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K.J. McIntyre Obituary

KINGSTON- Three decades ago, in her early 40s, K.J. McIntyre left the life of a Wall Street financial services executive, dreaming of finding a city where she could make more of a difference in the community around her. She fell in love with the charm of Kingston, and went about fulfilling her dream. Last month Ms. McIntyre, long established as a Hudson Valley entrepreneur and booster for the Kingston Library, People’s Place, and other area institutions, died of complications following surgery. She was 72. Born Katherine Josephine McIntyre—the eldest of seven siblings, she was named after both grandmothers—K.J. founded McIntyre Marketing after moving to Kingston in 1990. Her goal, she said, was to help clients in both profit-making and not-for-profit enterprises blend financial services, realty development, and technology expertise in their own entrepreneurial endeavors. During much of her time here she also was licensed as a real estate broker with Coldwell Banker Village Green Realty. In the years since arriving, K.J. served for a time as Kingston Library president, and was among the founders of the Kingston Digital Corridor, an initiative to serve technology entrepreneurs. As library president, former Kingston Library director George Allen said, Ms. McIntyre aided that institution with various financial struggles, helping it achieve “stable funding [that] makes it more accountable to the people it serves.” Her death, Allen said, “leaves a void in the Kingston community that will be hard to fill.” K.J. was born in Brooklyn and raised in New Jersey. Her mother, Dorothy Concannon McIntyre, was a first-generation Irish American whose father was a New York City police captain. K.J.’s own father, John McIntyre, a World War II veteran, had a career in textile sales. After studying philosophy at Newton College of the Sacred Heart, outside Boston, K.J. moved to New York City and began a career in financial services in the early 1970s. Living near the South Street Seaport and elsewhere in lower Manhattan, from 1978 to 1983 she served as a vice president at Prudential Bache & Co. before moving to Shearson Lehman American Express as senior vice president for seven years. But her move to Kingston was life-changing. Among her nonprofit organizational passions was Kingston’s 48-year old People’s Place charity, which feeds, clothes and otherwise serves the needy of Ulster County. Christine Hein, the People’s Place executive director, called Ms. McIntyre one of that organization’s major backers. “Along with supporting our events and programming, K.J. did a great deal of research for our donor program that we now use,” Hein said. Ms. McIntyre also served terms as board secretary of the Children’s Home of Kingston, and of Arts Society of Kingston (ASK); served as treasurer of Kingston Uptown Business Association, and was on the board of the Ulster County Board of Realtors. In her family, she was a deeply devoted sibling; her six brothers and sisters especially appreciated the extensive family tree Ms. McIntyre compiled for them all after Dorothy’s death, at 94, in 2014. Their sister was also loved for the joy she displayed in the accomplishments of her nieces and nephews. Unable to be at her bedside for her final weeks at Vassar Medical Center in Poughkeepsie, due to pandemic-related restrictions, sisters and brothers from Key West, Fla.; Austin, Tex.; Clayton, Ga.; Reading, Pa.; Hingham, Mass., and New York City shared memories and said their good-byes hours before K.J.’s passing, in an online video connection arranged by the hospital. K.J.’s cousin, the Rev. Jane Tanaskovic Brady-Close, of Ghent, N.Y., joined to lead the family in a prayer service. In K.J.’s memory, the family has suggested that friends might make donations to a charity for area children: “Project Santa” at People’s Place, 17 St. James St., Kingston, 12401. A memorial auction of her collection of the work of local artists is planned for a future date to benefit Peoples Place. https://www.peoplesplaceuc.org http://www.lastingmemories.com/kj-mcintyre

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Published by the Daily Freeman from Jul. 25 to Jul. 26, 2020.

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Gerrard Tighe

July 19, 2025

From the other side of The Atlantic.

Ketie York

June 12, 2024

I was luck to have known K.J.. She was highly intelligent and ambitious. She was very supportive and I will never forget her.

Noel F Lynch

October 21, 2020

Worked with her at Prudential, a hell of a women. If Barbara Snyder makes contact, please let know

Jami Anson

July 26, 2020

There is so much to say about K.J. I was blessed to have her as a friend - she actually took me under her wing to introduce me to the working world of Kingston. A friend force to be reckoned with loved her family and friends fiercely. Founding member of the trivia team the Keeganites ... loved the not-for-profit organizations in Kingston. I send my condolences to her family and friends. know she will be missed and carried in many hearts for years to come.

Danielle DeCicco

July 26, 2020

I met KJ 20 some years ago at La Canard. We instantly hit it off and we formed a pretty tight nit group back then including Fred and Norma Bell, that lasted for many years. We shared so many stories and laughs at our favorite French restaurant while listening to Ed Rocks playing piano as we drank our Kir Royals’. I will miss her beautiful smile, witty comebacks and knowledge of just about everything. It was a pleasure knowing this fabulous classy lady. RIP KJ

Henrietta Mik

July 25, 2020

I will always remember you as one of the most beautiful (inside and out) and accomplished members of our class. It was a privilege to know you and I had really looked forward to another class reunion this year. I guess the reunion will have to wait but the influence you had on our lives will always be here

Nancy Marcojohn

July 25, 2020

had the privilege to work with KJ for a period of time... she was an amazing woman and she will be missed tremendously... may she rest in peace

Gerrard Tighe

July 25, 2020

Condolences from The Tighe Family. UK and San Francisco.
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