminded of you each time I gaze into your sons eyes.



Love to You Always,

CC

Mikey, Daniel & Tracey Crandall

August 5, 2003

Happy Birthday, we miss you!

Cherishing the good times, learning from the bad. R.I.P.

A Prayer Inside Me

July 3, 2003

A Prayer Inside Me

July 3, 2003

Always in our thoughts, living in our hearts.

Tracey Crandall

July 2, 2003

Mom and Dad,

I struggle to find the words that could or would ease your pain. Though I have suffered much loss, I can not imagine the pain of losing a child.

I hope that you know what wonderful parents you are and how much you are loved. I have learned so much about being a parent from watching the love and kindness that you provide to all of your children and their spouses.

Sometimes children choose a path that even to love of a parent can not alter their course or remove that child from dangers set before them. Though Michael is gone, he lives on through the precious memories of the past. Michael will not be forgotten and I know this as I gaze into the eyes of his children.

I love you so very much and thank you for embracing me as one of your children, I feel as though I am the luckiest woman in the world.

Love,
Tracey

John & Laura Wierema

June 27, 2003

I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Michael, but I know the rest of you well enough to know that you are a close family who will miss him. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this tough time.
Love, Laura (Picture taker)

debbie gasbarro

June 21, 2003

this is probally the hardest thing ive ever done..saying goodbye..although with me its different..i didnt have the kind of brother sister realtionship i should of had with my brother...guilt..i have lots of that..all the things i should of said that i never said, all the things we should of done that we never did, all the things that he wanted from me, all the things that he needed from me....all the things i should of given but i didnt..i wish these moments could be given back to me..i wish i could tell him i did love him..couse i know he loved me..your sister, debdo

Dan Clark

June 17, 2003

"Mikey" was one of the good guys.



(And a pretty good drummer back when we were loud rowdy kids!)



My heart goes out to the Crandalls.

Diana McCarthy

June 17, 2003

I will always remember Mikie from our childhood vacations where we just lived to go to the Crandalls and be with our favorite people -- Mikie, Carla & David. I loved him very much. He never lost the sweet nature that he had inside him.



I wish life had gone differently for him but I am at peace knowing he no longer struggles or suffers.



You are all in my prayers.

Love,

Diana

Kim Dermit

June 16, 2003

He was my only brother growing up - the "Mikey, Carla, David" part of my life where hours were spent playing in the woods and loving our childhood. He may have lost his way, but his gentleness and heart were always on display and I will have sweet pictures in my head of our precious times together.

I love you Mikey and hope you have found the peace in heaven that you couldn't find here on Earth.

Always, "Kimmy"

French & Mary Lu Wetmore

June 13, 2003

Dear Crandalls,



We were so sad to read about Michael. We can only imagine your pain and sorrow. Hold on to all the wonderful memories and we will keep you all in our prayers.



Love, French and Mary Lu

Carla Litton

June 13, 2003

My brother Michael had an incredibly kind spirit. While my memories of him are both bitter and sweet, he will live on forever in my heart. He is (finally) at peace, no longer does he run, he is in God's hands. I Love You Mickie......

john atwater

June 11, 2003

mike and wanda, i'm sorry to hear about mike's passing. will say a prayer for you. regards and regrets to all the family.

john

Tracey Crandall

June 11, 2003

I pray the pain you leave behind subsides in all of us, and that we can continue on with good memories of you and who you really wanted to be and truely were.

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